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what city you should live in based on your moon sign ⏾

astrology can help you make an informed decision for something as significant as where one will live. and especially if you are a more hedonistic person like myself, choosing a place to live with a focus on personal satisfaction is a guaranteed upgrade in quality of life. it also helps you narrow down what your true emotional needs are and live a life more in alignment with your truest self.

choosing what city to live in based on your moon sign helps an individual with emotional fulfillment, being able to create a sense of belonging, stress reduction, enhanced creativity and productivity, better romantic and platonic relationships, and so much more.

here are my thoughts on your ideal city based on your moon sign:

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⏾ virgo moon 一

kobe, japan + washington, D.C. (USA) + zurich, switzerland

you likely prefer a clean, walkable city that is health-conscious. ideal cities have paved roads, a lack of industrial machines or well-regulated factories, and a structured, straightforward urban planning model. a city safe enough to raise babies and young children is your benchmark. you value a city that emphasizes logical aspects of life. air pollution and trash management are crucial, so you'd thrive in cities with high air quality indexes, like those mentioned above.

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⏾ libra moon 一

florence, italy + brooklyn, new york + capetown, south africa + amsterdam, netherlands + paris, france

as one of my favorite moon signs, you truly appreciate beauty, harmony, and aesthetics in where and how you live. you love cultured cities with plenty of artistic experiences. perhaps you're an artist yourself, seeking communities where you can express that creativity. a city that offers a balance of cityscape, mountainscape, and access to bodies of water appeals to your sense of harmony. you’re drawn to colorful, multicultural environments where you can accumulate luxury goods.

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⏾ scorpio moon 一

new orleans, louisiana + mumbai, india + providence, rhode island

this one is tricky because scorpio Moons are known for being extremely intense and private, which doesn't always translate to a livable city (think Bermuda Triangle). however, you likely value transformative experiences and a form of social power. you want to be in a city that matches your intensity—a place that might be politically involved, spiritually inclined, or even part of some controversy. communities where you can explore taboo subjects or rise within social hierarchies are ideal for you.

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⏾ sagittarius moon 一

toronto, canada + prage, czech republic + krabi, thailand + dubai, UAE

as one of the more hedonistic moon signs, you crave freedom—to be, to do, to have, etc. you prefer cities with a lot of versatility for living, offering options like big homes, sprawling lofts, small cozy one-bedrooms, and everything in between. cultured and religious cities appeal to your belief system, which is crucial to you. You need a place where you can live your philosophies freely and have fun. a city with many opportunities for adventure and easy access to other exciting places is essential. think road trips, bungee jumping, scuba diving.

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⏾ capricorn moon 一

london, england + manhattan, new york + melbourne, australia

one word: old-fashioned. capricorns are often seen as traditional, and there's a reason for that. as a capricorn moon, you value cities that operate like institutions—places that have stood the test of time without much change to their foundation. ambition and hard work are of utmost importance, so cities with a professional or hustle culture appeal to you. you are drawn to cities in countries with a strong identity or culture that gratify your sense of tradition. cities where you can network, accumulate wealth, and indulge in luxuries are your ideal.

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⏾ aquarius moon 一

san francisco, california + rome, italy + new orleans, louisiana + portland, oregon

with pluto in aquarius, I anticipate more moves for aquarius moons, which is great because this is the most community-centered sign in my opinion. aquarius moons value living in cities where they can positively contribute, socialize, and build relationships based on shared interests. you are drawn to innovative, creative cities that are always ahead of trends. you also appreciate cities that are civically mindful and contribute to humanitarian efforts on both local and grand scales.

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⏾ pisces moon 一

bali, indonesia + bora bora, french polynesia + rome, italy + paris, france

pisces moons are one of the moon signs that truly need to feel "drawn" to a place before visiting or residing there. emotional fulfillment, romance, and creativity are non-negotiable for pisces moons. because of this, beautiful, artistic cities with many opportunities to be near bodies of water are ideal. beach cities and honeymoon destinations are perfect for pisces Moons' empathic and sensitive nature. A city with a calm undercurrent is essential to satisfy your need for rest and peace.

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⏾ aries moon 一

rome, italy + los angeles, california + tokyo, japan + cairo, egypt + mumbai, india

similar to capricorn moon, its cardinal sibling, aries moons need the opportunity to keep on the go wherever they live. For this reason, you're best suited to "cities that never sleep"—places where you can stay active, compete in major global industries, and reach newer heights. you're drawn to cities with fiery traditions and those that excel in national rankings. you also appreciate cities that are vocal about their value systems and embrace trends.

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⏾ taurus moon 一

honolulu, hawaii + havana, cuba + las vegas, nevada + ibiza, spain + tokyo, japan

much like libra moons, venus-ruled moons love venus-ruled cities. taurus moons enjoy cities that are comfortable in every sense—materially, socially, politically, and aesthetically. you appreciate cities that are openly hedonistic—notorious vacation spots are actually great places for you to establish yourself. cities with strong tourism markets are good for your desire for material success as they are epicenters of culture and attract people from all walks of life.

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⏾ gemini moon 一

chicago, illinois + boston, massachusetts + cairo, egypt + lisbon, portugal

as a gemini moon, cities that are versatile, education-centered, and logical are appealing to you. you thrive in places where "everyone knows everyone" and socializing is a priority. cities known for their educational institutions and vibrant social life satisfy your need for variety and communication. cities with a strong tourist presence are also appealing, as you enjoy the ability to feel like a tourist in your own city at any time.

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⏾ cancer moon 一

sydney, australia + niagara falls , new york + instanbul, turkey + berne, switzerland + mogadishu, somalia

cancer moons love domestic cities that are more feminine in nature. Like their sister sign capricorn, they strongly value traditions, both cultural and social, but in a softer manner. they prefer cities with a strong influence by women and things traditionally associated with women, like fashion, beauty, and the arts. cities with beaches and a strong luminary presence are essential, as they are the water-bearers of the zodiac. cities with a balance between domesticity and capitalism appeal to their need for material security and a good home. a city with a strong real estate market and that is ideal for newlyweds and families is also preferred.

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⏾ leo moon 一

los angeles, california + miami, florida + mexico city, mexico + marrakesh, morocco + ibiza, spain

much like aquarius moons, the need to be around people is prominent with leo moons. leo moons value being in cities that honor appearance and aesthetics. being seen, being talked about, romance, and play are priority for a leo moon when moving. a city where they can explore artistic pursuits and new cultures. cities that promote health and wellness and image. cities with social hierarchies and strong social networks. cities that are "popular" with the whole world. also cities that are known for night-life and social life. cities where you can regularly rub elbows with important people and indulge in the grandiosities of life.

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the moon in astrology is a gateway to a deeper understanding of one's desires, needs, and motivations which can help in making better-informed decisions on where to move or establish a life. I highly suggest you take this into consideration on your next trip or relocation.

thank you for reading 💋

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Pairing: Carlos Sainz x Wolff!author!reader Faceclaim: Saoirse-Monica Jackson Requested: yes no

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carlossainz55 Do I get a sneak peak?

ynwolff Only if you're nice to me carlossainz55 I'm currently holding flowers for you while your father glares at me please save me ynwolff I'm on my way

zakiyadaliaharris So beyond excited for this!

ynwolff Thank you for consulting! Could not have gotten anything done without you!

casey.mcquiston Yes! Gonna read this thing in one sitting

ynwolff Sending a never ending supply of hot chocolate your way

yns.pen More???? Oh my god we are getting fed next year

samrahfans She's back! Oh this one is going to be good, I can feel it

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yourusername Cover reveal! The Amber Trolley is available for preorder now!

Stay tuned for another special announcement coming within the next week!

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carlossainz55 So beyond proud of you, mi corazón. Cannot wait to add it to my track bag

ynwolff I love you so much, mein könig. chiliwilicarlos He calls her his heart I'm done. I'm done, I'm done. Sleeping on the highway tonight

zakiyadaliaharris Classic! Oh it looks amazing

ynwolff Mailing you a copy as we speak!

samrahfans I'M CRYING IT LOOKS SO CLEAN

chiliwilicarlos I swear if we get pictures of him reading this book at the track I will drop dead on the spot

yns.pen She truly never misses

blackfireproofs GOD he's the best boyfriend ever isn't he

ynwolff Can confirm 🥰

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carlossainz55 A week well spent with mi corazón in one of the most beautiful places on Earth. We get back to the grind this week

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ynwolff Mein könig, I love you more than words

carlossainz55 That's a lot, you really love words ynwolff And I love you more than all of them

charles_leclerc You're welcome for the recommendation

carlossainz55 The wine was delicious, we're bringing you some ynwolff And a signed copy charles_leclerc I'm more excited about the book than the wine

landonorris I wasn't invited?

formulafan Would you want to spend 2 weeks in a villa with Toto Wolff? landonorris No you're right, actually

blackfireproofs Oh Jesus Christ he gets more perfect every day

chiliwilicarlos I'm about as useful as a puddle rn

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yourusername Back to running across the paddock in desert heat

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carlossainz55 Come back I miss you

ynwolff I literally just walked into my father's office carlossainz55 🥺 ynwolff Not gonna work

mercedesamgf1 She's home finally

ynwolff I'm not watching the race with you mercedesamgf1 😦 carlossainz55 😊

scuderiaferrari Are we going to need to work out a custody schedule?

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carlotta.solano Back in the place where it all started. Away We Go is available for pre order now! Follow Alina Wolter as she tries to balance her dream job working for her favorite F1 team and resisting the charismatic first driver Santiago Cabrera!

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blackfireproofs Call me crazy, but I think I sense a pen name....

yns.pen No I've been thinking the same thing. Two books getting announced on the same day... blackfireproofs Not to mention the initials of the name too. C.S... and it's a Spanish name. And Carlotta??? yns.pen It sounds extremely similar to Carlos yns.pen And the character's names! Wolter... her last name is Wolff. And Santiago Cabrera? chiliwilicarlos It's just Carlos' initials reversed. And the names are German and Spanish. German close enough to Austrian but still blackfireproofs No there are way too many parallels yns.pen Not to mention that YN is in Bahrain with Carlos and her father for the race

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ynwolff Book signing, burgers, and- I'm too tired to finish the alliteration

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carlossainz55 Best nap I've had in a while to be honest

ynwolff Honestly me too

zakiyadaliaharris Book signings bring on a different kind of tired

ynwolff I can't feel my hand casey.mcquiston Ice. So so much ice in your future

yns.pen I cannot believe I actually met her today! Oh my god, she was so so sweet and took her time with while I tried to speak German

ynwolff Your German was much better than you give yourself credit for! It was such a pleasure to meet you

blackfireproofs I went today too and watched Carlos watch her while I was waiting in line and oh my god he was looking at her like she was the moon

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ynwolff Weekend away with my very own Santiago Cabrera during which he stole my sunglasses no more than twelve times

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carlossainz55 My own Alina Wolter 🥰 Better in person than on paper, no?

ynwolff Always better in person than on paper

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Hi! I read your post-finale DM meta and I think it's very interesting. The point about Armand turning Daniel because Daniel eviscerated him and made him feel seen for who he truly is (in all his flawed, monstrous glory) felt very true to his character. So I get why Armand would fall for Daniel (eventually) and turn him. But I was wondering (and this is presuming that nothing like the chase or a relationship between them happened in the past), how do you see this Daniel, this vampire who seems to have his shit together and be pretty content with his vampiric life (afawk from the finale, tho this obviously may not be the full truth), falling for Armand eventually? How do you think that will develop?

@destielonfire First of all let me apologize for having no idea when you sent this, I never saw a notification so I hope it hasn't been too long!

I think Daniel's hot girl summer moment we saw a glimpse of in the finale is a ruse by the writers. It added an air of levity to the season finale and gave viewers (and eric!) the gift of swaggering badass vampire Daniel.

But season 3 will have the time to get into it more deeply and well, I don't think anyone ever has a great time after being turned, even if you are rich and famous.

I'm not sure Daniel has ever had his shit together a moment in his life. He says he did when he convinced Alice to marry him, but it must not have lasted long. He was never able to balance his work life with his family. I doubt he'll have an easier time balancing his work life with being a vampire.

I'm also leaning towards the reads on him that this is going to pull him right back down into his addiction issues, now that he's immortal. There are no (well fewer) consequences for substance abuse as a vampire, plus he has a whole new drug, blood, and all that comes with acquiring it. In Dubai we saw that Daniel was squeamish about eating wriggling fish. How is he coping with killing and eating people? I think we only saw one half of the story in the finale. We saw the alcoholic at the bar, buying shots for all his friends while everyone laughs and cheers. We didn't see the next morning's hangover.

In the books, Armand effectively drives Daniel insane to the point the point he falls in love with him, which is hella fucked up (and we love that), so I can see the show taking one of two paths here.

The first is they just adapt that method straight from the books. Lonely and desperate Armand chasing Daniel around the world trying to figure out how to navigate their future as master and fledgling (and understand what drove him to break his vow to never make another vampire for THIS GUY), eventually coming to the conclusion its because he loves him, and Daniel later doing the same. Because they're both trainwrecks impossibly drawn to forms of self harm.

The second is a little less inexplicable and a lot less toxic. Instead of Armand driving Daniel crazy with his psychosexual torture, Daniel does it to himself with his hedonistic desires and lack of self-control. He feeds and kills and feeds and kills, pushes away his family, friends, and collegues, ruins his professional reputation. And he can't understand why he can't stop, why nothing ever makes him feel complete, etc etc. And because he is his maker, because of their invisible cord, Armand takes responsibility for picking him up off the floor and attempting to help him deal with this. Because Armand's the one that gave immortality to a man who can't stop blowing up his life and the lives of everyone around him.

I also think that on a more specific note, Daniel in season 3 will continue to be the plot device that presents the backstory to the audience. I think he'll probably go on tour with Lestat to try to get that second book, and Lestat will share his story, which we know features not only Armand, but Armand's maker Marius, and other places and characters that inform the audience (and Daniel) on Armand's history, motivations, traumas, etc. Daniel has been learning about Armand as a side character and villain in all these other vampires' stories where obviously they're the main characters, the heroes, the victims. But slowly piece by piece he is putting together the Armand puzzle, and now that they're inextricabIy linked he has even more motivation to put the pieces in place. I think those glimpses into Armand's history are going to intrigue him, maybe even endear him to Armand. When they're reunited he wont be able to resist going straight to the source. Which is good because Daniel finding him fascinating is going to melt Armand.

Also I am a romantic. Sometimes there doesn't need to be a reason why two people fall for each other. Season 2 already showed us that these two have an energy. There are strong feelings there already, they can't keep their eyes off each other, can't stop sniping at each other like hissing cats sniffing each other out. Combine that with vampire loneliness and mutual freakitude and you've got a recipe for something.

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iwtv ep 2 rewatch thoughts

the groan…a sound that comes from the building being at the height that it is makes you wonder if it should be that high. its obviously so loud it cant be ignored and it’s not a nice sound. sure it’s a rare experience to live in a place like that like just that image is rare and beautifully crafted but there’s something off about it that makes the building groan just like that rare work of being the work of Marius with Marius being who he is, which we’re reminded of by all of this being explained by Rashmand. Louis covets the rare experiences in life despite whatever groan comes with it like being a billionaire living in Dubai despite the groan of it being a city built by slave labor and the groan of his sexuality being condemned there and illegal and the groan of his own exploitation of others in the way he exists there (i.e the blood farm, the men who come and offer up their blood for pay). the groan of the excessiveness and extravagance of his meal with Daniel. the groan of fixed roles he insists upon (but does not truly exist as) in between him and Rashmand despite both claiming its for the best there’s a groan of something not being right a lack of true freedom to fully express. (an over correction to the roles of the past. a trauma response to choices made that led to disasters) The groan of Louis apologizing for shedding a single blood tear and calling it losing control. whether it’s his own doing, someone else’s or both he is not free to fully express he is not free to fully be. etc. etc. the rare has a jarring cost every time. like the rare experience of being an immortal vampire and the groan of losing your place in humanity.

this is the episode where Louis is at the height of his undead life/self expression/companionship/career but its always underscored by the groan of what it means to be an immortal monster/fledgling. something he can’t reconcile with. something he can’t ignore. his world has been opened to experience and express the full breath of who he is for better or for worse, but that is underscored with the groan of that freedom to be, being conditional to how he can or can’t live out his roles with his society and his family and the expectations that come with his role as Lestat’s fledgling/companion. it becomes more and more apparent that regardless of the fact that Lestat wanted to free him from all his hats, regardless of the fact that he probably meant it when he said it, he cant free Louis from everything. he never could. and he also actually isn’t able to relinquish control over their lives and the groaaaannnn of the fact that he will demand Louis to once again exist in a box he doesn’t fit/and doesn’t want to fit (strict gendered role). plus the groan of Lestat never understanding and often times disregarding the box Louis can’t escape and in some ways don’t want to leave behind (societal/racial). he enjoys the rare experience of being in a queer interracial relationship, the rare fact that people know but they get away with it because the power and access of wealth, status and being vampires but the groan of the fact that they have to hide elements of the truth to remain under the radar, the groan in the fact that in choosing a life with Lestat and the dark gift he can’t balance his life with his family and is slowly but surely isolated, ostracized and made a scapegoat in their eyes. the groan in the dubcon nature of that choice in the first place. he covets the rare experience of being a successful black-owned business in that time on that particular street and yet the groan of the success of his career being on the backs of the exploitation and labor of poor, disabled, black women. the groan of who he has to do business with and who he the clientele are. the groan, the groan, the groan. truly what is that sound!?

Daniel: Seven? How many courses are there? Fattening me up for the [groan] inevitable end?

the rare coursed meals given to Daniel are an experience of the fine dining that comes with Louis’ elitist lifestyle underscored by the groan of much of what he’s eating being endangered species in the same way he is an endangered human amongst vampires. (groaaan)

the groan of Louis consuming a rare blood type that could be being used as a necessary blood transfusion to save someone’s life but its being hoarded and consumed by a billionaire vampire with access to a private blood farm for his consumption and his consumption only. the groan of exasperation at Louis refusing to acknowledge this personal evil that calls back to what he knew to be true about himself as a human. he is the keeper of knowledge in this exchange leaning into that power he was once denied he is now unbound of his past strict role as the “hysterical wife” (and yet the underscoring groan of not allowing himself to show any emotion at all in all the ways he exists and expresses himself now)

memory being a monster both a rare over powered immortal monster and an endangered human share. the thread to humanity that Louis doesn’t have to fabricate.

i love the music eventually being a touch too loud.

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what are your thoughts on the louis/daniel dynamic? i love the old man personality but i feel like he can be harsh/insensitive to louis. the show makes it clear what daniel’s relationship to louis is like for daniel, but how do you think louis feels? i am rooting for them to end up friendly, hopefully more than in the books where i got the sense they were just connected through lestat & armand

I think Louis has a lot of complex feelings about Daniel, it seems like he comes into the interview with a man almost idealistic version of Daniel in his mind-- which makes sense in a lot of ways seeing as the last time he did see him was back in the 70s. And we know he's at least caught up with his body of work but he doesn't Know Daniel as the washed up journalist old man with the online journalism course. And I think there's this very interesting flip side that we're seeing in Dubai as compared to San Francisco bc Daniel is just as mundane in both eras I would say. He's got a way with journalism but as a person he's not really exceptional. He's WEIRD like you gotta be some level of weird to be in this deep with vampires? Like he came back???? But he's not like the Wolfkiller of his age you know? And that past ideal of Daniel as this clumsy but interesting mundane human that's the draw for Louis back in the day. The Daniel of today is also clumsy and mundane but he's also aged, he's also a lot more cynical about life. And he's also very much an old white man left-leaning American journalist. And if you know anything about those types the second interview is this very bitter dose of reality... Louis seems like he genuinely thought Daniel could turn Claudia's diaries into something that could honor her in some way (and at the same time there's that want for redemption, a want to do right by her, a want to ease some of Louis' own guilt I feel). But that's not how you become a lauded journalist in US American journalism. It's a scene rife with exploitation and bending to publishers and propaganda etc etc. And upon hearing what Claudia goes through Daniel switches RIGHT to that. And you see Louis have to contend with the fact that the mundane journalist boy (young man) grows up to be a mundane journalist man and this is the type of person the genre is made of. And despite all this we do see that Louis holds fondness for Daniel. I'm not sure if there's romantic or sexual feelings on Louis' end but I think it's a lot more plausible than DM in the show. if I'm gonna be real I cannot take another bundle of clips of Armand doing the "I need to act polite for this white man" expression special pushed forward as sexual interest it's just making me feel like people would ship me with any microaggressive guy that came my way bc I have to keep up a front to not get in trouble 💀. I PERSONALLY don't see Daniel making it to season 3 anyway, outside of my feelings towards him I think narrative wise it would be hard to make the Lestat-heavy POV switch while balancing Daniel in the narrative as a notable portion of it and I think Louis engaging with mortality through Daniel has a lot of potential.

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Demystifying Mortgage Financing for Dubai Homebuyers

Mortgage financing in Dubai can be complex and overwhelming for homebuyers. This blog aims to demystify the process, providing clear explanations and practical tips to help you navigate mortgage financing with confidence.

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Understanding Mortgage Financing

Mortgage financing involves borrowing money from a lender to purchase property, using the property itself as collateral. In Dubai, various mortgage products cater to different needs, including fixed-rate, variable-rate, and hybrid mortgages. Understanding these options and their implications is crucial for making an informed decision.

Key Mortgage Financing Options:

Fixed-Rate Mortgages: These mortgages have a constant interest rate throughout the loan term, providing predictable monthly payments.

Variable-Rate Mortgages: The interest rate on these mortgages can fluctuate based on market conditions, leading to potential changes in monthly payments.

Hybrid Mortgages: These combine features of both fixed and variable-rate mortgages, offering a fixed rate for an initial period followed by a variable rate.

Interest-Only Mortgages: These mortgages allow borrowers to pay only the interest for a specified period, followed by principal and interest payments for the remainder of the loan term.

Offset Mortgages: These link a savings account to the mortgage, reducing the interest payable on the mortgage by offsetting the savings balance against the loan balance.

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Steps to Demystify Mortgage Financing

Understand Your Financial Situation: Evaluate your income, expenses, savings, and credit score to determine your borrowing capacity.

Research Mortgage Products: Compare different mortgage products to understand their features, benefits, and potential drawbacks.

Get Pre-Approved: Obtain a pre-approval letter from your chosen lender, which shows sellers that you are a serious buyer and provides an estimate of how much you can borrow.

Choose the Right Mortgage Product: Based on your financial situation and preferences, select the mortgage product that suits you best.

Submit Your Application: Provide all necessary documentation to your lender to complete your mortgage application.

Negotiate Terms: Work with your lender to negotiate favorable terms, including interest rates and repayment schedules.

Seek Professional Advice: Consider hiring a mortgage consultant to guide you through the process and provide expert advice.

For mortgage consulting services, consider Mortgage Consultant Dubai.

Real-Life Success Story

Consider the case of Olivia, an expatriate in Dubai looking to buy her first home. Olivia was initially overwhelmed by the mortgage options and the complexities of the application process. She decided to seek the help of a mortgage consultant based on recommendations from colleagues. The consultant assessed Olivia’s financial situation, explained the different mortgage products available, and helped her choose the best one for her needs.

Throughout the process, the consultant handled all the paperwork, negotiated with lenders to secure a competitive rate, and kept Olivia informed at every step. This personalized service made a significant difference, reducing Olivia’s stress and ensuring a smooth and successful home purchase.

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Common Challenges and How to Overcome Them

Navigating the mortgage market in Dubai comes with its own set of challenges. Here are some common challenges and how to overcome them:

Understanding Complex Terms: The mortgage market is filled with complex terms and jargon that can be confusing. A mortgage consultant can break down these terms and explain them in simple language.

Comparing Different Products: With numerous mortgage products available, comparing them can be overwhelming. A mortgage consultant can provide a clear comparison of different products, highlighting the pros and cons of each.

Handling Documentation: The mortgage application process requires extensive documentation. A mortgage consultant can help you gather and organize the necessary documents, ensuring that everything is in order.

Dealing with Rejections: If your mortgage application is rejected, a mortgage consultant can help you understand the reasons and provide guidance on improving your financial profile for future applications.

Securing the Best Rates: Negotiating with lenders to secure the best rates can be challenging. A mortgage consultant, with their industry connections and expertise, can negotiate on your behalf to get the most favorable terms.

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Future Trends in Mortgage Financing

The mortgage financing landscape in Dubai is continuously evolving, with new trends shaping the market. Here are some future trends to watch out for:

Increased Use of Technology: The integration of technology in the mortgage process is expected to increase, making applications and approvals more seamless.

Sustainability: There is a growing focus on sustainable and energy-efficient properties. Mortgages for green buildings and eco-friendly homes are likely to become more popular.

Flexible Mortgage Products: Lenders are expected to offer more flexible mortgage products to cater to the diverse needs of borrowers.

Regulatory Changes: Ongoing regulatory changes may impact the mortgage market, and staying informed will be crucial for borrowers.

Market Adaptation: The mortgage market will continue to adapt to economic conditions, including interest rate fluctuations and property market trends.

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Conclusion

Demystifying mortgage financing in Dubai requires understanding the process, knowing your options, and making informed decisions. By evaluating your financial situation, researching mortgage products, getting pre-approved, choosing the right mortgage product, and seeking professional advice, you can navigate the mortgage financing process with confidence. For more resources and expert advice, visit home loan dubai.

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Life in Dubai: Where Opulence Meets Innovation in Downtown and Design District

Dubai, the city of towering skyscrapers, dazzling lights, and seemingly endless luxury, holds two distinct gems within its heart: Downtown Dubai and Dubai Design District (d3). While both share the vibrant pulse of the city, each offers a unique flavor of life, attracting residents seeking different experiences. So, which one might suit you better? Let's explore the essence of life in each:

Downtown Dubai: A Symphony of Luxury and Convenience

Imagine stepping out your door and being greeted by the Burj Khalifa piercing the clouds, the Dubai Mall offering an endless array of designer brands, and the Dubai Fountain captivating you with its choreographed water dance. This is the quintessential Downtown Dubai experience. Life here is fast-paced, opulent, and dripping with convenience. Luxury apartments with breathtaking views, Michelin-starred restaurants, and designer boutiques are your everyday companions.

Living the high life: Residents in Downtown enjoy effortless living. Everything is a stone's throw away, from world-class entertainment like Dubai Opera to iconic landmarks like Dubai Museum. Whether you crave a quick grocery run or a lavish spa treatment, there's an option for every whim. Connectivity is seamless, with efficient public transport and readily available taxis.

The flip side of opulence: Life in Downtown comes with a hefty price tag. Rents are notoriously high, and the constant buzz of activity can be overwhelming for those seeking quieter spaces. While family-friendly options exist, the focus on luxury caters more to young professionals and jet-setters seeking a vibrant, fast-paced lifestyle.

Dubai Design District: Where Creativity Collides with Community

Tucked away on the banks of Dubai Creek, d3 offers a starkly different atmosphere. Vibrant street art adorns repurposed warehouses, trendy cafes buzz with creative energy, and independent design studios showcase innovative ideas. Here, life pulsates with a creative heartbeat, attracting artists, entrepreneurs, and design enthusiasts.

Cultivating creativity: Artists find an inspiring haven in d3, with dedicated studios, co-working spaces, and regular exhibitions fostering collaboration and growth. The community spirit is strong, with events and workshops bringing people together to share ideas and support each other's endeavors. Families are welcome, with the relaxed atmosphere and focus on art offering a unique upbringing.

Finding balance: Life in d3 is more affordable than Downtown, with a mix of residential options catering to diverse budgets. While amenities aren't as readily available, the walkable community vibe makes exploring a pleasure. The pace is slower, encouraging residents to connect with themselves and their surroundings.

Choosing your Dubai:

Ultimately, the "better" place to live depends on your personal preferences and priorities. Do you crave the convenience and luxury of Downtown, or the creative energy and community spirit of d3?

For the:

Young professional or jet-setter: Downtown's fast-paced, luxurious lifestyle beckons.

Family seeking a unique upbringing: d3's artistic community and slower pace offer a different perspective.

Passionate artist or entrepreneur: d3's collaborative atmosphere fuels creative pursuits.

Budget-conscious individual: d3 offers more affordable options while still providing access to Dubai's attractions.

Beyond the divide:

While both Downtown and d3 exist as distinct entities, they are interwoven into the fabric of Dubai. Residents can effortlessly experience both worlds, with convenient access and a shared cultural pulse. So, whether you choose the opulent symphony of Downtown or the creative melody of d3, remember that the true magic of Dubai lies in its ability to cater to diverse desires, offering a unique experience for everyone.

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Renew with Dubai's Reupholstery Experts: Sofas, Chairs, and Stools Revitalized Services

Sofa Repair Dubai takes immense pride in delivering unparalleled quality, whether we're revamping your sofa through Reupholstery or creating custom curtains. We guarantee excellence from fabric selection to craftsmanship, ensuring you receive top-notch service. When you choose us, you're selecting a team of skilled professionals dedicated to your satisfaction in Sofas, Chairs, and Stools Reupholstered Services. Rest assured that with us, your furniture is in the hands of experts committed to delivering a refreshing and reliable experience.

Rediscover the allure of bygone eras with Sofa Repair Dubai's professional reupholstery services. Vintage sofas carry stories and character, and our expert restoration maintains their historical significance, breathing new life into cherished furniture.

Embark on a fabric journey for your Dubai sofas, chairs, and stools with Sofa Repair Dubai. Explore factors like durability and aesthetics to pick the perfect material. Elevate your furniture by making informed choices in the diverse world of upholstery fabrics.

Contemplating a DIY upholstery project? Consider the pros and cons. While DIY offers a personal touch, our professional Sofas, Chairs and Stools Reupholstered Services bring expertise. Strike a balance that suits your skills and the unique needs of your furniture.

Stay ahead in Dubai's interior design scene with our latest trends in sofa upholstery. Uncover the hottest colors and patterns that promise to transform your living space into a stylish haven. Embrace the future of furniture fashion.

Think beyond traditional repair methods and embrace eco-friendly solutions. Dive into our creative upcycling ideas for old Sofas, Chairs, and Stools Services in Dubai. Give your furniture a new lease on life with innovative and sustainable approaches.

Discover the unique challenges and rewards of restoring leather furniture in Dubai with us. Unveil tips to maintain the luxurious look and feel of leather, ensuring your sofas, chairs, and stools exude timeless elegance.

Tailor your upholstery choices for family living in Dubai with us. Learn the secrets to selecting durable and pet-friendly fabrics that withstand daily wear and tear. Keep your sofas stylish and intact while embracing the chaos of family life.

Embark on a journey to uncover the hidden treasures of antique sofas in Dubai with Sofa Repair Dubai. Delve into the restoration stories that breathe life back into these historical gems. Explore the rich tapestry of the city's furniture heritage.

Extend the lifespan of your upholstered furniture in Dubai's unique climate with our comprehensive maintenance guide. Learn routine care practices to protect and preserve your investment, ensuring long-lasting comfort and style.

Unleash your creativity and transform ordinary pieces into personalized works of art with Sofa Repair Dubai. Explore the world of custom upholstery in Dubai, turning drab into fab, and infusing your space with a touch of uniqueness. Elevate your surroundings with bespoke furniture creations.

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Best Meditation for Controlling Depression of a Person

There are lots of people who pretend to be strong in front of the world but are dealing with severe depression. Having depression for an extended period is harmful. Sometimes, it gives rise to anxiety or even panic attacks, which are unhealthy for both mind and body. That is why Anxiety Therapist near me is one solution that you can look up to, or through simple meditation, you can control it. Meditation has a considerable power to heal any mental and physical issue, including depression. Through meditation, you can control your chakra and maintain it properly. That is why it is you can control your negative thoughts. Want to learn more about it? So keep your eye on this post till last, and you will get to know what meditation you should do so that you can cure your depression like a pro.

Also Read: How to Deal with Attachment Issues Effectively

Best Meditation for Controlling Depression

Transcendental Meditation

Transcendental meditation, commonly known as TM, has a significant global following. Transcendental meditation employs sound or a personal mantra—typically one or two syllables—as the anchor for your focus rather than the breath.

Mindfulness-Based Cognitive Therapy

A subset of mindfulness meditation is this. It focuses on altering harmful thought and behavior patterns and combines with cognitive behavioral therapy for successful outcomes. If you still feel depressed or even anxious, then it's better to see the best Anxiety Therapist in Dubai so that you can get over your issue as soon as possible.

Body Scan Meditation

Start by focusing on every body part, from your head to your toes, to attain deep relaxation. As you intentionally relax your muscles, pay attention to any feelings in your body. You'll quickly become more at ease and calm by using this strategy.

Also Read: What are the Major Benefits of Doing Yoga?

Walking Meditation

Naturally, walking is beneficial to your physical and emotional well-being. Still, a strolling meditation could elevate you to a new plane. In one study, aerobic walking combined with three times a week of Buddhist meditation over 12 weeks not only decreased depression but also enhanced flexibility and balance in a small group of older persons. In other studies, younger people's anxiety was similarly reduced by 10 minutes a day of meditation either before or after walking.

Depression is a common mental health problem that has been observed chiefly in young adults, and the reasons behind it are various. That may be a lousy lifestyle, love-related issues, stress, work life, etc. So that is why you should take care of yourself well and not forget to lead a healthy lifestyle. Contact Light Angelic for any assistance.

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Corporate Gift Ideas for UAE National Day

UAE National Day is a significant occasion for the whole country. This occasion provides an excellent opportunity to connect with clients, partners, and employees by presenting them with thoughtful and meaningful corporate gifts from Royal Top Trading.

Customized UAE National Day Merchandise:

Gift your employees customized UAE National Day merchandise. Consider items such as t-shirts, wristbands, caps, or keychains featuring the UAE flag, or national symbols with your brand logo.

UAE-themed Gift Hampers:

Delight your employees with UAE-themed gift hampers filled with local delicacies and cultural treats. Include items such as Arabic sweets, premium dates, or gourmet snacks. Incorporate your company’s branding with these and make them remember your company’s name.

Personalized Stationery:

Offer your employees personalized stationery items that combine functionality with a touch of UAE flair. Consider notebooks, pens, or desk accessories adorned with their initials alongside UAE-themed designs. This thoughtful gesture not only adds a personal touch but also encourages productivity and creativity in the workplace.

Wellness Gifts:

Prioritize your employees’ well-being by gifting wellness-related items. Consider options like, essential oil diffusers, aromatherapy sets, and stress-relief kits. These gifts demonstrate your commitment to their holistic well-being, encouraging a healthy work-life balance and promoting a positive atmosphere within the company.

Cultural Experiences:

Vouchers for traditional Emirati dining experiences, desert safaris, or visits to museums and cultural sites can create memorable moments of exploration and appreciation.

Tech Gadgets:

For a more modern gift, consider tech gadgets that align with your employees’ interests such as power banks, and USB flash drives (card USB, etc).

Personalized Appreciation Cards:

Accompany your corporate gifts with personalized appreciation cards.

By selecting thoughtful and personalized gifts, you can show your employees that their hard work is valued and that they are an integral part of your organization’s success. Whether it’s customized UAE-themed merchandise, wellness gifts, or cultural experiences, the right gift will leave a lasting impression

Royal Top Trading is your trusted corporate gifts supplier in Dubai. Our extensive range of premium corporate gifts allows us to help you leave a lasting impression on your clients, employees, and business associates. We serve all across the UAE including Abu Dhabi, Kuwait, Nigeria, Egypt, Qatar, Bahrain, Saudi Arabia, Oman, and South Africa.

Visit Our Website/ Catalogue to see our extensive selection of corporate gifts, and business gifts and we are confident you’ll find the perfect item for your next promotion. However, if you require assistance, our experienced team is always here to help.

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Introducing: Dj David Saludes

David Saludes is a Spanish DJ and producer who has become a legendary figure in the industry, being considered one of the best and most important in the world. He has worked with renowned DJs such as David Guetta and Avicii, and has performed in the best clubs and hotels worldwide. His popularity is evident, being one of the most requested DJs in Ibiza every summer.

His sound is a perfect example of what it’s like to spin great music that offers genre variety! David is based in Dubai, UAE, where he is the resident DJ at various high-profile local venues, including Five Palm Jumeirah, as well as the Atlantis The Royal, only to mention a few. He also performs regularly at the world-famous Cafè Mambo in Ibiza!��

One of the most distinctive traits of hIs DJ chops is certainly the energy, and the drive that fuels his selections. In addition to the engaging power of the music, he stands out for the sonics of his mixes. His tone is balanced and very detail-oriented, making for a lively, edgy and stark sonic approach. In other words, there are many subtle nuances that make DJ David’s set always special and organic, keeping the audience on their feet! 

When asked if he still has the passion for being a DJ after many years of success, David replied that his work is a pleasure, and he enjoys it more every day. He cannot imagine his life without doing what he loves. He has been living and working in Dubai for almost 12 years now and is very happy there. His work stands out for its modern sound, but although the production value of what he spins is quite polished, it is never overproduced, allowing a lot of wonderfully organic  and “human” elements to really add liveliness to the mix.

Although he hasn't released anything new for almost two years, David is preparing a new track that he plans to release in October. He used to release two or three songs every year, but the last two years have been very busy for him with his DJ job and his entertainment company, DASSA TALENT ENTERTAINMENT, which currently provides entertainment in 34 hotels across the United Arab Emirates, Qatar, Bahrain, Maldives, and Egypt.

This summer, David will be touring Europe in July, visiting Spain, Italy, France, and Greece, where he will be headlining various parties. He is looking forward to it and will then spend the rest of the summer in Dubai, performing at his residencies in Atlantis the Royal (Jaleo), Five Palm Jumeirah, and Be top Dubai.

Find out more about Dj David Saludes and do not miss out on the artist’s most recent releases, activities and events:

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Benefits of Starting a Home-Based Business in Dubai

The Benefits of Starting a Home-Based Business in Dubai

Starting a home-based business in Dubai offers several advantages that can be beneficial for entrepreneurs. Here are some key benefits of starting a home-based business in Dubai:

Cost Savings: Operating a business from home eliminates the need for leasing or purchasing commercial space, which can significantly reduce overhead costs. You can save on expenses such as rent, utility bills, and commuting costs, allowing you to allocate more resources towards business growth and development.

Flexibility: Running a home-based business provides flexibility in terms of working hours and work-life balance. You have the freedom to set your own schedule and work at your own pace. This flexibility is especially valuable for individuals with personal commitments or those who prefer a more flexible working environment.

Convenience: Operating from home eliminates the need for a daily commute, saving you time and reducing stress. You have the convenience of working in a comfortable and familiar environment, with all the necessary tools and resources at your fingertips. This can enhance productivity and overall job satisfaction.

Reduced Risks: Starting a home-based business allows you to test your business idea with minimal risk. Since you don't have the financial burden of leasing a commercial space, you can experiment, refine your offerings, and assess market demand before scaling up. This mitigates the risk of investing significant capital upfront.

Lower Regulatory Requirements: Home-based businesses in Dubai generally have fewer regulatory requirements compared to businesses with physical locations. This simplifies the setup process and reduces administrative tasks, allowing you to focus more on your core business activities.

Tax Benefits: Depending on the nature of your home-based business, you may be eligible for certain tax benefits or exemptions. Consult with a tax advisor to understand the specific tax advantages available to home-based businesses in Dubai.

Enhanced Work-Life Balance: Working from home allows you to strike a better balance between your personal and professional life. You can save time on commuting, have more flexibility in managing family commitments, and enjoy a better quality of life. This can lead to higher job satisfaction and overall well-being.

Global Reach: With advancements in technology and the internet, home-based businesses in Dubai can easily reach a global customer base. You can leverage digital platforms, social media, and e-commerce tools to market and sell your products or services to customers worldwide, expanding your business opportunities.

Scalability: Starting as a home-based business provides a solid foundation for future growth. As your business expands and generates revenue, you can consider scaling up by transitioning to a dedicated commercial space or exploring additional business avenues while maintaining the advantages of a home-based setup.

It's important to note that starting a home-based business still requires careful planning, determination, and adherence to legal and regulatory requirements. Conduct thorough market research, develop a solid business plan, and seek professional advice to ensure your home-based business in Dubai is set up for success.

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Opening the Power of Investing: Building Riches for the Future

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Investing is a powerful device that can assist individuals construct wealth as well as secure their financial future. Whether you are simply starting to dip your toes right into the globe of investing or have been doing it for years, there is no denying the potential it holds. By putting your money to function, you can expand your wide range over time and accomplish your lasting monetary goals.Investing allows

you to make passive revenue and generate returns on your first financial investment. The secret is to expand your profile, spreading your financial investments across different possession classes such as supplies, bonds, property, and even different investments like cryptocurrencies. This diversification assists mitigate threats as well as make the most of potential gains. It's crucial to note that investing is not a get-rich-quick system, but rather a long-lasting method that calls for persistence, self-control, and also a thoughtful approach.One of the most

significant advantages of investing is the power of intensifying. By reinvesting your incomes, you allow your investments to expand significantly over time. This compounding effect can be particularly impactful when you begin spending early in life, providing your investments even more time to grow and produce significant returns. In addition, spending can work as a hedge against rising cost of living, as the returns from your financial investments have the prospective to outpace the rate of rising cost of living, protecting your buying power.However, it's crucial to educate yourself prior to diving into the world of

investing. Understanding various investment vehicles, danger tolerance, as well as developing a well-balanced investment strategy are all necessary actions to guarantee a successful investing trip. Looking for support from monetary advisors or well-informed specialists can likewise supply useful understandings and also aid browse the intricacies of the market.In final thought, investing is a powerful device that can aid people construct wealth and also achieve monetary flexibility. It is a long-term method that calls for patience, diversity, and also a thoughtful approach. By taking advantage of the power of compounding as well as educating yourself concerning different investment alternatives, you can unlock the capacity of investing and pave the way to a secure financial future.

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Balancing work-life: There is no such thing as a perfect work-life balance. It’s about what you want to focus on and prioritising. When I’m at work, I’m a hundred per cent invested in it, and when I’m at home, I don’t think about work. Happiness & energy high: My kids. Watching them grow gives me utmost happiness. Walking into office and seeing smiling employees motivates me to keep doing good work. Dare Quotient: Never say never and take up all challenges. Winning trick up her sleeve: Keep a keen eye on small victories as in the long run they lead to bigger gains. One thing she says no to always: Giving up and not striving enough to achieve your goals under any circumstances. Life lessons learnt: As long as you do something to improve today and make it a little better than yesterday, you’re going to be successful every day. Just show up and do something you’re passionate about. Spiritual diet: Being positive, as it leads to a healthy mind and body. Success vs failure: There is no way to define and measure success or failure. Success for one is failure for another. Being successful or failing are subjective and not always black and white, at least in my opinion. I don’t see failure as an inability to succeed, but a different experience from the ideal. Every experience is a learning one, what is important is to try and not make the same mistake twice. On life challenges: Being an entrepreneur is itself a journey of challenges and there can never be a rule book to tackling them. Everyone faces some challenges in their lives and they have to handle it to the best of their abilities. It’s like the saying that goes, “Life is the most difficult exam, which many fail because they try to copy others, not realizing that everyone has a different question paper.” #abwenelson. (at Dubai Marina) https://www.instagram.com/p/Cp9IkmFLCSe/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

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My 2022 Anti-hero

Yep, you read that right. I used Taylor Swift’s new song “Anti-hero” in the title. If you’ve listened to it already, you should know who the anti-hero is then. If not, then read on, my friend.

If you’ve known me for a while and you somehow made your way to my life a bit closer, you’re probably aware I do blogs like this and that I normally write every year end (cos why not). If it’s your first time here, then buckle up cos this one’s gonna be long and I am not sure you’re ready for a serious peek in my life. mehehe

I must say I’ve gone through some tough times in my years of existence but this year hits different. 2022 was way too fast, especially in its latter parts. It’s not that I couldn’t keep up, I was also too fast. Too fast that even if I was already aware, I couldn’t stop the engine. It was going in directions (not just one) I did not intend to be in. It was moving at a pace where I just realized I was messing it up but I was already at the tail end.

If you know me well, you know “fast” is not my thing. I always take time. I don’t rush things. I need time to process and articulate. So 2022 was really a challenge for me. It took a toll on me that I had to ring SOS to God and some of my good and wise friends.

Oh what mercy it is to be surrounded by people who truly love God and love me and will slap me in the face with truth to wake me up! (that’s why folks, go for friends who are genuinely a good counsel and aligned with your core values)

God has been personal with the people/community He’s brought to my life this year. He directed me to my new church: Pinnacle Village. I joined the P&W music team again (after N years!!) and met new people I can worship God with. I have a pastor who is very intentional and personal; plus a huddle group that prays for me all the way from the US and Pampanga!

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Of course, my closest friends (all the way from Dubai and far north & south) also played a big part for me this year. From referring me to my new church to dropping truth bombs to my face every single time I would SOS-video call and do my breakdowns in my car.

I am blessed to even be given good friends at work — which was part of my prayer before transitioning jobs — who would point me back to Jesus and remind me who I am (from when they first met me); almost everyday. 🥹

It didn’t take long for me to realize how God has been nudging me to reevaluate my life and what truly matters, but it was me (the anti-hero) who stubbornly evaded restoration and correction because I was in a state of— as John Piper said it:

“If you don’t feel strong desires for the manifestation of the glory of God, it is not because you have drunk deeply and are satisfied. It is because you have nibbled so long at the table of the world. Your soul is stuffed with small things, and there is no room for the great.”

At some point, I felt like I was losing myself. I was conflicted. I was struggling. I had a lot of questions that even good counsel couldn’t appease.

I knew it was already escalating when my dog (Mallow) even started sleeping beside my head to make sure I continue sleeping. She knew and felt it too. 🥹

It was so bad that I had to go back to running because I kept waking up at 2am or 3am. I had to re-divert focus and just run because I couldn’t sleep anymore. I needed the endorphins from running to keep me going.

But it still wasn’t enough — especially on tough days at home — that eventually (as I mentioned in one of my conversations with a good friend from work) work has become an opium for me. Don’t get me wrong, I really work a lot (that’s part of my work-life balance). But this time I was working like crazy. I was restless. Pushed my limits. I was aware. And I was stubborn.

I did everything I could to evade the very thing I needed to do: to come back again and be vulnerable at the foot of the Cross, in the presence of Christ — the true lover of my soul. The One who can give me peace that transcends all understanding.

Vulnerability has always been my struggle. But before it was just with people. I didn’t have troubles going to God. All these years I’ve always been honest with God. In all my seasons, the brightest and darkest ones, God was always the first person I would go to for help. So I am still shocked now that I am looking back at this year.

It was like an actualization of “Strider” in LOTR. The lone wolf. And now that I think about it, my blog title, the wandering soul.

And so I ask myself, what happened? As someone who takes time to process things, you should know that I was already thinking of this blog for weeks already. I’ve already started drafting some thoughts in my head leading to today. I just decided Dec 30 will be the day I write and post.

Weeks leading to today, I was already thinking deeply of what went down this year and how come I didn’t notice it earlier. What was really going on with my mind? My heart? My soul?

But I realized my mind knows. I was aware (at some point). And the truth is also stored in my head. I know the right things to say to myself. I have the songs and the Bible verses in my head.

Then it dawned on me. It was my heart. Where faith resides. That’s where the conflict is. Though my mind knows, my heart tells me otherwise. My heart struggles to believe what the mind knows.

In my prayer and ugly cry moment this morning, I caught myself saying things like these to God:

“I KNOW You love me, I know You care for me, but will You please restore to me the joy of my salvation?”

“I KNOW You have the best plans for me, but right now, my heart questions if what You want for me is what I want for myself.”

“I KNOW You know what is best, but I am finding it hard to trust You like before.”

“Where are You in all of this?”

I even remembered this song that basically sums up what I’m feeling:

Jesus, I’m sorry ‘bout last night.

Jesus, we both know I tried.

Jesus, feels like the world’s in pieces

I’m sure You’ve got Your reasons

But I have my doubts

Jesus, I have my doubts

When everything that’s right feels wrong

And all of my belief feels gone

And the darkness in my heart is so strong

Can You reach me here in the silence?

I know that the heart is deceitful so it cannot really be fully trusted.

Jeremiah 17:9-10 “The heart is deceitful above all things and desperately wicked; who can know it? I, the Lord, search the heart, I test the mind, even to give every man according to his ways, according to the fruit of his doings.”

But sometimes the emotions and feelings are too strong that I need the One who created it to reach down and touch it. To remind me again that I don’t live and operate life with just feelings and what I feel and think is right.

I really like this line from the song: “Can You reach me here in the silence?”

Cos these things I don’t and can’t really talk about with random people. In my room, my car, in silence, that’s where I unload these things.

So in my prayer, I say: “God, my mind knows, but will You please help my unbelief? Can You reach my heart here in the silence?”

What my college missionary mentor/Tatay/discipler from Campus Crusade for Christ said years back still holds true:

“The heart of the matter is the matter of the heart.”

The root of my struggles with trusting God is coming from a place of wanting to control things and taking matters into my own hands. It is losing belief that He holds my best interest.

But after weeks/months of struggle and wrestling with God (picture what Jacob did in Gen. 32; when he was acting from a place of “fear and distress”), I find comfort in two verses which I will hold dear and cling onto for 2023:

Psalms 84:11-12 “For the Lord God is a sun and shield; The Lord will give grace and glory; No good thing will He withhold from those who walk uprightly. O Lord of hosts, blessed is the man who trusts in You!”

I cry. No good thing will He withhold from me. So the deepest questions and longing in my heart, now replaced with comfort in knowing that whatever I have and don’t have now, are still part of His best interest for me. 🥺 I hope that I will walk uprightly and never lose trust (again).

Now I am welcoming 2023 knowing that His eyes are still set on me:

Psalms 32:8 “I will instruct you and teach you in the way you should go; I will guide you with My eye.”

Aaaaahhhh. I say this again from a place of rest and peace: It is well with my soul. 🥹

Thank You Jesus. 🤍

Happy New Year, friends. I am with you in prayers. 🤍🤗