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Ok, am I misremembering things? Or these people are just wrong?
#polls#spn#supernatural#like surely i wasn't gaslighted by tumblr into believing that they don't say fuck was i
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why did they clearly parallel sams and amelia’s break up with dean and benny/cas and then be like “nooo he likes girls ONLY!!!”
#just gaslighting#bisexual#supernatural#spn#destiel#deanwinchtser#dean winchester#castiel#deancas#sam winchester
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The knowledge that the first ‘Wincest’ fanfic was written and published mere HOURS after the release of the pilot episode literally haunts me.
#wincest#supernatural#dean winchester#sam winchester#jared padalecki#jensen ackles#misha collins#castiel#john winchester#jeffrey dean morgan#spn#spnfandom#salembehindbars#gaslight gatekeep girlblog#girlblogger#this is a girlblog#girlblogging#girlhood#just girly things#hell is a teenage girl#journaling
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When a man tries to gaslight me I'm like boy... I've been a destiel shipper and a bi dean truther for years...
#earliest gaslighting experienced in my life#but man was it useful later on in life#spn#destiel#castiel#dean winchester#deancas#dean is bi#bi dean
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i know the girlies love him
#girlhood#supernatural#supernatural sam winchester#sam winchester#jared padalecki#coquette#girl things#just girly things#this is a girlblog#girlblogger#girlblogging#aesthetic#gaslight gatekeep girlboss#ldr aesthetic#lana del rey#live laugh girlblog#lizzy grant#girl blogger#actor#tv series#girl blog aesthetic#just girly posts#girly stuff#girly#i love being a girl#this is what makes us girls#the winchester brothers#spn
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I have made an executive decision.
The empty was lying, it let Jack live for fun, no real deal happened
After Cas confessed and didn’t die, Dean confessed right back, they kissed, they’re happy now
Everything is great
#anyone who says otherwise is insane#this is what happened#I’m not gaslighting you#this is actually how it happened#5x19 was Dean confessing and a conversation#and then they sillily go back to the bunker#y’know#and giggle#and Sam is like ?#and 5x20 was just a montage#of domestic#Destiel#and also Sam was there#of course with his lovely fiancé#eileen leahy#so yeah#supernatural#spn#dean winchester#jensen ackles#castiel#misha collins#jared padalecki#sam winchester#oh yeah and Jack is there#being a baby#as he is
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the summoning scene in s3e16 no rest for the wicked is ruby teaching a masterclass in manipulating sam before being interrupted by the one person who can foil her
she arrives and first plays unimpressed because that's been her safe bet with sam since they met
but when sam talks abt being ready to kill lilith and needing her knife to do it she eases up
in doing so, ruby keeps the fact that she's softly leading the conversation where she wants it to go carefully obscured by sam's urgency/need to believe that they can still do it they can still save dean even this close to the deadline
but then sam pushes for the knife again and she tells him no
she dangles salvation in front of his nose before taking it away because 1) she's still a demon and sam expects her to be difficult
2) it is a half-cocked plan at best
3) giving sam the knife now wouldn't endear her to him in the long-run. they only need the knife itself not ruby and if that plan does somehow succeed it'd only prove that he doesn't need anyone besides dean as his partner and closest confidante
4) most important of them all, it's neither the time for lilith to die because the first seal hasn't broken nor would the knife-kill do anything for their plan to corrupt sam and make him a suitable vessel for lucifer
so we get sam asking her what they're supposed to do since his plan isn't feasible. he asks! he's back to seeking her guidance despite the fact that this conversation began with him demanding
ruby goes back to validating sam's belief that dean can be saved because she needs to prime him for the next big manipulation
sam, understandably, rejects that validation because in an earlier episode dean told sam ruby admitted to not knowing how to save him from the deal
he gets angry and raises his voice because how dare this demon attempt to convince him that his brother--a fundament of his world, the person he knows has always loved and protected him, fathermotherbrotherpartner all at once--lied to him about something he knows sam cares deeply about (the threat of dean's damnation)
and ruby backs off because she hasn't isolated sam from dean here yet hasn't wormed deep enough to have him truly questioning his place in dean's life and regard (i.e. her s4 arc)
crucially, she tells sam "you're not the one i've been lying to." she manufactures a sense of intimacy between them by making sam think he gets something from her no one else does (her honesty) and bubbles the two of them off from the rest of the world
sam again is confused because then where is this conversation going how can they get dean out of paying up for the deal and sam again asks(!!) for her guidance to which ruby, in her eternal wisdom and PhD in sam studies tells him the one thing that's even sweeter than dean being saved
ruby can't save him...
sam saving dean himself, with abilities only he has, no third party, no need to involve anyone else no need for ruby no need for the knife
(you'd think this would counter ruby's attempt to cleave herself to him by encouraging sam to think he doesn't need her but the idea of not needing her still comes from her so no it doesn't counter at all; she's still giving him something he never thought he could have--power. over demons, over the helpless version of himself azazel corrupted with his blood and made vulnerable with his schemes, as well as over dean and dean's fate.)
there's a delightful micro-expression jared does here where his mouth twitches and his eyes narrow (a screenshot can't do it justice) but which simultaneously does the job of communicating sam baffled by ruby's audacity and yet also maybe just a ~tiny~ bit considering
but of course we inevitably circle back around to sam not believing her, shaking his head, rejecting her advice for the third time bc ruby is a demon is a demon IS A DEMON and if something sounds too good to be true it usually is especially if it comes from a demon's tongue (if i could edit, i'd be downloading this whole conversation and adding klaxon sounds and red lighting at this part in the scene because! sam! this sounds an awful lot like a deal doesn't it!)
important to note here that sam calls it "crap" and then scoffs, both disbelieving and unimpressed at abilities he viewed as ultimately worthless (more harm than good considering all he had were painful, demoralizing visions he mostly couldn't change)
which is why ruby--teaching a masterclass as earlier established--comforts him by saying he could've had more been more
quick sidebar reminder, ava back in s2 was the special kid most like sam in that they both had premonitions!! and ava was eventually able to summon/control demons! ava who was also corrupted by that power (or more likely, already corrupt herself and the power just drew it out) and killed innocent people with it!! the scene doesn't really give us anything to think sam might be remembering this in the moment, as the camera flicks really quickly between him and ruby, but you couldn't pay me to think he didn't remember ava later especially with his guilt about being fundamentally "unclean" because of the demonblood
anyway back to the scene, ruby tells sam that not only could he have done more with his powers, the version of himself he could've been would've been formidable as fuck
sam, for the 4th 5th 6th idek who's keeping track anymore, is disbelieving because again ruby's a demon and therefore can't be trusted--a thought that's so obvious on his face to ruby that she affirms it to further sell the image that 1) sam's still in control here and 2) ruby's "never lied to him"
(which, like, we could go into a whole thing here about how the best lie is the one closest to the truth and ruby knows that. she makes it her bread and butter and tells sam to his face that she's manipulating him but obscures the fact that everything is a manipulation not just the bits she verbally acknowledges are. lies by ommission are still lies after all)
but of course she immediately paints her manipulativeness as coming from a place of knowing sam as a person (manufacturing intimacy again!)
she knows exactly what to say to make her helpfulness believable to him--reluctantly given, cognizant of sam's flaws, and not overeager like she's taking advantage (even though to us she clearly is)
then she creates division between him and his brother, a division she implies isn't there between her and sam because ruby accepts him as he is and ruby would never begrudge sam his specialness
she preys on sam's doubts about how much dean can accept of him, on the possibility of his brother's reproach, uses the word "freak" here with damning weight potently different from how dean has called sam a freak before (always with lightness, teasing even if honest, the way he called sam a freak in s1e6 skin where dean also immediately said he was a freak too and assures sam of his acceptance and companionship)
and the dean who, even after finding out about sam's visions and the potential for sam's abilities to draw out the worst in him the way it did in max, responds by calmly asking sam to try telekinesis again, asks how he did it the first time as a way to problem-solve, and tries to offer sam the comfort that it was probably a one-off AFTER sam himself seems distressed
before assuring sam of his companionship and protection once again
and then there's also the s2 dean who calls sam a freak but again it's with lightness
freak(affectionate) not freak(derogatory) the way ruby paints it and the way sam thinks of himself
but anyway, back to no rest for the wicked
ruby, still steering the conversation like she has been from the beginning, pushes all of sam's issues with himself aside and reminds him why he summoned her in the first place, what he wants to do, and what she can offer to help him succeed in his objective
notably, there's an implied "you and me" in the way she says "we" here, excluding dean again and making sam reliant on her
and god but sam's body language after
the way he's looking down unable to meet her eyes lips thin jaw tense. masterful work from jared. he looks like a kid all unsure of himself and fully submitting to someone else's wisdom like ruby's his trusted adult (she replaces dean here! which has always been the plan because sam defers to no one else like he defers to dean! because dean may be flawed and an asshole but dean looks out for him! dean can be trusted! but dean isn't here isn't helpful and ruby is! this is the samruby s4 dynamic's genesis, what we're seeing here is their labor contractions *please insert genevieve's comment about ruby "giving birth" to s4 sam here*)
and here it is, her masterstroke, what the point of this whole manufactured combative back-and-forth has been for
ruby hammers home this notion of sam not needing to respect or like her but internalizing that he can trust her regardlesss (he can't and he shouldn't but he will)
#supernatural#spn rewatch#samruby#ruby#katie cassidy#sam winchester#ruby the original gaslight gatekeep girlboss#spn meta#i caved😔#samdean#dean winchester#stone number one#ain't no me if there ain't no you#spn 3x16#no rest for the wicked#spn 1x6#skin#spn 1x14#nightmare#spn 2x5#simon said
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i didn't know they were still in denial
#yesss treat him like your cardboard cutout mascot <3#'/they/ got eric kripke to gaslight him' as if he himself didn't specifically seek out email him about it himself#this is borderline scrubbing all his agency from him i feel like#'so he could fix the shitty writing' i WILL say that there's a reason one lasted 15 years while the other lasted one#+ the spinoff had nothing to do with the finale 😭#'no one hates the spn finale like jensen does' the jensen you're talking about doesn't exist#÷
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people that text (: instead of :) scare me
#elodie yaps ୨୧#girl thoughts#im just a girl#girlblogging#just girly posts#just girly thoughts#girlhood#just girly things#girly stuff#girly thoughts#relatable#female rage#female manipulator#lux lisbon#lana del rey#lizzy grant#yapping#just yappin#certified yapper#ahs fandom#spn fandom#girlblogger#girlblog aesthetic#this is a girlblog#gaslight gatekeep girlblog#just a girlblog#girly things#this is what makes us girls#alana champion#lily rose depp
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gatekeep, gaslight misha collins into thinking he's bisexual, girlboss
#misha collins#bisha#bishagate#bisexual#spn#supernatural#warner bros#warner brothers#warnerbrothers#castiel#njcon23#misha fucking collins#gatekeep gaslight girlboss
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some highlights of my spotify playlist making
(feel free to follow btw??)
spotify profile link
dean winchesters cassettes ft soldier boy
spn spooky szn
i yearn to be a controversially young gf
what i would imagine jesse pinkman’s freaky playlist to be
bitches be like “reminds me of him” and it’s a fictional character… i’m bitches
#playlist#spotify playlist#playlist masterlist#spn#supernatural#spn playlist#brba#brba meme#brbabcs#spotify#fictional characters#jesse pinkman#jessepinkmanplaylist#playlists#controversially young gf#the boys#soldier boy#girlblogging#gaslight gatekeep girlblog#girl blogger#spooky playlist#spooky season#autumn playlist#fall playlist#canonplaylist#spnplaylist#supernaturalplaylist#brbaplaylist#jackles#jensen ackles
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was writing this down for an ask but realized i was quickly getting off topic for that ask lmao. let’s talk about Dean’s handprint, the wild misinterpretations of it, and how those have affected how people read Anna covering it during her sex scene with Dean.
We have to establish the obvious first: the number one way the handprint is misinterpreted is to establish a romantic connection between Dean and Castiel from their very first meeting. Because of how popular the ship is, we’re now left with the unfortunate aftermath of people knowing the ship first and the show second, and therefore being more inclined to interpret the show through the lens of the ship. Needless to say, while looking at season 4 through that lens for hints of destiel is fun, it doesn’t lead to a thematically cohesive reading. The handprint is the best way we can demonstrate this. If we take the handprint to indicate that Castiel has been romantically interested in Dean since minute one, or even that he sees Dean as a person rather than an instrument of Heaven’s will at first (put a pin in that), then the rest of his character arc for the season is incoherent and meaningless. To assert that this is what the handprint is about takes the conclusion Castiel needs the entirety of season 4 to reach and transplants it onto him at the very beginning in order to make it easier to find evidence for the ship.
There’s a lot of media out there where interpreting it through the lens of a ship, even one unintended by the author, can enhance the original text. (Lest we all forget our Winter Soldier roots.) Supernatural does not have that relationship to interpreting it to be about destiel. A season 4 where the handprint means Castiel is in love with Dean is a weaker story and does a huge disservice to Castiel’s actual character arc.
So, now that we’ve established what the handprint isn’t, can we talk about what it is? Yes. It’s pretty simple, actually.
Think of it this way: To Heaven, Dean is livestock, and the handprint is the brand telling everyone (but especially Dean) what ranch he belongs to.
Let’s start with the obvious: it isn’t a metaphorical brand at all. It’s literal. It’s burned into his skin permanently (or at least, when the makeup department wants to put it there.) I’d argue that from the nature of it being notable as the only scar Dean has from being raised from Hell and later showing up during his sex scene with Anna that even if we don’t see the handprint, we’re meant to interpret it as continuing to be there for… well. The rest of his life, most likely. And that’s horrifying. The handprint is telling us two things when it shows up: one, letting us know that Dean’s resurrection was intentional and through a manner we as the audience don’t have the information to guess at yet. Anyone who watched the show airing, or watches it now without knowing about angels would have assumed demonic deal intervention as being the cause of Dean’s new lease on life, and this. handily. discards that theory. But secondly, it tells us that this resurrection was violating. All resurrections on Supernatural are.
We assume from Castiel’s line, you know the one, we all know the one, Mr. Gripped-You-Tight, that he’s the one who put it there. However, to then make a further leap that it was Castiel’s personal decision to do so is, I think, a misunderstanding of his role. Take that pin out now. Dean is not a person to Castiel at this point. They’re not friends. Dean is a tool for Heaven to use, a tool that should be honored and grateful to be picked up at all. Make no mistake: Castiel branded him for Heaven, not for himself. Castiel’s a ranchhand. They aren’t in the business of letting the cows run free if they look a little sad to be slaughtered later.
Castiel needs to start here for his arc to be as impactful as it is. He can’t begin rebellious. He has to learn how to doubt. He has to develop a personal friendship with Dean that threatens his allegiance to Heaven. He has to see Anna having chosen to fall rather than obey Heaven and to be betrayed by Uriel being so desperate that he’s turned to killing their brothers and sisters trying to find a way out from under Heaven’s control.
There’s another line I think gets misinterpreted a lot in this initial meeting. “You don’t think you deserve to be saved?” On its face, easy bait for someone looking for shipping fodder, but that misses the actual point of the line. It’s a powerplay. We don’t learn until later why Dean wouldn’t think he deserves to be saved (aside from his general Winchester levels of self-esteem, but knowing that trait about him actually serves as a pretty good red herring to mask real reason Dean is thinking about himself as irredeemable now until the reveal. It’s not that Dean had a low opinion about himself in general, but that he tortured people in Hell and can never forgive himself for that.) , but Castiel does know. All of Heaven knows what Dean’s sin in Hell was. Without saying it, Castiel can remind Dean of it here. This line isn’t about Dean being so inherently good that Castiel had to rescue him. It’s about making sure Dean knows that the only way he can be ‘redeemed’ is through obedience to the heavenly powers who own his ass now. This is how he deserves to be saved. Because God commanded it. Because they have work for him.
And if he doesn’t bow? Then, as Castiel puts it in the very next episode, “I dragged you out of Hell. I can throw you back in.” This threat hanging over Dean’s head won’t go away for the rest of the season, not from Heaven. The only shift is that Castiel’s continued doubt and disobedience levels the playing field between them. They’ll both be punished, rather than Castiel taking on the role of disciplinarian. (It’s a really clever way of dealing with that power gap between them, actually. There’s always a bigger fish.)
The handprint and Castiel’s early conversations with Dean serve as a reminder of the precarious position he’s in. We shouldn’t take him ‘being saved’ at face value, no more than we should take Heaven being good just because they’re the angels in this equation as a given. Dean hasn’t been saved. He’s being used, just as much (if not arguably more) than Ruby is using Sam. (Because at least Ruby truly believes this is for Sam’s benefit, in the end.) And the worst part is how aware of it Dean is. How could he not be? His entire stint in Hell is defined by how Alistair used him. He’s just been handed off to a different owner, one that will still happily push him into the thing they ‘saved’ him from the minute it proves useful. Dean needing to torture Alistair reminds us just how little his circumstances have actually changed. He’s not allowed to say no to this.
So. The handprint is Heaven’s mark of ownership. It’s Dean’s status as their tool, their victim, burned into his flesh and inescapable. What does it mean when Anna places her hand over it?
I’ll lay my cards on the table. I’ve been thinking about this for so long because the aforementioned tendency to assume that the handprint is evidence for destiel means that the scene between Anna & Dean also gets lumped into being interpreted as more evidence for destiel. For over a decade, I have endured people joking about Anna being jealous of Cas for getting to leave a mark on their boytoy. And that’s one of the nicer things the Supernatural fandom will say about a woman who they perceive as a threat to their ship.
So, not to be rude or anything, but fuck Castiel. This ain’t about him.
This scene—It’s a lovely scene, a fantastic continuation of Dean and Anna’s previous conversation into the language of a sex scene—is about two people who have both been used and threatened by Heaven connecting over that shared trauma. Before, Anna gives space for Dean to open up about Hell, but he can’t, not yet, and though she knows what he’s gone through, she hasn’t been there herself. But when it comes to what Heaven has made of them, she does understand. It’s an incredibly vulnerable moment.
You make the handprint about Dean and Cas, and you erase what that scene is about entirely: the way Heaven’s abuse has tangled itself deep into Dean and Anna’s lives, into their bodies, and how they can resist it, if only for a few moments together.
The handprint was never about Castiel at all. It was about Heaven and its dehumanization of Dean.
#not to be annoying or anything on this wednesday morning#but uh. handprint meta.#everyone else is wrong about the handprint and what it means. except for me <3 im special and the Understander of Soup Or Natural#spn#dean winchester#anna milton#castiel spn#annadean#i really did try to keep the frustration in this to a minimum and just discuss what the handprint is#eh. arguable how well i managed that. but i think i can be forgiven after dealing with over a decade of Incorrect Handprint Takes#and im allowed to be salty down here in the tags :3 hi. hi. if you think anna touches the handprint out of jealousy you are bad at watching#shows and bad at media analysis and i hate you. personally.#god no but seriously it flattens the three of them so much to say the handprint is about cas loving dean. it really does#its a disservice to castiel’s gradual rebellion. its a disservice to dean’s struggle in s4 of transitioning from an openly abusive dynamic#in hell to one that’s trying to gaslight him into believing he’s better off under heaven’s control. its a disservice to anna and her own#trauma with heaven and the way she connects to dean through it.#number one dean/anna enjoyer and i am SICK of it. justice for the handprint scene
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Dean, Cas, and Sam:
gaslight gatekeep girlboss
manipulate mansplain manslaughter
ignore isolate ignite
best part is that is works interchangeably
#supernatural meme#Spn#Supernatural#dean#dean winchester#sam winchester#castiel#spn memes#gaslight gatekeep girlboss#tfw#team free will
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Mary Winchester has a brother???? I have so many questions and no answers??? [2x4] An uncle who paid for her headstone and never mentioned again like even when Mary’s dad came back or a flashback or even The Winchesters??
#am I missing something or is this show gaslighting me again??#I know they constantly change previously cannon things but like what#spn#supernatural#mary campbell#mary winchester#dean winchester#sam winchester#the Winchesters
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^this but unironically
#also this is such a ridiculous comparison#one of them gets more and more angry as the show progresses actively hurting the people around them#and that’s not me being analytical or hashtag deancrit or whatever it’s just. canon#he has a whole fucking arc about how hes becoming more and more angry and its taking him over and turning him into someone awful#like it’s not a well executed arc <3 but it is about that.#it’s not a coincidence that moc happens right after dean does like some of his worst show moments ever#aka being awful to sam all of s8 for daring to try to move on and then getting him possessed and gaslighting him about it#like they don’t tie up moc in a fulfilling way dean just gets worse and worse and never heals but. Whatever#meanwhile. the other (sam) gets villainised by the show for showing entirely appropriate anger Which by the way is never directed violently#at dean in fact we barely even SEE it in him sam just says he FEELS angry all the time and somehow believes this is proof he is innately#evil and the show AGREES with him. and as the show goes on he stops being able to access this anger even in self preservation and has his#sense of personhood and autonomy worn down again and again#. Like that is completely different#‘whenever dean expresses it that’s just him being abusive’#Literally yes. like i worry for you if you think that trying to kill a child because you’re upset your family died is like Good Normal#Behaviour#it’s understandable in the context of deans life! all his behaviour is! but that doesn’t make it good…#spn#fandom wank#oliver talks#supernatural
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the "Sam is not a woman or child, he is not a weak victim" is probably the WORST thing camed from them because woah it's almost like victims generally can't leave their abusers(what do you mean not all victims are self aware perfect human beings) or man can't get abused( terf vibes)
Also how can people see Dean hitting Sam A LOT OF TIMES and just say
"Bu-but Sam was so mean to Dean that one time!!! H-he is so abusive!!"
Or
"Dean didn't hit Sam the times i want him to hit him so he is not abusive actually he is not hiting him enough."
Yeah i saw the last one on reddit
Oh yeah. We've had this argument for over a decade now and it never stops being infuriating.
Like, these people need to make some special mental gymnastics in order to feel morally superior for liking Dean. And they were so mad when other people argued with actual examples of the show instead of fanfiction metas.
Someone needs to make a prize for all the Sam fans that survived to season 9 and season 10 fandom. At times it was an uphill battle.
#spn#sam winchester#fandom wank#I know a lot of people got triggered by the blatant abuse apologie and left for their mental sake#you don't need an excuse to like Dean. it's the literal gaslighting they were trying to do when the text is right in front of us
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