#actual lesbians. i am just pissed that people accuse lesbians of biphobia but they are more biphobic in their various methods of being

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This sort of stuff is exactly why I say most biophobia is internal. They absolutely do not want to call themselves bisexual. It’s not “cool” enough it’s not “progressive” enough it’s not “anarchist” enough. It doesn’t make the institution as mad if you have the capacity for opposite sex attraction and then act on it. People make their life choices based on politics and not personal desire. Who you date what you wear what your hobbies are. People are living inside this echo chamber and convincing each other that their value as people is inverse to how much they are hated by “the man.” This leads to bi people calling themselves gay and lesbian, because bi is to close to straight to them, and now we’re seeing them use trans and nonbinary to force their innate sexual attraction to be what they deem most progressive and interesting politically. A straight kid can become gay, and “stick it to the man” by coming out as trans. A bi person can call themselves nonbinary and suddenly every attraction they have is gay, how convenient! People are too afraid to take actual action to fight oppressive governments and organizations nowadays so they settle for using identities as activism. Just being something the government doesn’t like is a sufficient form of protest and makes you a warrior, now. No need to actually take action and get involved in your community, you’re protesting the government just by sitting at home and calling yourself a lesbian when you’re not

They have no fucking idea that they are doing just as much harm to actual lesbians and gay men by doing this shit, or maybe they do and they don’t care, they’ve decided actual homosexuals are acceptable collateral damage for them to feel productive, idk, I wouldn’t put it past them

It's not surprising when you see how many bisexual women are more concerned with being seen as lesbian/gay than actually loving women, so when they come out as trans they get to be with men that they prefer over women while being seen as gay. Lesbian seems more like a consolation prize that they do not really want, but some will settle for to be seen as gay, trans must be a plus so they can be with men while being seen as a gay/bisexual man. Also I've seen honest bisexual women talk about being insecure about being masc and not fem if men would still find them attractive.

I'll never get why everyone is so obsessed with calling themselves a lesbian.

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You are so right with m/f stuff! I’m not familiar with a lot of VBS shipping discourse, but it’s annoying to see how people can’t write an analysis on how important Tsukasa is to Rui without others dog piling them and saying they’re delusional and ignoring canon for their yaoi “with no content”. (At least on twitter, tumblr is much better with this) And as someone whose also bisexual, it’s so annoying seeing people use bisexuality as a gotcha to ship m/f and act as if its progressive and that it gives them the okay to hate on f/f and m/m pairings.

YES YES EXACTLY. God I hate when people keep saying that ruikasa has no content and their dynamic is underdeveloped whenever anyone talks about them. Like as biased as I am because I like the ship, they do have a very developed dynamic regardless of if you like the ship or not. Literally there's three events about it (potato and pandemonium + it was a pretty big background element in curtain call), one of which is the third event in the game. like if you don't like ritk that's perfectly fine, but when people are dogpilling ritk shippers for talking about their dynamic/pandemonium chapter 8/wtv and saying they're reaching, especially if the person doing this is an account dedicated to another rui ship/are a rui fan, it's a bad look because you're literally ignoring a very significant part of his arc. Ignoring massively important aspects of a character you claim to like just because of a ship is low. This fandom is way too set on everything being about shipping like bruh no one is telling you that you had to view pandemonium as romantic you can view it as platonic perfectly fine and not need to erase parts of rui's character to justify your rui/female character ship.

it's an especially weird situation with VBS as well. as much as I hold the earlier EN fandom to a higher standard there was a lot of discourse around VBS and the fact that they're implied gay. like it used to be a situation where if you admitted you shipped m/f vbs you would get jumped. as a comeback people would accuse biphobia but i never saw huge amounts of people being actually biphobic. saying "an and kohane are quite heavily implied to be lesbians (and it makes some people uncomfortable to see them shipped with men)" is a true statement but people didn't need to attack others over it. not liking a bi headcanon isn't biphobic unless you're actually being biphobic about it yknow? luckily it calmed down after a while but now you get jumped for not shipping m/f which leads us straight back to the statement about an and kohane. gbr the situation with vbs shipping nowadays is much worse than the situation when i first joined, obviously partially bc of the massive increase in fandom size but mainly because people are spewing actual homophobic rhetoric over akty ankh (someone literally tried to claim heterophobia was real bc of people not liking m/f vbs a couple months ago. actually this has happened multiple times).

AND YES GOD THIS FANDOM'S APPROACH TO BI HEADCANONS IS SO FUCKING ANNOYING. Like people only use it as a way to make m/f ships more queer and try to 1 up people with it because oh yes male/female couple are not the norm at all and they're so cool and different and if you add a bi/pan hc on top of that it makes you more progressive (/s). HCing a character as bi does not give you cool points and the fact that so many people only do it for m/f ships pisses me off to no end because people treat it like Straight 2 when bi people can be in m/m and f/f relationships. People can hc whatever they want ofc but it's so obvious sometimes that people are only using bi hcs as a way to quickly round off their hcs for every character so they can multiship or justify their m/f ships as queer and at that point I'd rather they just hc'd them as straight because I don't like seeing my identity used solely for the purpose of making a ship more queer because someone doesn't want their m/f to be a hetship.