#MapOfMySoul

[mapof-mysoul]

K-POP ?

It's been a while, but here I am. I was under a lot of stress as I was getting a new job. I started this week and though i haven't done much besides training. I'm excited about the possibility. I have been writing and reading and existing. My mind seems clearer not without its usual hurricane  of thoughts but just enough for me to see out from where I stand in its eye. 

Enough for the constant ache to be dulled. Kinda like what KPOP does to me. 

Weird transition but okay. I'll talk about KPOP.

As I write this I'm listening to BTS and Lee Know from StrayKids is commenting on bubble. So my reason for getting into KPOP BTS and my reason for spiraling down its rabbit hole SKZ. I thought it was a small hyper fixation as most things are for me. But a year and a half later here we are multi stan and all.

I joined this world just as BTS was announcing its group hiatus. Which sucked but I think I was lucky also. I get to experience them all for the grammys together and I get to learn them though their own individual music and schedules. I get to see them each for who they are as artists outside of BTS global phenomenon. I get to go back and see their struggles and growth knowing how it will all turn out.

I do however miss those who have enlisted and i'll miss those who still have to enlist. But thanks to BTS I have 5 individual artists I love and soon that will be 7 once JK and V  release their solos.

Thanks to them opening the door I found SKZ, which includes 8 chaotic guys whose music, energy and personalities also make me feel. 

When your mind is a mess to be pulled out of that is as close to euphoric as it gets. 

Yes there are other groups I enjoy. But these particular two make me feel seen, heard and understood. Yes they speak a language I'm struggling to learn but that's the thing they have opened me up to a culture and side of the world i never would have otherwise thought of learning about. Food, culture, language, customs and history are only a few of the things I've allowed myself to start learning. I want to understand them fully. 

The effort it takes is worth it. When you learn the meaning behind lyrics or remarks they make. Whether it's Love Yourself or Youtiful, I am grateful for the feelings behind these songs. I am grateful that I can know this world of BTS and SKZ and get immersed in so much more than their beauty. I mean yeah it's great to look at them, collect photo cards, albums or place posters on my wall. But when I look at those things I remember their words of kindness. 

I remember JK talking about how he missed us. Or Bang Chan seeing us weekly for Channies room. Things they don't have to do. Eat Jin or Asmr with Felix. Jimin and his little building lives or I.N drinking way too many energy drinks. They chose us as much as we chose them. Taehyung and Lee Know taking time to answer comments on their respective platforms. Namjoon's song recommendations on IG or Yoongi telling us the meanings of his songs regardless of how painful it must be for him to relive it. Hyunjin and Jhope dancing across my screen. Or Changbins laughter. Seungmins sacrasm and jokes and Hans' vulnerability.

These mens gentle masculinity is what has led most of us to feel closer to them then other western artists.

I love western music, from pop to rock, classic, jazz and indie but there is also rap and hip hop R & B on my playlist. As a latina i listen to bachata and ballads, reggaeton or merengue and salsa. My playlist has at least 11 languages on it. 

Can you tell I love music?

As a writer, feeling and hearing an emotion can fill me with it. I dont have to know the language, take one of my favorite songs by BTS' Min Yoongi or in this case his alias Agust D, The Last. 

The first time i heard it i cried, no lyrical reference not in either language i know. Just me feeling exhausted from the pain inside myself. Unable to cry at that point. Maybe it was the angsty pain in his voice but I knew I felt it too. I cried. Silent tears covering my cheeks. I was not alone. When I looked up the lyrics I sobbed again, because my soul understood before my mind could. He himself says music doesn't have a language. 

When I had the opportunity to see him in concert I jumped. Because he is my bias after all. I cried twice, once during Amygdala, because I knew exactly what he meant. Our traumas looked different but their effects were the same. I cried again during Snooze as he repeated over and over and over how "everything was going to be okay". As he reminded me to lean on him to take a break, and then when i'm ready pursue my dream once again. It felt good to hear it in person. But I didn't cry during The Last like I thought I would. Instead I smiled because that was a song that connected him and I and millions of people around the world. 

I wasn't an emotional mess the entire time. Instead I screamed in anger during Burn It, a song that gave way to that kind of behavior as well as a lot of his others. But hearing him pause to say hey “from now on i'll write with less anger”. Reminded me of my own writing journey. Of how I too have written angry and dark and pained. But like him I too have begun to step out of that. When im asked why Min Yoongi, its because he spoke to a part of me i thought would never heal and he was there when when it started to. Im not saying he saved me but it really fucking helped to hear someone, like him say "yeah same".

It wasn't just him, my SKZ bias Bang Chan. Might not have done one of his weekly check in in a while but he is also much like me. He fights for those he loves endlessly, forgetting himself in the process. Working until he pushes too far. Wanting to be better, do better, be the best and continually climb that perfectionist ladder.

I've heard him give advice about living and taking care of yourself. I've also heard him say he values respect amongst all things. He has many times spoken to his Stays about leaving the haters alone. He almost said he liked people who didnt give a fuck. But stopped himself saying people who don't care instead. He has talked about periods and sex education calling it explicit education. A Stay asked “what will i do without you?” his response they should live, “live life to the fullest.” He even says that no matter who you are, what you want to be, he will be there for you. As a leader he is both beyond honest and careful, also hopeful that  overly enthusiastic Stays don't take things out of context or too far. He trusts his fandom. 

So when i say i listen to kpop. This is it. I watch endless content from many groups that catch my attention. Often I laugh until my stomach hurts and oftentimes I cry. I Read books they recommend, learn a language and culture and customs and history. So yes kpop sounds toxic or intense but to me it's safe in a world that often does not provide that. 

A world where my own mind is my biggest enemy. This is where I can both find myself while I lose myself. Disconnect from my own life and become immersed in another one. So ill keep reading subtitles and translations while i learn korean. But i'll also learn about their history and customs. 

Bowing, instead of the western greeting of hugs or Spanish cheek kisses I grew up with, is probably my favorite. I've never been a touching random strangers person. But in Dominican Republic that's what you do. I also love art now too. That's thanks to RM, the leader of BTS, who is an art collector and Hyunjin of SKZ who paints masterpieces to destress. I eat plenty of Korean food and visit HMart too much. But i've never been a picky eater. I'll try anything twice. 

So yeah this was all because of K-POP but I'm lucky I found them when I did because things have only gotten better since.

[concealedrecs]

Fic: namgi - morning after

Author: Mapofmysoul

Fandom: BTS

Pairing: Kim Namjoon/Min Yoongi

Rating: Teen

Length: 3200

Recommendation: THE ABSOLUTE VIBES!! This is excellent. I just absolutely adore this. It's the fifth in the series of drabbles, but can be read on the moon.

[sugarrimajins]

Persona-RM

y’all there is so much about the unconscious mind in the mv. There are references of the ice-berg, which talks about the ego. also a quote that i spotted from Carl Jung who is apart of the psych community as psychologist who worked on the unconscious mind. This is so interesting because they say the mind is the soul ya know? anyways i don’t know my theory yet but I think it revolves around recognizing who you are and what kind of person you are subconsciously. 

[bts-au-recs]

Burning Blue

Author: MapofmySoul

Relationship/s: Yoonmin

Status: Complete

Word Count: 51,634

Summary:

Min yoongi made a mistake. And to get his life back, he makes a deal with powerful witch park jimin. They marry and soon yoongi can't deny it anymore: he's in love with the damn witch.

  moodboard

OR: yoonmin arranged marriage but with ✨tentacles✨

Link: https://archiveofourown.org/works/36252700/chapters/90373093

[shinobuto]

Map Of My Soul 001

Tomorrow is a party I've been waiting for a whole year.

Tomorrow is the day that I've had big hopes for. 

The night that I'm meant to finnaly get what I wanted.

But now, when it's tomorrow, when it's only one day more to this night, I'm aftaid that I might, no -that I certainly will meet big disappointment. I'm disenchanted, a lot.

That's because  probably nothing will change.And I made a��vow to give up then and that's kind of hard to give up something that I really want.

All or nohing , Me VS Fate - 20th February 2012.

Not so good that probably I'll lost.

[mapof-mysoul]

I question things a lot. Everything has always been a question. Who am i? What do i do now? Where do i go from here? How am i?

See questions.

Oddly enough i dont mind having these questions. I guess in a way they help me grow. Their answers teach me of myself, so i can ask different questions.

Who are you? What do you do now? Where do you go from here? How are you? But then again thats what i always ask my mirror.

See, i look into it, and i can tell you all I've lived.

The sadness in my eyes or the joy. The smirk or frown on my lips. The furrowing of my brows.

When im anxious or nervous i bite my lips. When I'm confused, curious or intrigued, i raze an eyebrow. I wrinkle my nose much like a rabbit when im trying to be cute.

These things are all true.

There are other things about me you can't see. I love writing, K-pop, books, psychology, history, and philosophy. I have bipolar disorder type 2 if you're wondering. I also have anxiety and am a bit autistic. I love to lay in the sun and sit under the moonlight. Im a leo. I love dumplings and sushi. I also love Dominican food, since that's where my parents are from.

See, there are all kinds of things i have answers to.

Also, my favorite color is red.

What i still dont know is, what happens next?

[mapof-mysoul]

First Post

This will be the sight of many rants, thoughts and feelings. I have tried this blog stuff before but I am pretty inconsistent. This time I hope I can find a way to keep up with it.

I'll be posting things from poems, stories and rants, maybe even K-POP content as well.

What I'm trying to say is that this will truly be a look into my soul for strangers on the internet.

Whether anyone sees this or not, I'll be allowing myself to be truly vulnerable and honest. This is for me but you are welcome to accompany me on this journey.

[ao3feed-sugamon]

september, 12

read it on the AO3 at https://ift.tt/3l9WXVq

by MapofmySoul

namjoon gets woken up by jin and receives two presents from his hyungs

Words: 1662, Chapters: 1/1, Language: English

Series: Part 2 of Bangtan Birthdays

Fandoms: 방탄소년단 | Bangtan Boys | BTS

Rating: Explicit

Warnings: Creator Chose Not To Use Archive Warnings

Categories: M/M, Multi

Characters: Kim Namjoon | RM, Kim Seokjin | Jin, Min Yoongi | Suga, Jung Hoseok | J-Hope, maknaes mentioned

Relationships: Kim Namjoon | RM/Kim Seokjin | Jin, Kim Namjoon | RM/Min Yoongi | Suga, Kim Namjoon | RM/Kim Seokjin | Jin/Min Yoongi | Suga, OT7 - Relationship

Additional Tags: Canon Compliant, soft everyone, waking up with kisses, Sweet Kim Seokjin | Jin, Kim Namjoon | RM-centric, Talking, Birthday Fluff, Cuddling & Snuggling, Lazy Mornings, Blow Jobs, slow blowjob, min yoongi is sleepy, namjoon gets presents, Cute, soft, Fluff, Attempt at Humor, no beta we die like men, OT7 feels, Namjoon is happy, Nicknames

read it on the AO3 at https://ift.tt/3l9WXVq