#If you want him to be masculine or feminine or androgynous idc

[outromoony]

I saw a TikTok earlier that asked for a Sirius headcanon they can't stand, and all the comments were: "I hate the over-feminization of him!" but I didn't see a SINGLE one saying: "I hate the over-villainization of him just for leaving his abusive household as a CHILD." And that shows me what these people's priorities are.

[halfblood-princes]

flo intro post !!

hola !!  my name es caridad ,  pero yo también go by flo !  my full name es caridad garcia ,  el estado de la florida !  i primarily use he / him pronouns ,  pero any pronouns are good y encouraged !!!  all terms / nouns are fine as well ,  in fact ,   i prefer people switch it up !  don ‘ t be boring :p

i don ‘ t exactly have a role .  i live in the statehouse  ( an area of the headspace )  with the other states / cities / etc !  i ‘ m an introject of el estado de la florida en el estados unidos y my source es también a fanfiction called  “ obedient “ ,  which es a smut fanfic based on ben brainard ‘ s “ the table “ series on tiktok / youtube .  i hold memories from both , también my own “ non - canon “ memories .  pero ,  i do not hold the same politics as my state es associated with . education es múy importante ,  love es love ,  trans women are women ,  trans men are men ,  nonbinary people are nonbinary ,  fuck nazis  ( all alt right ppl are fascists y nazis ,  idc . )  ,  gun control ,  abolish the police ,  socialism ,  etc etc etc .

i ‘ m physically around 23 - ish ,  y i don ‘ t know my real age o birthday .  también i don ‘ t celebrate my state day porque it ‘ s un poco dumb :p

i present as cubano ,  colombian ,  y mexican ,  y i speak español ,  english y français !  ( my spoken french es TERRIBLE ,  y my accent es even worse ,  pero i understand it ! )  i prefer to talk en español ,  pero i ‘ ll speak english if it ‘ s necessary !  ( i still insert español words ! fuck you ,  i refuse to speak only english !! #spanglish4life )

i identify as pansexual ,  demiromantic y demisexual ,  y my gender is  “ yes “  .  ( i want to find xenogenders ,  they seem neat :p ) i get a lot of dysphoria from presenting feminine ,  o even androgynous ,  y i prefer to look masculine which leads a lot of people to assume i ‘ m cis ,  i ‘ m not !!  ( pero ,  i ‘ m not trans either , i ‘ m somewhere in between . ))  i like fucking with gender in ways other than presentation !!  también ,  i ‘ m in a relationship with louisiane from @ccssystem​ !!!  <3333333333333

POR FAVOR use tone tags around me !!  i can ‘ t understand tone por mierda !! i ‘ m bad at using them for myself ,  pero please use them when talking to me !!  i try my best to indicate tone , pero i don ‘ t even know what tone i ‘ m using half the time !!  adhdtism has a múy fort chokehold on me !!!!  i also have very bad rsd  ( rejection sensitive dysphoria )  y dpd (dependent personality disorder )  !!  por favor be gentíl !!!  i can ‘ t handle it !!!  ( / lh )  y i have dissociative disorder !  ( not did , it ‘ s different ! )  i have a very hard time staying connected to reality y am very disconnected from myself a lot of the time !!  please try to be understanding !!!  i can ‘ t control it !!  i have a very hard time asking for help ,  pero i ‘ m doing my best to get better at it !  again , por favor try to be understanding !!  i ‘ m doing my best !!!  / g

i really really really like disney !!!  i very much prefer watching them en español o français ,  depending on the movie .  my favorite es la bella y la bestia !!!!! <3333333

here ’ s the link to my playlist ,  y here ‘ s my pinterest board !!  y below es my face claim !!

gracias for reading !!  <33 !!

[poems-of-a-lover]

1, 3, 5, 8, 10, 15, 16, 17

ooooo i love when ppl ask me a ton at once they're so fun /gen

1: do you enjoy playing with a boys hair? in theory!!! ive never done it but it just. it seems so fun. it's so cute.

3: what's a cute quirk that your crush/boyfriend has? im single sadly kfhdkfhdkfj also don't have like a big crush on anyone. i gotta have a crush. agh.

5: do you prefer to have boys lie on your chest, shoulder or lap? UMMMMM if i ever had a boy lay on me i would probably prefer lap tbh, i would want him closer than laying on my shoulder but also im incredibly fuckin small so laying on my chest would probably stop my breathing KFHSKFHDKFJ also i would wanna wait until i get top surgery just bc awkward yknow

8: are you gay or bi? im gay!! i love men <3

10: are you more sporty or artsy, and do you prefer more sporty or artsy boys? im artsy for sure, i used to be into sports but not much anymore tbh, and i don't rlly have a preference with guys!! like idc tbh i think they're cute either way

15: expose who you have a tumblr crush on. idk man i answered this earlier but i. i don't know. KFHDKFHDKFJD I COULD NOT TELL U IF I HAVE A CRUSH ON ANYONE I CANT TELKFJDKFHDKFJF

16: talk about the boy who made you realize you like boys. we were in band together, his name was gilbert and he was tall and had black curly hair and glasses and a nice accent and it was so kghdkfhdkfjdk he was kinda both my trans and gay awakening tbh

17: do you tend to like more masculine, feminine, or androgynous boys? i answered this too!! that's so fun jfhdifhdlfj i don't lean strongly to whatever side but slightly more to masc guys

[cookiedoei]

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HONESTLY IGNORE THIS ITS JUST ME WORKING THROUGH THINGS xx

SECOND AND LAST WARNING THIS IS ONE LONG TANGENT LIKE MAKES NO SENSE, ILL PRBS JUST COME BWCK HEFE WHEN IK HAVING A GENDER OR SEXUALITY CRISIS

ALSO THIS IS ONLY HOW I PERCEIVE AND EXPRESS MY OWN FEMININITY, MASCULINITY AND ANDROGYNY EVERYONE IS DIFFERENT, THIS IS JUST ME FINDING OUT HOW I WOULD LIKE TO EXPRESS THEM x

Not me NOW feeling dysphoric over a name I literally chose to feel more feminine, like... 😐😐😐😐😐😐😐😐 I'm so confused?????? Also same thing with pronouns I was like yep she/her they/them but now I feel like people only refer to my using them because they see it as a formality like I've literally been told I'm "playing dress up".

Idc if I'm making sence or if anyone reads I kinda just wanna write and sort stuff out here, I'veposted like only twice anyway so idc.

They/they great perfect love them

She/ her why are you using them for me? As in not in a angry way like if you're using it because you think it's a valid set of pronouns, want to switch stuff up ext... 😳 honestly love you, like frfr

He/him wow, so here we are. It's funny as a child I was never viewed as a girl or boy but that's mostly due to varying factors that I don't feel comfortable listing atm. I love them but only if (this is going to get really complicated)

The person viewes me as as person who doesn't fit into the binary but doesn't identify as non-binary (🙃 idk I rlly don't) , and doesn't view me as "male enby" or a "gentle'them" (I don't like either term when referring 2 me) more just like a person who completely has NOTHING 2 DO WITH THE SOCIAL CONSTRUCTION OF GENDER, LIKE I REALLY AM NOT APART OF IT SO LEAVE ME OUT OF IT?!

If so then then I love them as much as they/them and 😚🖤 thank u for using the set

Like I understand that when i dress I either dress hyperfem or andrognous but IWHIWIFVWIFHWIDHD idk I rlly don't know.

Like at this point the only reason I'm trynna look (not dress more like with makeup) androgynous is because I feel like its the only way I can wear certain clothes that I love without being perceived as a certain thing?

AND IF THATS NOT ENOUGH...

For a period of time I identified as a girl and I liked girls so I idetified as a lesbian. Great cool.

Then I was like nope "I'm defo a boy but I don't like girls anymore I kinda like boy- nope" and I convinced myself I was just exploring since I'm still young but not even in a self hatred way more a, hold on sexuality is fluid but we should figure out ur gender? Idek

(Now i realize I'm abrosexual )

Damn writing this helped I feel like I want to use

He/him and they/they pronouns (like I thougt did) but sometimes I like she/her like when I'm dressed more femme.

I want to present masculine in terms of my features that are considered "masculine" like keep them or enhance them (like flat chest, sharp jawline, abs...-the ones i barely have-) but continue to wear more feminine clothing and (hopefully I can feel more comfortable in wearing feminine clothing and stop caring how people view me) and then also keep my (kinda) gender neutral wolf cut so that all together my look will look more of what I see for MYSELF, NOBODY ELSE JUST HOW I WANT TO PRESENT as androgynous or how I feel comfortable expressing my take on androgyny.

Sexuality yeah I'm abro

When I feel like nothing (because I dont feel connected to gender ) but a girl - girls and nbs

When I feel like nothing (because I dont feel connected to gender ) but a boy - boys and nbs

When I feel like nothing - all genders

Masculine terms - handsome, king, ect I love them all 🖤

Feminine terms- on very few days I'll like them but I'LL ALWAYS LOVE "pretty" especially if it's "pretty boy" 😳😳😳😳😳😳😳😳😳😳😳😳😳😳😳😳😳😳😳😳😳😳😳😳😳😳 THE EUPHORIA HONESTLY IF I COULD NAME MY GENDER IT WOUKD BE PRETTY BOY BUT NOT RLLY A BOY ISTG WHDJEUDV.🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤

Gender neutral - LOVE THEM MONARCH, ATTRACTIVE, BEAUTIFUL EXT...🖤🖤🖤

🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳 ahhh I feel rlly happy