#a lot of the lolitas are experienced enough that if you start talking about rules
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#i wonder if part of the reason the lolita comm has the rep it does is because so much discussion and content has been moved to priv discord#and private facebook groups#im part of a group where ppl will regularly talk about lolita history and how its changed over the years and wear lolita fashion in all its#incarnation from 90s to today so you’ll see short skirts#bare shoulders#etc#but a lot of the public places are just r/lolita or cgl now so to the outside eye it really looks like thats all there is to the comm#a lot of the bigger lolita accounta never hang out in those spaces bc theyre not a great way to interact with the comm#and now that theres several discords its easier to find your ppl that you click with#im interested in the more behind the scenes aspect of lolita so the discords im in with longtime lolitas are very enjoyable to me to#learn from#musings#the “rules” do not occupy that much of the discussion in the discords im in#a lot of the lolitas are experienced enough that if you start talking about rules#you'll just get examples from both brands and early street snaps that are lolita and don't follow the rules#that's why i really tried not to include a list of rules in my lolita resources post and linked out to a bunch of lolita vids/blogs/resourc#like lolitahistory.com because lurking around the community and looking through content that's already there is the only way to learn what#lolita is really
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Sign dynamics( moon in the 10th w/Lana del Rey)
Alright so todayyyy I wanted to talk about the affects of having your moon sign in the 10th house and what this means for you!🤗
So for starters the 10th house is a heavy house as it is in the realm of Capricorn and Saturn :) so there’s going to be restrictions and seriousness involved with any planet that falls here even the benevolent and happy planet Jupiter.
When the planet that rules over our emotions falls in this house as you can imagine there is bound to be a vast amount of restraint and control themes a muck. Be it a scattered and restless Aries moon or a aloof and far away Aquarius moon. They all take a much more grounded and serious role when in this house.
Unlike a moon Saturn aspect or Capricorn moon itself albeit sharing a similar wavelength of energy having moon in the 10th house can work in a different fashion! It can in a way add a heavy layer to your moon sign making it seem aged and at times as if it were in the last decan of its sign.
Now before I’ve confused anyone. I’ve always attributed the 10th house and 12th house as windows of time. Planets in the 12th can seem underdeveloped and even like “children” while planets in the 10th house seem to age faster then most and because of this can be harsher and more colder due to such a fast understanding of what it means to be dutiful and responsible with ones image and presentation.
So in a sense having a planet in the 10th can age it over time and make it appear much wiser and polished than its counter parts.
Having moon in the 10th can make it very hard to express emotions and overall allow ones emotions to flow easily. This can lead to bouts of emptiness and loss of direction from time to time seeing as how in a way our emotions are what fuel is to take action and to find our ways through the world. Another note worthy aspect is the bouts of apathy and melancholy that are ever so present with this position for the moon.
There can be a strong emotional desire to be recognized and the lack of it can make the native extremely lethargic and irritable emotionally. Success can come in any form for them :) seriously this doesn’t always have to be tied to work or careers like everyone thinks. This success can be in the form of starting a family. Helping others in need. Caring for the populace in some way. Cleaning ones house. Playing a sport. Finding stability in friendships or relationships! Their is a vast amount of accomplishments that can be fulfilled and many can depend on the moon sign involved!
Ex a moon in Sagittarius in the 10th house may be in need of accomplishment in the form of traveling somewhere new and doing something they’ve always wanted to do. Hiking! Camping! Doing something carefree. Helping others be carefree and so on.
A Aquarius moon in the 10th house may be in need of social interactions and group work to feel accomplished! Learning to communicate with newer types of people. Learning more ways to keep an open mind. Constructively learning how to use your emotions and express them. Humanitarian work. ( a friend of mine had this placement and traveled to Kenya where he worked at a church their for a week and also took care of the children there and also helped teach them and the experienced really revived and renewed his spirit emotionally)
That being said this position grants one a bountiful amount of emotional strength and makes one both aloof and seemingly detached and extremely intimidating due to the intense amount of emotional control and stability to their emotional nature that’s added with this house position.
They vibe well with people whom are serious and grounded and have earthy energy! They also have a similar energy to that of cap moons no matter the sign involved! But overall this grants a level of maturity to their emotional nature.
Aries moon in the 10th house(I have this)will make a usually impulsive and fast tempered moon sign much more observant and contemplative of overly dramatic emotional reactions they may be scheming. They will still be impatient and youthful scattered individuals but they will also be very selective of when they allow this to shine through! They also are more aloof then the average Aries moon and tend to be a lot more reserved with their more lively side until a level of stability and trust has been reached. This also adds a level of calm and earthy essence to their fiery emotional nature that keeps it from blazing.That being said earth and fire still cause volcanos so mind you this position can hold in their anger due to a higher level of patients but once it reaches peak it’s a madhouse. Melancholy runs high a heavy with this pair.
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Taurus moon in the 10th house. Now this position is likely to be a bit more mundane and calmer for the Taurus moon being in a fellow earth house! This will mainly add an already sturdy and slow pace to the Taurus moon and add a intense ambitious streak to the moon. There’s also a more reserved and closes of nature added to the more open Taurus moon and an added need for complete and total security as well as trust associated with this position for Taurus moon. The more loving and sensual qualities of Taurus moon won’t be invisible but they will be behind a screen of detachment. A noticeable seriousness and perceptiveness accompanies this position as well. The native is still a stubborn bull and still fun loving and easy going but with an added need for results and real ness.
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Gemini moon in the 10th house. Okay now for this combo their is going to be such a deep free vs trapped theme going on. These natives are going to be jumpy,skitty and energetic one moment and completely silent, brooding and passionless in the other. This isn’t a bad thing at all it’s merely the nature of Gemini! Wherever Gemini is it’s twin follows. And the twin usually carries the energy of the house that it’s in while Gemini carries its own bubbly nature. But here we have a clash between a spacious and fun loving nature and a more strict and studious nature. So these natives can be far more grounded and feet in the ground then most Gemini moons. They can also be far more reserved with expression of their inner thoughts and various sparks of innovation either deeming them as not important or not feeling as though they need to be expressed. They are still fun and quirky and ever changing moon in Gemini but with a touch of realism to their behavior and a dose of misunderstood biker boy and gal trying to make sense of a world hell bent on shuffling everyone in a line.
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Moon in cancer in the 10th house. So now we approach an opposition. These individuals are bound to show fluctuations in their emotional character and at times can be at odds with their emotions and what should and shouldn’t be felt. This position for cancer moon can hurt as it can put a heavy magnifying glass on the cancer moons many many bubbling feelings that need to be expressed and felt. This will at times cause this native to be even more closed of and hard to read then the average moon in cancer(whom I mind you are already very to themselves about their feelings) but not only this it adds a level of seriousness and intensity to their emotions and can make their emotions on the more darker and serious side. They can be heavy and intimidating and be a bit overwhelming once their emotions are able to be released. They are still nurtures and sensitive like all moon in cancers and still emotionally perceptive and deep but being in the 10th adds a heavy duty to what’s expressed and how it’s
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Moon in Leo in the 10th house. Here we have a very very very strong position for a Leo moon. These natives can be a bit power hungry and have no problem getting in a position of it. They have a strong amount of will and can be a bit more cold and cunning then most lunar lions and have a bit more of a “structured” means of expression their radiance. And at times they can be on the more intense side of things. They can still be the demanding and attention craving lunar Leo’s still wanting to protect and love those whom they care for but they can also be very choosy and picky if who is worthy of that. Unlike most lunar Leo’s a few compliments and dashes of attention won’t be enough to lower the walls of this version of moon in Leo and if anything they can be much more aware of how manipulative and easily used they can become by a couple of well placed compliments which is why they can be a bit more detached. They will still be warm as loving and especially more patient then most Leo moons but make no mistake at all they will explode like a raging forest fire when pushed to far and like Aries in this house they will be “ruthless”
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Moon in virgo in the 10th house! So here we have another earthy combo. Now Virgo moons have a strong desire to both serve and provide for others. They I think out of all of the moon signs besides Pisces moons do truly care for others and want to be able to help and be of service if at all possible and when they open up and really feel comfortable and stable enough will showcase this Martyr soul hidden inside; but being in the house of cap their can be a more darker and closed energy. They can be very strict and candid with their emotional expression and can be a little less warm then most moon in virgos. And they can also like lunar Leo’s in the 10th be a lot more selective of whom they deem savable and or worth their efforts. Their need for perfection is made even more intense when in this house and can become an obsession if their not careful to realize that not everyone is mature enough to reach those demands. They can be more cynical and straight to the point then most moon in virgos and have a more darker view about sacrifice and can view it as more burdening and responsibility than anything else.
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Moon in libra in the 10th house. Now some say libra is exalted in Saturn. I agree. Both seek order and balance in some way or form from the world and their natures to achieve this aren’t so far away from one another. Moon in libra tend to naturally be much more intense and “collective” then their sun sign counter part and truly do feed from others and live for those interactions. While libra moons can be more secretive and darker then their sun counter parts they truly do seek peace and are normally passive and easy going much like Taurus moons. Libra moons in the 10th can be more serious and authoritarian like and maybe even diplomatic when it comes to emotions and their overall presence. They take interactions with others very seriously and don’t like fickle And or insincere connections with others. They can be very blunt and vey forward unlike most libra moons and they don’t like game playing either. They can give you the dryest and eeriest dismissal if you cross them and they are very ambitious. This is a very old renaissance position.
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Moon in Scorpio in the 10th house. Ok so these natives are VERY VERY INTENSE. Now I know I’ve said this about many of the signs here because it is a very intense position for the moon period but when you put Scorpio moons whom are with out a doubt a whole different ball game from their sun in Scorpio/sun in the 8th/sun conjunct Pluto counter parts it can be a very powerful pair. They can be very icy and cold and seemingly detached from any emotional expression. They hold their emotions even tighter to their chest and for no reason do they let it show. This can add a level of stability to moon in scorpios more turbulent and wild emotions. This also can in a way place a control and restraint energy on thoughts of sexual nature that moon in Scorpio may desire and in turn may make sexual intimacy and or intimacy in general seen as something that must be earned and worked for after much time! So although sex is used as a means to further connect emotionally for most moon in Scorpio here it’s seen even more so with burden and duty. Jealousy/anger/lust/obsession/Possession all take on new meanings here. They all become associated with “lower characteristics” and since Saturn is the teacher and father these tendencies are often magnified to the native and made aware so many times these moon in scorpios will be much more cautious and watchful of the very steep edge they could fall off anytime if they allow their emotions to take over. All though it’s a semi easy place for Scorpio moon it calls for a lot of growth.
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Moon in Sagittarius in the 10th house. Alright so I’ll be honest here. Moon in Sagittarius can be hard to spot mainly because they have a more quiet and introverted nature then that if their sun counterpart. But moon in Sagittarius naturally have a carefree and expansive optimistic outlook no matter who they are. “Things just fall in place” that being said when fire meets earth as I’ve said it creates a tension that is ever so present. These guys won’t be nearly as reckless or Willy nilly as most moon in Sagittarius. They will be a lot more emotionally poised and emotionally intimidating. They will be a mixture of luck vs realism and much like their opposite they can be bubbly and endlessly engaging one moment and seemingly disinterested and closed of in the same moment. They are also less empathetic and even more self concerned then most Sagittarius moons. They tend to live in their own sphere and can project a very strong will to get by in the world! They also can be very inspiring and loving when they get to trust someone albeit that strong and overwhelming emotional presence doesn’t diminish aha.
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Moon in Capricorn in the 10th house. Ole ole so Capricorn is soooo comfortable here. Unlike its opposite there’s a lot of harmony here! Intact more then most moon in capricorns these natives can be pretty chill and relaxed for the most part and even fairly readable due to the doubled nature of the energy here. That being said the typical reserved and emotionally cool tendencies already present with moon in caps naturally will be even more so doubled here!! Also I’d like to add these natives can struggle expressing their emotions or feeling comfortable to let them out! They can be rather dominate and proud while being aloof and icy in a seething hard to understand way. They also take emotions and situations seriously but that being said they are super dependable and trustworthy and very very loyal when they feel like it’s been long enough to trust you.
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Moon in Aquarius in the 10th house. Alright so as I said I know someone with this position and from my experience this position for moon in Aquarius is very noticeable. It doesn’t take away the normal uniqueness,quirkiness and goofy nature of the Aquarius moon but it does create a similar situation as mentioned with Sagittarius and Gemini where it can make the person a bit more turbulent with how their emotions are expressed. I’ve actually noticed that bit can make the Aquarius moon native switch from from childish and jokey one moment to serious and mature the next. Theirs a heavy duty assigned to all things humanitarian and this includes things such as friendships:church:cults and so on. All things governed by Aquarius that are normally important to Aquarius moons including being different and rebellious are scrutinized and analyzed to the bone here. Emotions are even more detached here and at times even avoided and locked away or sectioned. Their can be severely unhealthy emotional coping mechanisms here as Saturn is even further restricting Uranus loose emotional expression. There can also be a deep rooted sensitivity ever present with this position as well That rivals moon in Aquarius in the 4th house due to the heavy and sensual nature of this house which cause the native to need and carve intimacy albeit in a detached way. These natives are still fascinating and vast like most Aquarius moons but are more serious and mature then most and tend to be very grown about how they deal with emotions and are always fascinated by “emotional expression”
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Moon in Pisces in the 10th house. Oh boy so we have our last one. So here Pisces out of all the water moons is well placed here. Let me explain why. These natives are normally lacking in grounding emotionally and tend to have very powerful and profound receptivity to the world which makes Pisces moons so beautiful but basically being in the 10th it creates a imagination and spirit vs reality and body type of theme and makes the Pisces moon individuals a bit more on the closed of side and a bit more emotionally ambiguous to the outsider looking in. They tend to also be a lot more realistic and grounded emotionally then most Pisces moons and especially more cautious and observant of others motives and their energies and often times keeping their distance from anyone that irritates their energy. Their Neptunian vibration mixed with the earthy collective of Saturn makes them much more inclined to be not only receptive spiritually but receptive physically via the senses. They also can crave physical intimacy and physical relation as now their emotional nature is in tune with the world. They can be very aloof and intense as well overall. They have a strong need to care for others but can also be driven by validation and acknowledgment for their efforts(not in a conceded way mind you. More like in a “do I matter” type of way)
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As a last note these were observations I’ve made from articles/personal interactions and watching a lot of videos and interviews aha so I could gather some accurate information!
That being said I myself having my moon in the 10th; Aries at that is a beautiful experience it really grounds and keeps my sometimes Volatile and more impulsive nature in check. Having your moon in the 10th is such a voyage of emotional growth that never seems to stop as it opens up such a structured and endless window of how to “do it better” when it comes to your emotions! And for anyone with this I hope you don’t think this is to downgrade or attack your moon signs! All your moon signs are magical and special in their own way and in relation to you. That being said this position takes time and strength to master so always remain diligent and Saturn will reward your hard work!
#mine#moon in the 10th house#Aries moon#Taurus moon#Gemini moon#cancer moon#Leo moon#Virgo moon#libra moon#Scorpio moon#Sagittarius moon#Capricorn moon#Aquarius moon#Pisces moon#astrology post
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