#Parentalienation

[ricardovandijk]

Ouderverstoting, ook wel bekend als parental alienation, is een schrijnende situatie waarbij een kind zich afwendt van een van zijn ouders, meestal als gevolg van manipulatie of negatieve beïnvloeding door de andere ouder. Stel je voor: een kind dat ooit van beide ouders hield, wordt tegen de ene ouder opgezet en uiteindelijk verwijderd uit zijn leven. Dit fenomeen komt vaak voor in contexten van echtscheidingen of voogdijgeschillen en kan ernstige emotionele en psychologische gevolgen hebben voor het kind en de verstoten ouder. Wat gebeurt er met de ziel van een kind wanneer het wordt gedwongen partij te kiezen in een strijd die het nooit wilde voeren? En hoe herstelt een verstoten ouder ooit van zulk overweldigend verlies?

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[nityarawal]

He Won't Go ~ Adele

"He Won't Go," @adeles

https://youtu.be/_OptjvGftEE?si=CeAr3gT_lV7HPKXx #SongOfTheDay2 #SOTD2 #HeWontGo #Adele #PA #ParentAlienation #CareNotCourt #4BillionMothersStrong #FreeBritney #DraftedChildren #NatoKidnappings #ChildRights #Royals #SpaceX #RewindAI #TransSlaves #MA #50ShadesOfGold #Merci #Baraye

[skleds]

13 years ago tomorrow my beautiful baby girl Lyla came in to this world and made me the happiest daddy of them all. I vowed to love and protect her no matter what. Now I can’t even tell her happy birthday without being threatened with being arrested. If you see her for her birthday give her a big bear hug for me but if you do then you are part of the problem enabling her #narcissist mother #parentalienation for greed. I miss you and you’re sister baba 😢 https://www.instagram.com/p/CMGRcA_HPmm/?igshid=1bof298hbn58l

[roy-illumibuddy-borrego]

This is what my 11 year old #daughter and I are going through at this time For whatever reason my #exwife is still using #parentalienation and it's so ridiculous Tonight we literally got into it because she was trying to make my daughter go home even though she stays the #weekends with me for no reason just to show #control She made my daughter #panic than started threatening her saying that she won't be able come over here for her best interests Please someone #helpme my daughter is going #crazy living with her mom and I'm just watching it happen #dadshaverights #alienate #dadsforequalrights #fatherslove #trending #truth #theillumibuddycompany #royborrego #help (at Albuquerque, New Mexico) https://www.instagram.com/p/B1S9Ecmh45f/?igshid=zjrap52uftpm

[awaken3rdeye]

New blog

I decided to create a new blog dedicated to my daughter

It's called "letters2mychild". On the blog will be letters I write that i wish she could read that I'll never be able to send. I haven't seen her in a little over a year and it hurts me every day.

[exposingthesociopath-blog]

What better way to create a trauma bond than send your sweet children suicide messages and disappear for 4 days? Seems rather obvious to me. #psycho #Repost @mommiesforfathersrights ・・・ Truth and devastation. Do better. Don’t be petty. Love more than hate. #coparent #stepparenting #bonusmom #daddypositive #daddypositive #stopdaddybashing #mommyup #parentup #divorce #coparenting #coparent #stepparenting #bonusmom #daddypositive #pas #alienation #parentalienation #dobetter #lovemorethanhate #mommiesforfathersrights repost @supportbythesea https://www.instagram.com/p/Bwm2OBxl6qg/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=tfva67b5xsrx

[tookyourphoto]

Miss My Baby Girl So Much. 😔👨‍👧❤️ • • • • #FathersRights #FatherDaughter #ParentAlienation #FightForAria #DaddyLove #Persistence #Passion #Love https://www.instagram.com/p/Bv53ErJl-Pf/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=1x26za10j37kw

[jorob702]

#ParentalAlienationAwarenessIsReal #parentalienation #parentalienationischildabuse https://www.instagram.com/p/BuJ8g2Ln-0qu_SUARcxQhllYJsglILIK50YjOg0/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=1ano6p8eaqx1p

[fine-art-connection]

#parentalienation #parentalienationischildabuse #parentalienationawareness #parentalienationisreal #parentalienationsyndrome #childabuse #brainwashing #pas #narc #narcissist #family #fam #dad #brother#parentalienationisdomesticviolence #parentalienationawareness #parentalienationisreal #parentalienationsyndrome #childabuse #brainwashing #pas #narc #narcissist #family #fam #dad #brother #sister #brothers #sisters #bro #sis #siblings #love #father #mother #related #children #kids #life #sister #brothers #sisters #bro #sis #siblings #love #father #mother #related #children #kids #life #happy #johnnymazenko (at Orland Park, Illinois)

[mrpaulmulder]

A video of Nikki and me (behind the camera) taken exactly one week before the #abduction, lots of fun as we go up the cableway at Hartbeespoort...Neither of us had any idea that it was just one week until the horror of not seeing, hearing or embracing each other again...... #bringnikkimulderhome #childabduction #parentalienation

[kalikeither11-blog]

#parentalienation 🤔

Today whilst reading my Science Daily subscription, I come across a research paper titled ‘Whether direct or indirect parental alienation harms families’. Parent alienation is a behaviour where one parent purposely tryst to damage a child’s relationship with the other parent. The paper reports gender differences in many types of alienating behaviours. It found mothers to use more ‘indirect’ and…

[roy-illumibuddy-borrego]

It's been almost 9 years that my ex wife has been keeping the kids from me. These last couple years they were coming over off and on than we went to court and they found out they were actually coming over 4 days a week and spending the night here. Now for no reason explained she won't let them come over again. Now my daughter is 11 and her and her mother get into quite often. She isn't happy there and her mom holds her stuff and seeing us against her head. Saying if she lives with me she'll get rid of her cat and all her stuff. My daughter is living in hell and there's nothing I can do about it. I don't understand why this "woman" is so hell bent on making her kids life hell and mine too just to get revenge? Or what is it? How can you treat your own kids so bad and their father so bad. I just don't get it. 4 years ago maybe but now we're divorced and it's been over 7 years we've been apart.... I just want my kids healthy. What sucks is my ex was diagnosed with schizoaffective disorder with paranoid delusions and psychotic tendencies!!??? Yet the court put the kids in her care?? I want her to get a mental revaluation as the one she got when she qualified for disability was in 2007/8. What do I do, I know she would be found unable to take care of the kids she's been gone since 2012 mentally..... Justina Borrego please let me see my kids! #5050parenting #5050 #dadshaverights #theillumibuddycompany #royborrego #parentalienation #messedupsystem #childcustody #viral #visition (at The Illumibuddy Company) https://www.instagram.com/p/B12G1bchrEX/?igshid=3z4n0d0hwav8

[coastvideo]

#Repost @gayleblanks with @repostapp ・・・ #steakorramenthefilm @splitpointinc #producerandwriter @ramonvincent #producer @gayleblanks #lineproducer @eshoji #watchthetone #jay @little_miss_cook #liz @little_miss_cook #sarah #parentalienation

[fine-art-connection]

#christmas #holidays #tistheseason #FineArtConnection #holiday #happyholidays #santa #santaclaus #christmas2016 #photooftheday #love #xmas #christmastree #family #jolly #snow #merrychristmas2017🎁🎅🎄#parentalienation #parentalienationischildabuse #parentalienationawareness #parentalienationisreal #parentalienationsyndrome #childabuse #brainwashing #pas #narc #narcissist (at Chicago, Illinois)

[finallyfein]

The People You Love to Not Love -”I’ll do better next time, just love me.”

It’s OK

Along the way it occured to me as a person, mother, daughter, human that the only way to be mentally healthy was to find the cause and make the necessary changes. Because saying, “It’s Ok” for another 15 year’s wasn’t “OK.”

This is How it Starts - the controlling manipulator

The list of rules that the sociopath/narcissist expects their victim to live by:

1. I can say anything I like. You are not allowed to say anything unless you are sure it will not offend me. (Hint: Praise/compliments). 2. I can do anything I want. You are not allowed to do anything unless you are sure I will like it. 3. You must call me regularly to see how I am and give me attention. I never have to call you, unless I need something. 4. You have to respect me. I do not have to respect you. And I don’t. 5. I am allowed to lie about you. You are not allowed to tell the truth about me. 6. I am allowed to lie about you, to make you look bad. You MUST lie about me, to make me look GOOD. 7. I am the only one allowed to get angry. You are not allowed to get angry. 8. I am the only one allowed to have “hurt feelings.” You are not allowed to have hurt feelings. 9. I am the only one allowed to feel “insulted.” You are not allowed to feel insulted.

10. I can falsely accuse you of doing things you never did, and you are not allowed to make a liar out of me by defending yourself.

11. You are not allowed to expose me and reveal the things I really DID do. You must cover up what I do and say and keep it a secret. 12. You are never allowed to complain. That’s MY job. 13. You are never allowed to confront me. I’m the only one who is allowed to confront anybody. 14. I can make faces at you, scowl, roll my eyes, and sneer, but you’d better not look at me “funny,” or even smile at me. 15. I can stop speaking to you, but you are not allowed to stop speaking to me. 16. I can disown you, but you do not have the right to walk away from me.

17. When I’m ready to un-disown you, you have to take me back and start talking to me again, with no further discussion of whatever caused our “rift.” You have no choice in the matter. I am the only one who has a choice. 18. I can “vent” to other people about you, but you must suffer in silence. 19. I can tell everybody the things you “did to” me, but you are not allowed to tell anybody the things I did to you. 20. You are not allowed to have any opinion that differs from mine. 21. You must agree with everything I say, but I am allowed to criticize and degrade the things you say. 22. I have no sense of humor when it comes to me. You must take me very seriously, but I am allowed to mock you and even laugh in your face. 23. If you don’t know why I’m mad, you better figure it out, because I’m not going to tell you. 24. If another person upsets me, you’d BETTER take my side and confront and shun them. If another person upsets YOU, good for them. You deserve it. 25. I know everything, you know nothing. 26. You are weak and inferior. I am a superior being, and you must always acknowledge that and never forget your place.

27. You have no freedom to even think independently. I have all the freedom. 28. Your job is to take care of my needs and feelings. You are not allowed to have needs or feelings. If you do, then take care of them yourself and don’t expect anything from me. 29. You have no rights. I have all the rights.

30. You are here to do for me, I am not here to do for you. You are only here for my convenience. When you are no longer useful or become too much trouble, I will kick you to the curb. Until I want something from you again.

I suppose it goes without saying... you will never please this disgraceful personality type. You will never be good enough. You are the victim but you are the people pleaser. The weak fall victim to this horrible type of life. Get out of your situation, now. You are stronger than you think. 

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 Top 10 Signs of a Toxic Person

Number 1, 3, 7, and 8 are the top most damaging personality traits. Unfortunately, these sociopathic types gather minions and make them into fake people; they isolate and control.  When the spell is broken and the person "wakes up" they are usually in shock because nothing makes sense. At that point, the "toxic" person disposes of them quickly because they are petrified of being discovered. Usually, the person is treated as an "anchor" to them or "dead weight"  they usually self-define that person as bad or something outrageous; if this is done to a teenager or child, they will actually believe the toxic manipulative draining person. It's up to everyone to call people out immediately if they know someone that behaves this way. Tell them to stop it and/or get away from you.  Great post!! And you know what, at all costs, people like this have to hide from their "real" self. Too bad for the victims they mentally abuse and isolate. -Steer clear of these people.   Well, I love you Toidy! I'm sending you positive vibes and lots of love. xoxo