#Im myself from a culture that is primarily monogamous but normalized polygamy so it took me a minute to rethink its not the same everywhere

[moonilit]

I was more of wondering out loud and wasn’t expecting an answer but im really glad you shared your insight! I wrote that to express my frustration at how editorials seem to put him in some kind of tug war between different love interest and i just want him to be happy. Im still a new fan and only getting through NTT and dickkory is very cute i would have expected them to either break it off 100% or stay together 100% his characterization might have slightly changed and he is older now but i was surprised to see he still sleep with kory sometimes in later comics when he told roy he couldn’t make love to someone he wasn’t in love with?

one final thing is i want to cycle back into polygamy for a second because i saw someone on the internet say “Dick have cheating tendencies (not true) and should be with someone who excuses that/ UnDerStanD hIm” WHICH IS WRONG AND AWFUL, he is not a cheater i don’t see his characterization as one! And by thinking of the possibility of poly im NOT implying that babs or kory should ‘settle down’ for half of him or whatever wrongful misconception of poly relationship, poly is a relationship that is just like monogamy need to be built on the foundation of trust, communications and faithfulness, its hard work and requires consent, loyalty and commitment, its not a synonymous with open relationships or an excuse for cheating not even a little bit!

why is polygamy not an option for Dick Grayson and im asking the writers, like he loves both Kory and Babs? I don’t see Kory and Babs being together but if they are ok with it Dick can be with both of them? Like he have a family in both the titans and gotham ?? Instead of this on and off with both that leaving everyone hanging let them be happy