#MEN AND WOMEN

[fernacular]

Not to be an Art Snob or anything but something that makes me genuinely so so tired:

The material/execution: wild and crazy and innovative, high technical skill, the artist doing genuinely cool and unexpected things in regards to the process of creating the piece

The subject: a generically pretty woman with a completely neutral expression gazing off in a Direction

[belamercado]

Mother says there are locked rooms inside all women; kitchen of lust, bedroom of grief, bathroom of apathy... Sometimes, the men-they come with keys, and sometimes, they come with hammers.

- Warsan Shire

[idkmynameiskat]

Friendly reminder your body is beautiful just the way it is ✨

[vintage-tigre]

[posing-as-neurotypical]

You can't be a feminist if you hate men.

[abiwaif]

Oh my word...

[sportsandlaughs]

[maplebean2003]

Men?

😳

Women?

😳

Cheers to the fact that everyone is hot 😼

[dosesofcommonsense]

[i-am-aprl]

[feminismisstillahatemovement]

Why Men Are Alone: The Ugly Truth Women Don't Want to Hear

[principiumindividuationis777]

Advice on Intimacy (for Women)

Again, I will keep this tasteful and safe for work.

The biggest hang up most men have is being insecure about being manly enough, including in the bedroom. The way to get him over this, and form a deep emotional bond in the process, is this:

(A) Take the initiative and gently place him on his back, but do not start by kissing on the lips. Start lower, kissing his special places. The reason? This lets his mind relax and lets him know the pressure to put on a performance is gone. He can close his eyes for the moment, moving from negativity to positivity.

(B) With him still on his back, take him entirely, but gently.

(C) Talk to him sweetly, with words like, "Does that feel good?", and encourage him to express little coos of enjoyment, with words like, "That's right, baby (or whatever your terms of endearment are with him).

(D) Talk him through to the big moment, not in a "dirty" way, but softly and sweetly.

(E) Do not stop after the big moment. Keep gently kissing him all over, and keep saying soft, sweet words.

This way, you are in full control of him, but in the spirit of true love. He will not only need you physically, but emotionally, deeply, because you made him feel special, loved and deeply relaxed, free of all the anxious expectations to be macho. He will trust you.To make it full intimacy, emotional as well as physical:

(F) Talk to him about whatever he wants afterwards. Sometimes, just listening to what is on his mind without judgment is what he needs most- and, of course, cuddle.

Of course, do this only for the man of your life, but in truth, if a man does not appreciate this, he is not worthwhile anyway. Most men would be too embarrassed to describe these needs, but I am a man who likes women, and I think this approach to intimacy could even keep relationships together.

Bless you all, and peace:

[midnightripping]

“Do not fear me, I am a man of principle. The principles, however, you should fear.”

-Toni Oba // Quotes by villains I haven’t written yet

[soulaanadelrey]

Do you know how many people are like "Yeah sure I like BDSM" but in reality, they don't really like BDSM and they only told you that and did some freaky shit so they can be with you? That's a liar.

[dreaminginthedeepsouth]

Leonora Carrington - Burial of the Patriarchs (ca. 1963)

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“there have been so many times i have seen a man wanting to weep but instead beat his heart until it was unconscious.” ― Nayyirah Waheed

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“That not all men are piggy, only some; that not all men belittle me, only some; that not all men get mad if you won’t let them play Chivalry, only some; that not all men write books in which women are idiots, only most; that not all men pull rank on me, only some; that not all men pinch their secretaries’ asses, only some; that not all men make obscene remarks to me in the street, only some; that not all men make more money than I do, only some; that not all men make more money than all women, only most; that not all men are rapists, only some; that not all men are promiscuous killers, only some; that not all men control Congress, the Presidency, the police, the army, industry, agriculture, law, science, medicine, architecture, and local government, only some.

I sat down on the lawn and wept.” ― Joanna Russ, On Strike Against God

[dbaydenny]

Supple female form

always alluring sirens

if only being,

it is a man's blessed curse,

that we cannot bear her scorn.

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D W Eldred