#Life ruiners

[wexler-goodman]

happy 20th anniversary to these losers who apparently only got married for legal reasons and weren’t head over heels in love with each other for well over a decade before this occurred.

also, happy jmm day to all who celebrate 🥳

[dntpopxan]

if you voted from trump i hate you plz unfollow. women will never want you

[bupsafr3ak]

Gang ruinersita(Video made by me ^^)

[zkullcat]

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[caughtinatrapicantwalkoutbecause]

The most dangerous things in the world

Telephone

2. Microphone

[howifeltabouthim]

She was seated on a footstool with her face between her hands when Burgo was admitted, thinking of him, and of what the world might have been to her had 'they left her alone.'

Anthony Trollope, from Can You Forgive Her?

[theladyofwutheringheights]

[anothergayangel]

My daughter changed her morning alarm without telling me. I woke up crying my eyes out.... Her new alarm.... Ocean waves and seagulls. I was having a t&s flashback in my sleep.

It's been years and that fic is still ruining my life.

[slutstylesss]

I posted this back on my Facebook years ago when I found out that Liam followed back. This is when the boys would follow fans on Twitter forever ago and Liam was the only one who followed me and I couldn't believe it. I really did lose a piece of my childhood when he passed. I was and still am in shock. This band helped me so much and I'm sad that I couldn't help them. I'm forever grateful to 1D. They were the reason I came to Tumblr and followed them for years. I went to 2 concerts and im so thankful I was able to see them live. It sucks that now we won't have the reunion that we all wanted. Rest in peace Liam. Thank you for everything.

[enbyfaery]

lover said not everyone is extremely weird and perverted in secret like me

[isca-rambles]

Went for a four hour walk through the woodland and to the reservoir to try and clear my head. no luck, but I did listen to the entire west end recording of Hadestown (thank you, slime tutorials), and every so often I found myself going 'oh, that's so Chenford' Seriously, I haven't fallen so hard for a ship in years. I'd be more concerned if I was even vaguely sane to start with, but it is disconcerting. Also me getting to the end of Hadestown 'oh god no no, I take it back, this isn't Chenford. Undo undo!' God that musical makes me bawl. I need to go see it in person at some point and cry the entire way through like I did for Hamilton.

[inkskinned]

you have to go to work so you can pay for your doctor, who is not taking your insurance right now, and if you say i can't afford the doctor's you are told - get a better job. it is very sad that you are unwell, yes, but maybe you should have thought about that before not having a better job.

(where is the better job? who is giving out these better jobs? you are sick, you are hurting - how the hell are you supposed to be well enough for this better job?)

but you go to the doctor because you had the nerve to be hurt or sick or whatever else. and they tell you that it is because you have anxiety. you try your best. you are a self-advocate. you've done the reading (which sometimes pisses them off worse, honestly). you say it is actually adding to my anxiety, it is effecting my quality of life. so they say that you are fat. they say that all young people have this happen to them, isn't it a medical marvel! they say that you should eat more vegetables. they say that you probably just need to lose a little more weight, and that you are faking it for attention.

(what attention could this doctor possibly give? what validation? that's their fucking job, isn't it?)

there is always a hypochondriac, right. someone always tells you about a hypochondriac. or someone who is unnecessarily aggressive during the worst days of their life. or someone looking "for a quick fix". or some idiot who wasn't educated about how to properly care for themselves who just abandons their treatment. and again, the hypochondriac, the overly-cautious hysteric. these people don't deserve to be treated like humans (right), and since you might be one of these people, you also don't get treated like a human. because those people can really fuck with the system, you now have to pay for it. and besides. you're actually probably faking it.

(more often than not, you find a 2:1 ratio of these stories. for every "hypochondriac", there are 2 people who knew something was wrong, and yet nobody could fucking find it. the story often ends with pointless suffering. the story often ends with and now it's too late, and it's going to kill me.)

you are actually just making excuses. someone else got that procedure or that diagnosis and he's fine, you should be fine too. someone else said they watched a documentary about other inspirational people with your exact same condition, maybe you should be inspirational, too. you're just too morbid. your pain and your experience is probably just not statistically concerning. it is all self-reported anyway, and you're just being a baby.

(once, while sitting down in the middle of making coffee, you had the sudden, horrible thought - i could kill myself to make the pain stop. you had to call your best friend after that. had to pet your dog. had to cry about it in the shower. you won't, but that moment - god, fuck. the pain just goes on and on.)

you know someone who went in for routine surgery and said i still feel everything. they told her to just relax. it took her kicking and screaming before they figured out she wasn't lying - the anesthetic drip hadn't been working. you know someone who went in for severe migraines who was told drink water and lose weight. you know someone who was actively bleeding out and throwing up in the ER and was told you're just having a bad period.

in the ER there are always these little posters saying things like "don't wait! get checked today!" and you think about how often you do wait. how often the days spool out. you once waited a full week before seeing the doctor for what you thought was a sprained wrist. it had actually been broken - they had to rebreak it to set it.

but you go into the doctor. the problem you're having is immediate. the person behind the counter frowns and says we're not taking your insurance. you will be paying for this out-of-pocket.

they send you home with tylenol and a little health packet about weight loss or anxiety or attention deficit. on the front it has your birthday and diagnosis. you think about crying, and the words swim. it might as well say go fuck yourself. it might as well say you're a fucking idiot. it might as well say light your money on fire and lie down in it. and the entire fucking time - the problem persists.

it's okay. it's okay, it's just another thing, you think. it's just another thing i have to learn to live with.

[arianagrandre]

my presence sweet and my aura bright, diamonds good for my appetite

[doctorfunkensteins]

Mishawaka, Indiana Community Calendar with Adam Driver (x)

[livelivefastfree]

for you 🤲 it's them