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thank you scalpho for tagging me in wip wednesday!! apologies it took so long, but i appreciate it very much š«¶ i also have no idea how to do these bwehaha
here is a sneak preview of the "deliver us from evil" prologue!
The sunrise is beautiful. Somber darkness bleeds through to reveal a mellow orange in the skies above. The frosted mountains peer down upon the sleeping city nestled in its valley. Its presence blends this newfound light with a gentle blue hue, finally bringing life to these muted layers of snow. How peaceful it seems. Each role is fulfilled with such grace, nearly untouched by human turmoil. The morning wind bites. Its teeth fiercely graze Kaiās cheeks. Every inhale aggravates his scarred throat, still sorely scraping against his lungs after sprinting to the Chidouin residence. Tending to the family within had allowed him a brief reprieve, but standing in the crisp air again lights the tender wicks aflame. Once the door behind him opens, a familiar stride hits the wooden patio and echoes through the hollow floor beneathāfor as deliberate as it appears, Kai notes a slight weight upon the right leg. A hand suddenly meets his shoulder, and only then does he glance beside himself. Master Chidouin settles at his left side, finally resting his briefcase before the stairs. With his hand free, Hikari pulls out a cigarette pack and takes one for himself, offering another for his assistant. Shaking his head, Kai instead asks: āIs Atsuko ready?ā āJust about,ā and the words scarcely leave his lips when he ignites the lighter. āSheāll be alright,ā Kai promises, tentatively raising his hand to rest upon his elderāsāfirmly clasped upon his shoulder, as though he fears to lose his support. Ever slightly, Kai inclines his head Hikariās direction. āIn a half hour alone, she has regained her strength.ā Hikari exhales, letting the smoke trail off in a bitter whisper. The acrid taste stings Kaiās tongue, though he quickly suppresses the rising cough. It disperses into the cold dawn, its source clear as the day to come: this is the second seizure Atsuko has had within four days, meaning they cannot hold off on their intended appointment with Asunaro any longer. It is only natural for Hikari to rely on this habit more than before, even if it betrays the unspoken worry eating away at him. The sight is a painful one, knowing aloud the most heāll ever allow is: āI know.ā Though the phrase exists as an effort to reassure, those few words plant an inexorable dread in Kaiās chest. Even so, when Hikari lets go of his hand to bring him into a half-hug, Kai finds it difficult to cling to anything but the warmth of his embrace. āAsunaroās got it handled.ā As if an ember has broken from his hearth, it burns upon Kaiās chest with abrupt guilt. His fists curl around the railing.
i am evidently extremely normal about their interactions few and far between. one of the only chapters that hikari is still alive...
in any case! i'm tagging (no pressure) @its-captain-sir , @dyke-mecha , @corvidcrowned , @starrycluster , @logicroute , @room-of-lies , @strawberryjamsara , @riggedbones , @azurehaiku , @aforgottenballad , and @aueua if you'd like to! along with anyone else who wants to do this <3 (it'd probably be best to make your own post though, so this doesn't get too long :D)
#BARELY WEDNESDAY... BUT. IT'S FINE <3#& i hope you dont mind being tagged ;u; i usually just leave it as a 'anyone who sees this!' thing but i want to make an effort to interact#a little more here and there; esp since actual messaging has been much more. difficult as of late#but i still appreciate all of your works & think of them fondly often <3#i cut out a long rambling here but. gestures... oh also -#though i know a few people i've tagged here don't often share their writing... gently looks at you. still curious & would love to see more.#tag me if/when you do this šļø#jestersvaguely#mcfdau#my wips#also: katniss you can also do this if you see it / are so inclined btw. i just never know which blog to tag aehaha
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Hey, normal people anon 1 again āļø
(Firstly, thanks for your reply to my last message, didn't want to clog ur inbox as I didn't have very much to add but really appreciate the thought you always put into your replies and thanks for validating my being a fast reader - I was on the top table for silent reading in primary school.)
Absolutely living for all your headcanon posts!! Especially love the parenting ones - I've been trying on+off to write a fic abt Chrissy and Eddie becoming parents and also think their first pregnancy would be unplanned and that Chrissy would find the idea of having a girl difficult and stressful, worrying that she wouldn't be able to raise her without putting any of her own struggles on her, esp in a world that is so primed to reinforce even the slightest worries about weight and looks and being "good".
If you're still doing them, I'm really interested in hearing a little more about Eddie's low days/periods in the first one's free universe. I know we got a beautiful look into it in wanna make you feel better but I wonder how it may have changed (if at all) over the years. Obviously, Chrissy has shown repeatedly (and explicitly stated) that she wants to feel useful so I wonder if that does anything to mitigate Eddie's embarrassment/feeling like a burden (the lines "He wants to be easy. He wants to make it easy." when he's telling Chrissy she doesn't have to stay and help in wmyfb actually break me), because he at least knows that she will feel good that she's able to care for him. And then also, how does it change now that they are working adults who have to like pay bills and buy food. Originally Chrissy says they can just stay in bed and ride it out as long as he needs but are they able to afford them both taking time off work at the same time? If not how do they deal with that? Idk it's something I've been thinking about since the mention that Normal Couple Days are instated automatically every time it happens in drooling on the tile and would love to hear more!
Alternatively, if it's mainly just the same as wmyfb or you just want a more alternate universe-y idea, recently I've been having immense amounts of fun building an elaborate universe with pop-princess Chrissy and Corroded Coffin frontman Eddie in a battle for the number 1 spot so would really enjoy your take on that.
hiii!!!
omg your fic sounds really sweet!!! please keep me updated if u want!!!
i'm gonna focus on the middle portion of your ask, and just write a lil answer instead of like listing headcanon if that's okay! i think that honestly chrissy's sort of compulsion for usefulness is mainly explored when they're actively interacting in that power dynamic play they sometimes do. i think that when eddie is in a mental health crisis or low point, chrissy stays pretty by the book and attentive and steps away from her like repeated "tell me i'm good, am i being good, do you like me, did i earn this" sort of persona.
emotionally speaking, i think it probably still bugs eddie that he is being a "burden" to chrissy (at least that's how he sees it).
that SAID i think that it probably mitigates some embarrassment on the physical, tangible care part. it's not like when he's having a low period suddenly chrissy takes less pleasure in caring for him, running their house, cooking, etc. so he probably doesn't worry about that as much as he would've originally.
and as for the idea of "oh we'll just do this forever", i don't think chrissy ever meant that, i think it was sort of like a way of trying to relieve the stress. i thought of it sort of in the same way some panic attack reduction practices are like paradoxical, where you tell yourself, "okay well my heart's just going to explode and i really am going to die this time and here's me accepting it" and once you really believe it the panic attack stops. in a similar sense chrissy, i think, was trying to get eddie out of a sort of elongated stress cycle over his depressive episode. "what if i never get better" being a paralyzing thought, so instead it can be like "what if i just don't think about that right now and just think about drinking this fucking glass of water", if that makes sense? none of this is like airtight or professional but chrissy is also 19 in 1987 lmao so like, she's not a doctor she was just trying something.
but to your point of how it works later and further in their life with careers and stuff, i bet it's sort of the same! she just lets him be in his episode, and if he's like "no this is really the time i never get out of it" she probably says something like "alright sure that's fine, i'll work something out for us". not because she actually thinks that'll happen, but so his brain doesn't have to focus on that one stressor when he should just be focusing on surviving.
i have never written so meta about my writing ever in my life lmao this is so wild thank you all for indulging me!
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hellooooo my legacy loves !! i hope lifeās been treating you all well ! i know right now things are still pretty difficult ( as been all of 2020 tbh ), so i just wanted to flood the dash w a little positivity !!Ā you know, sometimes i feel bad because it seems that i canāt connect with everyone as much as iād like, and it sucks !! but between my spotty activity at times and bad response times i didnāt want you to think i loved you all any less. so !!! below you will find a love letter to all of you lovely muns as well as some individual comments about my favorite thing about your musesĀ everybodyĀ !Ā also, if you have lgc friends who arenāt really dash scrollers feel free to share this with them so that they can see !! anyways, go ahead andĀ enjoy šš
dear legacy,
okay - let me start by saying - i care for you sooooo so much !! and that goes for ALL of you reading this !! even if weāve never talked, or you just joined, or we talk like every other month but never seem to catch each other at the right time ? i care for you !!! and donāt you ever forget it. honestly, legay is one of the healthiest places iāve been in to develop my muse in a safe space, void of any judgement or just weird vibes. and that has to do with all of you, and iād like to thank you for that !! our mods, of course, get a special hug for all that you guys do - i know that things can get hard, and we test your patience sometimes ... i get it !!Ā but to us, youāre kinda like our rp parents ?? we might nag, joke, and annoy but itās all out of love, we promise ahaha !! anywho, once again everyone iāve met in legacy, has no lie been so special to me ?? and i want you guys to know that !! literally all of you, even if it was just a quick message, have made an imprint on the great rp experience iāve had here and iād like to thank you for that ! and no this isnāt me leaving, i promise iām gonna stick around for a loong time to come ahaha. but honestly, who wouldāve thought ? i was bouncing around from rp to rp, and i didnāt recall, if iām being hoenst, expect anything to come out of me giving this place a shot for the 2nd time ? but iām so grateful to have gotten such a wonderful experience that made me not want to leave. thereās always things to do, muses to meet, and itās crazy how well everyone keeps the dash flowing ! iām always excited to look at what you and your muses are up too, and honestly iām lowkey invested in all their little relationships lol ?? but thatās what makes this place so special ! the friendships, the enemies, the romance, and everything in between has made this into such a unique writing atmosphere to be a part of. so for that, i say thank you. and hereās to more legacy for years to come !!
now for the special portion of my letter !!! in alphabetical order, you will find a compliment of mine for your muse below !! phew, here i go :
(Ā and pls ... if i forgot u ... i apologize 20000x !! PLEASE tell me lol !! obviously this is for muses who are here at the time of writing this 10/2/2020, and i may update ! but if your muse is here at that time and you donāt see them PLEASE tell me i want to write them something but i might have accidentallyĀ deleted someoneās in the process of writing so many ! )
phunsawat kannikaĀ first of all i have the fattest crush on her fc ojoijjoioij !! anyways, i love the commitment to all her pages, all her character inspos are my favorite, and iām really interested to see her adjustment to korea ! i think sheās doing a great job already and will show that she can go even further !
yoon ariaĀ i havenāt got to say it yet but i LOVE how much of a meme she is oijoiiooij !! esp since sheās a model, itās fun to have one whoās this cool model on camera but honestly so real and fun ?? like it gives her so much depth and iām sure sheāll develop a loyal fanbase of like-minded goofs ? i want her and nari to interact tbh haha !!
lee benjiĀ my KING ! i love seeing benji develop his sense of purpose and try to see what he wants to become in the long run, and also how heās stayed true to himself even after mocing to a whole different country ! and of course, his commitment to caring for others !
pongsak teeĀ i ship jinseo and tee oijojoijoij !!!!!! anywho we love the thai representation, i really have enjoyed seeing teeās progress over the past few months and how heās adapting to slowly coming into the starlight ? it seems heās still managed to maintain his kindness and i really enjoy that about him !
im nari is void because she is my muse but i love her very much hee hee !!
kang eunho first off as iām writing this i see eunhoās first words for his babysitting solo is him flipping out over how cute babies are and i just think thatās adorable lol. but anywho ! eunhoās such a little sunshine and def gives me baby energy ?? light of my life. heās like legacyās daily dose of vitamins !
im bomi hana ... my favorite girl who iām in love with ojjojjoijioji !! i think hana is so weird and goofy in the BEST ways and sheās an example of someone whoās not a famous girl, but a girl who happened to get famous ? i love her for her quirks and all her uniqueness, gamer girls ftw, 10/10 main character material !
hwang minjun i also love shinha and minjun too lmao !!! they are ... v cute !! i love how warm minjunās heart is from what iāve seen, and how open and accepting he is to all types of people and welcomes them to his warm fuzzy heart !!! also i would like to personally thank him for taking max in when they were in tokyo max DOES NOT deserve !
kim jinah ah i love her sm !! i know it sounds like max talking, but i love how sheās basically one of the bros lmao ?? but really ! i love her dually embracing of her cuter side and her more casual one, and how she just seems like the type of person you can have a drink and a good talk with ? and her interactions w junghwan stand out and give her an unexpected soft side !
lee yushin i feel like yushin is the younger brother we all wish we had but donāt deserve !! just a real fresh breath of air, definitely a little goofy but just as sweet ?? has the capability to win over even the coldest muses hearts ! and i am rooting for actor yushin 100%. you got this bud !!!!
kim nami somehow nami always pops up first on my dashboard but iām not mad about it at all lol !! and i think nami is actually very multi-dimensional ! she already seems pretty sure of where she wants herself to go, and i think sheās going to make a really good senior to mentor junior trainees once sheās debuted for a bit ! she def will come correct !!!Ā
lin yue the way iām SO invested in guessing what sheās eating but never can .... ahh !! also she loves martial arts which means nari would love her if she knew her uwu. anyways to me sheās quite the baddie, i feel like sheās got her toes dipped in a lot of things and therefore will be very versatile in what she can do ? i really love that ( outside of her outstanding visuals ) she actually has a v good personality and niche interests !
ahn dohwan i have promised myself i wouldnāt put any emphasis on fcs but since vernon is one of my ults i literally have to say: TASTE. anywho lmao !! dohwan gives me cafe boy vibes ?? hear me out. could totally see him making someone a macchiato while listening to their problems and offering advice ? he just seems like a v good listener & adviser ! i think once he debuts for real for real heās gonna have a lot of bf material made by fans haha !!
leong charlotte first of all i just need to comment i saw a while ago on the dash when charlotte covered i wait and that was ?? iconic ??? we stan ??? streamday6pls ahem anyways ! her being in a band itself makes her an instant baddie, but beyond that she also seems v kind & passionate from what iāve seen ! sheās got the cute & the fierce, and because of that i think sheāll be fierce competition in the industry once she debuts !
choi max is my muse however as my first bb here i love him deeply heart heart !!
jung ahin i will not lie i did not know seungwoo before i saw ahin, then realized he kinda looked like wonwoo and started to simp ?? IOJOIJOJ anyway this is more of an ooc note but thank u ahinās mun for bringing me to the light šanyways !! i want ahin to do more things to make himself happy bc i think he really is this close to living his best life !! i want something really really good to make him super happy yk ? also i support his english learning journey !
kang jaemin HI ME REALIZING I NEED TO MESSAGE U BACK IāM SORRY SCREECH anyway !! he has a very warm presence, i feel like even when he debuts heāll be the approachable type ? but also heās just so smiley and i love it !! such a little fuzzball !! i do feel like more is going on in jaeminās head than people would think, though ??
lee jaewoo listen jaewoo is my baby ok ... and heās nariās too ! also btw did you ever get that birthday text from her own his acc ? anyways iām going wayy of topic letās regroup lol !! i honestly admire the level of passion and drive he has so young, and heās already come so far ? jaewoo has a lot of love in his heart for people and i hope he keeps that even after years of acting ! he truly is the light of lgc agency uwu !
seo yura i feel like yura is v real ! i think she only hides the things she feels are nessescary about herself, but to me she still comess off as really genuine ? it seems she has many types of connections present in her life, which i really like ! i think sheāll do really good at holding her own once itās time for her official debut and iām excited to see whatās ahead !
kang jun i think jun doubts himself far more than he realizes just how much heās capable of !! jun is so adorable and he might hate me for saying that but it is what it is !! i donāt think heās recognized his true power yet, and though thatās sort of good at humbling him, i think he will be a beast when he becomes fully confident ?? and i believe he will !! i think getting a proper fanbase will show him just how much he can do !
Ā ji haneul okay haneul made it to type zero, so tbh he already has his life together more than half of us ?? IOJOIJOJ no but for real i think haneul is a trueĀ āØprofessional āØeven if he wouldnāt believe me if i told him ? although HE might not be so confident in it, i think haneulās growing into his more mature self well and itāll actually help him in the long run as he starts his journey in the idol industry !
kang jina you know what ? i think jina would be a really good leader in her group, if she were to debut as an idol ! i think she has really good communication skills and seems to just vibe with everyone around her ? which is important, as a leader ! but i also feel like she could lighten the mood and kay down the rules depending on which is needed ? thatās just how i feel ! i think sheād do well <3
seo geonwoo first of his theme is so aesthetically pleasing wow ?? anywho ! i do really enjoy geonwoo and honestly need to pay him more attention !Ā i honestly respect the fact that he knows his own power, and isnāt afraid to be confident in himself ? he just seems v sure of how he wants to live his life which makes him seem v stable, and def in the right direction ! i think he most often knows whats best for himself, and thatās a really valuable skill to have !
ok miyoung first off i DEFININTELY whole-heartedly ship miyoung and hunji, i do !! š but yes miyoung def has romcom protagonist vibes, and i mean that in the best way possible ?? like sheās got quite a lot of things going on for her simultaneously, all while trying to discover things about herself too ?? i empathize with the level of chaos in her life but i think sheās handling it all very well and itās exciting to read about !
son nabi nabi my ANGEL. i didnāt even know nabi too well prior to us plotting but now iām so glad that i do !! she has the kindest heart and is willing to go out of her way, even for people she isnāt that close to, just out of the good of her heart ? and i think thatās so powerful ! sheās so baby and i vow to protect her from all the horrors of the entertainment industry because sheās a prime example of light amongst darkness !
ahn jaehwa you knowww jaehwaās my girl š i just love her adventurous spirit, and how she definitely is filled with more mischief than she may show on first impression ? i think she can use that to her advantage, and it will translate really well as charisma !! her and maxās first interaction showed me just how much of a daredevil she can be and i love it ! psa, we need to plot again !Ā Ā
lee yohan first of yushina nd yohanās broken friendship is some .... tea šµ iām intrigued ... really i am !! i kinda wanna give him a massage chair for his birthday because i feel like there really is a lot of internal conflict going on in his head ? def hoping he achieves the dream od getting famous before heās forced to enlist and drop his dreams, and in return for my support i am expecting free starbucks coffee on him, lol !!
bae nathan i honestly didnāt even realize just how iconic nathan is until we started plotting ? him and max share a lot of similarities, which i love, but beyond that he just is such a real dude who kinda just seems ... ok with being not perfect ? and i enjoy that ! heās accepting the fact that he makes mistakes and knows that thatās ok. i feel like in the future heād have a fire podcast ?? like i just feel like itād be so real and entertaining !
han allie first of all, happy ( belated ? ) birthday to allie !!! second of all, producers in general are always just so interesting to me ? i feel like even though sheās still finding it, allieās rather focused on creating a sound for herself and making it different ? def has the drive to make her dreams a reality, and i know sheāll do well ! allie, fighting !
kim junghwan i think junghwan has a heart of gold ! heās good at working with others and def would have nice personality to just sit and talk about life with ! i think he also has a lot of hobbies and interests that are v cute and soft boi, so heās definitely gonna attract the soft stans !! heās another person i feel would make great leader material some day. also ship him and jinah all the way š
kim alex first off i LOVE luna she is my pride and joy .... i feel v embarrased i think we were supposed to thread and i forgot ! but that beside the point !! i feel like he does have crazy duality ?? at some points itās likeĀ āwow, nice man, pet parent of the yearā and other times itās like āwow this man is wilding did he just say that ??ā but ... the way i love both !! itās so interesting seeing his conflicts and how he deals with other people, but maybe thatās the messy mun in me š
ahn jaesun jaesun !! a king. first off i said it to danbiās mun before but i am just putting it out there i love him & danbi together i do, i ship it !!! secondly i think, maybe because heās been around for a quite awhile, but you ( the mun ) seem to have a very good grasp on his character ? i think heās had really significant but gradual development, sort of coming out of his shell and expanding the things heās willing to take on ! and i love that for him.
yoon shinha let me repeat that minjun and shinha - i ship it !!! i donāt even know hwo to describe it but i just love the energy shinha exudes !! itās fun, playful, and full of energy, and i think thatāll transfer really well on stage !! heās the type of guy whoās just down for whatever and i feel like he could befriend anybody if he really wanted to ! i like that about him and think heāll have no problem getting along w whoever he works with in the future !
kyo miyeon my queen .... oh how i love her ! š£ā¤ i think miyeonās got a cold exterior with a soft interior ?? like sheās sososo composed and a little cold on the outside, but in reality sheās just over here loving animals and the simple things in life ? i think once she debuts sheās going to have fans have v passionate debates about whether they like her cool or soft side more since theyāre both so prominent and so good !!
lĆøvehjerte emil first off emil being from denmark and his name immediately stood out to me when he was accepted, and to me makes him v unique ? also doyoung rights ;) i like how well he seems to adapt to the situations presented to him, even if theyāre new and unfamiliar to him ! i think he has his ability to keep his cool, but is still learning a lot from being a trainee and proving he can definitely grow beyond what heās already accomplished !
jung miso miso is the baddest b no one can change mt mind oijoijoijo !!!!! but no for real i always have admired miso even if i havenāt got to interact w her on my muses too much ? at first i def got vibes of the popular girl everyone wants to be just like ? but iāve realized sheās a loot more ! she has ( shrek vc ) layers, and i think itās good to see someone who has a lot of things people would see as ideal, but without being unobtainable !
nam yunho yunho intrigues me so much !! iām sad max hasnāt gotten to interact with him yet lol !! i feel like in this i keep comparing muses to character types but - just take a journey with me ok soijioiofoijfio !! i so see yunho as one of those guys in the movies about small town whoās family has has a business there for years and heās the chill guy who shows the main character around town ? AND THATāS A GOOD THING LMAO ! i feel like heās just immensly chill and always is just vibing and down for a good time ! <3
jo jiwoo i think jiwoo is so exceptionally cute !! but donāt underestimate her because to me she also does have a very fiery spirit ?? and i love it !! def would have the potential to be a maknae on top and i am here for it !! but since she wants to be an actor i def see her even stealing the hearts of the staff ?? the best example of a puppy in real life iāve ever seen !
na sera first of all being a twin is automatically cool so thereās that ?? but also !! i like how hard sheās fighting to prove her own, individual self worth ! iām definitely excited to see how sheāll find herĀ āthingā that really riles her up and makes her feel passionate ? and that maybe sheāll decide the idol thing is for her and go forward with it as a career !
min soyoun i think soyounās definitely go the girl next door charm, she defintiely seems like the type who you could be friends with easily, and i think sheāll maintain that even when sheās more famous ! she gives me free spirit vibes, and i think that even if she doesnāt know how, life will somehow work to make sure she always does well ! sheās defintiely proved her individuality and i think sheāll stand out from most around her !
geum danbi ugh danbi ... the way iām obsessed with her ! i mentioned this already but her and jaesun ? cute we ship it !! i am a stan, i am ! anyways i think that danbi is so powerful, and i donāt mean that jokingly ! she does hold a very commanding presence for me, and i really respect her resilience in continuing to fight for her debut, even after being discouraged numerous times in the past ! i think thatāll make her debut all the more worth it, as she has taken the time to get even better and improve her skills !
jang taesung taesung ... the way i really am fascinated by him ! i donāt even interact w him on my muses but heās still so entertaining to me !! heās so casual and i just enjoy seeing his interactions ? he isnāt afraid to be authentically him, and though he doesnāt really show it in his words all the time heās got a lot of emotions swirling around there ! he do ... he do be messy sometimes i get it ?? heās a lil problematic ?? but it entertains me so we will take it !
song ahri ok i donāt want to claim this bc iām not COMPLETELY sure but do i have permission to ship her and geonwoo .... i saw their thread on the dash and theyāre so cute what šš ( revision : they are together i can say this lol !!! ) anywho onto ahri things ! she just seems like the sweetest person EVER sheās v gentle with her words and actions, and definitely seems like a comforter of sorts ? i think that, whoever she gets close to, would def have her to lean on in hard times ! sheās likeĀ
son seolmi first of congrats on seolmi as the new musical actress !! we need more of them >.< but i feel like when seolmi looks back on her training experience sheāll be very proud of herself ! she has made a lot of improvements over her training period, found her passions, and worked to prove herself ! but i think, although sheās working v hard, sheās also doing twice as good at maintaining her friendships and being good to the people around her !
seo minseok minseok a true angel !! i know we havenāt gotten to write together in a while, but seeing his thread w nari we had i saw how kind he was ! heās loyal to the people he calls friends, open to trying new things, and i think in the future when he gains experience heāll be a really great mentor to the people who he precedes !Ā
oh max ok first off i feel like i cannot not say this everytime i see him on the dash or a thread with him iām constantly in a state of confusion about which max it is oijoioiiojaojoi ?? but !! iām despite their names, theyāre actually pretty different ! because unlike max choi, oh max is has a very loving and warm personality, and even though he comes from money you couldnāt really tell by his personality ?
park dohyun i def want him and max to interact together, side note !! because theyāre both goofs and, of course, we need as many lgc boys connections as we can ! but anywho, i love dohyun, as i feel muses such as him are v necessary ! he definitely provides comic relief, and even though he doesnāt like to reveal his emotions, that just reveals another component to his emotional depth ! even if he isnāt someone who is vulnerable, i think it is great he does his best to make others happy !!
lee jiho i mean can i pls just adopt jiho as my child ?? heās so cute oijjoijoij !! i think all though heās ambitious and knows what he wants in life, heās also realistic with himself and knows what he can expect and how to work toward a clothes ! itās a trait not everyone has so i like that he does ! i think heās also enough of a positive thinker that throughout any troubles he may have, heāll get through it with a nice mindset !
lee hanbyul i think that once debuted officially officially, hanbyul will definitely grow in popularity almost immediately ! sheās already done well at gaining the hearts of fans even when she was a trainee, and with so many friends and opportunities under her belt sheāll get big in no time ! i think sheāll definitely be well known and that sheāll bring multiple fandoms together because itās just hard not to like her !
jung jihye i love jihye !! sheās so raw and rolling with all the punches life has given her ? even after a rocky start to her career, sheās ready to give it a second chance, and although she went through a lot of bullying discovered a newfound love for acting ! i think that her dedication to being happy will show in her passion for whatever she acts in in the future, and iām excited to see how the public perceives her !
tsai sunisa isa is the ultimate chill dude haha !! i think that heās very calm and level-headed, while not coming off as careless ? although heās very casual, he clearly does care about the otherās around him, and i think for him that shows in the little details rather than the big things ? i think heās the type of person who does well at picking up on the energies of others, and noticing small details about them !Ā v v cool šš
shin yeseo u KNOW me and max are collectively whipped for her oijoijoi !!! no but honestly, from what iāve viewed of yeseo from an outside perspective, sheās goes beyond the socially required level of thoughtful ? she really does listen to everyoneās perspective and do what she thinks is best for everyone involved and i really like that ! i also like that the simple things are enough to make her very happy, and that she puts her all into the ones she cares for !Ā
kang yonghwa i love how in love yonghwa is in with life, and how bright his spirit is !! he has such a ... sunshine spirit ? thatās the best way i can put it ! heās just so positive the majority of the time, and i feel he has the ability to see the best traits of others and bring that out of them ! i also love his sense of adventure, and i think heāll be a favorite for fans in no time ! kang yonghwa, 10 / 10, our best boy !!
kim hyunbin hyunbin reminds me of a cartoon character, in the best way ! heās definitely very theatrical, and also has a more playful, teasing side to him ? i think that everyone needs a hyunbin in their life because heās very considerate of the emotions of the people around him, and on top of that has a lot of interests and boosts any social scenario !
choi jinyoung jinyoung ... an angel ! itās so my fault we donāt but we should plot more ! uwu anywho ! first off, happy belated birthday to him ! i noticed that during our to the max thread, despite being a little overwhelmed by human tsunami max choi, he stayed very polite and was open to trying a new experience out, and for that i really gained respect for him ! i think heās a v soft boy but i donāt think heās weak at all, in fact maintaining his kindness for others has shown my just how strong he is !!Ā šš
oh eunhye just like her article says, eunhye has a real knack for entertaining and i think itās already begun to show ! i think her authenticity easily transfers to the camera, and that it makes people love her all the more ? she has the type of hypnotizing personality that makes people want to get to know her, and i donāt think itās coincidence that sheās had the opportunities that sheās had already come to her !
oh gitaek congrats on becoming a producer gitaek !! clap clap !! hehee but i think gitaek is very adaptable ! even in environments when he doesnāt want to do anything, heās going to push through - like dancing, for instance ! also him and hyunbinās dynamic ?? v interesting. iām invested on seeing where it goes ! i think gitaek has a lot of potential, much of which heās already showing, and i think heāll have no problem discovering himself fully and becoming big !
son alec just gotta say i always mix him and alex up on accident i wanna scream oijooi !! but also while scrolling his page and saw this:Ā ā old people are amazing, is the conclusion heās come to yet againĀ ā and i just wanna say i love him for that ojojoioij !! but anyways, alec gives me the vibe of a young adult still sort of finding their way, and i really love that ! he enjoys what he does but still has doubts, and i think that little back and forths very important ! i hope he becomes a super famous actor and achieves all his dreams !
son jieun i love how much jieun cares for her friends !! she was bold enough to straight up call taesung out for mistreating allie and tbh ... kinda in love with that energy ?? i think her bravery goes beyond even just this though, as sheās already tried many new things that others may have strayed away from in fear ! her sense of justice and determination is something i admire and honestly i feel like if it wasnāt for her obvious career path sheād be a great lawyer haha !!
nam jueun itās the way i want to claim that i indeed am one of seojin & jueunās biggest fans ... i am šā but listen !! i have to respect jueun for the way that sheās managed to repair a damaged relationship AND work on herself and her career at the same time ? and both are going good ! sheās also got a real edge to her, and i feel like she doesnāt realize just how cool she is ?? we stan !
park seojin now we alr know ... seojin is one of the muses i am most whipped for in legacy i cannot lie iām sorry !!! listen ,,, i love my tsundere !! heās had exceptional development, but in really small yet significant ways, and heās grown so much in the time heās been here ! in terms of max, heās definitely starting to take on a more nurturing role, and in term of himself, getting a better idea of who he is as an artist and a person and i think thatās gonna really show when his band debuts ! also think heāll be a strict yet incredibly respected mentor when the day comes ? anyways iāll just say i l*ve park seojin and go šš
lee jiae lee jiae, the apple of my eye !! i was astounded how much kindness could be fit into one small body ?? even in situaitons she doesnāt like, she maintains her bright spirit that brings people to her in the first place, and i think that comforts the people around her if theyāre having a hard time as well ! but i think she also does have a bit of a chaotic side when panicked and i do love it i do !! do not underestimate lee jiae everyone i am betting all my money on the fact that she can beat some ass !!
hwang sori first of all her theme made me gasp itās literally so incredibly gorgeous omg ?? but !! the first thing i read was hwang sori is an ugly crier and that made ME ugly cry with laughter LMAOWAOOA !!Ā even though sheās relatively new iāve already come to love how out of the box and unapologetically her she is ! she has so much to offer, both on and off stage, and i know sheās destined to be a star ! iām already so invested and excited to see what she does in the future !
lee aaron aaron !! our dad of the year sobs. of course, my favorite thing about aaron is how nurturing he is ! he has no problem taking care of others, and i think that although itās easy for younger / less experienced trainees to be intimidated by those above them, aaron removes that stigma completely ! truly a gentle soul. my only complaint about aaron is that heās so selfless that i feel he sometimes forget about himself, so aaron please eat more and take care of your health oijoijoioij !!Ā
lee youngmin the way i love youngmin !! i was so touched by his patience when he helped my baby nari get herself together when it came to learning lines for cram school ! it proved to me that heās a v caring person, and even if acting was sort of a sore subject for him, he still went through with helping her ! and that brings me to my next point - congrats for joining the actors youngmin !! i admire him for giving something heās apprehensive about another shot, and iām so incredibly excited to see how it goes for him !
song yifei ok even though i donāt know yifei too well yet seeing her intro did help me see why iām going to love her so much !! i appreciate her adaptation to such an unusual environment like korea, and although iām sure sheās homesick and a little lost sheās already doing her part to adjust to life in korea ! starting so young, i have to admire her work ethic and her strength by not giving up ! iām excited to see what she can offer us all !Ā
hwang minsik ok so !! even though minsik is quite the introvert, i think itās v cool that he has worked past that, and although it may have been uncomfortable, got more comfortable performing in front of others ! i think that being in his head for the majority of the time will actually prove to work in his favor, as itāll be easier to transfer all the emotions heās feeling into his music when he locks down and pursues his dream of being a producer !
tsuchiya mitsuki from what iāve seen, mitsuki seems to be very considerate of others, and i like that she celebrates otherās accomplishments outside of just her own ! the entertainment career can be a very risky and sometimes scary one, but i think that sheās doing a great job at rolling with it and putting her all into forming it into a serious career path for herself !
yamashita ichika i think she put it best - sheās new to korea, but not this world !! i love love LOVE how sure of herself ichika is, and though it may come off as blunt, maybe yāall arenāt just ready to accept the truth sheās spilling ... š lMAO no but for real !! sheās a woman who knows what she wants and i never will be mad at that ! you can never say that ichika doesnāt keep it real and i think thatās something we need to learn from her !
hwang subin i think subin is incredibly self-aware, which really is such a super important trait to have ?? heās had a lot of conflicts over his training period, but heās overcame them, and to me he holds a lot of grace even in those scenarios he has this sort of ... calmness to him ? idk maybe thatās subjective but thatās how i feel ! i think in the end heās going to turn the pain into power, and heāll be one of the people really idolized for their resilience !
kim minjee i feel like along her path to fame, sheās learning all sorts of new things about herself in the industry, and that feeling of self-discovery is awesome ! i think sheās a really good example of the changes people go through throughout their path toward stardom ! i think she does her best to embrace both the highs and lows life brings her, which i think is preparing her to be a really steady person when it comes to being famous !
im hyunjin my baby !! the way i love him beyond measure !! he gets along with max so well and i love how well they balance off each otherās energy ! heās got a boyish charm that helps me remember that yes, a lot of the trainees are still kids at heart, and that reminder is v refreshing ! though a lot has been thrown on him with this trimester, heās been a good sport, and i think heās such an accurate representation of someone whoās growing up in the spotlight ! i think itās enough for me to excuse him mixing up the maxs. šš
okamoto akira what a wonderful soul ugh !! he really did impact nariās heart with his unconditional kindness. i think heās grown even in his time in the rp alone ? heās so kind to others, and i love how he holds interest in other people and their stories ! even though heās still getting adjusted to life in korea, i think heās doing a great job at getting his name out there while making a good impression of himself. but like i said about aaron pls, akira, take care of yourself more !! you deserve the best, heart heart !!
jeon haeun haeun has such an intense drive when it comes to her love for dance and performing, and i hope she never loses that ! itās the most important thing, after all ! sheās got such a spunky personality, which will work in her favor as it will keep eyes on her even after sheās off the stage ! sheās a baby, being so young, but already has proved herself to have a worthy place in legacy, and i think sheās even got the capability to teach the older trainees a thing or two, haah !
park viggo i definitely respect viggo, because of the insecurities that have developed from his biological parents putting him up for adoption, heās shone so brightly already at such a young age ! and i just read his solo w / his encounter with his biological father and - literal chills ?? but .... phew ! iām so impressed by how heās had so many horrible experience influence his life, but not let it overtake him ? heās so strong and if he can handle what life has already thrown at him, i know heāll have nothing but good to look forward to from now on !
techaapaikhun kit i donāt think iāve had the chance to tell you yet .... but god i LOVE kit oijoioi !! heās such a loveable ball of fluff ! he has a very big heart, and i feel like even when he doesnāt know exactly what to do or whatās going on heās still very much ššāØ ?? you would never think heās a foreigner because he just seems in high spirits ! also him and daehyungās interactions ? 10 / 10 in terms of entertainment, definitely deserves a read !
ahn yein i love the short queen energy this woman exudes !! her duality is already quickly becoming my favorite thing about her ?? sheās so this and this ! i truly cannot wait to see how sheāll let her musical style influence the type of music she produces, and i think sheās a producer full of energy who has the potential for being famous for her music and her own personality !
seo yumi though yumi did go through a lot of hardship with her first debut, i really respect her for fighting to prove she deserves a spot in a group for a second time, even if the first time wasnāt even her fault ! i think because of it, even if her lightās dimmed a little, her enhanced discipline will work in her favor, as well as her prior experience, and potentially give her a step up among others ! which, hopefully, will make the hardships she went through not to be in vein !
han insoo insooās gone through quite a bit, and though iād imagine that to be incredibly tough on him, he hasnāt lost his shine ! he still has a brightness to him when interacting around the people he loves, and i think thatās what it takes to be in a band ! i wish nothing but the best for him, because honestly, i think heās just trying to get by and have a good time, and i really have to respect it !
choi jongsuk okay so from what i see jongsuk is a tad manipulative in the way he interacts with people ... and yet ... i stan ? obviously this isnāt a very good trait, but it is entertaining, especially for a messy mun like me haha !! i think, if he wants to, he can actually use his particularly good social skills to his advantage, and become a charmer among his fans !
choi daehyun omg prince daehyun rise !!! i always love the spoiled rich boy types, because to me, they have the most room for growth ! if iām being honest with you as ... awful as heĀ might be i think heās one of those trainees who would 100% give everyone a run for their money ? because if he doesnāt have anything ( beside money ofc ) he has confidence, and well .... confidence is a dangerous thing !! iām really really anticipating seeing how heāll get along with the other trainees, and his journey in legacy !!
chwe hunji phew .... my adoptive son !! i admit i am slightly biased to hunji i am i am what about it !!! šš i gush about him all the time so iāll keep it ( relatively ) short - i donāt think hunji realizes, but given the whirlwind of events thatās happened in less than a year, heās doing a fantastic job of both grieving and growing !! heās been able to look out for those who need him most even in his darkest times, put up with maxās shenanigans even amongst trying to decipher his feelings for him, and adapted to a ever-changing climate that comes with being a trainee in his hardest year ! not to mention how much heās grown since his arrival !! his development ?? chefās kiss !
kang dongwon first of all already massive respect to dongwon for doing school and training at the same time ?? thatās already difficult in itself ! but i think heās taken a lot of risks despite not necessarily wanting to, like expanding outside of activities heād expected that he would do ! itās good for him to dip his toe into numerous places, and heāll be less thrown off if heās asked to do something unexpected in the future. also him & his relationship w his siblings is the best haha !!
park sarang first off seojin and sarang together are such a cool duo !! the concept of siblings in the industry is honestly so cool ?? but anywho ! but i soso admire sarang !! even though she was initially was following her brotherās dream, itās gradually morphed into her own, and she really has developed an individual name for herself, which shows her passion and determinism ! i also love how they have a healthy relationship, even with normal sibling fights, without getting into super super competitive territory ?? that just shows her capability to love & thatās great !
kim jinseo first off !! his familial relationship w shinha ? we love to see it ! cutest cousins on the block ! but what i admire about jinseo is how stable he is ! i think he can help people and handle his own problems without getting too stressed, heās a good problem solver and i think he can calm down and figure out the best way to approach a situation ? also once again him & tee ? cute, we ship it š
kim ara first off, friend of the year award goes to ara for helping hanbyul through her breakup and working around processing her emotions ! and also that sheās pretty mature in handling her own breakup w / nathan ! that brings me to the point that i feel ara is a thoughtful person, who definitely sees the good even in bad scenarios and tries to think of the positives that come out of her life, even if it can be difficult to do so !
jin eunji now we know thatās my queen !!!!! i honestly love seeing eunjiās development, and sheās much more of a deep character than she shows on the outside ?? and thereās even more left for others to discover about her ! sheās trying to work through her shit but I like her because sheās the realest depiction of someone whoās growing - because itās not particularly nice or cute ?? itās rough but itās real, sheās struggling to grow and move through her emotions but sheās growing nonetheless and i love that for her !!!
park seon seon is def the type of girl who is just sort of taking it day by day, and i respect it so much !! she has a lot to discover of herself and what she wants to do, but quite honestly i like that about her !! i think that sheās still young and def doesnāt need to stress about it, and i like that sheās just sort of flowing in whichever direction that life wants to take her ! i can only imagine how far sheāll go when she discovers her true potential !
lim sanghyun i feel like sanghyun really is prepared for any situation thatās thrown at him, even if he feels like he canāt do it !! i mean, since birth heās had tons of bad cards thrown at him, and yet he always manages to turn them into something good ? although it may seem like he doesnāt have good fortune, to me, it seems he has the opposite, because he always finds a way out the trenches !! i think sanghyunās legacyās phoenix !
choi daehyung omg daehyung has been a favorite of mine since he came !! i love peeking at the many relationships he has bc theyāre tbh so interesting !! he's honestly fit to be a main character in a show ? and i think, despite what daehyung thinks, heās grown a lot in the time heās been here ! to me, heās more aware of his emotions, and more reflective of the choices he makes ! sure heās got some things to work on but letās be real .... donāt we all ?
lau mike mike is such a breath of fresh air !! def a roll with the punches kind of guy - reminds me of those popular kids where itās just like ... dang, things always seem to be go well for them ?? iām jealous ?? but i think more of that has to do with mike rather than him just having good luck ! he does good at adapting & working hard, from moving to korea, to changing careers, to now training ! he seems to excel and everything he does and i have no doubt that will help him out in the long run !
li zimeng meng is so pretty !! but sheās also SO much more !! this whole thing of her feeling average, and like she didnāt really stand out in comparison to the other trainees .... itās so real !! and honestly, so good for her ! even though she doesnāt feel special always, i KNOW she is, but i think itās also great she has this good foundation ? because rather than being good at only 1 thing and realizing in the long run she hates it, zimeng has the potential to be super well-versed and i think sheāll be more aware of what she needs to work on to improve !
tsai king truly our king ... and i donāt mean that ironically !! i looove kingās development, i truly love to see it !! though heās still got his pride, i think heās transformed his confidence from blind cockiness to a reason for him to want to work hard and succeed ?? king definitely had things to work on, but he has worked on them, and i think heās truly proved his place in legacy in the long time heās been here !! also thoroughly impressed w how much heās done !
baeĀ dohaĀ i think that if I had to describe doha, it would beĀ ā proceed with cautionĀ ā !! heās a cautious person, i feel, who wants the balance between having a good life and keeping himself grounded ? which is a really good type of personality, and I think it would make him a leader for those around him ! heās also very observant, and i think that will make him much more meticulous of a person as an actor !
song shaun first of all i gotta still thank shaun for doing tiktok dances with max back in the day !!!! that was iconic and i will never forget it lol !! andĀ i'm so glad heās back. anyways, i think shaun is definitely the type of person thatāll stay true to himself even after becoming famous, he seems v carefree, but also w/o not losing that ambition to work hard ??Ā
pongsak arinya arin is so freaking adorable !!! i think sheās like a puppy and I love it !! sheās so curious about the way around her, i think she just loves what life has to offer her and in turn life loves her ?? she has such a playful and optimistic light about her and to me, itās impossible not to want to be her friend !! her fans will easily love her <33
jeon haru to me, haru seems like a team player !! he listens to the input of otherās, and i think before rushing to do what he wants to do, itās in his spirit to think of how his actions affect other people ! and i think thatās shown in how heās babysitting on the show, even though heās a little panicked ! i also think heās a good self-soother, heās good at helping calm himself down and make himself feel better, and to me thatās so great !!
liu jiao I think sheās doing a great job at making her reality one she enjoys ! sheās struggling to find the differences between her dreams and her moms, what she wants and what she doesnāt ! and still, i believe that sheās doing well and spreading love to those around her despite ! i hope she finds full inner peace and that she can live a life of happiness ( and a little wrecklessness tbh ) without any worries !!
#this took SO LONG my arm hurts iojooijoi !!#anyway ... hope u all enjoy !! <33#ily all sm !!! <33#( as told by jada :: ooc. )#( this is our page :: bookmark. )#this is queued bc i'm not home but i'll be on later uwu !
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I have some sensitive questions, and you totally donāt need to answer if theyāre too much, but here they are. Did you ever struggle w internal homophobia? If so, how did you manage to overcome it?? And my last question: any tips for softly breaking it to Albanian parents? I know people are individuals but its still the same culture so..
ā¢ Same anon as before!! I am an 18-year-old girl that was born and raised in the US. Thank you so much, and take as much time as you need to answer.
ā¢ I would also like to add that Iāve struggled with this for a pretty long time now (since I was around 12), so itās not like I realized my preferences just recently. For years Iāve been telling myself that itās just a phase or Iām just starved of affection (so Iām looking for it in the wrong place) or that I just havenāt met the right guy yet. I feel disgusted with myself, and itās very tiring and emotionally consuming. Add in my Albanian relatives on top of it, and Iām just done with it all.
thanks for your patience anon, this last weekās been a bit hectic for me
first offĀ iāmĀ flattered by that first question, bc i was the most self-hating repressed closet gay i knew. i started off as that kid that was like āi donāt have a problem with gay people i just donāt think they should get married and i hate it when they āactā gayā. i went through three boyfriends and two different sexual orientations before iĀ finally accepted i was a lesbian, which took me untilĀ aprilĀ ofĀ last year. so if thatās hard to imagineĀ then i knowĀ iāmĀ doing good for myself, and maybe it can give you some reassurance too
tbh i donāt think any of us can ever actually avoid orĀ stop struggling with internalized homophobia,Ā given that weāre all inundated with those messages every day in big or small ways. iĀ think at best iĀ just learned how to stop listening to it so much. it took me a really long time though and honestly at your age youāre already way ahead of me than i was, the questions youāre asking yourself nowĀ are ones i couldnāt bear to face even in myĀ early 20s
my personal struggle has been very much connected to my family and growing up as a 1Ā½-genĀ albanianĀ immigrant. if your family and upbringing are anything like mine, then you might understand, and theyāre probably just as closely related to your struggle as well. donāt take whatĀ i say here as gospel since this is all from personal experience andĀ iām not even 100% where i want to be yet. but i know how lonely it is for us out there, so iāll try to be as real with you as i can without getting too personal (idk if this readmore will work on mobile so my apologies and just scroll down really fast @ anyone not reading this)
first thing: donāt be in a rush to tell your parents, even if youāre an adult, and especially if youāre still dependent on them. i assume youāre asking for tips because you already know or have reason to suspect that they wonāt take it well. and if youāre still struggling to accept yourself, your parentsā & relativesā opinions are the last thing you need to be worrying about right now (i know easier said than done weāre albanianĀ i Understand but like. trust me)
second: i really think learning how to stop listening to that internalized homophobia is just a slow process of learning to normalize your feelings in opposition to it. truly the most important thing iĀ did for myselfĀ was surround myself with other bi/lesbian women as a way to counter everything else in my life that was telling me to hate myself.Ā the key here is that i did that forĀ years.Ā the logic goes like this: if my world was already and will always be filled with heteronormativity and homophobia, then to fight it, i needed a space i could come back to thatās filled with whatĀ iĀ needed to see and could make it feel as normal as i logically knew it was
iĀ didnāt have the freedomĀ to reach out to others IRL so i sought out bi/lesbian women online and immersed myself in those communities. iĀ filledĀ my online spaces with people like me who could show meĀ every dayĀ that what i was feeling was genuine, normal, healthy, whole, positive, and worth embracing. when iĀ really began to internalize that, self-confidence and assurance just kind of naturally followed, which made it easier to shout down and ignore the Internalized Homophobia Gremlin in my brain
another thing too, and thisāll sound silly.Ā idk if youāre into video games but they were also a big part of my normalization process. i love role-playing games and for yearsĀ i used them as a private, risk-free, judgment-free way toĀ āexperimentā with women and allow my feelings to ārun freeā after repressing/ignoring them for so long.Ā iĀ personally know other LGBT people who discovered themselves in similar ways (through DnD, for example). something to consider if thatās your thing. but media of all kinds can be powerful normalizing toolsĀ too, if you can find decent ones to your likingĀ
i had to beĀ really patient and gentle with myself though, and youāll have to be too bc there really is no quick fix, weāre up against years of internalizing this crap since we were born, basically. do whatever you need to fight against it though, bc there is literally, objectively, nothing wrong with you. you deserve to be happy just as you are, you deserve love and to be able to find it with another woman, and remember youāre never alone in this even if it feels like you are. i think thatās the most powerful reminder
back around to your last question, worry about coming out to your parents when youāre on more solid ground, bc it doesnāt sound like you are rn. everyoneās parents are different but as a general rule iāve found that when trying to broach a difficult subject, you really need to have your back up against a point that you refuse to budge on, and plant yourself there. you can negotiate or make arguments around it but you need that one point that youāre absolutely sure of where youāll always hold your ground
in coming out to them, that point needs to be your identity and everything attached to it, so your confidence and sense of self needĀ to be as solid and unmoving as a fucking mountain so that they canāt dig into you and undermine your conviction. esp bc tbh itās entirely likely that youāll have to have that conversation several times. so thatās why i stress working on yourself first. for your own sake, donāt jump the gun on this
also, itāll be much easier on you if youāre not always stuck under the same roof, or at least not totally dependent on them. and i know thatās tough and complicated because a lot of us never truly āmove outā, per se, and itās normal for us to stay with our parents/family for aĀ veryĀ long time. but if you can find a way, arrange something with friends, etc.,Ā i find it really helps with your generalĀ confidence to know you have somewhere else you can go unconditionally, without restrictions. andĀ i donāt mean ārush to move out as soon as you canā, bc like i said, i know thatās hard on us for many reasons and it may hurt you more than you think it will. but if itās a point you can get to eventually, it does help
after all this, if/when you eventually do decide to come out, i recommend you tell only one of your parents at first. whichever one youāre closer with or find easier to talk to (iād say ideally whoeverās the least homophobic but like. lmao). do it privately and when youāre both in a good mood. i find altogether this makes the atmosphere less confrontational and more personal, a show like youāre āconfidingā in them moreso than making an announcement. depending on how it goes i think you can adjust your strategy from thereĀ
even still,Ā i canāt say with any confidence that it will go over well, but itās as gentle a way to break it to them as i know. if on the very off chance you have another relative who you know is sympathetic andĀ wonātĀ go telling the entire rest of the family immediately, iād say try reaching out to them first, as itāll give youĀ āpracticeā talking about it and they may be able to advise you about your own parents better than i can, as well as support you directly. but even this i would only do after youāre more confident in yourself and your identity
in the end, keep in mind that you donātĀ haveĀ to come out either. itās not like a requirement for loving yourself. many of us stay closeted to our families for a very long time simply bc itās safer, easier, and smarter wrt our situations. again, i know thatās complicated because of how tight-knit our families are traditionally, and how much we may want to remain close to them for cultural reasons. at someĀ point it may make it difficult to hide (my mom started suspecting i liked girls beforeĀ iĀ even knew i liked girls. it was scary). but like, iām 27 and iām still not out to most of my family (my dad doesnāt even know). it doesnāt stop me from being a proud albanian lesbian, or from having and maintaining a happy & healthy relationship with my girlfriend. it doesnāt have to stop you either
andā¦. i think thatās really all i can say. sorry for taking so long and also for talking so much. i hope i could help even a little, or if not, at least offer some reassurance. itās a good sign that youāre reaching out and trying to get a handle on your feelings, so keep at it, and remember youāre not alone out there. there are so many of us in the world living our lives and trying to build a future and support each other.Ā iĀ really think youāll be fine
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Okay so I feel really lame writing this but I think it's also important. I keep apologizing for not being super active on this blog anymore, and there's a number of reasons I haven't. Most of it has been health related but anyway. I started this blog because I hated my other blog and wanted to do something new with a fandom I'd been in for a long time (10+ years), so after talking with Katie ( @shiranuigenma ), I decided to create this Naruto blog. But it wasn't intended to be just a Naruto blog, but that's how it kind of ended up since that's what I was into when I made it.
The fact that I've kept this a 98% Naruto blog is awesome because my attention span and energy allotted for a fandom is around 3-4 months. After that I usually get bored or burnt out and have to find something else. Making friends and participating in things like Kakashi Week, and just doing art and writing fanfics, has helped me to maintain interest in this blog for a lot longer than I thought I would. So thank you!! You guys are awesome!!!
(Okay real quick I'm not quitting lol. I know it sounds like it. But I'm not.) Basically, I was getting so burnt out on Naruto that I was dreading getting on this blog and I didn't want to watch it anymore. That's why I've been MIA. I literally only follow Naruto blogs at the moment. I don't want this to become a trash blog like my last one that I abandoned, so I'm still going to be kind of selective with what I reblog. Anyway. To combat the staleness and burnt out feeling I had, I got into a few other shows with my friends and that's really all I've been watching (RWBY, RvB, and YouTube if you're curious). It sounds dumb but it's really helped me a lot because I'm not so exhausted and wearing myself out trying to be ~the cool singular fandom blog~ that I'm really not meant to be. (Yo, major kudos to those who can do that.)
So anyway, 2018 has been not super unkind, but very tough for me. You grow from challenges, right? But it's also important to not be challenging yourself 24/7 for 6 months straight with little sleep and locking yourself away in your bedroom. I am not Maito Gai. I cannot do that. So here's a few things about my blog that'll carry us into summer 2018 and hopefully allow me to be more active and not so stressed and sad!!!! Esp since I still don't have a job even tho I'm looking!! And I'm getting tired of ppl telling me āWell just get a job??? Just go get hired???ā like !!! what do you think I am doing???
Requests are now closed indefinitely. I'm going to finish up the few I have, but after that I'm closing them. They were super fun but I have so many things backlogged that it hasn't been as fun anymore. I send love and thanks to all those who sent in requests while they were open! It was a fun experiment and I got to really test myself by writing for characters I don't normally write for!
Writing commissions are closed indefinitely.Ā Iāll complete the one I have, but then thatāll be it for now. These too were also fun and challenged me more than anything else I've done. I got to write some very unique and difficult topics and I'm so thankful for those who trusted me enough with their stories to do this. However, the amount of time and mental energy it took was too much and severely underselling myself made it difficult to justify the time I was spending. (I've read writers should charge around 1 ā 3 cents a word. I was charging $0.001 cents a word lmao. Whoops. I actually don't mind but it is hard to make a living like that.)
Art commissions are still OPEN! And btw, I do have a ko-fi. I'm thinking about doing something like, one coffee = one bust of your character of choosing? (which is same price as commissions whoops lol.) Idk yet. I won't be doing any writing for ko-fi, though.
I was going to create a side blog for the other fandoms I'm in but side blogs are tedious and annoying to manage so I'm probably just going to start posting stuff here. If you don't want to see it, you can start blacklisting tags now. I'll be tagging things as #rwby, #rvb, #not naruto (that's my catch-all tag for anything, uhh, not Naruto). Expect a lot of Ozpin, Qrow, Church, and Washington because even tho I was inactive here, it does not mean I stopped hoeing around in other fandoms. Oh, also expect an occasional #game grumps because #dan avidan is way cute.
I'm also going to be posting fanart for other fandoms here too. It's been nice to draw stuff other than Nardo. I'll still be doing Naruto stuff (I have a ton of Naruto projects I'm working on) but silly little doodles will probably be from RWBY.
I'm also in this weird kinda scary period in my life with school and career options. I have a degree in English and it's always been assumed I'd be a teacher but I don't want to be?? I realized recently that I love to draw and I'm getting quite good at it (with the help of my sister who is my own real-life youtube tutorial for SAI), so both my sister and I are going back to college for a Studio Art degree. I'm thinking about getting into animation and I'm scared because it's not a secure or ātraditionalā job??? I'm scared because I'm not settling on a job I don't want or a field I just assumed I'd go into. I'm not good with big changes or going into things when it's uncertain, so I'm like ā¦.. /anxiety increases/ But I'm hoping it'll be good.
Just as an extra bullet point and a reminder, I still really love Kakashi, Iruka and Obito, and all my other guys!! Don't think I forgot about them!!
Sorry this is 10 million years long but it was important to me to write all that. I'm sorry I haven't been able to reblog your art or fics and comment on them. I'm sorry I haven't gotten back to you guys and responded to messages. I'm sorry I'm not as active. I've just been figuring stuff out and hanging out with friends, and watching other things so I don't grow to despise Naruto lol. So. That's about it. I probably forgot something.
Oh, I have 21 plants growing in my windowsill. 2 are decorative and the other 19 are going to go in my garden in the backyard bc theyāre herbs and vegetables. And I'm going to cosplay for the first time next month and I might meet the voice actor for kid Obito. So. There's that.
#mine 44#akimi.txt#transitional period#updates#so anyway#/breathes easy/#sorry to be dramatic#thank you for putting up with me#i love you guys!!!#im gonna go finish my weiss drawing#and then watch some youtube
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Lawlight (duh) for the ship thing Also, if you're into any of these - Drarry, Malec, Ichiruki, Sakunaru
uhhhh i only know drarry tbh but not well enough for a ship meme dlfajsda sorry. anyway hereās lawlight.Ā
who is more likely to hurt the other?
they both hurt each other on some level just bc they hv v combative personalities and also they r WATER SIGNS which means they r constantly in a fight over who is more valid. jokes on them tho: they r both unvalid as hell. light will center an entire week around getting back at L for something he did bc heās basically amy dunne playing the long con all the time. L will hurt light in ways that last. heāll just come out of nowhere with something like, āmaybe it would be better if we hadnāt metā and light will just go quiet. thatās like, a sore spot L will push on if they argue bc he knows light is incredibly insecure abt his standing in Lās life. idk man. they love each other but thereās a lot of stuff theyāre working thru and theyāre leaving some scars along the way.
who is emotionally stronger?
hm. i think L is. heās toughened up from all his experiences as the worldās greatest detective and had to deal w a lot more emotional crises than light. when it comes to big setbacks, heās more likely to take them in stride whereas light is like that post thatās like āiāll deal with it but you gotta let me be dramatic first.ā before anything, heās gotta scream in his scream jar then he can put those anxieties into the fridge and go back to figuring out his life.
who is physically stronger?
they hv abt the same physical strength. thatās less of a contest between them, altho light does sort of like it when L can lift him up. heās done the same for L a couple times but its more fun to b carried than to b the carrier. anyway. if ur asking who wins more fights? then i would say that light wins a lot of their brawls bc heās not afraid to play dirty. he has a sibling, heās fought these battles many times before. its no rules just right in this house.
who is more likely to break a bone?
light has a lot of sports related injuries but not a lot of broken bones. meanwhile, mr. stays inside all day on my laptop has had three broken bones all from falling down the stairs or slipping on shit. just, like, hold on bc iām picturing light and L sitting in the urgent care waiting room, both with broken arms bc of a roller skating accident. i donāt know how ppl break bones.
who knows best what to say to upset the other?
see this question and the first question r so close and so the answer is like both of them know each other well enough to hv their fingers poised over a particular emotionally destructive button at all times. i only say L is better at upsetting light bc heās more willing to go the extra inch of underhandedness. of course, light nvr shows that heās upset on the outside. no, he remains cool and calm, laughs it off probably, and then goes into the bathroom to hv a full scale meltdown in the dry bathtub. to b fair, that doesnāt happen often. its only during big, BIG arguments.
who is most likely to apologize first after an argument?
oh i donāt think either of them hv apologized once in their whole lives so it was a big step for them to apologize to each other. light caves first, trudging into Lās office with the most pathetic look on his face and being like āiām sorry i called you a trash bag with arms.ā and then L sort of sits there and has an inner conflict for a second before saying, āiām sorry i told you looked like a kohlās mannequin but not hot.ā
who treats whoās wounds more often?
if their fights ever get too intense and someone gets hurt, its usually L knocking his head against something sharp and light has to like sit him on the toliet so he can fix him up. when heās administering first aid, light starts to fuss over L and makes a lot of concerned noises.
āthat hurts.ā L squirms as light gives him stitches. ādonāt pull too hard.ā
ārelax.ā light says. āiām actually quite good at this.ā
(will i ever stop quoting that one line? no, i wonāt.)
who is in constant need of comfort?
i donāt know abt comfort but light needs a lot of reassurance, both verbal and physical, that L does care abt him. he needs to b assured of his place in the world and in their relationship which L isnāt super great abt doing. but light is usually vocal abt when he needs comfort around L, whomst he rarely hides much of himself from, so its nvr a problem of L just not knowing. he just has no clue how to react.
thereās been a scarce few times when L has needed comfort after a taxing case but light is right there to just sort of, uhhh, hold him. let him make some horrible noises and talk. they try to b there for each other. its something theyāre working on.
who gets more jealous?
oh for sure light. he gets flushed w jealousy anytime L shows a little more attention to someone else who could possibly usurp lightās romantic position in Lās life. its not fair. those ppl nvr worked as hard as he did to get Lās attention, to get his love. L thinks its kind of funny and will do shit to make light go green eyed. but that shit stops after they work with a french officer who gets a little too flirty w light and L just like, shuts that down. not so fun to b on the receiving end of that kind of jealousy.
whoās most likely to walk out on the other?
light. heāll fucking do it at the drop of a hat too, just fucking walk out and not come back for three days. of course, they both think they can handle being separated so neither of them calls the other. but on the third day lightās trying to eat mcdonalds in his car and put a sausage mcmuffin in the hole Lās absence made so he goes to call him but his phone rings and itās L on the other line like āplease come back i forgot how quiet things r when ur not around also if ur at mcdonalds can u get me an apple pie okay thanks i love you.ā
who will propose?
dklfsadlsfkj neither of them. they donāt want to get married tbh. i just literally canāt see them ever wanting to get married. if ur gonna put a gun to my head abt it tho, i would probably say light does but its only bc his mom started a campaign to get him to make an honest man out of L.
who has the most difficult parents?
um. i mean i guess lightās parents r more difficult. its not that theyāre difficult tbh its more like theyāre still adjusting to the life their son decided to lead bc its waaayyy different than what they thought was gonna happen. like first heās gay (which isnāt a huge surprise to them like theyāve seen queer eye for the straight guy. they know things.) and then heās dating some 24 yr old reclusive detective that happens to hv been soichiroās boss for like a couple months and now light just sort of solves crimes w his boyfriend. so theyāre being supportive but theyāre also a little bit confused so sometimes it ends up in awkward situations where everyoneās at the dinner table and sachiko is like āso. what do your parents do, L?ā and L is like āi donāt know who my parents were. i think theyāre dead.ā and sheās like, āoh. hm. well. that must b rlly rough for you.ā meanwhile light is p much eating his napkin so he doesnāt start screaming at how little control he has over this shitty conversation.
who initiates hand-holding when theyāre out in public?
they r rarely in public but uh. light does. heās getting used to being out and part of him just rlly enjoys the physical evidence of their relationship that hand holding provides. that closet was so suffocating. itās time to let those hands breath a little.
who comes up for the other all the time?
i still donāt entirely understand what this means entirely but iāll take my best stab at it. i think L comes up for light a lot, esp if heās talking to like the wammies or literally anyone who isnāt light himself or his family. like, p much everyone is like ābut.....heās kira???ā and L is like ālook. listen. i donāt know why but heās. heās rlly important to me. so its maybe better if we donāt shit talk the guy who sucks my dick? at least not rn.ā he doesnāt do it v often bc usually the insults thrown toward light r well deserved but sometimes he does. light doesnāt come up for L like ever. he nvr talks to anyone abt L. whomst would he tell? yamamoto? secretly he goes on a couple message boards tho and send mean anon messages to ppl talking shit abt L but thatās as close as he gets.
who hogs the blankets?
L will b wrapped in a big old blanket bundle like that picture of homer simpson where heās like āah. iām just a big cozy cinnamon bun.ā lightās like curled up on his side of the bed w just the sheet but then L reaches over and drags him into the blanket bundle so they r both toasty cinnamon buns together.
who gets more sad?
L is more prone to bouts of depression and can get lethargic if something hits him the wrong way. the first few times it happened, light tried to shake it out of him but heās learned since then that heās just gotta ride this shit out. so for a few days or weeks, heās just got a sad boyfriend so they watch a lot of netflix and donāt get a ton of work done.
light v rarely gets sad. heās got a v positive outlook on life and doesnāt let a lot of stuff ruin his mood. but when he is sad, its like a big event and heās crying in the dry tub in just his briefs and a sweatshirt while listening to sufjan on repeat. look. heās just gotta get it out of his system and then heāll b fine!
who is better at cheering the other up?
light is better at finding stuff to cheer L up. if L is in a funk, heāll go search for a good case or an interesting lead so he can present it to him like a cat dropping a mouse in front of him. L is.....not so good at cheering light up. all he knows is how to piss him off. but after a while he starts to puzzle out that light flourishes under praise so heāll try to keep telling him what a good job heās doing.
whoās the one that playfully slaps the other all the time after they make silly jokes?
i said this in my mikami/light post but uh, light laughing is so uproarious that he just. whacks the person making him laugh on the back super hard. L doesnāt do anything the first time but the second time he grabs light by the wrist and is like ādonāt. control ur self, u loud scream laughing monster.ā light keeps his hands to himself when he laughs after that. heās actually quite embarrassed of his natural laugh bc it is so obnoxious so he often tones it down but sometimes!!! shitās just too funny!!!
who is more streetwise?
neither of these two know a god damn thing abt the streets. ok, L knows a little bit but he forgot it after building a giant fucking building for one investigation team of like six ppl.
who is more wise?
L knows more abt the world and has more experience than light does. heās not quite wise?? but heās definitely more knowledgeable and it smacks him in the face a lot how super young light is. how much he just doesnāt know. but Lās only in his mid twenties. what the fuck does he rlly know?
whoās the shyest?
mmm. they arenāt shy ppl by nature so iād say neither of them. esp when theyāre together. combining their levels of pure confidence is like putting a fire in a room with more fire; it just increases the amount of fire. as their relationship progresses, they get more assertive w each other and idk man. they just donāt do that shy shit.
who boasts about the other more?Ā
mmmm. i donāt think they brag abt each other a lot but i think light kind of wants to brag abt being w L. i mean, he didnāt think it would happen but then L did come and want to start something with him and its like?? wrow. but he doesnāt rlly hv anyone to brag to so he just sort of lets it sit like a smoldering piece of coal in his stomach, keeping him warm. L exculsively brags abt light during video conferences w the wammies like āMY PARTNER, WHO IS A GENIUS AND V ATTRACTIVE, AND I, WHO IS DATING THIS ATTRACTIVE GENIUS, HV FOUND A CLUEā and like everyone rolls their eyes like ādude u told us the same shit last week like please please please stop telling us abt ur hot boyfriend.ā
who sits on whoās lap?
light!!! sits!!! on Lās lap!!!! all the time!!! he curls up in there like a cat and plays w Lās hair.
āam i making it hard to do ur work?ā he asks, fingers scratching on Lās scalp.
āyes. but thatās okay. light shouldnāt move.ā
so he doesnāt and just falls asleep there, hand on the back of Lās neck and drooling on his shoulder. its cute in like an ugly way.
#death note#dslafjskdjfhaskjfh this is so LONG#why do i take so much time w these like c'mon dude#u got other shit to do#:/#devilcornflakes
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Youtuber AU Headcanons
(Lowkey inspired by a post by @whizzerbrowne who brought the idea to my attention and it has since dominated my brain). Letās just get started:
(This got way too long, yikes. I had to include a read more line)
~ Three Youtubers: Jason, Cordelia, and Whizzer.
Jason
Type: Heās one of those younger, newer youtubers. He started when he was nine, and he talked frankly about stuff like divorce (bc his parents were going through a divorce at the time) and being an introvert and being autistic and being Jewish and dealing with a difficult relationship with his parents. He has trouble really talking to people so it was like really easy to just sit in front of a camera and start talking at them. Side note: this was totally Mendelās idea as a therapy exercise that actually worked, okay? And (as weāve seen in the musical), Jason has this raw honesty and wit to him that is very funny and real to watch. As heās gotten older, heās started talking about other things - like not such heavy topics. He talks about the things that heās hyperfixated on (baseball, chess, the emoji movie, etc), and though his content is pretty erratic and all over the place, people just love his commentary and heās amassed millions of followers in just a few years??
He also vlogs /a lot/, which is how his audience got to know Trina, Mendel, and Marvin.
Trina - Everyone literally adores her. She is v nervous and awkward in her cameos in Jasonās videos, but she is also very honest and vocal about her opinions and calls herself the Cool Mom even though Jasonās likeĀ āMom, you donāt let me stay up past ten even when itās not a school nightā and Trinaās justĀ āA Cool Mom canāt still care about your healthy and well-being??ā
Mendel - As a one-off, Jason asked his followers to submit questions to Mendel the Psychiatrist for a collab idea with his stepdad, and his pieces of advice were kinda off the wall and funny and it quickly became a series and one of Jasonās most popular series ever. Some people are convinced Mendel is just playing a character so Jason has to be like āno he is actually like this. You have to believe me.ā Also: Mendel gets a snapchat that everyone follows. He uploads grainy pictures of like trees and makes puns and constantly spams his story with pictures of Trina with captions like ālook at how pretty she isā and āhow did i get so luckyā and ārare photo of an actual goddess.āĀ
Marvin - Tbh, the audienceās reaction to Marvin is a little more mixed, esp at first. Jason had talked a lot about his difficult relationship with Marvin and hisĀ āDraw My Lifeā video did stir up some contempt for Marvinās selfishness. But like, over the years and through small snippets of cameos, it is generally believed that Marvin has changed and grown up a lot and is like an amazing (but dorky) dad. His cameos in Jasonās videos are the best bc it shows how eerily alike those two are and at one point Marvin briefly talks about internalized homophobia and toxic masculinity and hints at the stuff that he isāt proud of, and everyone - no matter their outward opinion of him - has like a little crush on him. Also, the videos with Marvin and Mendel both?? Their petty arguing gets like millions of hits every time.
Jason also totally does all the trend/tag videos but also has like that sarcastic, almost ironic vibe at first but he ends up really sincerely liking it.Ā
Jason also does like monologues of his thoughts and opinions while also doing mini skits in between and he is iconic and a jack of all trades really.
He is very articulate and seems so mature but like any hate whatsoever does get to him a lot. Heās learned how to deal with his self-doubt and ignoring the trolls better than he had when he first started, but every once in awhile it still gets to him.
Also??? Remember that Roast Yourself Challenge trend??? Jason did that, and it was on the top page for like a solid week. He went too hard and too real.
Cordelia
Type: Totally like Hannah Hartās Drunk Kitchen, are you even kidding me?? That it totally Cordelia. She drinks and talks about current events and makes really bad food puns and it is Everything. She also branches out after awhile and starts doing like satirical how-to videos. Lowkey once she tried to make a wry, parody version of a beauty vlogger how-to and she ended up having so much fun with it and her after make-up looked ballin, so she starts doing make-up tutorials, too.
Sheās also very very proudly gay and out. Like, her username is literally lesbiancaterer. But she still gets like comments on her videos sayingĀ āare you straight?ā orĀ āher boyfriend must be a lucky guyā and it just makes her go ā????? How could I ever make this clearer?ā (once, in a collab with Marvin, one comment saidĀ āahh, her and her bf are such #relationship goalsā which then launched a very satirical, very deadpan boyfriend tag video with her and Marvin that made it abundantly clear just how fucking gay those two are).
Charotte first got introduced very very early in her videos bc once during a drunk kitchen, Cordelia cut her finger with a knife and called for her girlfriend and Charlotte went into complete Doctor Mode and started treating her immediately. Cordelia is a little tipsy at that point and starts blatantly flirting with her and calling herĀ āmy doctorā and that videoās comment section is just keysmashing and the phraseĀ āmy doctor.ā
Cordelia does not try to hide her relationship in any way. She and Charlotte have done all those cute couples tags and Charlotte is the star of Cordeliaās social media and vlogs. Now they are #relationship goals.
Cordelia actually got into Youtube bc of Jason and everyone was like lowkey shocked when it turned out that these two popular but different youtubers knew each other and cameo in one anotherās videos a lot and Cordelia is likeĀ āhe is literally my godson, guys. Ofc Iām gonna be around him and support him.ā
Whizzer
Type: Ohhh boy!! Whizzer is def the kind of youtuber that has been around on the platform since circa 2007 - are you even gonna try to fight me on that??? He is a fashion channel (also has like a series of the youtube version of fashion police) but also like a major storytime channel bc heās been around and tells the craziest but realest stories of all time. He is also quickly considered The Gay Icon^tm of Youtube.
He is definitely one of the biggest youtubers on the platform but he also lowkey feels too old to still be on here and has that like Shane Dawson kinda feel of like keeping it real about youtube drama and rebranding himself and learning from stupid old videos when he was still like a shit 20-something that was lowkey problematic.Ā
He stans so hard for Britney Spears and Carly Rae Jepsen and he got Carly in one of his collabs and he could not stop smiling and fangirling and he is literally all of us.
He is very, very vocal and honest about his sexuality and sexual history. He has a lot of Body and Sex Positivity videos and speaks very bluntly about the importance of self-esteem and body image and safe sex.
(One of his most popular videos is the one with him candidly speaking about having HIV and he talks about his mistake with unsafe sex and all the terrible stigmas around the topic. He talks about how itās both a physical and emotional struggle, and he also talks about treatment and awareness and prevention and seeking emotional help to combat depression).
He arranges a collab with Jason bc they are alike in that they always speak candidly about issues and struggles and have like the exact same sense of dry, almost scathing humor. Whizzer meets Marvin bc Marvin is likeĀ āJason, there is no way youāre meeting a strange man who you met over the internet. I am definitely going to be the one that goes with you.ā
(Awkward moment when Marvin and Jason get to Whizzerās apartment, and Marvin and Whizzerās profiles light up with one another from one of those websites like Grindr). Whizzer has like lowkey commented on Jasonās videos before with lewd comments about his hot dad, but like this is so not what Whizzer had been expecting?? Yeah, at the end of Whizzer and Jasonās collab video, Whizzer puts like a small blooper reel and itās him continually flirting with Jasonās dad (whoās behind the camera) and the Internet suddenly has a new fave ship.
(Marvin and Whizzer totally messaged each other and hooked up like the next day).
But like, they keep the budding relationship very underwraps bc they both really donāt want it to affect Jasonās channel and neither really think at first that their whole arrangement will go anywhere close to serious because Whizzer has never been in love or had a steady boyfriend and Marvin cannot hold a relationship either even after his divorce.
But of course they fall in love, and of course the internet knows somethingās up. Whizzer keeps vaguing on Twitter about the new man in his life with weird tweets likeĀ āI canāt believe Iām deliberately sleeping with a man who UNIRONICALLY knows every word to Allstarā and āget you a man who always sends that courtesy āthank you.ā text after you send him a dick pic.ā And when Whizzer vlogs, he always makes sure to keep the camera trained on himself but you can see that his eyes are always looking away as heās like smiling at someone who does not want to be on camera. Also, Jasonās weekend vlogs have cameos of Whizzer in them now.
They mess up when in one of aforementioned Jasonās vlogs, thereās a grainy clip of Marvin and Whizzer in the background and Marvin kisses Whizzerās cheek. The internet loses their minds
(After nine/ten months of dating, Whizzer and Marvin abruptly break up and neither really acknowledges it. However, weeks after their break up, Whizzer decides to make a story-time video about this fucking asshole boyfriend that broke up with him over a chess game. He wanted it to be like both petty but also very funny because that is such a ridiculous story, but like when heās editing it, he notices himself being like on the verge of tears in some parts and being overly bitter and tense, and he never uploads it and he realizes that he isnāt over Marvin like he had said he was).
(However, Whizzer does end up making a story-time video later about how Jasonās baseball game brought him and Marvin back together).
After they get back together, theyāve worked out their issues and are couples goals now and they do not hide their relationship and Marvin makes cameos in both Whizzer and Jasonās videos/younows and it is incredible.
Through Jason and Marvin, Whizzer and Cordelia meet and they become best friends. They collab all the time and they complain about queer struggles and they talk about their relationships and get drunk on camera and be weird, loud idiots and those videos get tons of views.
And Whizzer gets candid about how heās always felt like alone in the world and hasnāt really had the opportunity to rely on anyone but himself but through Jason and Marvin, he meets Cordelia and Charlotte and Mendel and Trina, and even though they might not get along all the time and some people are closer to other people, theyāre all his family and he never thought that heād really have one that close before. Itās one of his most vulnerable videos.
The most successful videos on all threeās channels are the collabs of the three of them together: Jason and Cordelia and Whizzer. And they become like one of those Youtube cliques that collab all the time and tweet about each otherās videos constantly and always hang out with one another at all the events like Vidcon and Playlist Live.Ā
#omg this became way way too long#and it won't get a lot of notes but I just had a lot of feelings#i needed to get there#this is the au ive been assembling in my head for days now#help me please#these have haunted me#falsettos#falsettos revival#Whizzer Brown#cordelia falsettos#jason falsettos#falsettos au
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is that ĆLODIE YUNG? no, thatās JESSICA DREW also known by some as SPIDER-WOMAN but the world thinks she is just a PRIVATE INVESTIGATOR. if iām not mistaken SHE is PHYSICALLY TWENTY-NINE and she was AGAINST the hero ban. ( jane / she/her / twenty / nzt )
hi everyone!! so this is jess
while her backstory is the same as her comic backstory (well, sort of), iāmma break it down real quick (bc even if youāve read her comics and stuff, sheās had like three different backstories with all the retconning marvel have done about her lol) āā this is mostlyĀ based on the original origins (why someone thought combining a dna splicing laser with a womb was a good idea is beyond me) but the lines between the origins are blurry at best so there may be some crossover
like jess herself says, she āwent to hail hydra high school and nick fury universityā āā my poor babe has been shuttled around all these terrible shadowy agencies her whole life lol
ok so her parents are jonathan and merriem drew
they thought a lab with the high evolutionary at wundagore mountain was a great place to raise their lil girl, esp when they found uranium to get $$$, so thatās where jess grew up
or would have been if she didnāt contract uranium poisoning from the constant radiation
her dad was superĀ into spiders and injected her w irradiated experimental spider serum made up of the dna of several uncommon spider species to try save her
the serum required incubation so wyndham (high evolutionary aka her daddioās bestie) put her in a genetic accelerator
whilst in this accelerator, she aged at a decelerated rate, which probably nobody would have noticed if she was only in there for the amount of time she was meant to be āā as it was, her mother died and her dad went to america and left her there with wyndham and his creatures, who left her in there for literal decades, at the end of which, she emerged aged only seventeen
(this is why sheās not really sure how old she is; going off her birthdate, sheās Quite An Old Lady, but thatās physically untrue, and even counting how many years itās been since she emerged from her incubation (which would be difficult even if it was helpful, bc hydra werenāt big on their calendars in the dorms) doesnāt really help because the combination of her decades of decelerated aging + her spider serum have sort of fucked with the regularity of her aging process. sheās making a stab at being probably the physical equivalent to twenty-nine; she assumes that there are someĀ scientists who could tell her (bruce banner or reed richards are fairly decent possibilities) but sheās very aware of the dangers that scientists and intelligence agencies can do with something as revealing as your genetic make-up, and sheād prefer to avoid providing any more of that than they already have information on, thanks)
she felt ostracised by some of the other creations in wundagore and ended up running off to find civilisation, which ended badly and brought her into the arms of hydra
(dun dun dunnnnnn)
through a mixture of manipulation, messing with her mind/memory and brainwashing, hydra recruited her and then set about crafting her into a perfect weapon (including getting taskmaster to train her, which means sheās ace at hand to hand combat but it was also rigorous and awful and just Terrible so seriously, fuck otto vermis)
they also gave her a fake boyfriend who died to convince her to kill nick fury so, you know, they sort of set her up from the get go to have trust issues and a pattern of Bad Relationships
anyway she found out hydra was wrong when she fought nick fury (after taking down all of his men and him going damn) and she didnāt kill him, but she also didnāt join him
she went to go yell at vermis who convinced her she was evolved from a spider. i wish i was making this shit up. she had a crisis of identity (understandably) but eventually was convinced of the truth (that sheās, you know, human, at least originally), dyed her hair black so vermis wouldnāt recognise her, changed up her costume, swapped out the name arachneĀ for spider-womanĀ and also discovered her pheromone powers in more detail which are just. theyāre terrible. cause her a lot of grief. people are either repulsed by her or attracted to her and she has no idea why and very little control. nowadays, she mostly wears a pheromone suppressing perfume though sheās been tryingĀ to work on control (spoiler alert: itās going better than her love life, but not by much)
then a lot of stuff happened
she fought morgan le fay, made a friend for once, dated her landlord, broke up with her landlord, thought she diedĀ and asked her friend to erase all traces of her from living memory but itās all right, the spell was faulty and her displaced soul got back into her body which was Good (also somewhere in here she and madame hydra were convinced that hydra was actually her mother, and while that isnātĀ true ā a machination of a villain ā madame hydra still acts like itās true a lot, which sort of makes sense in that hydra is a big part of jessā history and viper considers herself a personification of hydra, but even if it kinda makes sense, itās still a bad time and jess is not a fan)
it meant she lost her powers from the ordeal though, and she went about going back to her private investigator gig with her first friend lindsay and hung out in madripoor for two years
her powers came back but then charlotte witter stole them and it was a situation but sheād calmed down and was going around being a PI and having chill for once in her life
her powers came back again but they were wildly unstable and then a hydra agent named connely attacked her and told her to rejoin s.h.i.e.l.d. as a double agent for hydra and theyād sort out her powers; she then went and told fury, who told her to do it and that heād feed her fake info to fuck w hydra
what actually happened was that when she went to the hydra cell to get her powers sussed, skrulls kidnapped her and queen veranke took over her body and it was just a whole terrible thing and very pivotal for jess bc when she finally came back to earth, a lot of people associated her face with an evil invasion which was just.... great
then she became a sword agent and also a new avenger and then a primary avenger for ages and was still a shield agent though avenger took precedence and then this superhero ban came about
given that she was a p.i. anyway, she just went back to that... and if she sometimes let her punches be a littleĀ too hard when she was taking someone down (āiām a hands-on investigator, sirā) then nobody needs to know that
when the big invasion happened, well, she has a thingĀ about invasions (read: she dislikes them) so of course she suited back up again. she didnāt expect thanksāsheās not known as an optimistābut it reminded her that sheās the sort of type-a thrillseeker who absolutely believes in fighting for things that matter, fighting for a choiceāālike she told the avengers once,Ā āhe didnāt choose to become the hulk. but he gets to choose who the hulk becomesā āā basically agency is very important to jess (understandable, given how much of her history revolves around being messed around in the head and being used as a weapon) and was a main reason why she joined back up
so technically sheās a p.i. but sheās superheroing in secret and constantly rolling her eyes and snarking
sheās 5ā²10ā³ of badass motorcycle jackets and quick reflexes, and she likes bacon, punching, motorcycles and taking down bad guys, not necessarily in that order
her powers include pheromones, bioelectric blasts, gliding (which is sort of like flying if youāre high enough, but not enough that sheād turn down a boost from carol or tony or someone), sticking to walls and then a bunch of other effects like being immune to radiation and toxins and stuff + superhuman strength, agility, durability etc. etc. also sheās a rad fighter and trained in a lot of different fighting styles bc of taskmaster, is a skilled spy and also speaks eight languages + sheās an empath which seems to be a development/offshoot from pheromone skills but she hasnāt developed it much yet (at least consciously)
she also never gives up. like even when she should. this is the woman who, when the hulkĀ picks up one of the hammers of the worthy, still went toe-to-toe with him in a battle that was impossibleĀ for her to win. (though honestly, a lack of preservation instinct seems like a necessity for avengersā heroics) āā also speaking of the hulk, her pheromones can sometimes work out, like when it comes to controlling the hulk, but generally they just make life a lot harder for her so. a LOT of pheromone suppressing perfume. if anyone has a science-y character who wants to help her make that or has ideas for training/testing pheromones, pls shout out
THIS IS SO LONG IāM SORRY if anyone made it to here, you deserve a cookie (youāre all too far away for me to actually send cookies rip but i will make a starter for you if you want that instead lol) and pls message me if you want to thread or plot or anything!!
#starcintro#[ HI sorry i took a nap after class and fell asleep through until past dinner āā getting onto this and threads i'm so sorry abut the delay ]#about#( jacked up mirrors are still just mirrors. )#experimentation cw#death cw#manipulation cw
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songbird!!! songbird!!
Maybe more of a Natsume song because of the fire?However, I wanted to create a LucaxHotaru AU for you.
meme here.
This one here has been under constant reconstruction.It has actually changed so much that it has nothing to do anymore with itsoriginal. It even had a name once, but now itās justā¦ so much? I probablywonāt write about all the things Iāve thought about, but if you are interestedjust ask me.
Officer Luca has no reason to complain: he has asuccessful career at the police department, good friends and colleagues, hisbeloved drug dog Bunny and a nice flat. Heās hardworking and honest and thepeople around him like for it.Ā He might not be the greatest socialbutterfly and might have to work on his assertiveness, but he gets by.
Said people in this certain scenario areĀ
Ā·Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Sumire, who is actually Lucaās partner (her dogās nameis Wakako), is passionate about her job, but sheās easily influenced by the badthings she sees and difficult lives they encounter. Her last evaluationrecommended therapy, but up until now she could evade it, fearing she might notbe able to return. Sheās more like her later version in the manga, much lessclingy and impressionable but as caring as ever.
Ā·Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Tsubasa is Natsumeās partner. His easy-going natureoften clashes with Natsumeās, but he sees himself in Natsumeās compassionatenature and rash actions, so itās never been that much of a problem and theyseem to work well regardless of their relationship. Heād rather not talk abouthis personal/social/love life or rather lack thereof, because as soon as hedoes, everyone jumps in and makes fun of him.
They have actually worked against the ESP for a longtime, but he always seems to be a step ahead of them and it all slowly worksthem to the bone. The last time they tried to arrest him they were humiliatedin front of him and shamed by the department. It all works out too well for him, which is why they suspect someone from thepolice department to be an inside man for the ESP. Because of that, they decideto be more careful about their investigation and work on the case outside thejob in secret, using coded messages/videos/documents.Ā
But everything takes a turn for the worse, when thereis a sudden explosion at the police department (namely in their office).Several people are hurt and there are even two dead officers. Luca got luckyand he was not near the room when it happened, leaving him with a few scratchesand a slightly bruised shoulder. Natsume was not so lucky, but he was rushed tothe hospital immediately. He has since been in a coma. Sumire has reached herlimit, she broke down in the ICU and has since been off work, pendingresignation. Tsubasa has disappeared.A mixture of misunderstandings and strange reports (the surveillance camerasshow him acting strangely and leaving the office only minutes before the bombexplodes) lead their superiors to believe that missing Tsubasa planted thebomb. The department therefore has decided to suspend Lucaās groupindefinitely.Ā
Still confused and hurt himself, Luca tries to beeverywhere at once and to be there for everyone at the same time: trying towork on the case (what on earth happened?!), being questioned about Tsubasa andthe explosion, collecting all the remaining material and clues that were lostin the explosion as good and stealthily as he can, staying with Natsume,visiting Sumire and looking for Tsubasa. Heās physically, mentally andemotionally exhausted and it almost drives him mad to be so helpless.
Which is when he is approached by a young man(Iinchou) introducing himself as āthe attendantā/āthe valetā (still ponderingon the name). He explains to a disbelieving Luca that his worries are theresult of vicious betrayal between the ESP and another entity he himself worksfor, āthe djinnā (either that or Rumplestilskin). The djinn is a myth in darkersocial circles, a being that grants the wishes of people they think deservethem in return for something from them (money, information, a favour, etc.).The man reveals to Luca that the bomb was planted with the intention to notonly kill his team mates, but also the inside man (who was one of thecasualties), because they got too close to becoming a threat to the ESP. Theinside man though was one of the djinnās man, who granted a wish to the ESP andplanted him in the middle of the police department. Killing him was likebackstabbing the attendantās/valetās employer, which is why they decided toturn to Luca and offer him three wishes in return for his clues, the proof thatcould help turn in the ESP and the promise to not intervene with the djinnāsrevenge (even though they claim to be able to gather the information as well,no one has worked on it as long as Luca and the gang).
Naturally, Luca is appalled, but after his friendsāfate takes a turn for the worse (something like an attempted murder: someonedisguised as a doctor trying to kill Natsume, maybe?), he decides to accept,thinking that his friends would do the same for him.
On the next day,a woman (Mikan, but I have no alias for her yet) appears in Natsumeās hospitalroom and assures Luca that his first wish toĀ āhelp his friends and keep them saveā was accepted and that she would take care of them.They smuggle Natsume out of the hospital and onto an ambulance to a safe house.However, when they look for Sumire at her apartment, they canāt find her. Butthey do find her notes on a hidden USB. Luca takes them with him and decides torecreate all the material they had, thinking that if they were close enough tomake the ESP want to blow them up, they were close to incriminating evidencethat would put him behind bars. He gathers Natsumeās slightly burned andslightly bloody (Luca chokes) note book, Sumireās notes and finds Tsubasaāsvideo files in a station locker (fitting a key on his keychain that was foundin his desk drawer at the office (the only thing he could smuggle out of there)).
Even though he comes pretty close to puttingeverything together again, he still cannot find the evidence he needs. However,on one file Tsubasa is talking about a lead on the inside man and about wantingto follow itā¦ to a diner.Ā He easily finds it, but heās not sure what to expect since the inside man isdead and has been an employee of the djinn anyway and not the ESP. However,when he breaks into it at night, he notices that he isnāt the only one anddiscovers two men in dark clothing setting the place on fire. He fights withone of them and is able to pull off a ring off his finger, before he is beatendown. He barely escapes the fire and the men disappear.
When he wakes up again, he finds himself in the safehouse, where he makes the acquaintance of the mysterious djinn herself(Hotaru), who is displeased that he went off to the diner himself, withouthanding over all the material to her like they agreed on. Luca however stillwants to bring the ESP behind bars and although he will share his information(they did keep Natsume safe), the djinn still needs to find Sumire and Tsubasato keep the end of her bargain. Hotaru promises to do so and reminds him thatitās only a matter of time until she finds them. Luca believes her, but ratherthan feeling dread, he is relieved. Hotaru mentions that the diner was themeeting place between her inside man and a contact of the ESP. She speculatesthat they are erasing every little trace that connects them to the policedepartment. Surer than ever that the ESP fears them indeed, she concludes tolet Luca stay with them.
Luca decides to focus on the ring he took from thearsonist and can actually trace it to a hostess club (it involves a lot of pawnshops). With the help of Mikan, who reveals to have been a hostess before she metthe djinn, Luca infiltrates the club and the two of them look for the owner ofthe ring (leaving Natsume with a troubled Iinchou). Instead of finding theowner of the ring, they discover that Tsubasa was a frequent guest at the club.His preferred companionĀ āBlossomā (Misaki) has also disappeared and hasnātbeen to the club for several days. A friend of Blossomās reveals to them thatshe saw her entering a black car with several other man and a person thatsounds a lot like Tsubasa. Luca can convince the owner of the shop on the otherside of the road to hand over his surveillance camera footage, but withoutaccess to the department, he cannot trace the license plate of the car theyheard about. Resigned he agrees with Mikan to share this information withHotaru, who can easily track it.
Hotaru ispleased with Lucaās agreeable demeanour (and the fact that he does sobegrudgingly). She even offers him a job, for she only hires people who aregood at what they do and Luca seems to be good atĀ āholding it togetherā/ākeeping theconnectionā, never losing all remaining traces, but ratherfinding new ones as he keeps the other ones secure.
[Hotaru: good atgiving people what they want; Mikan: showing people what they need; Iinchou:supporting people in need]
At this point,he starts working closer together with Hotaru and the people around her.
They eventuallyfind Sumire who has actually staged the breakdown to be off the radar of thepolice department. She explains that Tsubasa confided to her about meetingBlossom, at first because of his conflicting feelings for Blossom, but later onabout people he met at the club and the things he overheard by chance. She hasbeen doing her own investigations with the help of a reporter (Koko!), whom shecouldnāt shake off. When Tsubasa disappeared, she knew that he would go to theclub and find Blossom. But when Tsubasa didnāt return and people tried to puthim into jail, she went to look for him on her own (leaving Natsume with Luca).Together they went to look for people that had been paid off by the ESP to keepquiet and to check if they could find something to incriminate him.
Hotaru has readher file though and warns her to be careful (she might have also noticed herhesitance, when they were faced with the ESPās lackeys). Sumire is aware of hershaking hands and the tiredness in her bones. Unable to share it with anyone atthis point though, she convinces herself that she will be fine.
Eventually, theycome to the conclusion that the final piece of evidence was what Tsubasa camelooking for before the bomb went off (his innocence has never really been amatter of discussion for them). But before he could make a move, he wasabducted together with Blossom.
This hc alsoincludes a situation in which they go to a fundraiser hosted by the ESP and thedjinn takes on the alias of āImai Hotaruā to infiltrate his private estate andlook for clues as to how to take him down, relieve him of a buttload of money(because!) and, oh, yeah, find Tsubasa. And they shall dance!! And touchawkwardly, because they are not really on the same side, but somehow are. Andbecause they donāt really like each other, but somehow do. Because, you know,keeping up appearances.
When they godeeper into the mansion though, they might also get closer to each other, whichresults into a certain āalmostā. The spell is broken when they meet the bomberor the one who beat up Luca at this point. However, Hotaru cannot kill himbecause of Lucaās second wish, so they take him with them to interrogate him. Theirargument kills any flames that might have flared up for a while.
Will thisinclude NatsumeMikan as well? Well, since Natsume is pretty much unable to doanything that requires major movements or any hard-core action (heās in a comaā¦and that for several days, at least!), his is not a major role in this hc. Atone point, I could imagine him trying to help by being a backup (idiot) andMikan having to make sure that he doesnāt kill himself. She does want to do wellon her mission.
And, wow, youāve actually read this far? Well, thereās still more to hc about: the showdown, the third wish, the relationships and so much more. I have few ideas for those, but I havenāt thought them through just yet. Iāll keep them for now. Kudos to you for actually reaching this point.
#gakuen alice#lucanogis#careful#long post#headcanoning#ask game#what have I done?#it's long#really long#and still kinda unfinished
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[TIME SENSITIVE / URGENT] toxic friend
i kno u guys must get like thousands of messages and im so sorry for cluttering ur inbox and pushing this to the front of the line but im just. desperate and really scared and i need to know what 2 do abt this as soon as possible!!! also as a preface i apologize in advance if some of the way i word things in this come off as offensive or incorrect, etc - i truly, genuinely do not mean any harm so please feel free to correct me if i say something that isnt okay!!! also this is REALLY scattered and mega long so bear with me im really sorry! (also im so. so scared the person in question is gonna see this o H MY GOD so i may need to message this blog again asking for this post to be taken down maybe bc im really paranoid im so sorry!! i hope thats ok but i just dont want to risk her seeing this if this all blows up in my face ohrkjdghkjghfdgj!!!) (TW: SUICIDE MENTION, SELF HARM MENTION)
ok so. almost 2 years ago in early 2016 this girl iād never met before drew me this incredible gift art for my birthday. we started talking and we found out we have a lot of things in common - we both draw and write, weāre just a few months apart from each other in age, we have similar interests and fandoms, n we live less than an hour away from each other and are one state away from one another - so we immediately hit it off n became super close friends. she was amazingly talented n super friendly and nice n stuff so i wanted 2 be friends w her anyways!!!!! @ the time she was in an online relationship with someone several years older than her who lived across the country, and she mentioned a few times she was feeling unhappy and insecure in that relationship and that long distance was really difficult but she was too devoted to her partner to break it off. the most important thing 2 note is that my friend has several severe untreated mental illnesses (depression, anxiety, ocd among others), regularly self harms, and is suicidal. im pretty sure im neurotypical (or at least i definitely am not suicidal / depressed, etc), so while i couldnt relate to a lot of the things she was going through, i always tried to be a listening ear to her and give her advice / support when i could because i knew she was going through a lot of rough stuff. she told me she doesnt have any friends in real life, her parents are separated and her family does not support her or even really know / care about her mental health, and she canāt access any professional help from teachers / counselors / therapists due to her severe anxiety and financial issues for some of the latter options listed. as her relationship with her partner began to crumble, i started bearing a lot of the weight of her struggles - she would vent to me and i would always have to be there for her to support her. i told myself that because she was mentally ill and didnt have any support i would take on that role so she wouldnt have to suffer. over the summer of 2016 she almost attempted suicide likeā¦. twice??? and i talked her out of it and it was terrifying and really exhaustimg to constantly be worried about her.
then almost a year ago, in the winter of 2016, she started gettingā¦ clingy? we started talking a lot more and i didnt really get like any bad vibes from her but we were pretty much joined @ the hip and stuff and we started telling each other all of our secrets (so this is when i found out her relationship with her girlfriend was starting to crumble, which i didnt previously know) also she started constantly drawing me stuff??? like Drowning me in gift art and i felt really bad for not being able to reciprocate but she told me not to worry and that she used art as a coping method and stuff. at this time, i was going through some stuff too - obviously not as severe as depression / self harming, etc, but i had just gotten out of an almost-relationship with someone i knew from school, and i was doing my best to distance myself from romance in general since i didnt feel mature or confident enough to be in a romantic relationship yet. i told my friend that i was uncomfortable about the prospect of being in a romantic relationship and she seemed to understand.
anyways right around my birthday this year she revealed to me that she was madly in love with me (???!!?!?!?!?!!?!!?). mind you we had never even talked to each other / video called or ANything like that and we had only sent each other One (1) selfie and. it made me really uncomfortable because she said that like i was her moon and stars and her whole world and everything and she constantly dreamed of me??? and that she had been secretly like writing me love poetry and drawing me Even More Art i didnt even know about andā¦ā¦ it was. really overwhelming. it bothered me for so many reasons besides the fact that we had never communicated outside of like chatting / sending messages back nd forth likeā¦. ok she was still in that long distance relationship at the time even though it was crumbling, and she KNEW!!! that i was uncomfortable about romance but she told me anyways and stuff!!!!!! and AHHH it was just really bad. so i panicked over it for a day or two because i was scared that if i Firmly Said No that she would spiral into a depressive episode and actually fatally harm this time but i wrote her this huge long letter letting her down very, very, VERY gently and apologizing for ever leading her on and stuff. and. she never actually wrote back to that letter or told me that it was okay???? whichā¦.. should have been a red flag 2 me but. we moved on as friends even though we did this conscious of the fact that she still loved me like that and i didnt feel the same way. looking back on it i regret it so much because i told her that like i would Always Be There For Her Forever and stuff and??? gfkjhgk yeah it wasnt a good time.
its been almost a year since then. in the spring i got my first smartphone and we added each other on a lot of social media stuff including snapchat and moved all our conversations there, then we decided to call each other and exchange phone numbers and see how that worked. i didnt really think much of it and was excited to hear her voice and have a conversation with her butā¦ā¦.. suddenly that one call turned into two and two turned into three and within a few weeks we were calling each other like All The Time (at least once a week if not more) and like making these really fucking elaborate schedules to call each other????? WHICH LIKE i dont think is a normal thing friends do idk if im wrong but!!!!! i literally call None of my other friends except for her, and a lot of that is bc i actually get really anxious and uncomfortable talking on the phone?? (also not to mention my mom doesnt really like me talking on the phone eitherā¦.) but i never really told her that it made me uncomf or that it was difficult to mnge like i guess it just kinda.. Happened and became the norm. so now on top of constantly messaging each other multiple times a day now we were calling frequently too and there was suddenly a lot more pressure in our relationship because i had to stress out over making a large amount of time in my day to talk to her. i graduated high school this spring and having to balance the extreme emotional load of that major change with likeā¦ suddenly having to fall all over myself to make time to talk to this girl i didnt even really know?? was just really bad and i regret it so much because i feel like i missed out on fully experiencing it i guess. im really really passive and im TERRIFIED of confrontation and i dont like saying no to people or telling them if im uncomfortable because They Will Get Mad At Me and it was especially worse bc of my friendās mental health and so she and i would talk for hours on end because i was afraid that if i got tired and ended the conversation without a legitimate excuse she would get mad at me and hurt herself. since we could fit way more conversation into likeā¦ long long hours of talking and talking, we ended up like. just telling each other literally Everything and she āeventuallyā fell out of love with me and started trying to meet people who she actually knew irl to date!! which was. kinda good bc she met this one girl and they hit it off but then it turns out she was justā¦.. queerbaiting my friend??? which Sucked so that obviously didnt work out. and then she met another girl on this dating app and they started going out and my friend started talking to me less for a little while. it turns out thoughā¦ā¦. that my friendās new girlfriend lives in my town??? like i dont know her but bc of that my friend and i almost met in person bc the two of them met up and went out together and stuff and they were gonna drop by and see me but that didnt work out. im getting off topic here but my point isā¦ā¦ā¦ she told me she wasnt in love with me anymore and she started seeing other people.
sadly she and her gf recently broke up. their relationship was also really unhealthy just likeā¦ā¦ All Of Her Relationships and that other girl broke up with my friend because she said she needed space (she was depressed too and needed to recover and my friend was being too clingy and attention seeking and stuff so she just ended it in the middle of the night over text.) ofc ive stuck around for all of this and my friend has vented about every tiny detail of this relationship to me and itsā¦. been So Stressful. now that shes single again sheās more depressed than ever - over the summer when she was dating that other girl she stopped self harming but she started again when their relationship started going south and now im really scared sheās gonna hurt herself, esp bc she tried to commit suicide again a few months ago which was terrifying. also another thing thats made me REALLY uncomfortable!!!!!!!! is that she Keeps Bringing Up the fact that she was in love with me whenever we talk on the phone??? like Every Single Time We Talk, Without Fail. even when she was talking abt her new gf with me sh was like. comparing her attraction to her gf to her attraction to Me and talking abt how they were similar and different and. i never had the guts to tell her it bothered me but god it just does So So Much!!!!! because we were never in a real relationship and she doesnt even really know me KDSJFHKHGAHHH im rambling so much this makes no sense at all and this is so long im so sorry ahhhh but imā¦ Stressed!
soā¦.. weāre running up on two years since weāve met and one year since she told me she loved me. im in college now and sheās still in high school, and sheāll be i college next year too. again, i dont think that im depressed or mentally ill, but ive been struggling a LOT with the adjustment from hs to college and its been really really rough on me emotionally. now that my friend is single sheās been solely relying on me and trying to get me to call her multiple times a week because she needs the extra support now that she doesnt have her girlfriend anymoreā¦ but she doesnt seem to understand that i i just dont have enough time or energy to give all of myself to her and fall all over myself to make her feel better, especially when i already feel suffocated by her to begin with AND when im suppposed to be starting this new life and putting all of my focus into that. weāre mutuals on every single social media i have and i feel like im constantly being crushed by guilt whenever i do anything for myself or post stuff bc she can see what im doing constantly. and like she asked me to turn my read receipts on when we started moving from snapchat to texting and i have them turned off regularly so i did and it was really uncomfortable. i keep bending myself over backwards to mke sure im making her happy bc im all she has left.
neither of us have good relationships with our moms and so weāre always sneaking around to call each other and lately ive been calling her at school because obviously my mom isnt there and its less of a hassle to sneak around her and and talkā¦ā¦. but its a double edged sword bc i keep having to isolate myself and skip clubs / studying / hanging out with friends and socializing to talk to her and listen to her vent and its just so exhausting and i feel like im starting to seriously fall behind in other areas of my life im supposed to be getting better in. its hard enough adjusting to this and missing high school and stuff and trying to learn how to be an adult and be independent, and having her weight over my shoulders just is making things so much worse. but if i tell her that sheās choking me sheāll hurt herself (sheās literally said to me, Multiple Times (and recently!!!) that if it werent for me sheād be dead by now or she would kill herself and stuff and im the only thing sheās living for at this point. which. i dont know how to feel about that). i feel so trapped and i canāt say or do anything that indicates that im uncomfortable because sheāll get mad at me and make these passive agressive little side comments or do these alarmed emoticons and stuff or give me the silent treatment for a day or two (which is always scary bc like its Good when sheās not talking to me but when she doesnt im scared that something horrible happened to her!!!!!) and its just. god. ive started lying to her and coming up with fake excuses to get out of calling her because the thought of having to go isolate myself in these empty courtyards or nooks and crannies of my college campus is growing more and more uncomfortable and terrifying to me and i just cant fucking be honest about it because i suck. when i talk on the phone with her i have to be really fake and smiley and stuff and all she does is ramble about how horrible things are going for her and then i have to try and give advice when i just am so bad at talking and socializing already and im dealing w my own stuff and itsā¦ Awful. im so so weighed down by this nd i know that if she knew sheās being aā¦. b*rden to me right now she would be devastated and harm herself and stuff so i cant say anything and im spiraling out of control with THI s but you get the point im just really uncomfortable Always!!!! and i feel like my own emotions are completely 100000% inferior to hers because sheās gone through so much more than me and stuff???? and idk if thats True or if its just the way i feel but i just cant do anything around her bc shes like a ticking time bomb and anything i feel or try to do to protect myself from getting hurt will be selfish bc shes hurting way mre than me!!!!!!!!
anyways her birthday just happened a couple weeks ago and i bought her a tiny present and drew her somehting (i felt super guilty about not doing More for it though because shes done so much for me and also literally nobody except me remembered her birthday, not even really her own family). i havent mailed it to her yet (i told her i would send it this weekend, which is why this is marked as urgent) but we just exchanged addresses for the first time so now she not only knows my name, my age, what i look like, my Entire Backstory Ft. My Deepest Darkest Secrets, and how to reach me whenever she wants wherever she wants, but now she knows Exactly where i live and where i go to school too lol yay!!! anyways im getting really really anxious because i just had my midterms for college and didnt talk to her for an entire week last week but this happened right after her gf broke up with her and i think shes mad at me for taking a week off of talking to her. we were gonna call again today but i weaseled my way out of it bc it was so overwhelming and now i have to mail her this gift this weekend and my mom and other fmily members are all yelling at me about it and demanding that i just likeā¦. Not Send It To Her because i dont owe her anything and tht i should just cut her off but if i do sheāll hurt herself nd she follows me everywhere and knows all of my secrets and stuff and idk im just scared that if i end our friendship sheāll try to ruin my life!!!! Like i dont think she would be petty like that or turn people against me or anything but sheās so obsessed with giving all of herself to other people nd sheās literally said she cant function without being 100000% devoted to somebody and like even after sheās broken up with all these other girls she stillā¦. is obsessed with them and angsts over them and stuff and she does that with me even though i never even dated her or anything aND ITS JUST bad
like. idk i just really needed to get all of that out and im sorry it was so so so long and i dont even know what to do but i guess i marked this urgent because like. do i send her the present???? should i try to just like quietly distance myself from her real subtly so she wont notice or should i just straight up tell her that i cant breathe around her anymore and i just. really need space??? or like to not be friends anymore even though we know everything about each other??? am i being manipulated or is it jsut All In My Head that our relationship is toxic??? like idk if i shoud even cut her off completely or aNYTHING or if we could like even go on being just acquaintances from now on and saying hi to each other from time to time. and i feel so mean and bad for writin all of thisstuff about her when i know shses so vulnerable and i havent concretely communicated Any discomfort around her so if she saw this she would immediately know it was about her and do something Terrible to herself nd she constantly spams me with memes about depression and wanting to die and likeā¦. blows up my phone with like 50 text messages at once and its just so so so much to worry about and i!!! just!!!!!! cant function like this anymore!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! AHHHH!!
anyways that was a huge disorganized mess and im kinda shaking and i dont even think i got all of it down or communicated how trapped and helpless i feel. ive never been in any situation like this before and i hate that sheāsā¦. yeah. sheās really like manipulated me and stuff and i dont know how to get out of it. every time i think about it i feel like bursting into tears because im just so stuck and i dont even know if the way im feeling is even valid or if its all just lke. in my head or something and this is how friends really are Supposed to be because ive never really had a great social life either and my best friends are honestly my brother and sister and they mean everything to me and so i have friends outside of my family but like idk i never like. really was that close with any of them nad stuff nad idk this isnt about me BUT i just uhhh. am kinda crying a little bit and im sorry fo rbeig a big baby about all of this its all my fault for being a Human Doormat and letting people walk all over me nd tellin myself that i can bear that weight when i really have never taken good care of myself before Ever In My Life and stuff. but anyways im gonna stop rambling now and justā¦ to whoever reads this or responds to this or whatever just thank you for hearing me out even if you think im wrong / crazy / Terrible for feeling this way because it just has been so much and i dont know what to do.
Hey there!
There's a lot going on here, but the bottom line seems to be this; you're in a friendship that you don't want to be in, and that you feel is unhealthy for you.
You are not her therapist. You can't fix her, you can't treat her, you can support her, but that's it. You aren't responsible for her. You're forcing yourself to put all this time and energy into something that you're super uncomfortable with, and don't want to be doing, and it's draining you and destroying your own mental health. You have to put yourself first. It's okay to want to help people, but you HAVE to put yourself first, or else you'll burn out and you won't be able to help anybody.
At the very least, you need to talk to her about how you're feeling, and tell her you need to tone down your relationship. What's happening absolutely isn't fair to you. All you can do to help her is your best, and right now, you're not doing your best because you're not taking care of yourself.
I know you're concerned about her hurting herself or killing herself, but you have to understand that you are not responsible for her. If she does something to herself, it's not as a result of your actions. She's traumatized and mentally ill, and those factors are what causes her to hurt herself. Not you. You are not and can not be responsible for her. Period. If she tells you she's going to kill herself or severely hurt herself, you have her address. Call 911 and ask them to dispatch help to her house. She might hate you for it, but an angry person is far, far better than a dead person. That action very well might save her life, and get her the help that she needs, so don't be afraid to do it.
As for the present, it's totally up to you. You did promise it to her, and fulfilling that promise might help you let her down a little bit more gently. At the same time, giving her a permanent reminder of you could hurt her. Maybe you should ask her? Tell her about how you're feeling and that you can't keep going with this intense of a relationship, and have a conversation about that. During that conversation, you could ask if she still wants the present. She might get angry, or it could help soothe her, or maybe she'll have a totally different reaction. It's hard to know.
This conversation is going to be super, super hard. It's going to be hell, quite frankly. She's a super sensitive person, and she's probably not going to take it well. So remember what I said before, about her not being your responsibility, and do a LOT of self care working up to the conversation and after the conversation. I'd recommend making a self care kit, and putting things in it that help calm you down. My personal self care kit contains nice smelling lotion, soft fabric, stuff to play with, gum, tea bags, and notes from friends reminding me that they love me. You could also be texting a friend during the conversation, so that they can reassure you and help talk you through it.
You may not be going through the same things she is, but your feelings and your struggles are valid. You don't need to destroy yourself to help someone that's "worse" than you are. You need to take care of yourself, and keep yourself as healthy as possible. You aren't any less valuable simply because you're not traumatized or self harming. Your mental health is important, and you need to do what's right for you.
I hope this helps!
ā„ - Fawn
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