#InjuriousBehaviors

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Sobriety and Abstinence

Nuanced refrain – Personal variation in what it is to be sober and in what sequenceDesirability of abstinence – inherent and tacit Host: Paige R. Hulsey Real Rent: https://www.realrentduwamish.org Link to our steps: http://www.c12pod.com Music from Elijah: www.instagram.com/elijah_seattle Written, engineered, and edited by Paige R. Hulsey

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Sobriety and Abstinence

Nuanced refrain – Personal variation in what it is to be sober and in what sequenceDesirability of abstinence – inherent and tacit Host: Paige R. Hulsey Real Rent: https://www.realrentduwamish.org Link to our steps: http://www.c12pod.com Music from Elijah: www.instagram.com/elijah_seattle Written, engineered, and edited by Paige R. Hulsey

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Behavior and Communication Therapy for Autism

https://www.californiabehavioral.com/

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Amending

Miniseries! The beginning, middle and not end of amending.

Empowering context for self-reflection: freckles not cancer

What the list is: I did the wrong thing and was harm caused.

What the list isn’t: people whose feelings I hurt or people I didn’t do the right thing by but didn’t actually harm, only people I’m looking to continue a relationship with or willing or able to go and see, only people…

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Amending

Miniseries! The beginning, middle and not end of amending.

Empowering context for self-reflection: freckles not cancer

What the list is: I did the wrong thing and was harm caused.

What the list isn’t: people whose feelings I hurt or people I didn’t do the right thing by but didn’t actually harm, only people I’m looking to continue a relationship with or willing or able to go and see, only people…

[complexiphy]

Amending V

Miniseries! The beginning, middle and not end of amending.

More on making the approach

The talk

Host: Paige R. Hulsey

Real Rent: https://www.realrentduwamish.org

Link to our steps: http://www.c12pod.com

Music from Elijah: www.instagram.com/elijah_seattle

Written, engineered, and edited by Paige R. Hulsey

[c12pod]

C12Pod: 016 Injurious Behaviours Follow-up

C12Pod: 016 Injurious Behaviours Follow-up

Note: In this recording we say the show will be about lying (again) and it isn’t. We apologize for being unclear. Our next episode, seventeen, will indeed be about lying. Thank you for hanging in with us!

In this episode we discuss:

Risks of ignoring the reality of harm

Reasons harm is ignored or denied, including, ‘if I’m hurt, there’s something wrong with me’ and ‘if I caused harm, I’ll haveto…

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C12Pod: 016 Injurious Behaviours Follow-up

C12Pod: 016 Injurious Behaviours Follow-up

Note: In this recording we say the show will be about lying (again) and it isn’t. We apologize for being unclear. Our next episode, seventeen, will indeed be about lying. Thank you for hanging in with us!

In this episode we discuss:

Risks of ignoring the reality of harm

Reasons harm is ignored or denied, including, ‘if I’m hurt, there’s something wrong with me’ and ‘if I caused harm, I’ll haveto…

[complexiphy]

Sobriety and Abstinence

Nuanced refrain – Personal variation in what it is to be sober and in what sequence

Desirability of abstinence – inherent and tacit

Host: Paige R. Hulsey

Real Rent: https://www.realrentduwamish.org

Link to our steps: http://www.c12pod.com

Music from Elijah: www.instagram.com/elijah_seattle

Written, engineered, and edited by Paige R. Hulsey

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Amending VII

Q&A conclusion to this miniseries! The beginning, middle and not end of amending.

What about when a direct amend isn’t appropriate (or possible)?

What about when the person I’ve harmed has also harmed me?

Do I have to do whatever they say about ‘making it right’?

What about mid-course corrections versus fresh start amending?

Why is the temptation so strong to skip right to the ninth step?

Please…

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Amending VII

Q&A conclusion to this miniseries! The beginning, middle and not end of amending.

What about when a direct amend isn’t appropriate (or possible)?

What about when the person I’ve harmed has also harmed me?

Do I have to do whatever they say about ‘making it right’?

What about mid-course corrections versus fresh start amending?

Why is the temptation so strong to skip right to the ninth step?

Please…

[c12pod]

Amending VI

Miniseries! The beginning, middle and not end of amending.

Staying amended

Loose ends and anxiety

Why amending doesn’t end – step ten

Host | Paige R. Hulsey

Recovery Patterns of Codependence: http://coda.org/default/assets/file/foundational%20documents/2011%20patterns%20of%20recovery%20%202015.pdf

Real Rent: https://www.realrentduwamish.org

Link to our steps: http://www.c12pod.com

Music from…

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Amending VI

Miniseries! The beginning, middle and not end of amending.

Staying amended

Loose ends and anxiety

Why amending doesn’t end – step ten

Host | Paige R. Hulsey

Recovery Patterns of Codependence: http://coda.org/default/assets/file/foundational%20documents/2011%20patterns%20of%20recovery%20%202015.pdf

Real Rent: https://www.realrentduwamish.org

Link to our steps: http://www.c12pod.com

Music from…

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Amending V

Miniseries! The beginning, middle and not end of amending.

More on making the approach

The talk

Host: Paige R. Hulsey

Real Rent: https://www.realrentduwamish.org

Link to our steps: http://www.c12pod.com

Music from Elijah: www.instagram.com/elijah_seattle

Written, engineered, and edited by Paige R. Hulsey

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Amending IV

Miniseries! The beginning, middle and not end of amending.

Methods of preparation – the letter, the card

The approach

Host: Paige R. Hulsey

Real Rent: https://www.realrentduwamish.org

Link to our steps: http://www.c12pod.com

Music from Elijah: www.instagram.com/elijah_seattle

Written, engineered, and edited by Paige R. Hulsey

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Amending Part II

Miniseries! The beginning, middle and not end of amending.

Why even do this part of the work?

Being our ideals

Restoration, reintegration

Host: Paige R. Hulsey

Real Rent: https://www.realrentduwamish.org

Link to our steps: http://www.c12pod.com

Music from Elijah: www.instagram.com/elijah_seattle