#a lot of those ppl who r attracted to gnc ppl r bisexual or trans. sometimes theyre cishet. its cool | Explore Tumblr posts and blogs

matoitech · 5 months ago

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i know its easy for me to get bad faith'd bcuz my stake in it is as an i guess 'cishet passing' masc bi man who can b attracted to masc women but once ppl realize bisexual butches exist and identify as butch i think youll be a lot happier and also a lot less weird. ppl do this same thing w feminine men where ppl act like fem bi men dont exist bcuz if ur a feminine man who fucks men you cant be attracted to women youre just faking or closeted or something. very silly. just in general recognizing gnc people can be bisexual (or straight, and not in a metrosexual way or something, they just Exist, also gnc trans people exist) is probably gonna be good for you. treating gender nonconformity like its inherently fetishistic if attractive to the 'wrong' people is not the win u think it is but get well soon guys

#its weird w masc women who r attracted to men bcuz they can get blamed for butch lesbians getting hit on by men #as if its their fault. and also no offense but unless a dude knows explicitely youre a lesbian yeah he might hit on you that doesnt like #necessarily make him shitty or fetishistic or something. like im a bisexual man. i like masculine women too.#if i find out ur a lesbian i do not want to date you either but i dont inherently know ur a lesbian w my mind powers #like i get where ppl r coming from when they talk abt trying to be gnc or very strongly come off as 'gay' so the other gender is 'repelled'#but like . there r men who r attracted to masc women and women who r attracted to fem men #a lot of those ppl who r attracted to gnc ppl r bisexual or trans. sometimes theyre cishet. its cool

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