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which one’s toshiro and whys he autistic?
[ID: full body colored illustration of toshiro from the dungeon meshi manga. /End ID]
THIS FREAKIN GUY!!!! anyway
[ID: anonymous tumblr ask: "would def love to hear ur autistic shuro thoughts". /End ID]
awesome. rant under the cut because it will be long
So before we understand why Toshiro is the way he is we must first understand two things abt him:
1. his household situation is a very traditional clan of warriors type situation. his father is very strict and he left his homeland to go to the Island and explore the dungeon to train and become a warrior to be someone suited as the family head
2. Eastern and Western cultures of respect/propriety are different, and Ryoko Kui highlights it well even in her fantasy world.
With that in mind, heres some bullet point rapid fire thoughts that consume my current state of dunmeshi brain:
Toshiro has an avoidant personality. He fears upsetting others due to his upbringing, and rarely tells others how he feels not because he thinks they would simply understand him but because he doesn't want to seem rude and imposing / cause offense to others especially since he's not in his own homeland / hes a foreigner that should respect the land's customs, not his own wishes.
Setting boundaries is hard for everyone, but especially autistic (and some other ND, like those with Avoidant Personality Disorder) people. Those with ASD, at least in my experience, don't want to be isolated from others. So they mask.
They mask what? their desires. their true selves. their opinions. their discomfort. all for the sake of pleasing others (who are often neurotypical)
With that in mind, suddenly, what Maizuru said abt him as a child makes sense. Due to his strict upbringing, Toshiro had to more or less hide his preferences and force himself to adapt to the rigid constraints of his culture and the pressure to be the next family head, this responsibility is his burden to bear and he cannot be someone who expresses his selfish desires instead of focusing on being a strong warrior and leader
"Why did he say he hate Laios and that it should've been obvious that he disliked/found Laios' treatment of him uncomfortable??" BECAUSE IT SHOULD BE OBVIOUS. I'm not going to write off Laios' autism/autistic coding, but its baffling (note: definitely racism and bias for white autistic ppl) to me that a lot of ppl don't see Toshiro's perspective and straight up ignores it. This is a lack of wanting to be rude by speaking up that is based on culture difference on Toshiro's part, and straight up ignorant of his microagressions/racism and lack of self awareness on Laios' end. They were both right, they were both wrong too. This is a complicated conflict that cannot be boiled down to simple ableist/the NT vs ND divide. There's something called . intersectionality. Which brings me to the next point
Toshiro never actually hated Laios. He found him uncomfortable, yes. But he didn't /hate/ him, he was speaking out because he's had enough!!! he's done tolerating Laios' racist bullshit, and he's done following the arbitrary Eastern rules of respecting others and not being rude!!! He. Wants. Laios. To Understand. What. He. Was. Feeling. Because he just had enough!!!!! alright!!! he's at his limit hes at his breaking point, the one he loves is now probably beyond saving, and this is a good time as any to break the news to Laios that he thinks that Laios is impulsive and doesn't fully understand how his actions have consequences!!! Hes right abt this. His feelings on this is valid, just as valid as Laios'
General autistic traits I find from Toshiro: his admiration of Falin's indifference towards insects ("woah shes so brave and gentle!! just like me, fr!!!"), His lack of regard for his own needs and wants (needing to sleep and eat and drink) because he was super focused on saving Falin, His lack of like drastic expression changes, his discomfort with physical touch when it's initiated without consent (see: Laios hugging ppl extra bonus art by Ryoko Kui), his manner of like speaking short and concise, people pleasing tendencies, his like quick way of combat, rule upholder/routine following enjoyer, he seems distant from others even those he consider family not cuz of like any terrible reason but hes just. someone who enjoys his own time alone like. yeah
aannnnndd. thats abt it? i think.
Big part of this is definitely me relating to Shiro as an Asian (specifically chinese indonesian) person who is probably Autistic lmao. I hope this brings more insight on why Toshiro is actually one of the silliest and epiccest dunmeshi characters ever I love him
#asks#dungeon meshi#toshiro nakamoto#dunmeshi#L 👁️🗨️🌫️ !#shuro dunmeshi#(help)#idk if he has tags. does he have fans here. pls say he does
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👉👈 pearlescentmoon?
limited life pearlo for u ^u^ she is so very silly
#asks#mobbles.pngs#pearlescentmoon#i like the half moon scythes ppl r givin her. reminds me of celurit.#L 👁️🗨️🌫️ !
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JOEL PFP
JOEL PFP !! :3
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sash im being explained twisted wonderland to and im . hekdbsksndkskak
HELP LMAO.... well. they sure are twisted in that wonderland
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if/when you check out the hermitcraft lifeline au, tell me your thoughts? its like. a huge obsession of mine and . yeah
YEAH IW ILL !!!! ILTTLS TAKE A WHILE BUT !! I WILL DEFINITELLY TELL THOUGHTS
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EXTREMELY POGGERS TAG. YEAHHHH!!!!
YUPP . EYELESS FOG...
#gonna be weird if u change ur url one day. but its okay cuz for now its eyeless foggin time#asks#L 👁️🗨️🌫️ !
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sash!! did u watch limited life?
L HI !!! YES I DID BUT I'VE ONLY WATCHED JOEL POV SO FAR,, IM PLANNING ON WATCHING ETHO OR SCAR NEXT AND MAYBE PEARL
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VERY COOL NEW THEME. BLUE
IT IS . BLUE !! meow
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love love love the new name… opposites april fools day ❤️
REAL !! I mean... so not true unbestie 💗 happy april fools
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ALST MAKES ME SIIIIICCCKKKKKKK LUKA I NEED YOU DEAAAADDD Blink gone is so good :] extremely tasty song
IT IS SO TASTY...
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💥 explosion. i forgor which guy he is…
THAST SO FAIR AJHAJSHSJSB . the chaarcter name forgetter (me)
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HAPPY BIRTHDAY
THANK YOUUUU ^o^
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OMG SASHHH HIIII meow.. hello
OUGAHHW. MEOW MREOW HEII :33 !!! HOW U DOIN
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4 the first time i'll be able 2 know what ur talking about when u have the minecraft posts on ur blog cuz !! im planning 2 follow double life
YAYYYY LETS GOOO!!! WHOS POVS U WATCHING
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have u watched. sausage’s new episode <- said w grand excitemnt
I HAVENT PLS IM IN SCHOOL RN
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