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Scorpio



Ascendant:
Because they are governed by the Water element, they feel deeply the energies around them, they absorb the environment. Their gaze is intense, sharp, they pay attention to things that no one else notices. Their presence is strong, as they are ruled by Pluto, their magnetism is accentuated. They are generally quieter, they are not very receptive, they like to analyze people first and then start introducing themselves. Distrust is a strong characteristic of this Ascendant, who does not feel safe until they have completely read the environment and the people around them. They usually intrigue people because they are mysterious in a certain way. While people are trying to find out more about them, the Scorpio ascendant has already read people to their soul, analyzing their gestures, their posture and, above all, listening to their intuition. They like to change their appearance. They live life with intensity, giving themselves fully to experiences.
Sun:
Ruled by Pluto, these people are deep, with the Sun in Scorpio nothing just is what it is, everything is intense, bigger, deep. They are reserved people, who generally have some drama in their history, some tra1ma, some pa1n. They understand well that life is not beautiful, they can see the âuglyâ that permeates it, which is why they are dense people, with depth, they understand life like no one else. They undergo transformations in their personality, generally caused by some personal crisis. Like it or not, they are attracted to power, they like the feeling of security it can bring, they tend to have a strong personality, they rarely give in in order to please or obey someone. Because they are ruled by Pluto, they do things driven by passion, they either love what they do or they don't care at all about it. They are extreme people, with complete surrender on one side and total indifference on the other.
Moon:
Things are felt with all their intensity and, generally, people with this Moon cannot control the intensity of their feelings. Emotions bubble to the surface, sometimes stirring the native of this placement. There is nowhere to run, the emotions are everywhere, and they are very intense. Because they know their emotional world well, these people are capable of having great magnetic power, since Pluto, the ruler of this Moon, teaches the depth of understanding their own pains and loves, giving power to the conscious mind. When they feel something, it stays with them for a long time, whether the feeling is good or bad. They do things with all their soul, because only then they can feel satisfaction/fulfillment. Either loving or hating, emotions keep flowing under the deep waters of their feelings.
Mercury:
They are more of the quiet type, but their mind is running deep. Generally people only discover what is happening in their lives when things have already happened or are ending. This is the Mercury that is obsessed, when they like something, be it a song, an artist, a person, they will want to find out everything about it, they love to know more and more, there is no limit to how much they can absorb when the the subject is the things they like/love. They are intelligent people, they generally know extremely well about a topic, as they have studied it deeply. They are great at giving advice, however their advice is the very truth that people are not always willing to listen to. They love music, they usually have a favorite genre, music moves them a lot, it makes them feel more intensely about themselves, messing with their mind and interior.
Venus:
This is one of the most powerful Venus in the zodiac. Here Pluto, its ruler, gives physical and psychic magnetism and a powerful aura. The search for power, whether physical or psychological, is great. This Venus slowly permeates the objects of their affection, they may seem indifferent, but it's only because they are working on their magnetism to attract what they want and they usually get it, their vibration is slow and deep, their charm is irresistible. Their love life is intense and rich, they like to have control over their loved ones, to know their secrets, their emotional intimacies. Love is felt intensely, when something or someone becomes theirs it will be theirs forever, even if no longer physically.
Mars:
Powerful people. Ruled by Mars and Pluto, these people analyze, intuit, observe very well before acting on what they want. This is the most powerful and silent Mars in the zodiac, their actions are done in silence, in the âshadowsâ, and that is why most of their plans work out, this Mars doesn't go around saying what they plan on doing. They put together an extremely well planned plan and put it into action, the results speak for themselves. Controlling. This Mars likes to have things and people under their control, as they love the security and predictability that power brings, they rarely let other people take their power over, especially if they fought to conquer it. Very quiet and cunning, this Mars is the high octave of Mars in Aries, and here it acts at its full power, they can concentrate all their strength and resources to get what they want, and, no matter how difficult it is, they will persist concentratedly until they obtain the object of their affection, be it a goal, a person or a dream. Because they are people with a strong personality and even stronger actions, they generally have many enemies, but this Mars knows, however, who they all are.



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Mini Observations #6 đś
If it doesn't apply, let it fly.
18+ astro observations - minors, do not interact. Period.
Lilith in 1st House Synastry
đś The Lilith person notices the house person IMMEDIATELY but may not act on it for some time. The house person may initially be oblivious to any attraction or interest from the Lilith person but definitely feels an attraction to them.
đś This connection is often extremely sexual and once someone makes any kind of move, neither party can conceal it from the other. Or anyone else in the vicinity, for that matter.
đś This is the kind of synastry you see in those people who meet and everyone around them thinks they'll disappear and go fuck in the bathroom or car any moment. Even if... even though they just met.
đśThe Lilith person finds the house person almost irresistable, and if not morally stable, they're very likely to "risk it all" for one night with the house person.
đśThe house person may not feel the compulsion as strongly to risk destroying an existing relationship, but if unattached, they are likely to break vows/promises they've made to themselves surrounding sexuality and abstinence for the Lilith person.
đś It can become physical fast between these two, but unless there are other placements and aspects that point to positive emotional, romantic, and intellectual chemistry? It'll be like a match - burns hot, fast, and then disappears, leaving nothing but ashes.
Venus in 12 House synastry
đś The Venus person can see through the defenses and veils of the house person.
đś The house person will feel seen, but may not like it.
đś If there are easy or compatible aspects between the other inner planets, they could have positive sexual and romantic tension.
đś If there are hard or competitive aspects, the house person may resent or even grow to hate the Venus person for "undressing" them emotionally.
đś Even at best, sex between these two can take some time to be considered good. They could enjoy the anticipation of sex or discussing it more than the act itself.
đś This can happen with 12H Moon synastry, too, but with less risk for hatred and more of a sad growing apart, if anything.
đś If either of them have 8th or 12th house placements in their natal charts, they may have more longevity and a happy ending, as they will both be used to the eighth or twelfth house energies and themes within themselves and be less triggered by it in each other.
đś Sex between them can swing wildly (or gently) between passionate rough and cuddly romantic.
đś The Venus person may find it difficult to get the house person to commit to a formal/official relationship or arrangement unless otherwise indicated in their charts.
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SYNASTRY OBSERVATIONS
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𪽠Moon in 8th house synastry can become obsessive if the Moon person is not careful.Moon person is very interested in the 8th house person's emotions, mind and body. The Moon person thinks of the 8th house person as a secret they can never solve. They trust each other a lot and this is a very intense and difficult bond to break.
𪽠Jupiter in 2nd house synastry the Jupiter person supports the house person materially and spiritually, invests in the house person, buys gifts for the house person and makes them happy. Jupiter person praises and glorifies his/her partner in front of people.
𪽠Mars 1st house synastry the Mars person finds the house person physically very attractive and interested. Regardless of the sign of the ascendant, he/she finds the ascendant fiery. Mars person angers and irritates the asc person in order to arouse a reaction and interest in the 1st house person. The 1st house person feels the confident and masculine energy emitted by the mars person and sometimes finds it excessive.
𪽠Lilith conjunct sun moon venus in synastry if lilith is male he becomes obsessed with the planet person .lilith sees the planet person as someone he can never reach. if it is the sun he fears if it is venus and moon he is drawn to her femininity lilith sees the planet as forbidden. if not careful it can easily become an intense deceptive toxic relationship
𪽠Sun 5th house synastry makes you feel childish self-confident. the sun person falls in love with the house person. they spoil together, have fun and enjoy doing activities. they cannot take their hands off each other. they may even want to have children together. The ego of the sun person increases next to the house person.
𪽠Vertex conjunction venus synastry can make the meeting and relationship of venus and vertex person feel like fate. they feel as if they have known each other before, they change their destiny together.
𪽠Venus 7th house synastry is like a dream for a romantic relationship. they feel that they complement each other. they are understanding and loving towards each other. they both feel as if they have found their ideal partner. it is a harmonious romantic emotional relationship.
𪽠Mars 3rd house synastry, the house person admires the way the mars person expresses himself and the way he thinks. they find each other mentally attractive. they like to make jokes and joke with each other.
𪽠Lilith 10th house synastry, the lilith person sees the house person as someone who has the potential to become famous. The lilith person feels the need to prove himself to the 10th house person. they may want to make enemies instead of supporting each other in their careers.
Love u... Ceren.....
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âď¸Astrology Observations 5đ
đ¸ď¸ Neptune in 7th house has victim complex. More often than not, they think that they are too giving, too loyal and everyone takes and takes from them when that is sometimes not even true.
đ¸ď¸ Moon + Rahu combination can make another person super empathetic to the point that they cannot detach and work normally if something is bothering them. This is even worse if the moon is in a planet that affects personal houses like the 6th house of routines or 2nd house of money. Be careful with this combo.
đ¸ď¸ Rahu in the 7th house is clingy af and can do drastic things to keep a relationship. They have the tendency to use relationships as a self-validation tool. This intensifies if moon is not in a healthy position. They are the kind to kill themselves or harm themselves over a relationship. They need a good circle of friends to ground them.
đ¸ď¸ Jupiter in 4th houses often come from huge families that are ready to help them. Even if the person is harsh or strict, they won't be able to do that with a jupiter in 4th house kid. It's just something so "childlike" about their vibe to their family.
đ¸ď¸ ohk. It's either because my Sun is darkaraka or it's just true but people with Sun in the first house or exalted suns (aries Sun) just have my respect. They are so naturally inclined to leadership. I wish to learn from them.
đ¸ď¸ I read somewhere that while venus is the planet of love and beauty, they are very exclusionary. This is because venus is the IT girl that says "not everyone deserves me. đ
". She's luxury. Thus, venus dominant people like Osho have very mysterious auras and have "cult" like followings that have bizzare rules. I know someone who is a venus dominant nakshatra and he's very "I don't show even an ounce of what I'm" kinda person. It's honestly very fascinating. These people will only show you the real face when they feel like you "deserve" to be in their inner world.
đ¸ď¸ However, speaking of Venus. The above does not mean she cannot be obsessive and conniving. Bharani nakshatra men, especially, I've noticed are very meticulous and have an attention to detail. This nakshatra comes up again and again in men who stalk women and basically become obsessed quickly. They are not even apologetic about it. They feel they are sort of way entitled to "their chosen women" and it's ohk to tresspass boundaries.
đ¸ď¸ venus + mars is a super comfortable placement for relationships in my opinion. Venus is the vibe you exude. Mars is your passion so this is what you chase. Thus, you like people back who like you and vice versa. You know the people who always pulled the people they wanted? Yeah. Probably mars + venus. However, it can be a painful placement because love burns deep for this person and if it fails, it can affect their self esteem.
đ¸ď¸ 6th house stelliums have this natural tendency to be pessimistic.
đ¸ď¸ Jupiter in the first house is usually never seen as "too much" but for some reason, an exalted Jupiter in 4th house/cancer is. A jupiter 4th house is full of optimism and it can piss off people. Y'all slay though. â¤ď¸
đ¸ď¸ I've never met an Aries 4th house (Cap rising) or a Scorpio 4th house (Leo rising) have amazing relationships with their families. If your moon and Sun are strong, your parents may be supportive but your extended family will definitely be then out there to get you.
đ¸ď¸ watched nosferatu and it reminded me of Lilith synastry đ. I bet nosferatu's lilith conjunct lilly rose-depp's character's first house/venus/moon/sun because he was so obsessed with her. I'm also thinking 12th house synastry because he kept manifesting in her dreams and she kept him hidden from her husband. Also, she's definitely jupiter ruled and nosferatu represents ketu because he just took and took from her till she fucking died. In that way, she fulfilled Jupiter's theme of sacrifice. Sacrifice is associated with Neptune in western astrology. But, it rules over Pisces whose traditional ruler is Jupiter. So I think this kinda goes.
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Lilith synastry is SICKKKK itâs like youâre enthralled by this person yet something about them makes you know itâs wrong. You also feel guilty about liking the person because of the circumstances. (Ex. crushing on your exâs best friend, liking someone whoâs in a relationship, being in a relationship and still crushing on them, etc.) Straight obsession, canât get them off of your mind, they show up in your dreams, their stares are infectious, and youâre unable to hide from them; Even in a crowd full of people youâll spot each other. All these carnal feelings coming out of you just to face your deepest desires that have been left unseen or ignored for too long itâs insane.
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Bomb Sex Synastry (18+)â¤ď¸âđĽ

You wanna know what one of the hottest aspects to have w someone in the bedroom is ? ( from experience & studying charts )
Im talking soul shaking, bed breaking, leg shaking & beautifully passionate sex is gonna always have
Mars, Venus, Eros (#433) or Lilith aspecting (especially conjunct) the Sun, Moon, or Rising
One of my most passionate flames has been with Lilith + Venus + Mars conjunct his Moon. That man snatched my whole entire soul, like literally I felt we merged souls from the first encounter.
I have my Eros sextile his Sun, Venus, Mars, and Squaring his Moon. Eros touches all his inner planets & the way he described making love to me was like "I knew I was in love with you before touching you, but your body felt like home to me. Best love I've ever made" . Eros is always about our erotic attractions. So for mine to touch his Sun, it gives me magnetism toward his being. Who he is can just simple be a turn on. And is lol.
With Eros sextile Venus I can tell that I awaken his desires to express love romantically, and he can be so so soooo sensual with me. Very touchy feely but like, in a soft way not always sexual. Rubbing me to sleep, touching my face, wanting to hold hands. When we first met he grabbed my hand & asked me to come into the water with him. I would've thought my heart stopped bc I really felt like it was just us there.
Lilith conjunct Moon is our raw desires touching how we feel emotionally, and our vulnerability. In the bedroom this synastry is giving like raw emotional intimacy. The moon person will feel exposed, and magically drawn to the Lilith person. The sex can feel otherworldly. Since you are opening up a part you that hasn't been explored yet, you might actually feel so connected even if you've just met. Mixing the tenderness (Moon) with your raw wild inhibited desires (Lilith).
My Lilith touches his moon and honestly the first time we had sex I swear it felt like I was in bed with my soulmate. Knowing what I know now about our charts, I can tell that there's a chemistry that can't really be explained but when we touch it just makes sense.
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Synastry I wouldnât wish upon my worst enemy â・ËęŠ . Ý ËÖ´

Ok the title is an exaggeration, more like synastry I would prefer not to have, like always:
Disclaimer, these are observations I have made through personal experience and thorough research, observations also vary depending on other synastry and natal placements involved! All of these aspects can be worked through, none of these aspects make or break a relationship â¤ď¸
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Lilith in the 7th house / conjunct descendant
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When women have their Lilith present in the seventh house in synastry, often times the house person can make the Lilith person feel shame just by loving who they are. The reason is because lilith in the charts of women is the area where society has convinced them is unnatural and wrong, something they should be ashamed of. So when the seventh house person who sees Lilith an an ideal desire and partner wants to love Lilith in the way they think is right, the Lilith person can pull away. Marriage is not seen as an appropriate act to follow a shameful relationship. Seventh house also represents open enemies, over time the Lilith person can resent the seventh house person. Itâs typical for Lilith to pull away in these relationships in order to avoid any commitment.
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When a manâs Lilith is present in the seventh house in synastry, youâll often notice they do not want to marry the seventh house counter part. Lilith in a manâs chart is the woman society has told him he should not pursue which only makes him want to chase her even more. Itâs undeniable that the relationship is passionate, but it is also a sign that he does not intend to take the relationship seriously. Again, the seventh house is also the house of open enemies, the male Lilith can be very public with his intentions of not committing to the house person.
Celebrity Examples: Orlando bloom (Lilith) + Katy Perry // Andrew Garfield + Emma stone (Lilith) // FKA twigs + Robert Pattinson (Lilith)
Pisces and Libra mars
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I say this because Mars already has a hard time expressing its aggression or purpose in these signs, so when you take something thatâs already confused and hand it to someone that will misconstrue your intentions to an even bigger extreme it becomes so draining.
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Itâs like staying silent after an argument because you donât know how to communicate your emotions, then the other partner sees this and thinks that your inability to work through these issues means you hate them. You just really have to hope the Mercury synastry is well aspected in this relationshipđ
Sun square moon
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Moon typically views the sun to be someone who only indulges in their own pleasures and doesnât seem to care about what others feelings. Often times the moon can feel as though the sun doesnât understand or support them in endeavors that bring their inner child joy.
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The sun thinks the moon is irrational in its decisions and is too deep in thought to understand the suns true emotions. The sun is usually the most aware in this synastry that the moon is misconstruing itâs intentions, but is incapable of understanding how what they are saying is hurtful.
â I want to start selling my paintingsâ.
â well youâre not selling at that price, you know how much people like to lowballâ.
â maybe theyâll appreciate my art and buy full price?â.
â moon, I wouldnât buy a painting like that for more than 10 bucks, letâs be realistic hereâ.
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Moon person can be a push over the the relationship. To overcome this hurdle sun must be open to change, and moon must be willing to set boundaries and expectations. If not, thereâs always going to be a nagging feeling in the pit of each others stomach where they know thereâs an emptiness in your interactions.

Mercury square saturn
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Saturn person has a tendency to feel like the dominant partner in the relationship intellectually wise. They can feel like they have the wisdom and upper hand to teach the Mercury person about maturity and knowledge. However because it is in the tense aspect of the square, Saturn person has a habit of not understanding how Mercury has a way about going through things.
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Mercury is not only our communication but also our day to day mundane things. Saturn person can find a flaw in how Mercury spends their morning, their work habits, their food intake, how they do their hair etc. This can be frustrating to the Mercury person because they believe Saturn tends to nitpick everything the Mercury person does. The worst part of this synastry is Saturn can regard themselves too mighty and disregard the Mercury persons concerns which is where withdrawals can occur (Mercury tiptoeing around the issues and avoiding constant conflict with Saturn)
Pluto square Mars
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This synastry aspect can unfortunately have a great possibility of physical abuse. Pluto in oneâs chart goes through intense transformations and changes that can be abrupt at times. An example could be, the Pluto person could go on a weight journey after overcoming a health problem that caused them to gain weight. The Pluto partner could expect of the Mars partner to join them in their new health routine, but the square between these two planets makes it evident they do not view this new change in the same way. Pluto can be angered with the mars partners lack of encouragement which in turn activates Marsâ aggression. Being the God of war, Mars will not back down when challenged which creates a back and forth conflict.
â Can you get off your ass and take out the trash like you said you would.â
âCan you get off my ass and do it yourself, Iâm the one who pays the bills around here.â
âIâm not taking disrespect from someone like you, Iâll leave you if thatâs what it takes for you to see how badly you treat me.â
âThen leave.â
Moon square Uranus
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Unless the moon partner has natal moon/Uranus aspects, this aspect can be categorized as constant anxiety for the moon partner. Thereâs a lack of emotional stability and satisfaction which can be detrimental to the moon partner. It can feel like thereâs finally a point in the relationship where you are both on the same page in life, but the Uranus counter part moves on to the next thing that causes turmoil in the relationship
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The reason this can be detrimental to the moon person is simply because the moon likes being in calm waters. The exaltion in Taurus indicates the moon likes to feel comfortable in the same spot for long periods of time, but when itâs aspected negatively by the Uranus individual it challenges the moon to constantly change its environment.
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Moon person can find themselves leaving the comfort of their home (not literally) in order to chase Uranus. Uranus finds themselves poking the hornets nest (Moon) to see how much independence from the relationship they can get away with.
Quincux signs
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When two signs are quincux (Virgo/Aries, Gemini/Scorpio, Aquarius/Cancer etc.) itâs difficult to understand what the other person is feeling. In sexual synastry (mars) , you both can have trouble understanding what pleases one another. With Venus signs, its a hard time understanding your love language.
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if one partners Sagittarius sun is quincux the other partners Cancer moon, it can feel to the moon person that the sun doesnât even bother understanding the moons emotions, and itâs simply because the sun never even thought about what the moon person feels. Not because theyâre selfish, but because theyâve never met someone who goes about their feelings like the moon.
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Aquarius mars quincux Virgo Venus. Mars partner can expect the Venus partner to allow them their own freedom and manage their own schedule while venus partner could be adamant about curating mars a monthly schedule to stick by which in turn can turn the mars partner off.

Quick Notes
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When oneâs natal Saturn is negatively aspected and enters a persons 9th house in synastry, the Saturn person can seem to restrict the 9th house persons beliefs and knowledge. For example, turning the 9th house person religious/having them join a cult/demanding obediance of a woman (dispite previously potentially being more liberal.
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Negatively aspected natal saturn entering the money houses in synastry (2,8,11) can mean the saturn person takes away the house persons possessions/money. In the second house, they can refuse to buy you things because âyou havenât given them a reason toâ/taking expensive things theyâve bought you back. 8th house, taking money your parents give you (allowances,inheritance) potentially disability checks if you receive those. 11th house, taking money from work youâve done because of the connections theyâve given you that allowed your income to flourish.
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Negative Moon/Pluto can be stressful to have. Moon can open up to Pluto, and dispute being someone who isnât shy of intense topics, if this relationships dissolves (due to other incompatible aspects) it can almost feel like âI just told you my deepest secrets, you canât just walk away like I didnât tell you the things that could ruin my lifeâ.
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12th house Neptune overlay. Ok this oneâs a stretch but, if it gets to these deep rock bottom moments and youâre stuck in a room with someone whoâs Neptune is badly aspected and itâs in your 12th house. Introduction to drugs/narcotics. Not the cool kind, I mean the one that has you sniffing the floor for snow âď¸
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Virgo mars man
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Malefics simultaneously in the 4th house and 9th house. Could lead to isolation from family and could potentially have you move away from any support systems.
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My experiences with synastry






8th house synastry
By far, my favorite. Intense, transcendal, deep. It goes beyond the physical and mental, reaches straight into your soul. The sexual tension is palpable, and at the same time it feels like home.
( do note that i have pluto influencing my ic and moon so your and my idea of 'home' might be a bit different ⥠lmao )
Moon in 8th house:
- absolute favorite. the connection runs deep, if you let it. when you meet this person you will know pretty early on that the potentional for intense bonding is immense. for every person i met with this, after a while i look in their eyes and think 'we could absolutely ruin eachother in the best way possible'.
- the sexual tension breaches the physical and turns almost emotional. like, 'i want to fuck you so hard that you cry' type shit. of course, every 8th house connection has some kind of sexual electricity constantly present, but i've found that w this placement, it's .. profound.
- so far , i've only been the house person, and i've found that the way the moon person looks at me is like nothing i've seen before. i mean, the eye contact being intense is a given w any 8th overlay but w this one it's ... wow. it's a simultaneous pleading to 'come closer, enter my world, feel my essence' and a threat to 'stay away, you see to far into me, you know too much'.
- it's obsessive. on my side (house) at least. by obsessive i mean ... obsessive. one of them is a crush that i haven't been able to put out for a fucking year, even with no contact. in fact, funnily enough, when i thought i was totally over it, all it took was to see her again and make eye contact - immediately, i was thrown for a loop. we didn't even exchange words directly, it was a group setting .. but the eye contact was absolutely enough. crazy.
- as the house person, i feel like the moon person can feel that i see straight through them. another thing i've noticed is that the moon person usually seems a little intimidated/nervous around me, especially at first.
- the thing with this overlay is that it can get hard to take real action on the connection because it's anything but lighthearted. you can clearly tell that if you pursue it, it's gonna get deep and that can range from inconvenient to uncomfortable, or even scary for someone who's not used to 8th house/pluto/scorpio energy.
Lilith in 8th house
- the sexual tension. is. insane. i'm talking .. concerning. i've had this w a friend, a guy who's not my type in the slightest (and i dont really like guys in general, mind you), but there's this kind of ... sexual energy in the air. like, we're not gonna do anything about it, but it's there. and it's not even physical, for me at least - i dont find him attractive physically its just .. a compulsive feeling.
- now, when i have it w someone i actually find attractive, even a little bit, it gets scaled up to the extreme. the moment i see this person, i'm immediately attracted to them. instant. they don't even have to be my type, but if they are - my god, if they are ...
- i am usually lilith in this overlay, and i often find myself wanting to corrupt the house person, to pull them into my dark erotic world. this synastry really brings out my lilith energy even more.
- as lilith i love teasing the house person & i want to see them squirm. i wanna dominate them & see them fall apart beneath me (in the best way possible)
- this is very much a 'i can ruin them' type connection (not in a malicious way)
- i automatically feel confident around this person, no matter if i felt insecure the rest of the day; its like the house person awakens my dark feminine energy just w their presence (and thats a damn good feeling)
Sun & Mercury in 8th house
- honestly this ones interesting; if your connection is platonic, it wont add weird undertones, if its not , it will heighten the attraction significantly.
- it will be really easy and satisfying to talk about your secrets, your past, your traumas, your pain, as well as your kinks, sexual preferences & sexual experiences w this person.
- you will be able to tell this person the naked, blunt truth about them to their face, and vice versa, esp eith mercury in 8th overlay
sun conjunct lilith
- i was lilith and its .. fun. sun brings out my 'bad' side. the fun one.
- as lilith, i find sun really cute, and i try to figure them out, cause i feel like they arent really as naive & innocent as they seem to be.
- sun may be a little scared of lilith here. :)
pluto conjunct lilith
- i have yet to experience this but from what i've heard i love, love, love .
- think bonnie n clyde, mr and mrs smith. they can appreciate eachothers shadow and its very exciting
- hearsay says the sex is mindblowing but i cant confirm or deny
pluto conjunct ascendant
- my mothers pluto is conjunct my ascendant and she literally fucked me up royally soo be careful w this one yall
- pluto will try to control the ascendant and have power over them
- pluto tries to control ascendants behavior, appearance, mannerisms, social etiquett, even food intake sometimes
- i have never seen this be a healthy dynamic but i would love to be proven wrong
lilith square ascendant
every time a man's lilith squares my ascendant, an angel dies. i swear to fucking god, this synastry is a hot, headache-inducing mess.
now, ive only ever had this with men so take it w a grain of salt.
whenever a mans lilith squared my ascendant, the situation was the same:
he had a crush, and then there was .. me. he loved one girl, truly, but had an intense, weird, sexual obsession with me (that often scared him).
he was extremely attracted to me, but reluctant to admit it directly. wanted to 'tame' me, make me 'well-behaved'. we argued at least once within 24h of knowing eachother.
heavy sexual tension, but in a irritating, conflicting way. reallyy intense eye contact, but almost forbidden.
they all, at some point, iced me out in one way or another, deliberately avoided me, seemingly for no reason.
lilith in 7th house
this ones weird.
- we kinda have beef, but not really
- we either completely agree with eachother or utterly disagree
- mixed feelings
- switching between liking and disliking eachother
- sexual tension, but in an annoying way
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Sexual Chemistry: The Magnetic Pull of Lilith-Sun Conjunction
(Jason Stratham and Rosie Huntington-Whitely). (Sun conjunct Lilith is also present in age gap relationship with an age gap of 13 years or more)
Lilith: Raw, Untamed Sensuality
Lilithâs energy in astrology is connected to wild sexuality, liberation, and raw sensuality. She embodies a deep, unapologetic connection to the body and to the pleasures of the physical world. In the synastry chart, the Lilith person can awaken the Sun personâs deepest, often repressed sexual desires. These desires can range from a need for more freedom in the sexual relationship, to exploring unconventional or taboo experiences.
For the Sun person, there is a pull toward Lilithâs confidence and sensuality. This doesnât just mean physical attraction, but an intrigue with Lilithâs unashamed and unapologetic approach to sex. The Sun person may feel deeply drawn to Lilithâs sexual power, seeing it as both liberating and irresistible. However, Lilithâs energy often challenges the Sun person to step outside of their comfort zone and break free from more conventional views on sexuality.
The Sun Person: Powerful, Assertive Desire
The Sun person brings their personal magnetism and desire to assert themselves in sexual encounters. They want to feel like their partner sees them as the center of attention and desires them completely. The Sun in synastry is the force of life, vitality, and creative expression, and when combined with Lilith, it often manifests in an intense need to be recognized and desired sexually. However, this isn't about superficial or transactional attraction. The sexual connection between Sun and Lilith is often about claiming each other on a soul-deep level.
For the Sun person, Lilith's presence can be overwhelming, as they may find themselves unable to resist the raw pull of desire that Lilith exudes. The Sun person might feel both empowered and vulnerableâempowered by their attraction and vulnerable because Lilithâs energy asks them to confront parts of themselves they might not have previously acknowledged. Sexual tension often builds quickly with this aspect, and itâs a chemistry that feels dangerous in a thrilling, almost reckless way.
Sexual Dynamics: Power, Control, and Liberation
One of the most interesting aspects of Lilith conjunct Sun in synastry is the power dynamic that can play out sexually. Lilith represents the rebel and the liberator, and the Sun represents the ego and the desire for recognition. In a sexual context, this aspect can create a back-and-forth dynamic where one person might play the role of the more dominant, assertive partner (often the Sun), while the other takes on a more surrendered, rebellious role (often Lilith).
However, the attraction isnât just about roles; itâs about freedom and release. Sexual chemistry with this conjunction often feels like an escape from social constraints. Thereâs an implicit promise that in this intimate space, both individuals are free to explore their wildest, most authentic selves without judgment. This could manifest in exploring uncharted sexual territory, embracing unconventional fantasies, or simply finding a way to let go of societal constraints when it comes to sexual pleasure.
Sexual Power Struggles
Because Lilith is associated with independence, she may challenge the Sun personâs sense of authority or ego within the relationship. In a sexual context, this can create power strugglesâparticularly if the Sun person feels that their identity or sexual control is being threatened by Lilithâs unapologetic and sometimes defiant nature. The Sun person might feel a strong desire to lead or dominate sexually, but Lilithâs energy wonât tolerate being controlled, often pushing the boundaries of what is âallowedâ or socially acceptable.
Yet, within these struggles, there is also the potential for deep healing and growth. The Sun person can learn to let go of their need to control, allowing space for mutual freedom, and the Lilith person can learn to find more vulnerability in their sexual self-expression. This dynamic is not about domination, but about a balance of powerâwhere both individuals feel equally empowered to express their truest desires.
Transformational Sexual Connection
Sexuality between a Lilith and Sun conjunction can also be transformative. The connection isnât just physical; itâs almost as if the act of intimacy itself serves as a catalyst for personal transformation. Through their sexual chemistry, both individuals can access parts of themselves that are hidden or repressedâespecially when it comes to their desires, fantasies, and boundaries.
For example, the Sun person might discover that they have a deeper, more sensual side than they previously realized. Lilith's presence pushes the Sun person to explore these aspects of themselves without shame or inhibition. On the other hand, the Lilith person might feel liberated and seen in a way that allows them to let go of old sexual wounds or fears. This dynamic creates a healing space, where both individuals can explore their sexuality in a way that feels authentic and liberating.
Intense Physical Attraction
Thereâs no denying that the physical attraction between Lilith and Sun in synastry can be almost electrifying. The sexual pull is often so intense that it may feel as if thereâs no choice but to act on it. Itâs common for these relationships to experience instant chemistry, with both partners finding themselves pulled toward each other in a way that feels inevitable. The combination of Lilithâs unapologetic sexual energy and the Sunâs radiant, expressive magnetism creates an irresistible force that both partners may find difficult to ignore.
But beyond just physical desire, thereâs often a sense of spiritual connection during intimacy as well. With this aspect, sex can feel transcendentâalmost as if both individuals are accessing something deeper than mere physical pleasure. Thereâs a sacredness in the act of lovemaking that might be felt on a visceral, almost unconscious level.
( Ewan McGregor and Mary Elizabeth Winstead)
Conclusion: The Sacred Sexual Alchemy of Lilith and Sun
Lilith conjunct Sun in synastry brings a fierce, transformative, and passionate sexual chemistry that transcends the ordinary. This connection has the power to awaken deep desires, challenge sexual taboos, and liberate both individuals from the constraints theyâve imposed on themselves. Itâs not simply about physical attraction, but about connecting on a profound and authentic levelâemotionally, spiritually, and sexually.
(Alexander SkarsgĂĽrd and Tuva Novotny)
At its core, the Lilith-Sun sexual connection is about freedom, empowerment, and self-expression. Itâs a relationship that invites both individuals to embrace their deepest desires and confront their shadows, leading to a more expansive, liberated sexual identity. While the intensity of this aspect can sometimes feel overwhelming, the energy between Lilith and Sun is ultimately about transformationâwhere sexual intimacy becomes a portal to profound personal and relational growth.
(Sarah Michelle Gellar and Freddie Prinze)
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Generational planets such as Pluto, Uranus and Neptune in the 1st house can indicate great fame, since these planets have to do with large crowds of people, causing the native to attract or exert great influence.
Mercury in Aquarius/11th house be careful not to become what you most fear becoming: dogmatic. No matter how formed your opinion is, don't let it become fixed to the point of being your greatest truth.
The 3rd house is very elastic, the one who will define its energy most precisely is the sign in it.
Moon/Venus/Mars in Scorpio/8th house, go practice the Law of Attraction, you have a very powerful aura, you are wasting time if you don't use all this magnitude to get what you want.
You know that Mercury in Scorpio/8th house person you teased? Good luck trying to hide anything from them, in love or hate they will discover your secrets and, if hurt, they will use it against you.
12th house placements, please stay more in touch with the people you love, they miss you. If the distance you maintain is self-imposed, don't forget that the people in your life love you, that they want to have a little more of your physical presence.
My dear Leo, be careful with who you spend your affection with, you give so generously, be careful not to give it to the wrong people, the ones who are secretly jealous of you, who talk about you behind your back. Your heart of gold can "rust" in the wrong hands.
Aquarius placements, get ready, because the definitive entry of Pluto in Aquarius on November 19th of this year until 2044 will be the craziest years of your life. Get ready, there are a lot of big profound changes coming.
Mars in Pisces would do very well if they worked with their mediumship, whether in tarot or astrology or in art.
10th house placements always attract 2nd house placements people, it's incredible. They generally get along very well, they understand each other, they can be very good friends. The 2nd house supports the ambition of the 10th house, the 10th house values ââand pampers the 2nd house.
Taurus, stop crying for that man/woman, you are so beautiful, independent, attractive, don't let him have that power over your heart, woman. You deserve more. Let go, even if it hurts, something better won't take long to appear, don't lower your level, raise it.
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Fun life thing: the man I have Lilith in the 1st house overlay with (his Lilith in Scorpio) told me the other night that I was "unapproachable." He's also said I am mysterious and "have a dark side he can sense."
Astrology wins again. I'm zero percent surprised.
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Letâs talk about Venus square Venus for a sec. It looks cute, right? Like, all that sweet attraction and everything⌠but lowkey, if one personâs vibe is off, things get messy. Venus is all about love, but if that self-love isnât on point, things can turn toxic real fast. Itâs like, youâre both feeling the spark, but thereâs that underlying thing âmaybe jealousy or just the sense that somethingâs not right. A vibe that feels like âwhy canât I just be happy with you?â
Now, the Moon conjunct Mars? Oof. Thatâs one of those aspects thatâll leave you feeling *triggered* in ways you didnât even know were possible. Youâll have moments where itâs like, âWhat is going on? Why am I so irritated with them?â And itâs not even about a specific fightâitâs just like this undercurrent of tension thatâs lowkey draining. Itâs not always bad, but itâs def a vibe youâll feel whether youâre ready or not.
But then we get to Lilith. Girl. Lilith in synastry? Thatâs *next level*. When Lilith touches someoneâs Sun or Moon, itâs like sheâs unlocking that hidden, raw side of them you didnât know existed. And you? Sheâs bringing out that hidden side of you too. You start questioning your desires and what you really want, and it can get intense. Itâs primal, edgy, and sometimes kinda uncomfortableâbut thatâs the part that makes it so intriguing. Like, why are we lowkey obsessed with it?
Mars opposite the South Node or Mars on the North Node? Thatâs basically a karmic *magnet*. Youâre both pulled together like youâve got some unfinished business. Itâs not always smooth, but the energyâs undeniable. You canât really escape it, even if you try. It's like your souls have met before and are now in a loop, learning lessons you didnât know you needed.
And then we have Pluto. You know when Plutoâs in the mix, everything gets deep. Itâs like being dragged into the depths of your emotions and stuff you didnât even realize was there. Itâs transformativeâsometimes itâs healing, sometimes itâs chaosâbut itâs always a wild ride. When Pluto hits personal planets, youâre definitely not the same person by the end of it. But honestly? Itâs worth it because thatâs when the real change happens.
Venus and Saturn, or Mars and Pluto, are like those *tough love* aspects. Theyâll make you face everything youâve been avoiding, especially when it comes to relationships. Venus can feel super restricting when Saturnâs involved, and Mars square Pluto? Prepare for that push-pull energy where youâre trying to get close, but something keeps holding you back. But thatâs also when you learn the most about yourself and each other. Itâs not easy, but itâs real.
At the end of the day, Lilith, Mars, Venus, and Pluto are the game-changers. They create a whole new world of tension, attraction, and straight-up chaos , but thatâs what makes it all so intense. Itâs raw, itâs messy, and itâs real. If youâve ever experienced this kind of synastry, you know what Iâm talking aboutâitâs the kind of energy that leaves you questioning everything, but you canât seem to get enough of it.
hope you enjoyed that guys p.s. Iâm not an astrologer Iâm just going based on my own experience.
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The Main Synastry Overlays & Aspects That Drove My Attraction to Approaching and Speaking to Random Women.
This year, I set myself a mission: to cold-approach every woman that I found attractiveâno matter the setting, be it the gym, shopping, public transport, or elsewhere. If your energy drew me in, I wanted to talk to you.
After having established a connection, Iâd then dive deeper and analyse our synastry through birth charts.
Here are the key trends Iâve noticed when it comes to attraction and astrology:
1st House Synastry (Time Stops Because We Stand Out)
Immediate and noticeable attraction. Walking into a room and noticing each other felt like entering a spotlight togetherâundeniable chemistry, as if we existed in our own bubble. We looked good together, Magnetic and undeniable chemistry. Sometimes a little Ego clashes.
2nd House Synastry (Boosted Self-Esteem)
Mutual respect & validation and a sense of value; just talking to each other made us feel confident and seen. Didn't tend to feel a crazy romantic attraction, just more like we're chill with one another. A person you'd smile at, say hello, small talk and wish each other well. Two people simply enjoying each otherâs company and building each other up.
5th House Synastry (Energetic, Childlike, Fun Connection)
Vibrant. Fresh. Exciting. Conversations effortlessly turned playful and light-hearted, like our inner child had known each other for years. Felt like a burst of creative energy. Fun, spontaneous dates like bowling, cinema, mini golf, funny conversations over a quick meal. Fun and subtle sexual tension. Situationships or Quick causal light hearted fling.
8th House Synastry (Magnetic Intensity)
Chemistry so palpable, everyone in the room seemed to feel it. Our connection hinted at something primal and raw. Intense sexual tension behind our eyes. Thinking "just you wait and see what I'll do to you". Wanting to f*ck each others souls. Watching each other across the room like a Lion stalking its prey. Can be too intense for those not used to 8th House energy.
11th House Synastry (Instantaneous Friendship Vibes)
The vibe was casual, but deeper connections brewed beneath the surface. We felt like best friends immediately. In the gym for instance we might have ended up working out together, sharing laughs and light conversation. Everything felt easy and natural, with a good surface-level connection that hinted at a deeper, more meaningful bond underneath. Friends with benefits.
12th House Synastry (Past Life Soul Recognition)
Iâd feel an inexplicable familiarity, drawn in as if weâd crossed paths in another life. There was depth and intrigue beneath our words. 12th house isn't just hidden enemies seems like people forget that it can also mean a deep feeling of unconditional love for one another. Especially when you're both spiritual beings that have done spiritual inner work. There's no words needed between each other, just an instant subconscious understanding of one another. Eyes are the window to the Soul. Seeing & feeling the spiritual love emanating within each other beyond our physical vessels.
Moon Conjunct Venus (My Moon in Virgo or Venus in Pisces)
Emotional connection blended with admiration. We found ourselves naturally caring about each otherâs feelings, even if weâd just met. The kind of tenderness you feel when you see a dog or cat, you just think "awww let me pet you". Naturally supported & fulfilled each other emotionally, with little effort, creating an immediate sense of comfort and trust.
Ascendant Conjunct Venus/Mars (Attention Drawn)
The way we noticed each other was magnetic. My presence caught their eye, and they instantly held mine. It was like a beacon of light drawing us together. The way I moved, spoke, and carried myself seemed to be exactly what they were looking forâand they had the same effect on me. Every glance I'd take of them felt significant, making it hard to look away from.
Sun Conjunct Venus/Mars (Captivating Aura)
Our energies combined in a way that others could sense. I became more aware of my own glow and theirs. Our conversations and laughter seemed to light up the entire room. They saw how my Ego expresses itself as ideal match. Naturally we fit together.
Venus Square Pluto (Intensity)
Strong, transformative attraction that felt like a challenge to resist; conversations and eye contact were magnetic. Feel like I have this aspect with so many people because of my Venus in Pisces in a generation of Pluto in Sagittarius. The Pluto person loves how gracious my Venus placements is, the square makes them feel obsessive, intense and drawn to me. They want to own me.
Lilith in 1st, 5th, 7th, & 8th House Synastry:
A sense of forbidden attraction and untamed energy, manifesting in bold stares and raw authenticity.
1st House; My physical appearance & self expression is just raw and irresistible to them.
5th: Can't get enough of each other. Lots of fun together.
7th: Lilith energy just feels like a perfect fit. What you didn't know was missing.
8th: Knowing how to tap into each others hidden sexual desires. Insatiable.
Conclusion
I won't even front this little experiment/journey of cold-approaching beautiful women and then being able to explore the synastry aspects has been very insightful and has shown me how astrology definitely reflects the connections we feel with others.
Each encounter I had, whether it be brief or deep, has revealed unique chemistry, patterns of attraction and has vastly deepened my real world understanding of astrology aspects.
Itâs not even just about charts; itâs about experiencing real connections in the moment. How fascinating it is to be able to experience certain types of bonds and then have the feelings backed up by astrological patterns.
The moments I've experienced have remind me of how the universe aligns energies and paths in such mystical way!
I hope this post was informative.
(P.s. I'm 6'3, have an 8h Venus, Leo Rising & Aries Stellium. My aura and confidence is powerful, which is why I am able to get a lot of attention from women). đđ
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Hi fellow Leo, can you touch on Lilith conjunctions in synastry? Specifically your experience as well. :) I currently have a guys Lilith conjunct my sun.
My Experience With Lilith Synastry
General Meaning:
"Lilith relates to: love-triangles and infidelity, being the other man or woman, sexual allure and attraction; both feminism and misogyny; abortion, miscarriages, infertility; adoption and lost children; outsiders, wildness, taboo-breaking, rule-breaking, sheer outright craziness; wild beauty, wilderness itself and being cast into the wilderness; both inability to love and fierce desire; aloneness; witchcraft and magic; natural power; abuse and retribution. There is more, but suffice to say, I never disregard Lilith when looking at a chart." â https://oxfordastrologer.com
Usually Lilith in a hetero men's chart represents the woman he's both incredibly sexually attracted to, hates and fears, the woman he wants to tame and possess but can't, and Lilith for women represents the dark feminine side, the wild woman archetype, how and where you rebel, break taboos and face punishment, and why and where you get outcasted.
I never actually dated any of the guys I'm talking about but we were friends/in the talking stages. Also I apologize in advance if this is too negative, lilith synastry can have some positives from what I've heard, I personally just never had any unfortunately.
Guy 1: His Leo Lilith Conjunct My Sun
We were friends for a long time and he was very attracted to me â sexually more â and very obsessed with me but he also secretly hated me a lot. He was very possessive and would talk shit about anyone I talked to or was friends with, even though we were just friends and I made it clear that I don't see him in a romantic light. We were similar in terms of toxicity and we also brought out the worst in each other most times. When he first asked me out, I rejected him and he's been bitter ever since. After the rejection, the awkwardness made us fall out with each other for a bit until I saw him again after 2 years and he had a girlfriend at that time too so I thought we could be friends again because I felt bad for what happened. But what I didn't know is that for the time we weren't in touch he was cyberstalking me and was doing the most to tarnish my reputation as a way to get back at me the whole time. His girlfriend hated me a lot too but at that time I didn't know why but later I found out it was cause he would talk about how much he hates me a lot to her and his friends told me he hated me for ignoring him after the rejection (I didn't, he did lol). Then he made a move on me again and he also wanted me to be his side chick so I cut him off for good.
Guy 2: His Virgo Lilith Conjunct My Venus
I was in the talking stage with this guy I met in one of my classes. He was also very attracted to me (once again, more sexually than romantically) and very obsessed right from the start. I wasn't as attracted to him as he was to me. When he asked me out, I said yes and went out with him. After the first date, he started getting all entitled for sex and kept asking me for my nude pictures so I cut him off and ghosted him. A few days later I find out he also had a girl and he was talking shit about me to her and others. Then he broke up with her and started telling everyone and their mother that I'm the one who was desperate to date him and broke up their relationship, obviously none of that was true and I had to clear my name for months. I have yet to receive an apology for this bs >:(.
Final thoughts: This synastry is very sexual, obsessive and intense and in a way is similar to what people consider pluto & 8H synastry. I think lilith synastry really depends on individual charts and can work if both people have a prominent lilith or a lilith conjunction in natal cause then they would know how to handle this kind of energy.
Note: I also had nodal synastry with both of them and I've got natal venus in 12H so that probably played into this too.
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A manâs Lilith conjunct a womanâs ascendantÂ
I have been getting a lot of questions about this placement in a synastry chart so I thought I would make a post on it. I will also be touching on when a woman Lilith comes in contact t with a mans personal placements also.
A mans Lilith is a placement that shows what he finds attractive yet intimidating in a woman. He desires her but he fears her at the same time. Because of this having your ascendant aspecting this point in his chart is very intense. Its creates this magnetism, a sort of push pull affect within him. When a womanâs ascendant falls here he is extremely physically attracted to her. The ways she carries herself is very interesting to him, he finds her sexy. This is initially a more visual attraction, however it can grow overtime into something deeper, especially if you have other placements to support you.
In the worst case scenario, Lilith in a mans chart shows you the type of woman he wants or tries to control. He is initially attracted to all these wild and enticing things about her, but when he has her he tries to dampen her fire. The more insecure and undeveloped a man is the more likely he is to fall into this outcome from the placement between you. On the rare occasion, if a man has issues with his feminine energy or rejects the feminine in his life, he may be repulsed by her because of her free and untamed nature. Its something he cannot understand or empathise with.
However if he is secure, confident within himself and has worked on himself he is more likely to admire how powerful you are and it only adds to the attraction between you two.
I will say with this placement more often than not, a woman with this synastry with him will be his weakness in some way or other, not always in a bad way. Lilith is a representation of pure feminine power, that is often untapped because this is an area that is repressed within a woman through her life and growing up by family, peers and society itself.Â
Having this placement with a partner in synastry can also show at the best of times that this man will help her feel more connected to her own power and femininity. He can help her open up to this side of herself. This is also the case when a womanâs Lilith is aspected by a personal planet in a mans chart - more common when itâs this way around.Â
In turn, the woman can help him surrender to the feminine and embrace her. Healing his own wounds around women and femininity. Realising that its not something to control or tame but something to admire and work with.
Thank you for reading everyone. This is a topic I am extremely passionate about and I love working with Lilith in clients charts.
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