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No..... I dont think its crazy to have sales expectations for a highly-anticipated game you believe can succeed & is the direct follow-up to a title that won GOTY
I get the frustration but blaming EA for everything nonstop is killing me
#DAI came out during gamergate + the start of BLM and succeeded 😭 not to undercut how miserable 'anti-woke' is but lets bffr#its a series that succeeds because of its fans and the fans just weren’t feeling this entry as much idk what to tell you#EA didnt say to make 1/3 world choices matter ok mistakes were made can we just accept that already#EA didnt say asymmetrical content for the Lords is a good thing and EA didnt say blow up Southern Thedas
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Lighter with a chubby s/o more flesh for a pillow! (and also to hold...)
i am so sorry anon, i have a smaller figure (on the thinner and small side) so i will try my absolute best to write something but please forgive me if i get anything wrong. if there are any mistakes, please give any feedback so that i can improve. if there are any lighter writers who have a chubby body type, i would be more than happy to reblog their post instead !!
we’ve established that lighter LOVES cuddles, and your body type is absolutely perfect for that. not to say that he has a preference, he loves you either way.
there are times where he wants you laying on top of him and he’s insistent on making it happen. you can tell him 193739370272 times that you’re too heavy for him and to that… he’d just give the dumbest grin because you both know how strong he is. he loves wrapping his arms around you while also comforting you that he is alright. something about seeing you look up at him with your chubby cheeks has him head over heels, wanting to caress them but the thought embarrasses him so much that he fails to so his hand is just awkwardly in the air (we love a boyfailure)
OH I THINK HE’D LOVE LAYING HIS HEAD ON YOUR LAP/THIGHS !! they’re the perfect pillows and especially after a long day…. he’s a simple man, all he needs is to lay on your lap, have your fingers in his hair while he not so secretly gazes into your eyes behind his sunglasses. a sigh escapes his lips, what a perfect way to end the day.
and if ANYONE makes any negative comments about your looks, he’s already challenging them to a fight. as he said, “an issue that can be solved by fists is no issue at all” and he stands by that. especially about his beloved, no one is allowed to throw insults at you or at him and if they do…. well we’ll see if they can rise from the ashes.
#lumiresponds ˚✧₊⁎☆#lighter zzz#zzz lighter#lighter lorenz#i really didn’t know whether to accept this ask because i didn’t want to completely butcher it#i normally try my best to write an almost completely neutral reader in most of my posts#so to get a relatively specific reader that i personally am not was a bit of a challenge#nonetheless i want to write lighter posts that cater to EVERYONE !!#so i will continue to read and learn more to make posts that can be enjoyed by everyone#no matter your age size race or who you are#so please do inform me where i could have written better or if i have made any mistakes#thank you so much to the anon that sent this in#i applogize for any mistakes and thank you for reading and understanding#lighter x you#lighter x reader#lighter x gn reader
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nickel and balloon would be so much more interesting if people explored the way nickel became everything awful that balloon used to be but so much worse ironically all in the name of "protecting" everyone from that history repeating. and not softboy tsundere yaoi or whatever is going on in those tags rn
#meeple.txt#inanimate insanity#iii they could so easily make me hate you.#nickloon arc was the worst thing to ever come out of iii#unnecessarily long and stupid and hilariously poorly written#i actually feel insane seeing how many people just accept it at face value as The Canon#i know it Is canon but i dont care. Heart❤️#we need to bring back the fandom energy of collectively rejecting the shitty writing#nickloon arc did not happen its ok. take my hand#in my heart nickel digs himself a deeper hole of denying he did any wrong and everyone at most tolerates him#fits his character built up by s2 so much better and parallels other characters too#somewhere deep in his head i feel like he knows hes wrong. but by god it should not have been that easy to ''fix'' him#hes going to deny it until it kills him bc that means facing any regret or deeper feelings he doesnt wanna deal with#and that means admitting he made mistakes which is a huge blow to his ego#and his Cool Tough Leader personality#hes not gonna give that up so easily#and i dont think its in character for him to change within the timeframe of the show tbh . at least with the time they have left now#thats like a post canon Maybe to me#the only way ill accept it really
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Penelope did nothing wrong
fuck you!!! Penelope did everything wrong!! She has made not 1 (one) good decision in the entirety of her life!!! And guess what?
she
still
wins
she wins! her husband is down bad obsessed with her, she'll mend her friendship with her bestie, she has a career, she marries into a rich, nice family!
Penelope Featherington girlfailed her way to victory! She's not for the peeps who are always making good choices and coming out on top. She's for me, for us messes, and it means so much to me that she fucks up and is loved dearly. Don't you dare take that away!
#penelope featherington#bridgerton#colin bridgerton#eloise bridgerton#bridgerton season 3#'she did nothing wrong' is tired!!! 'she did everything wrong and i love her for it' is INSPIRED!#you don't understand how much it means to me that penelope has made so many mistakes in her life and will be loved and accepted for it#you don't GET IT#all the peeps who are like 'nooo she's an innocent darling! everything she did was good actually!!!'#forget you- i love messy penelope#i love penelope who trips over her own two shoes#i love penelope who digs her own grave#i love penelope who cannot flirt and who infodumps and who almost died from a BALLOON because she was so down bad#i love a penelope who fucks up and is forgiven#i love a penelope who grows#penelope is for ME okay? she's not for y'all supposedly perfect peeps#she's a mess and she's my mess i will fight you in a denny's
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far be it from me to defend the swedish language, it is a clown language for clowns.* but after suffering through every english speaking podcast and video essayist talking about midsommar**, i don't know if i have it in me to listen to my mother mispronouncing Göteborg as "gjæteborg" for much longer***
*) i have a permit to say this. (the permit is my norwegian passport)
**) PLEASE stop stressing and stretching the -ar. the stress should be on Mid and Som. please. midsummer is an english word that exists and people know how to say i don't understand why people make midsommar out to be so weird
***) i have tried to correct her. the ö is just ø. it's the ä that is æ. she either a) does not believe me, b) immediately forgor, or c) does not realize she is still saying it wrong
#swedenquest#I SUGGESTED WE VISIT GÖTEBORG FOR EASTER BREAK I HAVE MADE A HORRIBLE MISTAKE#i don't condone mocking other cultures/languages unless you have like. a cultural and historical precedent where it's socially accepted#norway and sweden (and denmark) have a sibling rivalry thing#i am explaining this because people used to wonder why i was so mean to danes and i had to stop antagonising denmark on main
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being in the star wars fandom makes me feel like im going actually insane when i see The most bad faith arguments against the jedi every single week
#like where is the nuance#you can acknowledge that the jedi were a flawed organization fumbling their way through a political scenario and made bad decisions#while also accepting that a majority of their flaws and mistakes were purposefully orchestrated or forced by sidious#oh and also admitting that anakin is a grown man with agency who actively made bad decisions led by anger and greed#like jfc no one is innocent but are we watching the same movies
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Got a new, extremely serious, life changing diagnosis yesterday and when I got home my dad was like "You know what that means? DISABILITY TAX CREDIT!" and y'know what he's right and he should say it
#they're trying their best!#my mom just asked me 'so are you just going to live with this forever?' and i didn't have the heart to say yes#so i just said 'it usually goes into remission around middle age'#my mom said she'd prefer to just research it herself. but i made sure to explain how the doctor told me it was caused by#not being accepted by my peers and having a hard time building attachments#because i know she's going to see 'caused by childhood trauma' and start asking what she did wrong#they're just people y'know?#they've made mistakes and absolutely some of those mistakes contributed to me being this way#but i don't blame them#they're just people. who feel intensely and love and want what's best for everybody. especially me#and i wouldn't change anything#sorry that got intense in the tags lmao#i got that borderline swag. i'm allowed to say that now i'm diagnosed#aaaaaaand i ain't getting treated till 2026. hell yeah psychiatric system#incoherent rambling
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Still haven't messaged my mom back. And I don't think I'm going to.
#you know how they say time makes you look on the past with nostalgia and that's why elderly people think so fondly of past decades? not me#there are moments I look back on with nostalgia sure but the overwhelming feeling of looking back on my childhood is just whatever I do#wherever I go whatever happens that will not be my life again. my memory is long I made a promise to myself I intend to keep I don't forget#support you having your grandkids if their mother is deemed unfit yes. take the older two myself if it comes to it yes. move provinces to#live with you to look after the five of them together where you would be my only adult connection and there's a language barrier and I have#no work history and I'd be between five hours and nine hours away from any other connection I have answer's an absolute fucking no. I've#seen how you are with my sister how you were with my brother. who do you think they call when they've had enough of you? do you not#remember most of the beatings I took was because I was standing between you and my brother? of course not because according to you you#never did beat me but if you think I'm not aware that would turn on me again the second I'm no longer distant and just visiting if you#think you'd find nothing to complain about because you've built up this golden child ideal of me in your head and want to forget how it was#when I was actually in your care you are very very wrong. I remember. I know that inconveniences a lot of people who want to forget#unpleasant things about themselves. me too to be honest I have memories I wish I could erase but I can't especially with regard to my#sister. I defended my brother but not her. not enough. and it's probably why I give so much to her now more than I should because it's#enabling but it is what it is I guess. I won't use my memories against anyone just for the sake of it but I absolutely fucking will#to protect myself or others. you want a redemption arc without admitting to anything? keep being patient and kind towards#your grandchildren even if you end up having to take them and if you can't do it for all five of them then accept that it's better for the#older two to be with me. that's it. those are your options: the older two are with me so you only have to look after the younger three or#you need to buckle down and learn from your past mistakes to look after the five of them and all that is *if it even comes to that* which#as things are it's not in danger of that! it was a regular fucking visit to monitor the situation that's all; they're not getting taken#literally every time she freaks out about something it's a 50/50 chance it's actually something or she's invented a completely#twisted version of events
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#if you are incapable of accepting any critique of charles' performance please at least have the courtesy to stay the fuck away from my inbox#like yeah the car is understeer#the car has no front end#the car doesn't turn#the weather is shit#the car is undrivable#he is still the one who is driving it knowing all of the above#cuntos is still driving it knowing all of the above#if you want to try pushing beyond the limit then you risk doing what he did yesterday in quali and today during the race#I. GET. IT.#sf-23 belongs in the trash#ferrari are a clown team#I. GET. THAT. SUCKS.#charles' actions are still his own#and you know... it's okay to be a major charles fan and believer and supporter and still recognize that he still has room for improvement#that he has made mistakes this race weekend and this season that he should not have#lmao 'all that happened was his endplate came off bc the car wouldn't steer and then it wrecked his floor'#remind me who is behind the wheel of the car when that happened#that's right#charles and no one else#sure it was a small error#but it was an error#and you're delulu if you think charles hasn't contributed to some of his own misfortunes this season#ferrari's incompetence has been unacceptable#the car is unacceptable#but how can you be a charles fan and think THIS is the level of performance he should have??#he's so much better than this#mentally he is capable of so much better than this#elle.txt
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Unironically, Ben Shapiro's greatest win against the left was turning left/centerleft laypeople off from the idea of a 'debate with facts and logic' because of his bad faith arguments. Like it's almost...triggering to people, and that leaves a lot of people with unsharpened ideas and an unwillingness to explain them in a rigorous manner.
One example phenomenon that this has fed into is a continuing degradation in the lines of thought people use to reach certain conclusions - so person A expresses opinion X that person B agrees with, but because person B never really sees the entire line of thought laid out by anyone else, their formulation of opinion X based on their own intuition might randomly lean on some idea Y which person A doesn't care about. As a result, if Idea Y lacks actual backing, person B might wrongly defend opinion X and give an impression that the entire thing is flimsy, or person B might lose their own footing and assuredness and change sides.
I also think that he so badly mangled the concept of debate in the casual public consciousness that it's a contributing factor to the vague anti-academic sentiment in recent years. (Which, while academia as an institution has problems, there's certainly an undercurrent of less directed discontent that is contributing to low public opinion of education as a whole - and a greater feeling expressed on social media that 'casual reference of marquee media' is in a way insulting to people who have not consumed it, rather than an invitation to partake or something you can pass by without caring. Not on tumblr though, where we see Dracula and then we read Dracula.)
tl;dr his pseudo-intellectualism meaningfully contributed to certain common sentiments of anti-intellectualism because of how badly and annoyingly he and the people who emulate(d) him did/do it.
#Anyways I am just tired of my sense of 'I want to keep the facts straight and I want things outlined clearly'#which may be partly autistic but w.e#because more and more in recent years I feel like I'm stuck with 'I need to correct people I agree with on a fundamental level because#they are misrepresenting facts to get there#or they've entangled multiple ideas together that are in fact extricable and may benefit from being#thought of separately#No matter how much preamble I do people often mistake me as a centrist or on the opposite side of a debate because#I'm not willing to present my own opinion using what I know to be bad evidence.#I think this is a cold take so here's a spicy part:#I think this environment has made it ripe for the left to readily accept 'Conclusion therefore evidence' Arguments.#Which I'm sure has a more professional name - probably a fallacy#By which I mean that people are more likely to passively accept the steps in the argument and the evidence provided if#they already know they're going to agree with the conclusion#and my hot take is that while he does ofc do some rigorous research#This is the default form of argument that hbomberguy and many other leftist content creators engage in#where there are clearly weak pieces of evidence or very loose links but because you know where it's going approximately it is easy to#just absorb and move on and accept that its good#and part of that is ofc because breadtubing is an entertainment media first and foremost so I'm not expecting the most rigor#the reason its a hot take though is that a lot of people don't necessarily realize it#I think this is most easily argued with his videos that are about random topics and not about breadtubing or exposes.#A lot of his criticism of media is popular criticism - but the arguments he makes in the middle can often be purely based on opinion or#ignore significant tenets of media literacy in order to hamfist in an argument that is ripe for comedy.#But when you're clowning on something already considered bad you have a lot of leeway for people to say yeah it is bad and not think about#if that particular criticism is valid from either a critical standpoint or a casual popular opinion standpoint#ESPECIALLY if its something that many people used to like but now its cringe and the sense of cringe makes people not want to#investigate their own feelings of why they really used to like it
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//Me, every time I need an out of costume icon for Thad: OTL rip to how little Bart smiles in F:TFMA
#that is another mistake they made with our boy in that comic#but damn he was kinda going through it#if i have to reason out F:FMA I'd say emotionally Bart was just going through it and being forced into a role that didn't fit him without#any consideration for himself or what he wanted. He was living up to other people's ideals of/for him. Which really had no consideration fo#him as his own person and individual. And continues the patterns (my reasoning) of what goes on in TTv3 when he decides to become Kid Flash#//Wally calls him a try hard in that (well something more like he's trying too hard specifically) but honestly I'd accept that as far as it#feels he is trying to change himself and who he is in order to be accepted.#which honestly considering this was the 2000s should have wrapped into a PSA about peer pressure.#though the 200s would have never said that with regard to family trying to change you. Boy Bart really is like us.#edit: That one edit of warren to the rescue woo!!
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Six One Sentence Sunday
From the quantum-entanglement-but-with-variants fic, a sentence in which a surprising amount of plot-relevant information is imparted to the reader:
“Chicken McNuggets,” says Loki, and then slaps himself, hard.
(I was going to do the usual six sentences but had trouble finding six that made sense on their own so instead here's one that doesn't.)
#i am not 100% on the punctuation of that sentence so if someone can let me know if i've made a mistake i'd be grateful <3#this fic is so far v enjoyable to write and if the pace keeps up yous might actually get to see this thing in less than a year! wow!#i have already accepted in my heart that however angsty the angsty bits end up this fic will be seen purely as a comedy.#it's not *not* a comedy but i've already exceeded what i have learned is the “two jokes per story” limit for assigning genre anyway.#possible issue with that: there is one very-last-minute reveal of information in the fic that is ambiguous and *might* just be a joke#so there's a good chance nobody will actually take it as a serious suggestion and i've been writing earlier scenes as though it might be.#*vagues mysteriously at you*#OH WELL I SUPPOSE I'LL FIND OUT EVENTUALLY EH#fic snippets#six sentence sunday
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im so glad ramona got to be her own protagonist in the anime and gain like. healthy closure with most if not all of her exes
#spoilers ahead but i was thinking strange nega scott didnt appear but like#its more poignant he fights his own literal self#no scott its not an evil twin made of your worst parts#you ARE your worst parts and your best parts too so take responsibility#if you dont wanna end up like this its up to you to defeat these personal flaws to grow from them etc#you dont get to write this off as not you. no that is literally you welcome to your christmas carol moment dumbass#fix yourself or live in misery#like i guess part of negascott was always coming to terms with these things and accepting them but if negascott represented#accepting your flaws and mistakes and overcoming them#old scott was the natural progression of then changing the behavior that caused them
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Random take but I feel like my art style is undergoing puberty
#I DO LINEART NOW#WHAT#SINCE WHEN#Artfight and viscomm has taught me a lot methinks#Namely that I CAN cram pieces with enough willpower 😂😂😂#I’ve learnt how to draw sketches MUCH quicker#And that not everything you draw must be a total masterpiece. sometimes you gotta draw a guy standing there#that was something I always wrestled with conceptually and now I think I get it#You can just. draw a guy. it doesn’t have to mean anything.#And I think I have a clearer view of my artistic goals rather than just ‘get good lol’#And I think I can finally accept one thing#marketinggggggggg#I’m still so fucking adverse to having a social presence that isn’t this blog but I feel like I’m gaining the mentality needed to succeed#in getting your art out there.#That being said since this was my first year of artfight I learnt a lot and made a lot of mistakes#BUT I think I’ll definitely have a better round next year <3#just pav things
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pspspspsps,, coney island by taylor swift w (again) the godheim boys,,,
#★ sweet nothings.#okay so . “break my soul in two - looking for you but you're right here”#= the godheim boys knowing you're so close - a life away from theirs' but also oh so far. an ocean away kind of distance yk?#“and when I got into the accident” = her returning back to her world - “the sight that flashed before me was your face”#“but when i walked up to the podium i think that i forgot to say your name” can mean mc in her proper world getting an award for her manga#+ is at the podium and accepting the award for creating a beautiful story#- but she forgets to mention the names of those she left (and had loved in her time during godheim) because no one would get her.#no one would believe the emotion in her voice and mistake the cracks in them for gratitude instead of regret - longing#- and fallacies among#- all else that she's done to a universe that was real (in her mind)#and to the people she knew (that made her the centerfold/key to grasping freedom and peace)#okay i'm gonna stop now i ramble too much i'm sorry fdjhsdfkfgjhhdfklsddsffdds#lovebrush chronicles#lovebrush chronicles x reader
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yeah harassing 14yos is bad but nothing in the screenshots that person sent was.. harrassing. its just people discussing and agreeing with how fucking weird it is to insist on a black man becoming a brutal cannibal beast for an au. do you not agree with that?
Though I never input my opinion on that. I will say it was messed up to make Cacao a cannibal.
However the screenshots were to show who was doing the harassment. Not the actual harassment. And the reasons for the harassment.
@beatrixblog actively apologized and deleted the post of their fanfic about that.
However, it did not take an apology for others to stop harassing them for their mistake. Not only did RiverArts cause the situation to go public, they allowed people other than themselves to actively harass @beatrixblog for their mistake. (They have specified that it was not only RiverArts and the people in the screenshots that was involved in the situation but others)
If you’re gonna ask why wasn’t the harassment screenshot then? Either while attempting to deal with the situation the harassers deleted their comments or the photo limit was reached when @beatrixblog sent in the screenshots. (For Mobile the photo limit is either 9 or 5) there are plenty of reasons why someone wouldn’t just send me a whole collection of their harassment.
Furthermore,there were multiple Twitter users that depicted Berserk Cacao as Animalistic, and even Twitter users who argued over a Dragon Cacao post to and I quote.
‘If you want Cacao to be animalistic or more of a monster, then you should just use Berserk Cacao’
Yet when someone, A MINOR or someone who DID give Cacao animalistic traits or traits of a monster, they were actively harassed and bullied for their situation. (Screenshots not shown for whatever reason)
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While I do agree that it is MESSED UP to place cannibalistic traits to a black person, I do question how and why that is racist, do enlighten me or correct me in my understanding as
I will remain neutral to this situation and only generalize the fact that you are not entitled to harass minors for their mistake.
Furthermore, I too would like to see how people correct me if I am wrong to think this way but…
Is it really racist if a black person is cannibal?
I’m not saying this is a real life situation cause that’s just messed up as hell, but if one were to make a black person cannibal is it considered racist?
Please correct me if it is absolutely offensive I will personally like you to educate me about that.
From what I understand, you cannot make a black person cannibal cause that generalizes that black people are violent and dangerous. And to put black people in that kind of generalization is wrong.
But what about characters that are actually violent and dangerous and have racial representation? Is that considered racist?
Example:
If a black character turns out to be a serial killer, and then gets arrested, is that considered racist? Or is it racist for that black character to be used as a victim and for the serial killer to be white?
Example 2:
If a black character resorts to cannibalism or likes cannibalism is it mere psychotic or racist? Or is it racist that a black character gets eaten by a white cannibal character?
Because cannibalism is a generalization for every race not just white people.
Again, as I have repeatedly said, is it racist to depict a black character as cannibal? Depending on the situation the black character could be cannibal.
Again I do agree that it is highly MESSED UP, but I really need others to consider this question because hell even I am confused.
#cookie run kingdom#dark cacao cookie#berserk cacao#as I stated again#I will remain neutral#you can correct me#you can educate me#guide me if I made a mistake#I’m allowing you to#because if you actually understand why I’m confused#and why I ask these questions you can answer them for me#READ MY REPLY CAREFULLY.#analyze it#tell me I’m wrong#I’ll fully accept any comments
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