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bunabi · 4 months ago

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No..... I dont think its crazy to have sales expectations for a highly-anticipated game you believe can succeed & is the direct follow-up to a title that won GOTY

I get the frustration but blaming EA for everything nonstop is killing me

#DAI came out during gamergate + the start of BLM and succeeded 😭 not to undercut how miserable 'anti-woke' is but lets bffr #its a series that succeeds because of its fans and the fans just weren’t feeling this entry as much idk what to tell you #EA didnt say to make 1/3 world choices matter ok mistakes were made can we just accept that already #EA didnt say asymmetrical content for the Lords is a good thing and EA didnt say blow up Southern Thedas

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luminique · 8 months ago

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Lighter with a chubby s/o more flesh for a pillow! (and also to hold...)

i am so sorry anon, i have a smaller figure (on the thinner and small side) so i will try my absolute best to write something but please forgive me if i get anything wrong. if there are any mistakes, please give any feedback so that i can improve. if there are any lighter writers who have a chubby body type, i would be more than happy to reblog their post instead !!

we’ve established that lighter LOVES cuddles, and your body type is absolutely perfect for that. not to say that he has a preference, he loves you either way.

there are times where he wants you laying on top of him and he’s insistent on making it happen. you can tell him 193739370272 times that you’re too heavy for him and to that… he’d just give the dumbest grin because you both know how strong he is. he loves wrapping his arms around you while also comforting you that he is alright. something about seeing you look up at him with your chubby cheeks has him head over heels, wanting to caress them but the thought embarrasses him so much that he fails to so his hand is just awkwardly in the air (we love a boyfailure)

OH I THINK HE’D LOVE LAYING HIS HEAD ON YOUR LAP/THIGHS !! they’re the perfect pillows and especially after a long day…. he’s a simple man, all he needs is to lay on your lap, have your fingers in his hair while he not so secretly gazes into your eyes behind his sunglasses. a sigh escapes his lips, what a perfect way to end the day.

and if ANYONE makes any negative comments about your looks, he’s already challenging them to a fight. as he said, “an issue that can be solved by fists is no issue at all” and he stands by that. especially about his beloved, no one is allowed to throw insults at you or at him and if they do…. well we’ll see if they can rise from the ashes.

#lumiresponds ˚✧₊⁎☆#lighter zzz #zzz lighter #lighter lorenz #i really didn’t know whether to accept this ask because i didn’t want to completely butcher it #i normally try my best to write an almost completely neutral reader in most of my posts #so to get a relatively specific reader that i personally am not was a bit of a challenge #nonetheless i want to write lighter posts that cater to EVERYONE !!#so i will continue to read and learn more to make posts that can be enjoyed by everyone #no matter your age size race or who you are #so please do inform me where i could have written better or if i have made any mistakes #thank you so much to the anon that sent this in #i applogize for any mistakes and thank you for reading and understanding #lighter x you #lighter x reader #lighter x gn reader

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mephoj · 9 months ago

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nickel and balloon would be so much more interesting if people explored the way nickel became everything awful that balloon used to be but so much worse ironically all in the name of "protecting" everyone from that history repeating. and not softboy tsundere yaoi or whatever is going on in those tags rn

#meeple.txt #inanimate insanity #iii they could so easily make me hate you.#nickloon arc was the worst thing to ever come out of iii #unnecessarily long and stupid and hilariously poorly written #i actually feel insane seeing how many people just accept it at face value as The Canon #i know it Is canon but i dont care. Heart❤️#we need to bring back the fandom energy of collectively rejecting the shitty writing #nickloon arc did not happen its ok. take my hand #in my heart nickel digs himself a deeper hole of denying he did any wrong and everyone at most tolerates him #fits his character built up by s2 so much better and parallels other characters too #somewhere deep in his head i feel like he knows hes wrong. but by god it should not have been that easy to ''fix'' him #hes going to deny it until it kills him bc that means facing any regret or deeper feelings he doesnt wanna deal with #and that means admitting he made mistakes which is a huge blow to his ego #and his Cool Tough Leader personality #hes not gonna give that up so easily #and i dont think its in character for him to change within the timeframe of the show tbh . at least with the time they have left now #thats like a post canon Maybe to me #the only way ill accept it really

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dollypopup · 1 year ago

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Penelope did nothing wrong

fuck you!!! Penelope did everything wrong!! She has made not 1 (one) good decision in the entirety of her life!!! And guess what?

she

still

wins

she wins! her husband is down bad obsessed with her, she'll mend her friendship with her bestie, she has a career, she marries into a rich, nice family!

Penelope Featherington girlfailed her way to victory! She's not for the peeps who are always making good choices and coming out on top. She's for me, for us messes, and it means so much to me that she fucks up and is loved dearly. Don't you dare take that away!

#penelope featherington #bridgerton #colin bridgerton #eloise bridgerton #bridgerton season 3 #'she did nothing wrong' is tired!!! 'she did everything wrong and i love her for it' is INSPIRED!#you don't understand how much it means to me that penelope has made so many mistakes in her life and will be loved and accepted for it #you don't GET IT #all the peeps who are like 'nooo she's an innocent darling! everything she did was good actually!!!'#forget you- i love messy penelope #i love penelope who trips over her own two shoes #i love penelope who digs her own grave #i love penelope who cannot flirt and who infodumps and who almost died from a BALLOON because she was so down bad #i love a penelope who fucks up and is forgiven #i love a penelope who grows #penelope is for ME okay? she's not for y'all supposedly perfect peeps #she's a mess and she's my mess i will fight you in a denny's

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bogkeep · 1 month ago

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far be it from me to defend the swedish language, it is a clown language for clowns.* but after suffering through every english speaking podcast and video essayist talking about midsommar**, i don't know if i have it in me to listen to my mother mispronouncing Göteborg as "gjæteborg" for much longer***

*) i have a permit to say this. (the permit is my norwegian passport)

**) PLEASE stop stressing and stretching the -ar. the stress should be on Mid and Som. please. midsummer is an english word that exists and people know how to say i don't understand why people make midsommar out to be so weird

***) i have tried to correct her. the ö is just ø. it's the ä that is æ. she either a) does not believe me, b) immediately forgor, or c) does not realize she is still saying it wrong

#swedenquest #I SUGGESTED WE VISIT GÖTEBORG FOR EASTER BREAK I HAVE MADE A HORRIBLE MISTAKE #i don't condone mocking other cultures/languages unless you have like. a cultural and historical precedent where it's socially accepted #norway and sweden (and denmark) have a sibling rivalry thing #i am explaining this because people used to wonder why i was so mean to danes and i had to stop antagonising denmark on main

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lostinsnow · 7 months ago

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being in the star wars fandom makes me feel like im going actually insane when i see The most bad faith arguments against the jedi every single week

#like where is the nuance #you can acknowledge that the jedi were a flawed organization fumbling their way through a political scenario and made bad decisions #while also accepting that a majority of their flaws and mistakes were purposefully orchestrated or forced by sidious #oh and also admitting that anakin is a grown man with agency who actively made bad decisions led by anger and greed #like jfc no one is innocent but are we watching the same movies

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townofcrosshollow · 7 months ago

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Got a new, extremely serious, life changing diagnosis yesterday and when I got home my dad was like "You know what that means? DISABILITY TAX CREDIT!" and y'know what he's right and he should say it

#they're trying their best!#my mom just asked me 'so are you just going to live with this forever?' and i didn't have the heart to say yes #so i just said 'it usually goes into remission around middle age'#my mom said she'd prefer to just research it herself. but i made sure to explain how the doctor told me it was caused by #not being accepted by my peers and having a hard time building attachments #because i know she's going to see 'caused by childhood trauma' and start asking what she did wrong #they're just people y'know?#they've made mistakes and absolutely some of those mistakes contributed to me being this way #but i don't blame them #they're just people. who feel intensely and love and want what's best for everybody. especially me #and i wouldn't change anything #sorry that got intense in the tags lmao #i got that borderline swag. i'm allowed to say that now i'm diagnosed #aaaaaaand i ain't getting treated till 2026. hell yeah psychiatric system #incoherent rambling

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thebluebygracieabrams · 4 days ago

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when the competition is making me cry in 10 seconds and your opponents are my parents

#bro wow this has to be some kindof personal record twice in one day #morning for mom evening for dad #did thy talk aboit it discuss it that you take these points I'll take these we'll be done in 10 secs flat #i don't understand what's happening period is over but i still can't stop crying i cried yesterday too #it usually is like numb numb numb period week numb again #but why won't it kick in this time #he's just so fucking efficient man wow #literally he said 3 things in 10 seconds and the dam opened #first he shouted about something and i tried to defend myself but then he got soo mad and even tho i hd a perfectly #reasonable exception i had to shut up and accept my mistake because at that point i was already on the verge of crying #and i knew if i dragged it out i wouldn't be able to say another word without bursting and then he'd get even more mad for crying in public #and embarassing him #and then it was about something related to my brother and he was like #talk to him properly what's wrong with you he's going to go away in a few months then will you ever even see him #which fuck is such a big fear of mine something that's already made me cry because ive fucked it up #and he hates me now and i think we'll never reconcile he thinks we should be the kind of siblings who meet on festivals and that's it #and i tried to like bond more but he just hates the entire family and wants to leave us behind no exceptions #and then in the same breath dad is like your sister is already gone abhi dikhti hai kya aas paas #like bitch?? could you be less efficient what the fuck that was the killing blow #i went from confused to trying to not cry so fast like fuck she's the only person in the world who made living with you #bearable of fucking course i notice she's not here i miss her all the time #like yeah just tell me i will keep losing everyone why don't you see if i can hear it without breaking down #and i just felt so fucking helpless like can't stand up for myself because i will lose and i have to play the long game #take his money get my education but fuck man the education i can't breathe under the pressure of it all his demand #for full tests and these fucking subjects im not made for this and trying to do it all alone because he #shifted us here in the middle of nowhere no friends and yesterday he was like oh yeah we'll move back home im bored now #like fucking hell man how many times will you do this? already did it when i was 15 #and on top of that mom is complaining about him to me like bitch you won't leave him you'll make #us suffer through hell because you're a coward and you want me to console you?#god fuck this i hope he dies i hope she dies i hope we all die

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blackswallowtailbutterfly · 10 months ago

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Still haven't messaged my mom back. And I don't think I'm going to.

#you know how they say time makes you look on the past with nostalgia and that's why elderly people think so fondly of past decades? not me #there are moments I look back on with nostalgia sure but the overwhelming feeling of looking back on my childhood is just whatever I do #wherever I go whatever happens that will not be my life again. my memory is long I made a promise to myself I intend to keep I don't forget #support you having your grandkids if their mother is deemed unfit yes. take the older two myself if it comes to it yes. move provinces to #live with you to look after the five of them together where you would be my only adult connection and there's a language barrier and I have #no work history and I'd be between five hours and nine hours away from any other connection I have answer's an absolute fucking no. I've #seen how you are with my sister how you were with my brother. who do you think they call when they've had enough of you? do you not #remember most of the beatings I took was because I was standing between you and my brother? of course not because according to you you #never did beat me but if you think I'm not aware that would turn on me again the second I'm no longer distant and just visiting if you #think you'd find nothing to complain about because you've built up this golden child ideal of me in your head and want to forget how it was #when I was actually in your care you are very very wrong. I remember. I know that inconveniences a lot of people who want to forget #unpleasant things about themselves. me too to be honest I have memories I wish I could erase but I can't especially with regard to my #sister. I defended my brother but not her. not enough. and it's probably why I give so much to her now more than I should because it's #enabling but it is what it is I guess. I won't use my memories against anyone just for the sake of it but I absolutely fucking will #to protect myself or others. you want a redemption arc without admitting to anything? keep being patient and kind towards #your grandchildren even if you end up having to take them and if you can't do it for all five of them then accept that it's better for the #older two to be with me. that's it. those are your options: the older two are with me so you only have to look after the younger three or #you need to buckle down and learn from your past mistakes to look after the five of them and all that is *if it even comes to that* which #as things are it's not in danger of that! it was a regular fucking visit to monitor the situation that's all; they're not getting taken #literally every time she freaks out about something it's a 50/50 chance it's actually something or she's invented a completely #twisted version of events

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il-predestinato · 2 years ago

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#if you are incapable of accepting any critique of charles' performance please at least have the courtesy to stay the fuck away from my inbox #like yeah the car is understeer #the car has no front end #the car doesn't turn #the weather is shit #the car is undrivable #he is still the one who is driving it knowing all of the above #cuntos is still driving it knowing all of the above #if you want to try pushing beyond the limit then you risk doing what he did yesterday in quali and today during the race #I. GET. IT.#sf-23 belongs in the trash #ferrari are a clown team #I. GET. THAT. SUCKS.#charles' actions are still his own #and you know... it's okay to be a major charles fan and believer and supporter and still recognize that he still has room for improvement #that he has made mistakes this race weekend and this season that he should not have #lmao 'all that happened was his endplate came off bc the car wouldn't steer and then it wrecked his floor'#remind me who is behind the wheel of the car when that happened #that's right #charles and no one else #sure it was a small error #but it was an error #and you're delulu if you think charles hasn't contributed to some of his own misfortunes this season #ferrari's incompetence has been unacceptable #the car is unacceptable #but how can you be a charles fan and think THIS is the level of performance he should have??#he's so much better than this #mentally he is capable of so much better than this #elle.txt

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jemandrr · 4 months ago

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Unironically, Ben Shapiro's greatest win against the left was turning left/centerleft laypeople off from the idea of a 'debate with facts and logic' because of his bad faith arguments. Like it's almost...triggering to people, and that leaves a lot of people with unsharpened ideas and an unwillingness to explain them in a rigorous manner.

One example phenomenon that this has fed into is a continuing degradation in the lines of thought people use to reach certain conclusions - so person A expresses opinion X that person B agrees with, but because person B never really sees the entire line of thought laid out by anyone else, their formulation of opinion X based on their own intuition might randomly lean on some idea Y which person A doesn't care about. As a result, if Idea Y lacks actual backing, person B might wrongly defend opinion X and give an impression that the entire thing is flimsy, or person B might lose their own footing and assuredness and change sides.

I also think that he so badly mangled the concept of debate in the casual public consciousness that it's a contributing factor to the vague anti-academic sentiment in recent years. (Which, while academia as an institution has problems, there's certainly an undercurrent of less directed discontent that is contributing to low public opinion of education as a whole - and a greater feeling expressed on social media that 'casual reference of marquee media' is in a way insulting to people who have not consumed it, rather than an invitation to partake or something you can pass by without caring. Not on tumblr though, where we see Dracula and then we read Dracula.)

tl;dr his pseudo-intellectualism meaningfully contributed to certain common sentiments of anti-intellectualism because of how badly and annoyingly he and the people who emulate(d) him did/do it.