#I love RV sooooooooooo much

[irxne]

From what they show us in public, how would you characterise Irene's relationship with each Red Velvet member?

Oh this is such a great ask! I feel like I'll repeat myself a lot... But it's because Irene is so close with them and RV is really a tiny family of introverts that don't really share much publicly since they will always have each other and public displays aren't needed to show how much they care for each other.

Irene has been described by the members as someone who is shy, warm, caring, and affectionate. She's always trying to take care of all of them behind the scenes and doing so, silently.

I think the easiest to notice right away is her relationship with Yeri. Where she in the beginning was very much a mother figure to Yeri and now I believe that it has come to a close sibling dynamic of elder and younger sister. You can tell that Yeri relies on Irene and that Irene in turn dotes on her a lot.

With Joy, it's very playful and mischievous! A lot like cat and mouse. Where Joy enjoys teasing Irene and vice versa. You can tell they like each other a lot and there's a lot of fondness for each other. And like with everyone, Irene likes to take care of Joy too and Joy does the same. They really are sisters at heart (like they relationship reminds me of mine and my younger sister a lot).

As for Wendy, I feel she's a person Irene relies on a lot and Wendy is always making sure she smiles too. Wendy has a very bright personality and she's very playful so you can tell, that even though she's also an introvert that she brings out Irene's playful side a lot of times so it's always fun to see them play around.

Lastly Seulgi, they are such close friends and there's really never a dull time when they're together. They're always teasing each other too and we saw a lot more of that during Monster era. Always a mess when they're together.

[horce-divorce]

it's very very weird having both sides of my family be affluent. my family is full of people who have never been homeless, some of them even have multiple homes, and yet homeless is all I have ever been in my adult life.

and they just sit around and watch me struggle and then ask why I don't come to Xmas dinner bc they miss me sooOOooOOoOo much. lmfao.

liberals are literally useless. a jackass in a MAGA hat telling me outright that he thinks I should die is honestly doing me more of a service than all of my family members who have sat around and WATCHED me struggle without saying a damn thing, all while singing a song and dance about caring for poor people, disabled people, trans and gay people, about how it SHOULDN'T be like this! Wow! It's just so terrible! :/ SOMEBODY should do something!!! :/ Anywayyyyyyz girls' golf weekend in Florida lol 🤪

at least the MAGATS are honest. it has done something to my brain to grow up in a family that CLAIMS to care about each other, but actually espouses completely conservative ideals when it comes to actually, you know, being human people. A family that raised me not to look away from panhandlers, who shake their heads and say 'everyone should have a home smh... really sucks that you're living in the woods rn... we gotta keep pushing em left.... good thing you like camping, at least! oh, you have to abandon your whole life and the only person who offered to help is in CO? I'm so jealous you get to see the mountains!!!! What? MY house has an extra room? No, thats your dad's office, he's using it. I cant just have people in My Sacred Space, you know.'

gee, what's that like, mom? what's it like having a sacred space. what's it like having a space that belongs to you at all. because I've never had that. growing up, my things were actually her things. she could throw them out if she wanted. she could redecorate if she wanted. she made it abundantly clear that "my stuff" was actually stuff she loaned to me, and her approval was the condition of having any of it. One time I got a .25c sticker from a capsule machine that said "who cut the cheese?!" and she made me get rid of it bc she didn't like fart jokes. One time, she left for a weekend and threatened to divorce my dad bc he bought me a lunchable, and she didnt approve of that sort of junk food.

One time when I was about 10, I told her I hated her for the first time, and she wrote in her journal that if she had known all the love and care she poured into me as a baby would have been for nothing, she'd never have become a parent.

She GAVE me that journal, btw, lmao. I have it now. That's one of the less unhinged things she said in it. The primary purpose of the journal being to prove to me, once and for all, how loved and wanted I've always been.

Until I hit puberty, and until I developed mental health problems, and until I found out I was trans, and until I dropped out of school. And until I was finally 18 and legally no longer her problem.

Then the narrative changed from "we'll always love you and support you unconditionally!" To, 'I know [being homeless] must be hard, but I wouldn't want to rob you of your accomplishments.' (Also something she actually wrote in the journal when I dropped out of college and became homeless due to chronic illness.)

Idk like I grew up with all these big promises about supporting each other, and now my rich aunties with the nice RVs and golf carts for putting around town and the vacation homes and multiple cars and extravagant lifestyles act like they're fucking embarrassed to be around me lmao.

So you admit it? You admit being rich and liberal and having homeless family members makes you look bad? Hmmm???? I wonder why that is????????