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in short, I’ve got a move to New York City coming up this fall. my puppywife is out there and it’s my favorite place in the world.
Unfortunately, it’s gonna be kind of scary financially. in the past few years, various situations (shit landlord, escaping an ex, one apartment getting shot up several times) I have had to move way more often than I would and it’s chipped away at my savings like crazy. bc of that I am raising money for this move!! I’m trying to get enough to pay for my security deposit and 1st month’s rent, a guarantor, and movers + a uhaul.
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Welcome to my info post.
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Hi, Im Venus/Dizziebunnies, I am a former radqueer whom is part of the big 3 (anti contact) plus several other paras.
I'm making this post to help educate on what radqueer means, why its extremely harmful and why ex radqueers frequently describe it as a cult.
Please do not read this post/take caution when reading if you are triggered by any of the following:
abuse, zoophilia, pedophilia, necrophilia, grooming, racism, cults, nazis, blackface, ableism, slurs, intersexism, transphobia.
What is a radqueer?
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A radqueer is someone who is pro-transid, (often) pro-contact, anti-getting help, pro-M.U.D (medically unrecognized disorder/basically "coining" mental illnesses and sometimes physical health issues), pro-proship.
They may also go by other "fancy" labels that all mean the same thing (an example would be kandiqueer, bloodqueer, raverqueer, sinqueer)
I am a former radqueer who went by the users @\transm4sc, @\puppywife and @\sc3n3-v4mp1r3, if you knew someone who went by the names tearzah/dreamalgia/KAngel or Thesus, that was me.
I am making this post to help spread awareness and knowledge about this literal cult.
What do transid and radqueer mean?
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Transid is short for Trans Identity, things like transautistic, trace, transharmful and tranhateful, all that gross things.
Radqueer stands for Radical Queer, aka people who are rad-para, transid, anti therapy and pro encouraging delusions. (Please dont encourage delusions, it can easily make it so the delusional person harms themself or others. -sombody who had very bad delusions back as a radqueer.)
Ok, but why are they bad?
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Radqueers are bad as they are ableist, pro-abuse, racist, intersexist, anti-recovery and pro-contact, often encouraging abuse, rape, necrophilia, blackface, incest/"consang" and pedophilia.
You may have heard of the terms "transabled" and "transracial", both of these are stolen terms, transabled was stolen from pwBIID and transracial was stolen from adoptees who were adopted into a family of another race. (a.e vietnamese child adopted into a jamaican family, white child adopted into japanese family, etc)
Because of radqueers, these terms are seen as bad and gross, making it so multiple pwBIID and adoptees no longer feel comfortable using these terms.
Many radqueers are openly pro-contact, even going as far as sharing "tutorials" on how to sexually arouse an animal, groom your sibling into an incestual "relationship", and sharing illegal content of minors and animals in sexual contexts. (Bear with me, im desperately trying to remain unbanned.. (╥﹏╥) )
Radqueers are also extremely intersexist, believing that somebeing can "transition" into being intersex, many "transintersex" beings often saying the h slur, and speaking over actually intersex people.
They believe that with many things, such as ADHD, ASD, BPD, DID, OSDD, Narcolepsy and many others, I'm simply listing things I saw most frequently "identified as" by radqueers
They are also incredibly transphobic, as they openly consider being transgender a "transid", I have genuinely seen multiple radqueers claim that /srs
Don't even get me started on the "xenoautism" (basically like xenogenders but with autism???? No your autism cannot "feel/look like" a rainbow sparkle cat.)
Also, many radqueers openly romanticize/fetishize serial killers, I had the displeasure of having been mutuals with someone who was transplural and "split" a jeffery dhamer introject who refused to seperate from source, they CHOSE to 'split off' jeffery dhamer and then used an irl photo of him as a faceclaim, go by the same name, and constantly make cruel, humourless "jokes" about his source.
Its unfortunately not suprising that, that jeffery dhamers collective was shortly after exposed for emotionally abusing and gaslighting their partner at the time as well as pressure several other MINOR BODIED systems into erps, sending explicit photos and receiving explicit photos of that collective.
Why do people call it a cult?
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Because, if compared to the BITE model, it checks off every box aside from "monetary"
As a former radqueer, all of the above is things you see constantly in the radqueer community, you couldn't go one post without seeing any of these.
Are there any alternative terms for *insert transid*?
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Short answer, yes and no, it depends what transid it is.
For things like transbody (like transhorned, transcattail, transblood) I'd suggest looking into aldernic labels!
For things like transage, look into chronosian.
However for things liked transmental illness and trace? No, and those labels aren't valid (unless its the original meaning of transracial.)
I'm sure if you dig around, theres some other non-problematic alternatives, or you could coin your own non-problematic alternative.
Last notes.
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I will likely frequently update this, but this is as far as I can currently go without triggering myself and making myself violently uncomfortable, other former radqueers can feel free to reblog with more information.
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