#Stop A Divorce From Happening
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good old times
#invincible#invincible show#invincible fanart#mark grayson#nolan grayson#debbie grayson#fan art#artists on tumblr#digital art#sketch#doodle#my art#i headcanon that mark was THE ugliest baby ever and nolan's immediate reaction to seeing mark was the most disgusted 'ew' of all time#mainly bc i think it would be the funniest thing ever actually#then he gets attached and is like 'how did this happen. he is so ugly'#nolan grayson: mark may be an ugly baby. but he is MY ugly baby#sorry i have actual deep thoughts about this show but i have to meme on it or else it becomes a little too depressing#nolan being clueless about kids. esp human kids is another hc#humans are so fragile so i must bundle my part human child in winter clothes in the middle of spring <- nolan's thought process#debbie thinks it's cute#making myself depressed knowing how this family turns out#whatever nolan wins the most divorced man award. i need debbie to explode him#what could have been scenarios always get me because like. what if nolan stopped being constipated and had a rational thought for once#if he was able to see how insane the viltrumite way of life was and was able to properly cope with breaking away from it...
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Pls Mr Giles come back sir we need you
#oh. OH.#i was thinking how the heck did these two go from I will stop you from dying and oh I must be a good vampire who is noble and I help you!#to critical nuclear waste grade 17#in like zero episodes? it was literally the episode Giles left#and Tara and Willow have the divorce talk#are we back to Buffy stuck in the wounds of divorce?#her dad left her father figure left it and it reminds her#and then it’s like. if you don’t have the commitment. what do you have. you just have. convenience. and lust.#that’s all that’s left in a world where even vowing for life doesn’t last#hm. so yeah. what I’m hearing is. we need to get Giles back#and we need everyone to calm down. and we need people to remember about how friends work and are cool to have#as a big part of your life#magpie watches btvs#i can’t vouch for spike he’s not wounded by divorce I don’t know what happened to him#but boy does he need to Unlearn Some Things He’s Learned
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irt the lrb what would you say if i said liam & noel spent new years 2023 together in paris
what would you say if i said liam bought the house in france (the one with noel's name carved into the walls) in march 2023 and that month noel talked about wanting to spend several months in paris
which could mean nothing
#just making guesses chatting shit talking bollocks you know how it is#if anyone can debunk that first thing pls tell me!#feel like i'm wearing a tinfoil hat and it doesn't vibe with my outfits if y'know what i mean#feel like i should do a timeline but every time i try it gets out of hand#ok have some very messy puzzle piecing:#liam & noel texting/calling from time to time since jan 2020#noel splits w sara spring 2022 starts spending more time in manchester#maybe march mothers day something happened?? possibly liam & noel met up in april??? that's pure speculation though#pretty boy released oct 31 2022 noel stops wearing wedding ring#noel spends christmas in england for the first time in ages#liam listens to the smiths all christmas eve. on christmas he has a party for close friends and family (including bod)#liam and debbie go to france for the new year to house hunt#liam claims on twitter (no one believes him) that noel is with him on new years day#(((he posts a selfie that i uhhh got very tinhatty about.. don't worry about it)))#noel goes to a football game on jan 5 and he is in a very good mood#divorce news jan 14. liam's divorce playlist jan 15. allegedly out drinking together jan 16. noel does promo for new single jan 17#jan 18th liam claims on twitter noel wants to meet up#peggy's 80th birthday end of jan#liam's hip surgery beginning of feb#feb 6th he claims noel's “coming over later to wipe my arse and change the bedding he's a good lad really”#starts slagging noel off for real again in early march (he'd been “nice” since november's pretty boy promo)#news that he bought a house in france#noel does a bunch of promo at the end of march (when the 3rd single came out) some of which didnt air until june when the album came out#there's one interview where he seems very tired and hungover and he blabs about paris for ages#end of march is the 1st time he tells liam to call him. 2 months later he asks (goads) liam again a bunch of times#anyway i probably forgot some liam tweets from jan/feb and i really haven't looked into 2022 or 2021 yet#but yeah it's pretty clear they were hanging out 👁️👁️ jan 2023 and then things soured by march after liam's surgery#(((kinda wonder if noel ghosted him and then was too scared to call))) ←wondering that bc it's exactly what i would've done :/#the christmas eve/day stuff probably means nothing btw but well i'm feeling insane about the new years stuff don't even worry about it
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I haven't seen this take a WHOLE lot, but I have seen it enough to get. Frustrated. About it.
So for anyone who doesn't get it: no, symptoms of mental illness are not, in every case, majorly or solely the result of Dealing With Capitalism. Sometimes, they can be! Sometimes the symptoms are situational, and those situations are heavily related to how much capitalism sucks! But many times they are not. I am sorry, but mental illness and trauma and neurodivergence are still going to exist even if capitalism completely goes away. We still have a responsibility to treat the people affected by and experiencing these things with compassion and understanding. We still have to. You know. Acknowledge that their life experience is going to be a lot different than many other's is.
#I promise that when my ocd onset happened at 10 years old I was not thinking about capitalism#germs are still going to exist post-capitalism. the concept of a good person vs a bad person is still going to exist post-capitalism#which means. if those are your OCD Themes™. then. you're still going to have OCD post-capitalism.#and this is true for. you know. EVERY INSTANCE OF THIS.#you take things that are rooted in trauma like did or ptsd. I hate to tell you this but mistreatment and the trauma that results from it#are still going to exist in a post-capitalist world. bad people who do bad things WILL ALWAYS EXIST. so those illnesses are likewise still#going to exist. plenty of anxiety-based symptoms are related to fears that. have nothing to do with capitalism or financial security.#they are DISPROPORTIONATE REACTIONS. THAT IS THE POINT.#if someone has anxiety that isn't completely situational. or if someone has paranoia. that disproportionate fear does not have to#have capitalism to exist. meaning. you know. those will ALSO still exist.#adhd and autism have nothing to fucking do with capitalism lmao.#the existence of. for example. schizophrenia and psychosis HAVE NOTHING TO DO WITH CAPITALISM????????#like. we can talk about how much easier it would be for people to get care/accommodations under a non-capitalist system. we can talk about#how divorcing personal worth from the concept of 'productivity' would help the people who experience the things I've mentioned.#I'm not disputing that. but I've seen...a not-insignificant number of people downplay or outright DENY the existence of these#illnesses/experiences outside of 'languishing under the pressure of capitalism/tying your worth to productivity/worrying about financial#security' and that is simply not how it works my friends!#tw: suicidal ideation#like. sorry. I did not seriously consider killing myself at age 10 to escape The Disorder™ for you to tell me that all my issues with this#illness would go away forever if capitalism stopped existing LOL!! LMAO EVEN!!!!!#In the Vents#the real horror was the ableism we found along the way
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not to be weird and sappy on main, but frfr i'm so glad i have found a community of people who think my work is good
#talking#to the tags if you want the longer rant that maybe i'll talk about fully one day#tl;dr when i was in hs i was with my ex that i think ive mentioned like once or twice#there was a lot of shit wrong with that relationship and us and me at the time#but the thing that happened after we broke up which was the worst was her saying i was passionless#because in her mind i wasn't 'trying hard enough'#didn't help that she was super talented in art (even if thinking about it now its way too disney for my taste tbh)#and seemingly had her life together bc she had a super cool supportive mom#(wish i could've gotten her in the divorce tm)#and tbh that haunted me for YEARS#i stopped drawing for years after being with her#i didn't really pick up drawing HARD again until 2020#and i didn't really work on many of my own wips#just kinda poked at the ashes of the wips i got in the divorce (which funnily enough i don't use anymore. used the ocs but not the plots)#i was just so fucked up about it#but seeing y'all comment that you like my writing and my art#having people say that my worldbuilding is fire and passionate#idk it heals the part of me that died that day#so thank you all from the bottom of my soul#whenever y'all are kind enough to compliment me the hole mends even more#so idk i was just thinkin about it like bro the difference between me then and now is night and day#in part to all my lovely friends and mutuals#so yeah idk thank u i'm gonna go back in me corner again
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One of my pet peeves lately has been people forgetting that eccentric rich people have always existed and always do stupid shit with their money that never actually takes off.
No, a tech startup that would "let people keep working via lucid dreaming" is not a sign of something something oncoming capitalist hellscape. You've legitimately lost the plot if you think the average person would think that's a good idea worth pursuing. Just because some rich idiot made it doesn't mean that's a sign of things to come.
I do partially blame the sensationalist clickbait articles about these startups. Like people should know better anyway, but now these ideas are reported on as serious innovations. It used to be news articles about the exploits of eccentric rich people were basically a "Get A Load Of This Guy Cam."
#I glaze over the moment anyone starts ranting about capitalism these days because it's become so divorced from reality#instant sign that no constructive discussion of fixable things is going to happen#That lucid dreaming startup thing didn’t even register as something worth paying attention to#but the baying hounds afterwards howling about RAHHH CAPITALIST DYSTOPIA#rubbing my temples and groaning for eight minutes straight without stopping to breathe
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I just learned something so incredibly fucked up
#i am trembling#i cannot let this enable my issues with paranoia further! haha! oh my fucking god#im not joking btw im literally physically trembling. how did this happen oh god oh GOD nononono dont let it get to you#i just need to know. was someone like. double dealing? was someone telling him about it#i wouldnt give a shit if they were stalking me online occasionally (well id care a little bit but honestly itd just be kinda fucked)#but if someone was telling him about me and my personal stuff?#stop. i dont want to think about it. i dont want to think it happened. i have to get this out of my head#but still. absolutely fucking deranged.#ESPECIALLY bc apparently he's been saying i “made him think he was abusive'' and that doing that was shitty of me bc he actually#just has bpd??????#sol if you're reading this listen closely: one of my best friends has bpd. diagnosed and everything. so shut the fuck up#much like you've been saying i blamed my adhd for being neglectful (read: not meeting your sky-high standards for Truly Loving You 24/7)#you cannot blame your bpd for what a shit person you've been#repeatedly asking you to work on a flaw that's been hurting me is not telling you you're abusive you fucking prick#get a life‚ learn to care about other people away from what they can do for YOU‚#and LEAVE ME THE FUCK ALONE.#p.s. imagine being mad that people who were friends with both you and your partner didnt suddenly cut the other one off after you broke up#like actually angry at these people. what the actual fuck. you're like a divorced parent upset that their child still talks to their ex-wife#my posts
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i hateee the way the supernatural narrative sets up like. relationship conflict through fault because i feel like it's counterintuitive to understanding characterisations and relationship dynamics
#generally im not sure if the way i get my interpretations across makes this clear but I don't care about fault !!#i care about what happened and what it means !! i want to know what it means !! and why they did that !!#'this character is a bad person‚ this character did a bad thing'#it's fiction it will always be morally neutral to me. everything is a piece of the story being told.#me talking about sam's relationship with revenge or dean's abusive tendencies ≠ this character is doing a bad thing that i dislike them for#im just talking about my interpretation of the story being told !!#things were easier when my Guy was a blind lawyer who was also a superhero and just. a weirdo#fun fact everyone he loves gets like the worst treatment ever#he has an ex-wife in a locked psychiatric ward because a villian drove her mad with chemicals#and he cheated on her while her parents were trying to get her divorced from him#he and hus best frienf are in a homoerotic long-plutonic-relationship and he's attemoted to kill this best friend on more than one occasion#he's a priest now ???#<- im so used to stories like this that you stop caring and your first thought is the metaphorical implication#the supernatural fandom should start thinking like this#&
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#hello i just found out my dad might be getting another divorce and he's not telling me :))))#he might be already separated from his wife living back in my hometown with who knows who :))))))))#so he left a woman who he has cheated with on my mom and basically destroyed whole family :))))))))))))))#i don't have any reliable sources for this ans I can't ask him but it is eating me inside#and I had my suspicions since Christmas but I just thought they are having some tough period#so whenever I called him I tried to check of everything is okay and everything seemed okay#and I just hope they're still maybe just going through something but they will end up back together again#and i won't know because we don't talk about our problems in my family you need to be always happy#and god forbid you bother someone with your problems#i am sorry of this is too personal but it's making me freak out a little bit#i just can't stop thinking about it#and is it bad that I actually feel sad that I won't ever see his cats again if his wife keeps them?#ugh how the fuck can you divorce twice in your life?????#and does this mean that I also have some fucked up genes in me????#i was kinda hoping he would come to visit me for my birthday because I don't want to be alone but I doubt it will happen now#i just miss him and i want that he's hapy#okay that's enough i just needed to get this out of me#have a wonderful day everyone I'm going to take a shower because I ran 5km today so at least that's something positive
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roadtrip
#sketch#digital art#ocs#oc:koseqah#oc:mimic#they dated each other and they hate each other so much now theyre basically fantasy divorced#mimic didnt look like that when they were dating tho it doesnt have a true form and just imitates whoevers closest to it#but itd be kinda hard to draw it as the weird primordial goop that they both actually are so it looks like meyrin for this#wheres that post abt the person going home from a date and like an a cappella version of eye of the tiger came on and they couldnt stop it#so they just sat in silence the whole way. thats whats happening here. theyre both miserable#i think the actual ppl in the photo are having a lot of fun tho#they look like theyre psychically connected
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Chilchuck literally has a wife and 3 kids and you people wanna ship him with Senshi,,,,,,,,
#technically i guess ex wife but i get no indication of the ship from what ive seen#ypu people are weird#between this and the 'teehee senshi being objectified' literally stop it shouldnt be happening to anybody it's not funny#listen i know bi people exist but since it sounds like they didnt divorce officially it seems like an awfully negative character trait#he's a family man and you wanna do this to him??? bro dont defame him#i wont tag this I'll be nice#sab rants
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sometimes my dad will choose the absolute strangest hill to die on. today:
"one time i got jumped by 6 guys with golf clubs on the subway and it didn't really affect me why does nobody ever talk about how sometimes bad stuff happens to you and you DON'T get traumatized? >:("
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#my brain words#victim blaming#i tag that because this started to lead into some point about all of the 'victim shit' he sees online which ????????#no clue what specifically he was talking about there but i can't imagine it was good#thankfully we stopped that train of conversation before it could become a full on argument#i already spent several hours with him the other day unpacking how he feels threatened and victimized by feminism#during which i had to repeatedly steer him away from bringing up his divorce WITH MY MOM as an example#not because i don't want to hear it but because i know her account of what happened directly contradicts his and i happen to have#an opinion on who's take i believe asgdkd#so you know#only so many battles you can fight on one 6 day vacation
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I wanna rant about something rq cause it's pissing me off. The fact that my entire family (that i regularly speak too) managed to instantly get the name change right, without me even needing to tell them, my parents literally did it for me. and the next time i saw my nan, it was wren wren wren everywhere. But a couple of 15 year old girls who take my bus think its perfectly appropriate to 'forget' my name change every single time they start a conversation that was obviously only meant to condesend me. How fucked do you have to be to have worse memory than my 70yo nana. Stfu and respect lgbt people before someone punches you in the face.
#ghosti talks#sorry woa im back guys what happened#fr tho i despise public transport#anyways woohoo for divorce i get to spend half my time only a 10 minute walk from school soon!#rant#tw rant#sorry i dont normally post stuff like this but its 12.30am you cant stop me
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my parents probably should have divorced and she did try to look into it but they blew her off but also I don't think me threatening to stab myself in front of her and hate her forever if she did didn't help lol
#omg kiera no one cares#sorry saw a post and I'm like 🫵 i caused my own suffering 🫵#my dad being the most emotionally abusive and throwing things at us has he can be -> me: i think it's fine actually maybe it is my fault!#MAYBE IT'S YOURS!! (it wasnt it still isn't when he still acts that way lol)#she also knew i would have hated her forever if she did leave my dad lol even i still know i would have#i am a big grudge holder!! i would have hated her forever especially if my dad killed himself like he said he would like it's YOUR fault!#anyway sorry made me think of that cause everyone was like yeah I'm so glad my parents divorced and i would have rather tried to kill myself#at like 9 to stop it from happening#tee hee ha ha moment from a child i suppose looking back
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the last remaining threads of my sanity are slipping through my fingers rn 🚬 😑
#i'm out of cigarettes i'm incredibly ill and i'm reconsidering my relationship to a certain fandom.#look i'm NOT saying i'm gonna stop the divorce proceedings but uh. fuck. i may have been re reading some of my older works and unfinished#fics and i MAY. i repeat MAY. have some tiny shred of interest posting about st*r w*rs again#motherfucker i'm SO hesitant to speak that into existence and will be absolutley APOPLECTIC if it happens bc i don't fucking WANNA like sw!#i divorced it! i took the kids (my ocs) & filed a restraining order & crossed state lines & broke all contact and yet! and fucking yet!!!!#i find myself in tags i havent visited in over two years on the archive like some beaten dog slinking back home to a shitty master#i honestly hate like. fucking ALL of the shit i've written from then that i reread and some of it was so bad i couldnt even bring myself to#click on it after reading the summary. like. UGH! i have a half baked fic idea i wrote a little for and i think it's more compelling than#any of the literal dogshit i posted back then so i MIGHT work on polishing that up and posting something that isn't actual garbage by my#current standards. all of this is still up in the air tho bc i dont know if the hyperfixation or even the bare minimum lvl of interest has#returned or if it's just fever induced delirium. i've been having INCREDIBLY fucked up bad horrible awful vivid dreams as of late so fever#induced brain fuckery isn't out of the question. sigh. i'm so mad abt this#even if i do regain some interest in the fandom i don't think i'll have any interest in new source material after the mando s2 finale &#tbo.bf sucking ass & the obi show being mid & everything with the ST. i plan on watching ando.r but after that? zero interest in anything#new from sw. so. if anyone still reading this and is getting excited abt me POSSIBLY MAYBE being interested in sw just know i still hate it#a bit and feel like i'm being dragged kicking and screaming back into this mess unwillingly. or it's due to a fever. god i need a smoke#len speaks#that's literally the longest tag rant i've ever gone on. fuck that's a BAD sign
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a while ago (read: two months ago) I conversed with @voidselfshipp about a silly idea. It was about the reason why Henry’s coat is absent in NMH2, and it’s because he gave it to Shallow Candy as a gift to remember him by (also because she kept stealing it especially during winter). <- two years before NMH2, they became an actual couple*.
She does make slight alterations for it to properly fit her, but they also add small personal touches to it like sewing patches and enamel pins to it. Although it still retains indicators that the coat was originally Henry’s. Extra important note is that she does wear this coat in NMH3 design, because obviously she desperately wants him to come back home and she’ll do whatever it takes to bring him back. She's hoping that perhaps seeing one of his original coats might be able to jog his memory of her, the memories of them as a couple, and she hopes whatever feelings these memories instilled in him, return and essentially persuade Henry to come back home.
#this has been stuck in the drafts for a bit but i felt that it was important to share this detail <3#to me henry's coats are like. insular or are weighted to keep the wearer warm in colder environments#shallow rambles#💘 The Redemption I Seek is with You#[r]: henry cooldown | we are finally cowboys#no more heroes self insert: shallow candy#🧁🍦 | not your sweetheart#nomoreposting#nmh3 spoilers#queue awaits you at the garden of madness#thoughts on queue#*to me henry and sylvia's divorced happened like. right after NMH1. like not even a year. like. they divorced a day after#sylvia stopped him and travis from killing each other at the end of NMH1.
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