#I've been in sooooo many situations where straight women were flirty with me

[antiyourwokehomophobia2]

can I just talk to you like a lesbian to another lesbian? that's going to be kinda messy so sorry about that

so even though I live in a homophobic country, a lot of people make homoerotic jokes like all the fucking time, especially women. it's not something I think much about because really they're obviously straight.

but then there's this girl.

she's a second year student at my uni, a year older then me. she looks very much gnc, like, I had to take a closer look to figure out if she's actually a girl first time I saw her. me&my student group went out to just hang out and get to know each other and she joined us. she's huuuge into horses, like, so huge she actually gave up horse riding because, as she explained, horse riding means making horses do something unnatural to their bodies and she decided to become a vet instead.

so we were talking and I asked her where she got her haircut done cuz I'm searching for a place to get one done for myself, she told me about the place and asked me why'd I want to get a short haircut. I said I just got tired of having long hair and then I told her I kinda wanted a buzz cut and she was like "omg I want one too, wanna get them together??" aaaand I said I was scared lol. but she asked for my number and we decided that we're going to get haircuts together, just a different kind.

I'm not going to give you context on this one because that's gonna be too long but basically another girl jokingly told me to get my hoodie off and our teacher said something in response and the girl was like "well she has a shirt underneath" and then THAT girl said "you can take that off too" and like. winked at me.

on our way back I told her I was glad she went with us because I wanted to befriend her since I first saw her and she asked me if someone told me about about her or if it was because of her looks and I told her I thought she was pretty

and I just don't know how to feel about that because I have zero gaydar or whatever, and i'm not even interested in her romantically but having a ssa friend would be so cool. but also I don't wanna be delusional and I can't just outright ask her if she's gay so idk.

i'm not going to assume either way I just need to talk to another gay person about that cuz that's literally the first time in my life something like that is happening to me sorry💀💀

Anon, I don't have answers on if those girls are gay or not. Straight women have "hit" on me multiple times; it's fun for them. Unfortunately, nothing you have said points me to the conclusion they're 100% SSA. All I would say is that if you wanna be their friend then go for it. Them being SSA isn't a guarantee you're gonna like them, so don't befriend them based on that. If you like them and they turn out to be straight then you've got yourself a good friend regardless. I just got out of a relationship with a closeted women and closet dating really sucks lmao. It might be different if y'all are both in the closet, idk, but I think you should play it safe.