#SO bitter ab these people they’ve ruined guy friendships for me forever | Explore Tumblr posts and blogs

stuckinapril · 6 months ago

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A major annoying thing about being in a male dominated stem field (chemistry for me) is you basically work w guys 99% of the time & they ALL think you have a crush on them if you’re even fleetingly nice. And so far I’ve refused to water down my personality to compensate for it but it’s so annoying knowing I’m inadvertently feeding into someone’s unchecked ego

#My approach is I’ll treat my guy friends like I do my girl friends #And I guess I have a flirtatious personality from the jump so people get the wrong idea #But idk sometimes I’m literally just friendly and some dumbass guy is like yeah she wants me carnally #Getting confessed to by one of my classmates last spring while taking some of the hardest courses of my life was so traumatic #Then being hit up by his friend right after 😭😭#Please tell me what I did to make u think I was into you enough for you to be this bold so I can never do it again #This happens to me at parties too and guys get too touchy #Why does it have to be this serious #This is why I’m so glad to be avoiding guys rn like straight cis men are literally the bane of my existence #SO bitter ab these people they’ve ruined guy friendships for me forever #So many suppressed feelings ab this too I should journal about it probably

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