#PresentMindset

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Reminder Reflections 27

“Don’t chase perfection, embrace the imperfections of today.” – The Loulouge

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Why love is more important than a relationship

Love trumps romantic relationships because the pressure to focus on outcome and emphasis on commitment/romance is not there. Connection over relationship takes the debilitating weight off of "making that desicon" and onto making sure the other person is cared for IN THE MOMENT. this doesn't negate the beauty of relationship. But it puts into perspective there are other things to focus on besides the outcome. I can't wait to have my relationship, but just as I'm not ready to adopt a puppy because I know I can't do it up right, I am not ready to be the secure individual I need to be in a relationship (especially a marriage). When I am ready, he will come. But because he isn't here, that shows me I am needed at this place, in this time, doing whatever it is I need to for myself and those in my direct circle of influence. Which means focusing not on a relationship, but focusing on human connection. In this way, I can be more selfless and vulnerable than if I was only focusing on finding a relationship--which puts me in a position to take; a position of deficit.

So, h, transition from the mindset of deficit, lack, and seeking, to one of fullness, grace, blessings, and being present-minded. You will find the love you want in this place, not the other.

Also, remember connection blossoms into relationship. Relationship doesn't blossom into connection (usually).

Develop a connection with everyone you meet; even if you think they have nothing to offer you. Do the best you can do wherever you are. Embrace the fuck out of the present moment and circumstance for what it is: good or bad-it will be gone soon enough. The rest will take care of itself.

Connection & purpose should override everything else. Love trumps everything else. When you go to that job interview, remember those are just more people that need impact. When you work with those tough athletes, remember why you're there. When you're intimated by people who are ahead of you, remember they need you just as much as you need them.

Sometimes we have to experience something we thought we'd like to find out we don't like it. And then realize what we thought we wouldn't like, we find that we love. And other times we guessed right about our likes and dislikes. But the only thing that will answer that question is giving yourself away (surrender) to experiences: fully. You never know if you don't try. And if you try, but don't learn and take away everything you possibly can, its as if you shouldn't have tried at all.

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Journey to the Past: The Value of Reminiscing

Remembering the things that matter most to us, one must venture into the past. To others, a journey to the past is simply pointless; to some, a discovery of unrealized learning. But, is there really any value at all in the reminiscences of a person’s phases of waning innocence? A Journey to the Past and Why It Matters It is but sheer folly to deny the significance of the fortuitous events of our younger days. These events had helped us built our present mindset. Of course, we met a series of mishaps during those days, but those experiences molded us. Sometimes we fail to acknowledge the learning that an experience grants us. Some events have to occur twice or more for us to figure out things. There is no denying in that; it’s normal for people to miss a glance on the important things. But, there are also those who are not willing to learn anything at all from these events. If you are a person who wishes to break from a cycle that has been recurring since childhood, a journey to the past is necessary. But, it’s important this time to sharpen your intuition and senses. For you to do that, you’ll have to open your mind to possibilities and reflect deeply on those events. There Is Value in Reminiscing The determination to learn something from the past often leads to paths you expect the least. Yet, these paths may come in handy—as long as you learn something from them, that is. As your journey to the past progresses with a new attitude on looking toward things, your perspective widens significantly. Consequently, the constant reflection on certain events grants you a higher understanding of life. Thusly, we come up with resolutions and, too, have a higher awareness of ourselves—capabilities and limits. Of course, there are also dangers that oppose this journey. We have to deal with the unresolved demons we buried alive in the past. Venturing into the past may mean allowing them to resurface and face them. Thinking about it probably makes you nervous. Drop the thoughts of worry for there is a colorful life ahead after conquering the dreadful faces of your demons. Read the full article

[yorkshirepudblogger]

Trying my best to be more mindful with everything I do, I'm always rushing through life instead of being present and enjoying every little bit of it. Normally the stamping process at the @ukpostoffice when sending my daily pretties is a whirlwind and stamps are on wonky! Today I have taken my time listened to the old dears stood in the queue and all stamps are straight! Shared this cause something that normally gets forgotten about daily has now been enjoyed. How often must we do this as time flies by? Xxxxxx . . . . #mindfulness #bepresent #presentmindset #future #past #inthenow #enjoyeverything #enjoywhatyoudo #takeitslow #takeiteasy #whatsmeantobewillbe #rainbow #royalmail #mail #rainnowglitter #stamps #post #rainbowpurse https://www.instagram.com/p/BogocgmDNny/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=1pqhwp944za4x

[yorkshirepudblogger]

Comparison is a killer of amazing vibes!! Stop comparing and live your life already! You're not married?? Who cares? You've not bought a house?...who gives a fuck!!! The right things will fall into place, the right people will come along when you embrace and love who you are. Don't compare.......Live, Love and Laugh with every ounce of your weird self! 😘😍 xxxxxxxx . . . . #comparison #comparisonispoison #dontcompareyourself #dontcompareyourselftoothers #liveyourlife #enjoythenow #bepresent #presentmindset #mindfulness #managingyourmindset #manifesting #livingmybestlife #love #life #happiness #statusquo https://www.instagram.com/p/Bnnp0kvgGV7/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=1i5byxhre9mdw