#I hope its okay to tag that. I don't personally mind but yk. If not I'll remove it /lh

[fazbears-horror-attraction]

thanks for the reblog! glad you liked my take on the flags! i threw the grey stripe in all of em because i feel like these type of introjects vary in experience so much from person to person, so i wanted to make note of those "gray-areas" (pun intended)

- @/receivingtranny

you're very welcome!!!

And you're very right about that, so it was genuinely a smart choice!! And honestly a thought occured to me that maybe we ( or if you felt up to it ! ) could start doing flagtive alts for a bunch of flags.

Do i have a lot of wips rn? Absolutely, but its an idea to ponder. I should come back to these terms with icon ideas n such.

[conanssummerchild]

okay so id initially put this in the tags of your ask but i thought id put it in your askbox so you don't feel obligated to answer it or you wanna answer privately instead cause it's very rambly and kinda personal

#also im curious. what do you do after you get an autism dx?#because like back when my psychiatrist evaluated me for a bunch of things. i was curious if i was somewhere on the autism spectrum too#cause i did check a lot of boxes#and she essentially told me i have a lot of the overlapping stuff because of other conditions and i could do the autism evaluation#but it would be a waste of time for me because it wasnt my main dx and doesn't make my life unbearable#because im already taking meds and shit for other stuff but you dont take meds or really do anything about having autism#so she basically told me you might be on the spectrum but there's no point in getting a dx cause it doesnt change anything#but also cuz for me it's probably mild and doesnt affect my every day life that much#so yeah i guess i was curious. im so sorry if this comes off as rude btw#because i know getting dxed changed my life and its so much better now. and im so proud of you for that finally happening#and my situation is very different from yours like even if i am on the spectrum it probably doesn't affect me to an extent where it fucks#with my every day life to an unbearable degree yk#but im definitely curious about how you go forward once you get an autism diagnosis when it does significantly affect your life. like do you do anything about it?#i do know it's validating as hell and your parents will finally take you seriously. cause you've obviously known for a while#and again i know its gonna get so much better hereon. getting dxed literally changes your life and im so so happy for you#how did your family and everyone take it?#like i had the worst relationship with my parents i was gonna cut them off after school but it got so much better after my dx#like they became so much more understanding and like put in the effort to change and be better and its still a long road but yeah#it's kind of fucking awesome and life changing and i really hope it is for you too#im so so so happy for you

well i guess i dont really know yet, i had an appointment yesterday at school hours and i went alone and then i went straight back to school and now im at my friends house so i havent seen my parents yet. i have my last appointment with my psycologist in 2 weeks and that one is with my parents so its basically when shes going to tell them, i dont plan on telling my dad about it before then bcs he can go fuck himself but i am going to tell my mum as soon as she gets home from barcelona. so i cant really say anything parents-wise yet. as for like outside that at the moment theres really nothing at all i can do until my parents are in on it, since im a minor my parents are the ones who choose if the school knows and i can get accomodations but if they choose not to tell them theres really not much i can do, so for me a diagnosis doesnt change much (apart from FINALLY after more than EIGHT years knowing whats different abt me) unless my parents let it change stuff, and at the moment i font know if they will :/, so to answer "what do you do after a diagnosis?" i really dont know. if u want to get diagnosed though and u think you could i would probably go for it, you can keep it to urself since ur over 18 so u dont have to tell anyone else if u dont want to and idk it might come in handy even if it doesnt it is nice to feel validated but anyway its up to you <3

ps: you can literally ask me anything u want to know i dont mind and dont worry abt coming off as rude i dont think u r <33 love u

[maitani]

Hi!! I'm new to tumblr and I saw your post around reblog instead of like, and had a few newbie questions that I hope you don't mind!!

With reblogging, I know normally with reblogs, it helps widen the audience of a post because the followers could see any reblogs of the people they follow, but is it okay to reblog even if I have no followers? (Meaning no one would see my reblog)

I've also notice that when reblogging, I noticed that people usually writes their reactions in the tags instead of the body of the reblog post - is that just a personal preference thing or is it actually better to write your feedback/reaction/comment in tags instead.

One last q! With tagging during reblogging, should we avoid tags that were already on the original post? Eg, when reblogging a tokvrev fic, is it okay to tag it with tokrev or is that consider rude? Just wondering because it would be nice to be able to group things together on a blog using a tag, for example if I want to find all the Mikey fics I've reblog get before, using tags would be awesome but not sure if that is okay or not...

SORRY FOR THR NOOB QUESTIONS! Hope you don't mind!

Have a nice day :)

i will try my best to answer :D

is it okay to reblog even if I have no followers? (Meaning no one would see my reblog)

personally, i don't mind reblogs whether people would see it or not. the idea of reblogging to me is that you are showing your support and showcasing " hey i like it that much that its worth being shared " even if no one is going to see it yk? in the end i see it.

people usually writes their reactions in the tags instead of the body of the reblog post - is that just a personal preference thing or is it actually better to write your feedback/reaction/comment in tags instead.

it's personal preference :) it's not obligatory to comment or react to that post but us creators do enjoy reading your thoughts whether it is under the post or in tags. so whether you comment under or on the tag ; we appreciate the reblog and the feedback :)

With tagging during reblogging, should we avoid tags that were already on the original post? Eg, when reblogging a tokvrev fic, is it okay to tag it with tokrev or is that consider rude?

i'm a little confused by this question but let me give you some sort of example and correct me if im wrong :) are you asking if it's okay to put your own personal tags instead of the ones provided? like when i reblog works i put " [anime] ; recommendations " so they can be grouped together and isn't messy :) if that's your question it is not rude. you can do that all you like :D

i hope that answers your questions, again these are my personal answers. i cannot say the same for anyone else but i hope this helped :D

[gumilac]

hi aki <3 hope you're doing well?! sending love and kithes 🤍 I've been a little ia bec life happened but I've been following thoma boy updates religiously and I SHIP‼️🗣️ I don't play genshin so ig I don't entirely get the reference but something about the phrase "thoma boy" is veryyy adorable to me akdnskfja I'm v happy for youuu it's fun seeing u blushing and giggling on the tl 😩

this is sooo random lmfao but uhh are you a like,, an athletic or sporty person? JUST CURIOUS AKDJAKDJS bec I just had a thought rn, bec I'm a very very um. physically weak person 💀 like my noodle arms probably wouldn't be able to smack a volleyball over the net LMFAO YES ITS THAT BAD I'M NOT EXAGGERATING so yea getting back on track, I was thinking how I do nawt have a single athletic bone in my body and my hq fave, who's pretty much a volleyball idiot would find me so boring... ANYWAYS YEAH THATS WHY I HAD THIS SUDDEN CURIOSITY 😭🏃🏻‍♀️

-🍙

HIII BABY~!!! I MISSED YOU SO VERY MUCH ♡ its so nice of you to drop by, and yes i'm doing well! i've been feeling tired and sleepy a lot lately, but i'm doing great

how are you? i hope life is treating you well dear mwa! sending you lots of hugs and smooches 😚❤

PLEASE I TEND TO FORGET PEOPLE ACTUALLY SEE MY POSTS— OMG THOMA BOY 🙈 i embarrassingly admit that ive been so giddy the past few weeks because of them, and i guess i can say they're my daily dose of dopamine

ill give you context as to why i tagged them as thoma boy! it's because thoma is a character in genshin who has golden retriever vibes, just really jolly and cheerful. that's what thoma boy (the one i'm giggling over) is like, they're just so funny, nice and has really cheerful energy! + also! also! they match my energy, which i think is why we get along well because we don't mind teasing each other and the retorts. he's also a little bit kuroo? because of the teasing

ive never really talked to someone who yk, returns my retorts, so thoma boy being able to match my vibe is making me so happy

OKAY THOMA BOY ASIDE!! to answer your question, hmm, i guess you can say i'm sporty!

i like taking walks during the afternoon and i also played volleyball during highschool. i still play tho, i just don't have a place where i can practice w/o hitting or destroying anything. but, i wasn't on a team or anything during HS, i just played for fun, though i really wanted to! i wanted to be libero and i'm tryna see if i can still be part of a volleyball team somewhere

i also tried football/soccer during 8th grade, and that was fun! but i got very sunburnt tho 🧍‍♀️ would recommend it tho, kicking the ball was very fun

THAT'S OKAY!! maybe volleyball isn't your sport, and that's okay, it doesn't make you boring! you're still amazing ♡ maybe you can try badminton! its a good sport, since it isn't that strenuous like volleyball