#MarriedLife

[oursuperadventure]

I learned it from the cats 😔 Sorry, Stef!! (P.s. new spooky things now available over at shop.oursuperadventure.com!)

[chubbymuffinclub]

POV: You married someone who loves your squishy belly 😏

beautymarkedilly

I remember when David first squished my belly in the beginning of our relationship and I was not having it AT ALL, I wanted to fight! - but he told me to shut up cause he loves it. So here we are 🤣🤣

[wordofsex]

Happiness

I love when I can taste your pussy on my smile

[chamberlinfamilyfarms]

Have a Great Day 😉. #funny #jokes #lol #countrylife

[hiddenonemakhfi]

Our fingers are so close yet our hearts are far away...

Our eyes looking at each other yet it doesn't break pass the facade...

What have we become 10 years down the lane...Is this the maximum we can bear each other...We met as strangers even today we remain the same...

-M

[secret-life-of-a-naturist]

Wishing everyone a very nice day. Happy Friday!

As always, stay creative, safe, and healthy.

Fabien

[weddedlobster]

[illuminatingfacts]

My wife asked if I ever feel shooting pains, like someone stabbing a voodoo doll of me. I said no... Then she yelled, 'How about now?' 😂😂 Marriage goals, right?

[killiraxi]

pov ur bf wont reply to ur messages so u make a small collage of poems u wrote for him

[kayeceekimm]

About me as a married woman and a midwifery student. Medyo mahirap pagsabayin, lalo na kung nagkakasabay ang gawaing bahay at school activities & homework. Masaya ang maging kaisang dibdib ang iyong minamahal at mas masaya dahil all support siya sa akin, at siya din mismo ang nagpursige sa akin na ipagpatuloy ang aking pangarap na magbalik eskwela. Nasabi kong mahirap pagsabayin ang pag-aaral at pagiging asawa. Una wala kang katulong sa pag asikaso sa pagluluto ng pagkain, sa gawaing bahay habang yung mga reviewer ko ay naghihintay sa akin. Sabay pa na may maliit kaming business na naka open ng sabay ang printing shop at snack house kaya kahit sa araw ng pagrereview ay di ko magawa. Dahil nasa pwesto ako. Maswerte yung mga kabataan ngayon na kasama pa rin nila ang kanilang mga magulang, merong maglalaba ng kanilang uniform, maipaghahanda sila ng makakain bago pumasok sa eskwela at nabibigyan nila ng oras ng pagrereview ang mga anak nila tuwing nalalapit na ang exam. Yan ang di ko na nararanasan ngayon dahil kami ay nakabukod sa aming mga magulang walang ibang tutulong sa amin sa gawaing bahay kundi kami lang ng asawa ko. Marami pa akong ikukwento about sa married life ko at pagiging estudyante ko, kaya abang abang sa next post mga bhii. 😆😁 #studentlife #marriedlife #collegelife

[wordofsex]

I am a ridiculous human being but I love living this way. I love having you on a pedestal and that you blow my mind every time I see you. I love that it gives everything I do a purpose.

I know I have a lot to do to get it right and make you happy too. Please keep asking me for exactly what you want. Please do anything you feel you need to do to make sure I am focused on you.

[secret-life-of-a-naturist]

Wishing everyone a very nice relaxing Sunday!

As always, stay creative, safe, and healthy. 

Fabien

[progressivemother]

How I Stay Productive as a Working Housewife & Mother to Two

Everyone wants to be productive in their day and have a sense of accomplishment and fulfillment at the end of the day. Our society has made it seem that unless you are employed outside the home you are not a productive member of society. This is simply not true. Whether you work outside of the home, in the home, or only a homemaker, you deserve to feel happy and appreciated.

Everyone should be satisfied with and proud of their home. Dont get me wrong; that doesnt mean only cleaning the house. It's taking care of the yard, the vehicles, and the outside of the home. Of course, everyone has pets and kids to care for as well.

Here are my tips for staying on top of things whether you work outside of the home or in the home.

1. Keep a routine and a schedule

I have a daily routine and a schedule. Of course, everything is flexible if it's needed. I am not strict in everything I do. But if you schedule a routine, the house practically runs itself.

I have a cleaning binder with daily, weekly, and monthly cleaning routines. I used these when I worked outside of the home and I have kept it while working from home. I will admit, it is definitely easier while working from home. You need to find something that works for you and create your own binder if that is something that works for you.

We have a daily schedule that is usually consistent. We have one for the school year and one for the summer. What I've come to find works great for me is an app where I can keep my schedule and the kids' all in one space. This helps me keep track. The kids have Synch Up watches that I can add schedules to so they can keep up on their own things. I do have an app with my schedule and an app where I can list anything extra I need to do that isnt on the normal schedule such as what monthly cleaning I am going to do that day, when to start a birthday cake or what needs to be bought that wasnt in the grocery delivery.

2. Do some chores and set up some things the night before.

I like to do a few things the night before to make my day easier.

• Empty all of the trash

• Pick up all of the clutter and put things away

• Reset the kitchen

• Put clothes and washing pod in washer

• Prepare any food needed for next day whether defrosting or premaking crockpot meal.

• Prepare kids' meals that don't involve cooking.

• Prepare pets' food for next day and check pets' water.

• Set up kids' videos (we have education time every morning)

• Choose outfit and jewelry

• Fill water bottle

• Refill toilet paper, paper towels, & hand soaps

• Prepare the coffee for the next day. (Our coffee pot has a time that we can set for it to brew)

• Put the dishes in the dishwasher and preset to wash during the night

• Get anything ready for next day, such as bills, knitting and groceries to do while working. So for you, it might be a briefcase or a coffee mug. If you are able to take care of things while working in between customers or calls (whatever it is you do), then do that if it is allowed by your bosses.

3. Get up early and go to bed early

I wake up every morning at 4am to start my day. I do not start work until 7am. I work from home so I can do a lot before that time. I exercise, do a piano session, drink my coffee and eat breakfast, and lastly I do most of my daily cleaning and most of my weekly cleaning. The rest can be done on breaks including my monthly cleaning.

You do what works for you and what helps you feel the most productive. It’s not so much when you get up, it’s your attitude when you do. I take a few minutes to get my mind and attitude right before I start my day. Purpose to have a good attitude and purpose to be a productive person.

Going to bed at a good time the night before helps with this. I am in bed by 8:30pm after meditation. Meditation definitely helps me wind down and fall asleep quicker and helps me wake up in a better mood. This habit is something I have taught my kids.

4. Get dressed as early as possible

Whether you take a shower/bath the night before or in the morning, it is important that you get ready for the day as soon as you can. I usually take a bath the night before. Since I clean, I stay in my cleaning clothes or pajames until I am mostly finished. I get dressed around 10am in the morning. I just feel more productive when I'm dressed. I don't wear makeup so this does make things easier. I do understand with toddlers it's more difficult but I made it work. Just do your best.

5. Have a calendar

We have a month calendar and a week calendar for anything we have plans for such as birthday parties or gymnastics. I have the app and I have a physical magnetic calendar on the fridge.

The app is for me and the calendar on the fridge is for the family. Everyone has a colored marker for themselves. There are also colors for family things, friends things, and pets.

6. Meal prep

A time-saving hack every mom should be doing is meal planning. It saves money and it makes making the meals much easier on yourself. We also have a magnetic week calendar for the meals. I have an app where I keep track of the meals but I also write it down on a physical calendar on the fridge.

7. Choose a day to prepare for the week.

Every Thursday, I sit down and go over the schedule, bills, and meal plan for the week. I pay the bills due and shop for the groceries to be delivered on Fridays.

This doesn't take me longer than an hour. We don't usually have much planned. It's the same schedule every day. Work, school, etc.

But choose a day that fits you best and go over everything that needs to be taken care of for that week.

8. Be Organized

My husband always makes fun of me and says I'm crazy because of how organized I am. I have binders for everything. Birthdays, bills, cleaning, house projects, etc. I also have the house organized. But the thing is, keeping things minimal and having as little in the house as possible helps me keep everything in it's place. The kids are taught, "don't put it down, put it away". I make sure I use that mantra on myself as well.

9. Schedule breaks and time for yourself

Give yourself little times during the day to have a break. Grab a cup of coffee or a snack, go for a walk. Reward yourself for productive periods of time. You will be much more likely to finish a task after you have a break. Taking time for yourself doesn’t make you selfish. It makes you a happier and better mom. I do my exercise in the morning and my meditation and a bath in the evening.

10. Say "no"

This is so important for everyone who works from home, works outside of the home, or is a homemaker. There are times when saying "no" is just what you have to do. You have a schedule and most likely, so do your friends. Schedule time for friends. You have children and you have your husband that you also need to spend time with. Luckily, my friends and I understand this about each other. We are all working mothers who prefer spending time with family on the weekends. Sometimes, we will all get together on the weekends doing family things with friends but it's rare. Mostly, we will choose a time we have lunch break and eat lunch together or sit at the park talking. We get our social time in and we still are able to focus on our schedules and families.

11. Put your phone down and limit all media

We, as parents, need to learn to put our phones down to spend more time with our children and to stay productive. Think about it. We can sit on a phone and get distracted and before we know it, 30 minutes or an hour has gone by and we havent done anything.

In my house, we limit screen time for the kids and the parents. We also do not allow the news or politics in our home. We have realized that it is only distracting and toxic. It doesnt have any use to us, in this time, in our home.

12. Dont procrastinate

For me it is not helpful to continue to worry about how I feel and my struggles. There is a time and place for that. We can all get overwhelmed with our duties, our jobs, our kids, etc. We tend to just sit there in our thoughts and whine about how we don't want to do laundry or cook dinner. Just do it. Things just need to be done. If it doesn't get done, then later on, it will only be more overwhelming to us because there is more work to be done. I try to get things done as efficiently and joyfully as possible so that I can more energy for things that I actually want to do.

Times have changed alot since the early days of being a housewife. A wife and mother has many responsibilities, but they can be achieved with luck and planning. Creating a schedule that works for you and your family is the catalyst for success. Celebrate your wins and always do your best. Everyone has good days and bad days. Don't be afraid to ask for help or have your kids do chores. Do not worry about being perfect. You only need to do you best.

[blackmensmile]

@theemrswiggins : Because you are my person. FOREVER x ALWAYS 💍 #marriedlife #blacklove #blackfamily #husbandandwife #alwaysandforever https://www.instagram.com/p/CqyhmMBplxX/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

[wordofsex]

Goals

I have an intense longing to feel completely at your mercy, to be in such an absurd, helpless  position that I can't even pretend that I am anything other than ridiculous. To be so completely vulnerable in front of you, the strongest and most beautiful person I have ever met, that there is no place left for pride and delusion. 

I want to be kneeling naked and uncomfortable at your feet; blindfolded and gagged, completely helpless, while you get on with your stuff and ignore me. Maybe occasionally you could stop to tell me how ridiculous I am, to rub Deep Heat on my dick, step on my balls and beat me.  I want to be there for so long that I can't stand it any longer, until I truly regret ever being honest with you about any of my desires. 

At that point I  hope you kneel down, look me in the eyes and say 

“don’t worry my love, we are just getting started”

[weddedlobster]

My wife hoarding the tiny Nespresso pods like a medieval dragon