#I share a mutual with that person and tbh I might just unfollow them bc I don't want to see their annoying ass. sorry oomfie 😔

[francy-sketches]

Hope you’re ok btw ❤️

yea im ok dw <3 just kinda bummed out by the whole thing but whateverrr we move on twitter doesn't matter anyway ^_^

also idk if you sent me another ask or if that was a different anon but. I'm not gonna answer it bc I don't wanna create more drama (and also I'm trying to resolve it in dms rn so. don't wanna ruin that by being petty) but thanks for the support same goes for the other anons 🫶

[showaboutdeath]

JoJo's Super Awesome Fun F/O list!!!!

I am not comfortable sharing alot of my F/Os because they're selfships rather than ocxcanon and are very personal to me. Some are selective sharing though! My feelings about sharing are a spectrum and some F/Os I am more lenient on sharing than others, so don't be afraid to ask! Also, if you're a current mutual who share's an f/o with me, that's perfectly fine, just please give me a tag to filter (unless it's Sycamore or Múspell then I'd rather you unfollow/block me bc I'm uncomfortable with that, sorry)

Some of my selfships contain dark content/themes that you may not like, and that's okay! You may either filter the ship tag or the warning tags I have when I mention these dark topics (ex: tw incest, tw dadson, tw sibcest, tw noncon)

• Professor Sycamore (Pokémon XY) - Romantic

Ship tag: #🪻 Lavendershipping

STRICT non-sharing. He is very close to my heart and Sycamore selfship doubles are a trigger of mine. Please block me if you ship him with a canon character, yourself or a mutual.

Warnings?

None! Pretty vanilla selfship unless I talk about AUs

• Múspell (Fire Emblem Heroes) - Romantic

Ship tag: #🪻 Infernoshipping

Also Strict non-sharing, he was my first F/O and he's very near and dear to me.

Warnings?

None except some light toxicity between the two (It's Múspell, expect that lol)

• Ghetsis (Pokémon BW) - Romantic/Familial (Father/Child Shipcest)

Ship tag: #🪻 JoGhet

Pretty selective sharing, he was my first shipcest F/O and he's very close to my heart aswell as my 3rd F/O.

Warnings?

Incest, underage, abusive relationship in literally every way imaginable with Stolkholm syndrome, sometimes polyship with N in there to add extra incestuous spice and kid x adult. they are probably my worst selfship tbh and i love them for it

• Harry Potter (HP) - Romantic

Ship tag: #🪻 LavenderPot

Pretty strict non-sharing, It really depends tbh. I recommend asking me about it.

Warnings?

None! (They get pretty sad though)

• Sirius Black (HP) - Romantic

Ship tag: #🪻 FlowerStar

I'm quite lenient on doubles with Sirius actually! He might be the one F/O I'm closest to being okay with doubles on!

Warnings?

Also none (also pretty sad sometimes)

• Prince Caspian X (Chronicles of Narnia) - Romantic

Ship tag: #🪻 CatBlade

Pretty strict non-sharing, purely out of my own comfort because I'm not a big fan.

Warnings?

No warnings for the first half (Prince Caspian movie) but there is teen x adult in the Voyage of The Dawn Treader half

• Adam (Hazbin Hotel) - Romantic

Ship tag: #🪻 GuitarKitty

Depends. Selective sharing, feel free to ask!

Warnings?

Entirely depends on the AU, they can be pretty toxic/abusive but I also like having them be cutesy and lovey-dovey LOL

• Husk (Hazbin Hotel) - Romantic/Familial (Shipcest)

Ship tag: #🪻 Whiskerscest

Idrk tbh! Another selective sharing/ask F/O

Warnings?

Incest. Incest and alot of coersion (and probably teen x adult)

• Beetlejuice (BJ) - Romantic

Ship tag: #🪻 Beetleflower

Pretty strict but also pretty selective. Mutuals are fine tho ily /p

Warnings?

Literally every AU of them is teen x adult I cannot see Beetleflower any other way, sorry!!! (p.s, sometimes I polyship with Lydia (No ship name for all three of them but if you wanna help with one, be my guest! /nf) and my s/i and Lydia are cousins soooo... SUPRISE INCEST!!!!!!

• Dewey Finn (School of Rock) - Romantic

Ship tag: #🪻 FlowerDew

HISS GO AWAY DOUBLES HISSSSSSS /silly okay but seriously, I'm a little lenient but pretty strict on sharing. Go ahead and ask but you'll probably get a no.

Warnings?

I have two versions of my selfship and one of them is kid x adult and student x teacher (the other one is a college student roomate AU) I mainly talk about the first one though.

• Striker (Helluva Boss) - Romantic

Ship tag: #🪻 DesertFlower

Very strict sharing, I am very defensive over my snake cowboy HISSSSSS

Warnings?

They're very whump-y/abusive but in like a covered in blood making out after beating the shit out of eachother kind of way and not like a joghet kind of way

• Mammon (Helluva Boss) - Romantic

Ship tag: #🪻 Dollarpetals

Half n half about sharing him, a little leaning towards no.

Warnings?

I haven't really fleshed them out yet but there's ALOT of exploitation and abusive dynamics (kinda like fizz x mammon) so yeahhhh

• Sebastian Solace (Pressure) - Romantic

Ship tag: #🪻 CatFish

I lean towards no sharing but mostly because alot of his fans are antis :,3

Warnings?

I have two main AUs, and one of them is where JoJo is a teenager so uh Teen x Adult, coercion, blackmail and angst lol

• Dainsleif (Genshin Impact) - Romantic

Ship tag: #🪻 TwilightFlower

It really depends, I'm really in the middle but a little towards no sharing.

Warnings?

Too many AUs but the main ones, one does have underage JoJo (who would've guessed)

• Wriothesley (Genshin Impact) - Romantic

Ship tag: #🪻 WolfCat

No. A little lenient but mostly no.

Warnings?

Uh boss x assistant but sometimes i insert as Diona or Sigewinne so :P take that as you will since they have no real ages.

• Jin Sagami (Ensemble Stars!!) - Romantic

Ship tag: #🪻 Jin&Tonic

No thanks :3

Warnings?

Huge teacher x student and also underage LOL

• Welt Yang (Honkai: Star Rail) - Romantic

Ship tag: #🪻 StarFlower

A little lenient but often no.

Warnings?

Mentor x Mentee/Protogé but sometimes I make them father/child and/or underage.

• Jimmy (Mouthwashing) - Romantic

Ship tag: #🪻 BurningFlower

No sharing and no explanation.

Warnings?

Occasionally toxic (because duh it's fuckin Jimmy) but nothin else unless it's an AU

[lupihero]

THE POSITIVE & NEGATIVE; mun & muse - meme.

tagged by: @bxstiae​ thank u!! tagging: anyone who wants to do this ♡

fill out & repost ♥ this meme definitely favors canons more, but i hope oc’s still can make it somehow work with their own lore, and lil’ fandom of friends & mutuals. multi-muses pick the muse you are the most invested in atm.

My muse is:   canon / oc / au ( has au verses ) / canon-divergent / fandomless

Is your character popular in the fandom?  YES / NO.

Is your character considered hot™ in the fandom?  YES / NO / IDK.

Is your character considered strong in the fandom? YES / NO / IDK.

Are they underrated?  YES / NO.

Were they relevant for the main story?  YES / NO / MAYBE.

Were they relevant for the main character?  YES / NO / THEY’RE THE PROTAG.

Are they widely known in their world?  YES / NO / MAYBE.

How’s their reputation?  GOOD / BAD / NEUTRAL.

How strictly do you follow canon?  —  pretty strictly. tbh i think i could do with a little more canon-divergence but i usually focus pretty hard on canon and diverging too far in my own muses, unless they were poorly written, tends to bother me.

SELL YOUR MUSE! Aka try to list everything, which makes your muse interesting in your opinion to make them spicy for your mutuals.  —  need a sweet country boy with a heart of gold who loves hard and fast and considers everyone he loves as part of his family ? how about a boy that can kick your ass to the sacred realm and back with his bare hands and a dizzying amount of strength ? how about a big friendly wolf that really doesn’t act all that much like a wolf but is big and soft and a really nice companion ? a boy that carries on and sees the best in people despite his trauma ? a boy who’s an absolute fucking dork and loses his mind whenever he sees a cat ? will smith poses @ link

Now the OPPOSITE, list everything why your muse could not be so interesting (even if you may not agree, what does the fandom perhaps think?).   —  he’s the protagonist, he’s too nice, too likable, and he might be, from some perspectives, super overpowered. a lot of his flaws are issues that come with a lot of protagonist characters, like selflessness to a fault, recklessness, a desire to help no matter the cost, etc., and it might come across as overdone or unoriginal for someone like him.

What inspired you to rp your muse?  —  twipri has been my favorite video game of all time since i first played it the xmas after it came out, when i was 7. it was an unbelievably huge influence on my life, and got me through a whole lot of shit i’d have to go through up until i was a teenager. it was a constant for me, a comfort. and link, being the protagonist, was of course the center of it. i connected to him really hard, and becoming him whenever i played the game was like magic to me as a kid. honestly, i dont know why i didnt write him until this year, because he’s been such an easy headspace for me to slip into for years. ig i just figured it was about time? id already written both tp zel and midna at separate points, so it was only right to complete the trio ksjfgh

What keeps your inspiration going?  —  the game itself, its soundtrack, art, linked universe and its little fandom, and you guys! just seeing all of your posts and your passion for loz and its characters helps fuel the love i have for it too!

Some more personal questions for the mun.

give your mutuals some insight about the way you are in some matters, which could lead them to get more comfortable with you or perhaps not.

Do you think you give your character justice?  YES / NO.

Do you frequently write headcanons? YES / NO. ( i have. built up a lot of hcs about this boy over the years )

Do you sometimes write drabbles?  YES / NO. ( i usually do write drabbles every now and then, idk why i haven’t for link yet )

Do you think a lot about your Muse during the day?  YES / NO.

Are you confident in your portrayal?   YES / NO. ( hmm i mean. i think i am, anyway?? i like the way i portray him, but i guess im sorta insecure about whether or not yall like my portrayal lmao )

Are you confident in your writing?  YES / NO. ( more or less, it depends on the day. back when i was a Gifted Kid my Gift was writing, and i was literally always chosen to read things i wrote aloud at school assemblies and things, so i. very much have a love / hate relationship w it )

Are you a sensitive person?  YES / NO. ( i mean. i try really hard not to be but :’^) )

Do you accept criticism well about your portrayal?  —  tbh, i don’t know?? i usually do with other muses, but bc twi is very special to me i have literally no idea how well i would take it. of course, if u do have criticism ( of the constructive sort, of course ), i still welcome it

Do you like questions, which help you explore your character?  —  yes!!! if you ever have anything you wanna know about twi and the way i write him, please ask!!!

If someone disagrees to a headcanon of yours, do you want to know why?  —  nope. unless it’s in the context of sharing hcs back and forth and building on each other or part of a friendly conversation, i don’t want to hear why you think i’m wrong. i still think about that personal that rb’d a hc i made a month or so ago and put in the tags all the reasons they disagreed w me and i wish i didn’t bc i hate it

If someone disagrees with your portrayal, how would you take it?  —   i?? dunno??? i guess i’d just tell them to unfollow. i’m not here to write link the way you think he should be written, i’m here to write him the way i want to.

If someone really hates your character, how do you take it?  —  hkljfg does anyone hate link??? like. he’s link. he’s neutral at worst. but it’s not my business if someone hates him, so to each their own ig

Are you okay with people pointing out your grammatical errors?  —  mm i don’t mind it, but i don’t really see the point. rp is a form of writing that doesn’t need much editing, and when it does, we are our own editors, so of course we’re going to make mistakes and overlook them. english is a complicated and hard language, and typos/misspellings/grammar errors happen and it’s not a big deal

Do you think you are easy going as a mun?   —  yes!! i’m a very laid-back person in general i think, and of course i have things i won’t tolerate and i’ll speak up when i need to, but at the end of the day rp is a hobby, and it’s something we do to have fun, and i know that having fun is the most important part of doing this. though, sometimes i think my anxiety & fear of confrontation might make me a little too lenient on things like my own rules tho kjfhg 

that’s about it, congrats for filling out!

[mangotrees]

Why aces wouldn't be part of the lgbt+ fam? Like until I know (which is just a lil) they are part of the history of the community for fighting for our rights both as gay and trans and gnc and also c!shet allys. I'm sorry for bringing this to your blog, even knowing u r questioning your own Id but I really feel like I should hear all the points of view before deciding if I should unfollow u or not

im putting my reply under a read more bc it got sort of long !!

tbh, to my understanding, it only very recently became “lgbt+” (and whatever other variations ppl use). like it used to Just be lgbt, bc its a term that binds ppl that face similar, if not all exactly the same, type(s) of harrassment and abuse simply for being who they are, so even just personally thinking of that i dont feel like the lgbt community is where aces belong (while trans can be viewed as an inclusive term for all non-cis gender identities, afaik, and bi doesnt mean ‘attracted to men and women’ but rather ‘attracted to same and others’ (and this is what ive heard from lots of ppl tht id as bi, so im just…… quoting), so that functions as an all-inclusive term for non-het and non-gay attraction too)furthermore, i dont believe aces even Marginally face the same troubles as people in the lgbt community. i would never face the same harrassment for being ace as i would for being lesbian; youre not going to get verbally harrassed or worse for walking down the street single and aro, whereas a gay couple walking down the street holding hands is genuinely at risk. i cannot tell you the amount of times if had to read news articles or facebook posts about gay couples holding hands on the street, just to get physically assaulted or spat on or had people yell nasty things at them.you might argue that ace people are oppressed bc their family will tell them stuff like ‘you just havent met the right man/woman yet’, and that constitutes them being part of the community, because hey, lesbians often hear the same thing! but thats not oppression; thats your family being willfully ignorant of anything thats considered out of the norm, aka you would hear just as ignorant comments bc of mental illness - and even physical handicaps! you might also want to argue that an ace woman could get murdered for refusing to have sex with a man, but hey, so could a lesbian woman or an unintered cis heterosexual and -romantic woman, and thats because of men feeling like women owe them their body and time and not bc of a specific sexuality! like im sorry, but non-gay/bi/trans aspec people just genuinely dont face any sort of oppression and harrassment that constitutes them being a part of a group that exists exactly because it brings together ppl that share common experiences w tht specific type of oppression/harrassment, allowing them all to help each other through it, bond with people that Know exactly how it feels and combat the wrong-doings they face together in a safe, mutually understanding and supportive environment. people might make fun of ace and aro people, claim that theyre just a late bloomer or whatever, but they will Never be physically harrassed or oppressed for being aspec in the same way you are for being gay, bi and/or trans, they will never face the same genuine fear of actual murder just for existing as lgbt people do!! there will never be laws and constitutions written detailing that aro/aces are mentally ill or handicapped, they will never be denied the right to marry, governments wont issue for the military to murder them in cold blood. i dont care if cishet aces/aros and cis aroaces are allies - im happy if they are, of course - and have helped elevate our voices, it still doesnt mean theyre lgbt.

[punkascas]

majinie replied to your post:

wait people UNFOLLOW you for that? I thought it was interesting??

YOU DO??? aww yayyy :3 :3 :3 

idk. it’s an esoteric subject to be fannish about??? and generally i think with tumblr, bc u can have sideblogs, the trend is either to label urself personal, multifandom, or STRICTLY ONE FANDOM EVER ONLY!!!!!, and if u do the later and then dont stick to that, some people hit the unfollow button immediately. or smth.  ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

for me, i totes love my followers and my mutuals as people first, content second, so im gonna just follow them till the day i die and kind of hope there’s people who feel the same about me even if we don’t share fandoms in common. because there’s people on here who i’ve been “following” for the last--15 years?? and people i’ve known of (if never really worked up the nerve to make direct contact with beyond a comment on a fic here or there) since i got into fandom almost 20 years ago. 

which is kind of a mindfuck, tbh, because like. there was i was, this bb 12 year old, and they were these golden gods who wrote beautiful stories and brilliantly insightful meta and created gorgeous art and knew all this history of the community, and over the years i watched them share tidbits of career achievements and personal stories like marriages or births of children and now those children are teenagers and on tumblr and in popular younger fandoms themselves and what the fuck is that dude. like (a) how weird and also kind of creeptastically awkward to think of accidentally stumbling across someone that u could one day think to urself, i was once a little in love with ur parent. but also (b) that unbridgeable generational/age/wisdom/awesome gap . . . i mean isn’t totally closing, because they will always be the first women in fandom that i admired, that i looked up to and wanted to be like. that gave me an idea of what this community is and pride in being a member of it. but also is closing a little in terms of, like. my own experience and ability to relate and the type of person i would like to be to others (ideally) in our community is more similar now. 

also, on the flip side, there’s this really cool experience of getting to meet and befriend people who are younger than me and getting to watch them grow up over the years and how that is a really cool, different, rewarding experience. which i always worry sounds really condescending if i say out loud. and i hope it doesn’t come across as that. i guess i just assumed, when i was younger, that i had an interest in my older friends’ experiences because to some extent it was motivated by self-interest. because they were walking a path i too might someday might walk or might want to, and i could learn from them. i could figure out by reading about their experiences or talking to them if that was something i wanted to do or how i would approach something like that if if happened to me. and that therefore, you know, someone younger than me, especially someone like a full generation younger than me, wouldn’t be that interesting to me. because there wouldn’t be anything to learn from them. but that’s totally not true. the exact opposite is true. people are just fascinating at any age. 

so yeah, i realize none of this had ANYTHING REALLY to do with your original reply or the post u replied to. POINT IS i follow people for the people themselves, rather than the content of blogs. and i kind of wished that was more how the culture of tumblr worked. but also i think that’s a failure of the way tumblr is set up as a platform rather than necessarily people’s innate behaviours or attitudes, but that’s an entitely different babble post

[vulture-jack]

Rant about tumblr and relationships and the weird ass way we place too much value on the concept of following under the cut. 

(DO NOT SEND THE OP OF THIS POST HATE. THERES A REASON I LEFT THEIR NAME OUT THIS RANT IS NOT INTENDED TO ATTACK OP AND IS ENTIRELY FOCUSED ON THE IDEA IN QUESTION. LEAVE OP ALONE.  I may disagree with them but no one deserves harassment. Ok? Ok. )

But ok lemme be real. I hate this post. I see it shared a lot and its never with someone explaining how not good this is and always with people backing it up or just ignoring the MAJOR problems with it.  So regardless of how the op feels now, or what situation theyre in, this isn’t about them. This is about the idea that this post spreads and how many times I’ve seen it pass my dash with zero comment, and how many people are apparently fine with this. 

And I, personally, think this posts wording is all kinds of fucked up. This post makes me anxious as fuck.  This post both fills me with guilt AND anger bc I shouldn’t have to feel guilty about what this post wants me to feel guilty about. 

This is so unnecessarily guilt trippy and controlling and manipulative and puts all these unnecessary expectations on people who might just like your content but dont even know you.  It makes a bad guy out of people who consider these casual interactions casual and not indicative of a legitimate relationship. 

No. Not ok. 

I do NOT consider everyone I’m in mutuals a “friend”.  Because half the time I’ve never had a single conversation with these people let alone talked to them at length. And since friendship is a relationship I take seriously, its not POSSIBLE for me to be “friends” with someone I dont KNOW. And just being mutuals does not mean I know you. Friendship means im letting someone into my life and it means I’m there for them.  I cannot do that when I don’t KNOW a person. 

Just following me on tumblr is not enough to know me. You have to talk to me and i have to talk to you and we have to click and we have to BUILD that relationship. It doesn’t just HAPPEN for me. In fact for me, it takes a really long fucking time to trust people enough or develop enough platonic feelings to feel like “friendship”.  It KIND of scares the shit out of me to know that there are people I’ve barely talked to at all, who know nothing about me, who consider me their friend. I cannot be a friend to them. it scares me bc I dont want those people to be hurt, and I’m afraid of upsetting them if I’m HONEST and reveal that hey sorry, I just dont KNOW you that well.  

And I really. REALLY dont appreciate the insinuation that by being open and honest about the fact that I don’t automatically consider a mutual my “friend”, im somehow harming them. That its MY fault and MY problem that I don’t automatically want to enter into a friendship with strangers.  That I am an asshole in this situation for this.  No offense but this is completely fucking ridiculous to expect from someone.  Some of my mutuals turned out to be shitty people. Some of my mutuals ended up being bad for me and I ended up really disagreeing with them on stuff when I got to know them better just by following them. 

Me following you and you following me does not mean we are automatically compatible. It does not mean we are automatically friends.  This type of shit makes me afraid to follow people back bc my socially anxious ass has a really hard time telling people to leave me alone when I don’t want to talk to them. I also have a really fucking hard time opening up to people and making friends and feeling FEELINGS in general. 

This type of shit is NOT FAIR to put on people. Likewise I’m also afraid to unfollow people bc thats also seen as a deep personal offense rather than “hey I just dont want your content on my dash” which like 95% of the time is ALL IT IS, its almost never personal. 

If you consider all of your mutuals friends, thats FINE. But some people do not. And thats ALSO FINE. I’m seriously so tired of seeing posts like this unchallenged.  

This is the kind of thing that will make me unfollow a person INSTANTLY tbh.  It puts way, WAY too much pressure on people who you are mutuals with. Its really, really unfair and completely ignores the different ways that people approach, accept, and develop relationships.  Idk if im gonna get shit for this and usually im terrified of pissing people off but this is one thing that really, REALLY rubs me the wrong way.  

[alexshenry]

tagged by @billkinsdancing 🥰 @atotsphutian 😘 and @metawin 😍

1. why did you choose your url? I wanted a temporary atots related url while the show was airing as it was consuming my life. everything else was taken, but by some miracle this one was available 🥰🥰 i love it so much that it’s now pretty much my permanent URL, i don’t think i’ll let go of it anytime soon. 

2. any sideblogs? if you have them name them and why you have them. It’s not a sideblog, but I made a secondary account for spn/destiel ( @dstiel) 🤡 i was posting about it so much that it was pretty much overtaking the whole blog. So i thought it would be better to make a whole other account to reblog and make as much content as I wanted without alienating everyone else. I’m not really as active now, but at least it’s there whenever I miss that stupid show.

3. how long have you been on tumblr? since 2011 

4. do you have a queue tag? ‘#queue’ super original, i know <3

5. why did you start your blog in the first place? the first half of glee’s season one had finished airing and I was experiencing withdrawal from the show. i came across a blogger that posted glee content, news etc, and I just remember her being extremely lovely and imformative. So I signed up just so I could follow her and not miss out on her posts. Then during that time, I started watching Supernatural during the school holidays, became completely addicted and needed spn content 24/7. And thus, I became stuck in his hellhole (affectionate), never to leave again.

6. why did you choose your icon/pfp? phutian supremacy 😔✊ this is one of my favourite shots of them.

7. why did you choose your header? DAYS has taken over my life and I needed them as my header. But I suck at headers, so I decided to make it as simple as possible.

8. whats your post with the most notes? this spn gif that has 125k notes. 

9. how many mutuals do you have? i’m not sure 🤔🤔 i’ve never really checked.

10. how many followers do you have? i’m not comfortable sharing, but i’m super grateful for every single person <33 thank you for putting up with my dumbassery ♥

11. how many people do you follow? 192

12. have you ever made a shitpost? i’m neither original nor funny enough to shitpost 😅😅

13. how often do you use tumblr each day? i’ve been trying to cut down the time i spend here because of work, etc, but i try to post as much as I can during the week and have a break on the weekends. 

14. did you have a fight/argument with another blog once? who one? if i don’t like someone i’ll just unfollow. 

15. how do you feel about ‘you need to reblog this’ posts? very gult trippy, very unnecessary. I don’t think it’s fair to force people to engage in any posts they might not have the mental capacity to deal with in that moment, or simply because they don’t want to reblog it for whatever reason.

16. do you like tag games? I do! I love them to bits and thank you for always tagging me <3 I always forget to take part bc I hardly check my mentions, or sometimes forget to like the post to bookmark it 🥺🥺 but thank you babies, i’ll try to take part in it more often. 

17. do you like ask games? yes!! 

18. which of your mutuals do you think is tumblr famous? all of you are tumblr famous in my heart 😘😘 but idk tbh. like ali said, anyone that makes posts for multiple fandoms will have a more diverse and bigger following. 

19. do you have a crush on a mutual? i have people i want to be best friends with forever, if that counts?

20. tags? i think quan tagged everyone <3. going to spam my beautiful bonnie again @ronenrubinstein 💛💛