#I'm frustrated

[solar-wing]

I'm So Annoyed

Guys, I might have to find another platform other than Patreon, because they are now proving themselves to be just as restrictive and censoring as Tumblr.

I woke up to a notification saying Karma got hidden due to it “glorifying” sexual assault, rape, and coerced consent. Like did I not, DID I NOT, literally put that in the warnings when I posted it that said this work has themes of Non/Dubious Consent? And to say I'm glorifying it…

In what world is me writing a fictional scene where non-con/dubious consent events take place the equivalent of worshiping and praising rape and sexual assault? Like it's really baffling to me because when I say—when I say…there is stuff I've read and seen on Tumblr, Wattpad, PATREON, etc. that is just as—if not, 10x worse than what I wrote. And the number one common factor amongst a majority of them is that they’re female-centric characters and/or readers. Let's wake that tea up.

So it's okay when these other authors write Consenusl-Non-Consensual, Non-Consensual, Dubious Consent, etc. with mainly female readers or female characters. But, when I as a male author write about it with male characters/readers, all of a sudden, it's a problem?!?!

I'm so sick of having to deal with this. These platforms are so clearly biased against gay romance/erotica stories between males, because half of the stuff they flag us for, they’re consistently letting stories with female-centric characters get away with the exact same thing. And that's an issue in of itself because why is it more okay to write fiction about a female experiencing CNC, Non/Dubious Consent, but not a male?

sounds a bit misogynistic to me...but hey. What do I know? I'm a man who just wants to write his freaky-deeky stories and live, laugh, love.

Whatever, Karma is on Wattpad for anyone who still wants to read it. And if you guys have any recommendations for other platforms like Patreon that won't actively censor me, please let me know. I can't even repost the story on my Patreon for my paid subscribers because now every time I try, Patreon suddenly is experiencing this error that I’ve never had before posting it. But only if I try to repost the story itself. I posted an update about what happened with the story, and despite getting one error message at first, it still went through with no problem.

So, it looks like Patreon is now actively monitoring my account, making sure I don't repost the story they suddenly deem as a glorification of sexual violence but won't give the same energy to the thousands of other stories on their platforms that are the exact same as mine, the only difference being the sex/gender of whoever the main characters are.

[nflballgirl]

mood update... but not rly cause it hasn't changed

[dragongirlteeth]

If my insurance is doing its best to deny me the ability to treat my diabetes, at what point am I allowed to claim I acted in self defense?

[the-punforgiven]

Man, I wish 3d modelling was more like, idk tactile? That's not the right word but it's like, idk it's easier for me to conceptualize how to make shit irl than it is to make the same thing in blender, y'know what I mean?

It's like, thinking about a weird sorta helm visor style I want to make, if I'd want to make it irl I'd grab an sheet of perforated steel in a roughly diamond shape, clamp it down directly on the center line, heat it a little if necessary and bend it from there, ect. ect.

but idk I just cannot fucking fathom how I'd make the same sorta shape in fucking BLENDER, y'know what I mean? Like they don't have the same like, tools? Like Blender's just like "Hey here's a cube. Good luck! 👍" and like, man, my brain doesn't work the same way

[beanghostprincess]

I swear if Deku confesses his love for Ochako out of fucking nowhere while she's actively having a breakdown over Toga I will commit a hate crime

[kawa-goat]

Being a multishipper is both a gift and a curse.

Like--yeah, I know they have pretty much no screen time together, but is Nicky and Mya that much of a bad ship?

I swear; I've seen ships for Nicky with about pretty much everyone in the franchise but Mya. And their shipping tag here leads to posts from the Stone Age of the Hello Neighbor fandom, smh.

I'll have to do it myself, ig.

[roran01]

I GIVE UP!

[moregraceful]

i know. I KNOWWWWWW. i wrote a short lil piece of creative nonfiction on the buster posey -> joey bart -> patrick bailey transition. and i cannot find it, i have checked every possible tag i could have used and every phrase i remember in it that it could have gotten caught under in a tumblr search somewhere. i even checked two friends' blogs that i know reblogged it. i cannot. find it????? did the mlb take a kill shot for being romantic about baseball like. this is what they warn you about when they say don't trust social media sites to be static depositories of personal work!!!!!!!

[violetmuses]

Can we just enjoy this season? 💥

@episodes-ff @expert-texpert @persethegawd @adriennegabriella @fearlesschimera @secretlifeoofmarpessa @mytribalnightmare @adoresmiles @blackgurlnhermoods @dabratzchronicles @luvrsluxe 🏷

[anangelcalledinquisitor]

I hate it when you're trying to do everything to help lessen your burnout because you think your burnout is what is keeping you from doing that thing that you love (writing)... Only to find out it's something even stupider (don't know how to work through the problem you just presented in the story without just saying "shut up and pretend this wouldn't be a huge safety violation").

[kenaran]

Whoever needs to hear this:

It's okay to be bummed about the state of the world.

The US is heading towards fascism. They're not alone on this path of glory and the ramifications will be felt by everyone.

Europe may be on the brink of war that goes way beyond Ukraine. This is not me belittling Ukraine's situation. I'm all for giving them all the support they need. It's vital that we do that.

Covid keeps disabling people, way too many of them permanently. New pandemics are only a matter of time.

Meanwhile, no one seems to give a fuck about climate change anymore. We're looking at 1.5 degrees of warming next year. This was supposed to be the cap, but we're not even slowing down. The effects have become very palpable already and will keep growing exponentially to whoever knows what. Tipping points will be triggered. The effects will be felt on Earth for millennia. (That's not hyperbole. It's science.)

Humanity has triggered the biggest mass extinction event since the dinosaurs.

Feeling scared, angry, sad, helpless or whatever else about this is not a mental health issue. The problems are real, not imaginary. It is not a sign of depression to have feelings about them. Coping with them may absolutely be a mental health issue. Please get help, if you need to. But please don't mix them up. Your feelings are valid and if more people wouldn't just be all too happy to look the other way, we wouldn't be as fucked as a species as we are.

[pevensiegiigi]

I just wish i had a friend who is a Borusara fanfic writer to exchange ideas with and who will help me when i write something and i don't know how to follow it.

[merchuu]

.｡° ✧ Attack on sillynsick's Tweve (attack that i can't submit bc i didn't see that the artist was on spectator and i'm very very sad)

If you'd like to attack me, here's my profile 👉👈

[drachis917]

I'm sorry I need to rant for a minute.

I am so conflicted on furry art. On one hand, I genuinely really like anthropomorphic animals, they open up a lot of cool and unique character designs. And it's also really good art most of the time! However, it is a coin flip for whether I just get to see nice character art or skimpy underclothes and huge asses that no one seems to tag for. Is that kind of sexy shit just synonymous with furry art? If I want to stop having big butts in tiny underwear show up in my searches, do I just need to filter out all furry art? I don't entirely want to, 'cause that's sad, but I'm also aroace and really repulsed by the sexualized imagery. Is there a workaround or am I just going to have to deal with it?

[dragon-tailz]

sligoogle, how do I get my two friends who very obviously have mutual feelings for each other to STOP BEATING AROUND THE BUSH AND GET TOGETHER ALREAFDY?!?!??!?!!!!!!!!!

[angel-fruitcake]

what app or software do you guys use to make gifs? i've tried everything but no program will let me add text to gifs the way i want to