#Roman Catholic priest……. she cannot be serious i really wonder if she has no idea. is that not common knowledge though | Explore Tumblr posts and blogs

thesingingrevolution · 9 months ago

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i know they are just looking out for me but one thing that bothers me is that since my mom and her friends know that i am very “traditional” (no better, concise way to put it) when it comes to dating and relationships it means that they’ll try to set me up with any man who has any semblance of a similar vibe. like a guy will be like “actually i don’t want to have sex on the first date. Maybe like a month in though” and they’re “like oh mygosh what a gentleman!!!!!” 😑 i’m taking the piss so please excuse the crass example (since it includes my mother and her friends) but that’s literally what it feels like. What about his personality. What about how cute he is. what about anything else because this is like bare minimum to me. why dont we leave me alone so i can find someone on my own time

#when i say traditional i mean no sex before marriage real dates only official relationship. never any grey situationship bs #to name a few #basic requirements #one time #a woman was like #your daughter should date my nephew!!!!#and my mom was like what does you nephew do to make conversation #and this woman is like #he’s a priest!#??????????#how is that gonna work for us #Roman Catholic priest……. she cannot be serious i really wonder if she has no idea. is that not common knowledge though #i was baffled #also i dont want these men. i have never met a man who i truly want. who would be good for me #also im still traumatized from what my friend did #she was literally orchestrating my downfall because the BAGGAGE on that man was crazy. i was genuinely offended #like how does a friend do that to you. and it wasn’t just the horrble match it was the WAY she did it #complete and utter disaster #i really wish to be left alone. if there is someone for me i will meet them in time #because this is so ridiculous #ugh igh ugh UGH!!!!!#this doesnt even begin to cover my grievances with relationships #with gender dynamics #and most importantly sex #i need to find someone on the same wavelength which seems really hard. but it will not work otherwise. i know me too well. i know what works #and these people i know simply dont understand me #i was talking about my potential/suspected asexuality (or very very very selective sexuality) and she looked at me like i was crazy #i dont even know what i feel.#sorry for talking about such unbecoming private matters but i really have no one to discuss this with.#it pains me because i have always wanted to be married but i can never find a suitable candidate

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