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dash is dead im teleporting to the past
https://www.tumblr.com/dashboard?max_post_id=606474489540042752
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I love getting "post without tags?" on my stupidest ever posts. oh my god sorry tumblr how could i forget. #dust mite #wet nurse
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generally i make fun of the orlesian version of an organisation more than any other but i’ve got to admit there’s no bitch as useless as a kinloch hold templar
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dirk shows up at dave’s house and lets him self in before dave says anything he sits down on the couch opening his laptop. hes like okay i figured it out. he pulls up a multi page doc about the “arg” dave has on his ig meme account detailing every linkable reference and gps tracked location he was posting from and at the end of the 30 min presentation hes like but thats just my guess. was i close? and dave is like get out of my house.
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just heard theyre going to kill me repeatedly until i do better. classic!
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I… maybe I, too, am extrapolating too hard from people including me who turned out to not be straightforwardly women without reservation but like I’m *positive* finding “male” terms like dude validating was a pretty common thing for [female-ish people] back when I talked to people regularly. Which admittedly was in like high school, and maybe most people I talked to about it are trans now idk! But I doubt it’s all of them. (It would honestly be very weird to me if, in a culture that so often treats women as inherently secondary players, no women were emotionally pleased with being addressed with “male” terms.)
Indeed. I mean tbh it's kinda Taboo or whatever because it's a Ter f talking point but there really are a lot of reasons besides Really Being a Man Deep Down why it would appeal to a lot of women in a lot of times and places to be perceived and treated more like or even as a man. Gender just actually is complicated like that.
#to be clear btw#if it is particularly/especially trans and not cis women for the most part who are bothered by being called dude?#still doesn't make them wrong#and you should try your best not to refer to people in ways they find hurtful
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anyway the real problem is that our language is built around terms we understand as male as the default. Feminine or gender neutral terms are nearly always longer, less natural-feeling and more specific. We never should have let "men" become gendered in the first place.
#this doesn't mean you can't be mad about misgendering ofc#i just feel like lately im seeing a lot of#'if someone tries to tell you they didn't mean it that way it's definitely because they're a transmisogynistic shitbag'#when it is like#that's very plausibly true because of How Language#and who does it help to encourage trans women to assume that everyone is being awful to you on purpose#(and yes obviously one should apologise and not *only* explain/excuse)#but 'im sorry; I didn't mean to hurt you' is an ok thing to say
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the magician girl who appeared two weeks after a village shopkeeper's son has gone missing and who shares his family name has refused to comment on the situation
#i got an original fiction character who did this so hard people started offering their condolences for the brother#they assumed must have died
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"As a woman, I absolutely love it when random strangers call me 'dude,' 'bro,' or 'man'" said no woman ever.
#i mean#by a sufficiently extrapolative interpretation of the (subculturally) normative 'trans positive' definitions thereof this is tautological#nevertheless i definitely wouldve told you that i was this supposedly nonexistent individual in the past
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don't worry, he'll tell you
everyone asks why art thou Romeo but no one asks how art thou Romeo 😞
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Into The Woods aka one of the best B plots in B99
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Since when do you not capitalize the beginnings of sentences?
since this site eroded my grip on language
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