#I can pay you in friendship!
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So if I were looking for a beta reader, how would I go about getting one? I have no idea if you pay them or not, I wouldn’t be able to do that unfortunately 😅 I have no idea how this works.
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payu: 🥰🥰🥰 pai: oh i hope they fall, why is only rain wet? what about my boyfriend?
#asiandramanet#asianlgbtqdramas#asianlgbtqdrama#love in the air#prapaisky#payurain#lita#mygifs#you know rain asked just bc he wanted to compare it to payu's he was hoping his boyfriend is bigger so he can brag like a little brat#pai wanted to see his boyfriend wet and i respect that!!!#'dont play dumb' rain worried about his job in the friendship </3#off topic but noeul looked so good in that pool i might gif him just bc self-care
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What a difference in the two interviews - Duchovny's in 1997 and Anderson's in 1998.
Duchovny was super arrogant and pretentious, thinking he was the King of Cocada Preta, trying to pass himself off as an intellectual, bored with fame. Winona Ryder never came out to David because she was much more famous at the time.. Thankfully, in the years that followed, he had to tone it down. Less Duchovny, much less…
Anderson, on the other hand, looked like a working mother, working non-stop to support her daughter, zero glamor, a bit depressed, like a middle-aged woman broken by life.
And in none of the interviews did the geniuses who interviewed them talk about Mulder and Scully, who were the soul of the show.
I'm slowly working on a progress-through-Season-8-based-on-the-burnt-out-interviews post, so this was timely. :DD
To be fair, David was suffering. Both of them were. The X-Files was simply a job to DD and GA; and they coped with its insane hours and insane stresses differently. For Gillian, she internally imploded: eating disorders, panic attacks, anxiety so bad she wouldn't wish it on her worst enemy. She was afraid to put a foot wrong because she'd gotten pregnant so early on and could have threatened the longevity of the show; but she kept putting a foot wrong due to a shoot-from-the-hip personality. Then she was a divorced co-parent trying to do everything herself. David, meanwhile, didn't have that stress; but instead of marrying quick to escape the unbearable loneliness (like Gillian did), he tried to escape by getting outward attention... or through porn, joking in Playboy that his favorite pornstar had gotten him through some very, very lonely days. He also outsourced constantly, making connections with other entertainers and etc. to try to establish himself in Hollywood away from the show. Part of that persona-- that he had everything together and was living the dream-- was part and parcel of selling himself to the business for, in turn, more work.
Secondly, DD WAS arrogant. It wasn't until AA that he learned gratitude, per his own words. Until that time, he'd overachieved into such heights of success that he, naturally, developed an ego. But that wasn't enough-- it never is-- and he kept devising other ways to get attention. Per his old interviews, he described being 'shocking' or 'funny' or etc. as a way to keep others' eyes (and attention) on himself. He always feared they'd lose interest in him and walk away, otherwise (still does.)
That mindset, he's stated here and there, was a result of habits he'd formed in his childhood-- the middle child caught in a turbulent divorce: father suddenly gone, mother heartbroken, and older brother and younger sister taking sides. He had to become intermediary for his siblings and shoulder-to-lean-on for his mother. He became his mother's pride and joy: a shy kid who thought he wasn't a looker when he was younger, who transferred to a better school on a scholarship, who was "captain of the basketball team and the baseball team and a straight-A student, and I was in my last year of high school, and I'd applied to four schools–Harvard, Yale, Princeton and Brown–and I got into all of them." Who was, in short, an over-achiever; and became arrogant because he achieved everything through his own efforts. But he was also a kid who fainted in senior year, breaking his front teeth, because the stress was too much.
And he was also a man who spent long hours overworked on a show he wasn't particularly passionate about. One who spent long, isolated hours alone (in the bathtub) in Vancouver when not working. And one who always had to be "on" when he was out with his friends or spotted by people on the street. Further, no one wanted (wants) to hear the rich and successful complain about the hardships of their success. So, he turned on the charm for attention, instead; and resented having to "sell himself" for people to care about his work. And his performance, on and off screen, earned him fifteen years of public backpatting and"Fox Mulder"ing everywhere he went.
He didn't deal with the stress perfectly, and created his own problems that had to be worked through later on. But Gillian did, as well (per her own words); and they've both owned up to their mistakes and have, seemingly, moved on from the past.
Lastly, there are other interviews where his truer self comes through: those are sadder, pre-marriage; or more stable and happy, post-marriage. Gillian had happy interviews, too; but her life was much more accelerated than his (marriage, pregnancy, divorce on close heels), and thus sounded more burnt out than he was.
I don't like to pit or compare faults because I'm sure they both handled global fame and nonstop work better than a lot of people would have (David was rock-bottom depressed and Gillian was afraid she'd quite literally go insane; but they made it.) And there are always interviews where he looks like a cherub and she a hag, or he an arrogant scumbag and she a hard-done-by saint. Neither were either.
About the Winona Ryder speculation:
Even in interviews from the early days, DD kept personal details close to the chest, not referring to romantic partners as "my girlfriend" unless his significant other had an established public persona (or an upcoming project.) The person he spoke the most about was Tea-- and that was after their marriage, and only during interviews to promote their next tv series or movie. Tea was a talker, and she didn't mind when he talked about her; so, she rubbed off on David for a good chunk of their relationship-- even after the rehab stint-- until their divorce. (Now, she's taken a vow of silence and enforces it strictly with Tim Daly, as stated by both.)
I'm not up-to-date on Winona, but I'm sure the relationship wasn't serious enough for either to really acknowledge it. She looked happy in their picture together; and I don't think she's the type to deny a relationship because it might not be advantageous to her "brand." But what do I know? XDD
Those are my thoughts, anyway~ :DDD
#asks#anon#thanks for droppin in¬#he DOES sound arrogant at times-- because he was arrogant#however: I've dived down so many rabbit holes; and found you will always find an ugly side to any person#I'm more interested in a person's growth or change#and we can see he has grown because of his actions towards GA#championing her rights to equal pay in the Revival#(though I wouldn't have judged him if he sat that out; just as I wouldn't judge her if the shoe were on the other foot)#and stating he won't do the files without her (though he IS interested in the series now that he's gotten distance-- again-- from it)#he gave her her due on the show; he gave her her credit; he praised her work-- in short: he showed gratitude for their friendship#Gillian has moments of carelessness that border on thoughtlessness#and family struggles and conflicts that she took accountability for#both were fallible and acted out in different ways (privately v. publicly)#we're all fallible. we're human#but are we all responsible? do we take accountability? do we change? do we even want to?
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no one's done this one yet?
#someone should i think theyd be really fun together#13 in potd realising what they had during the vault years Was friendship actually she just couldnt see it bc of the fear to trust#and 15 seeming to be more good time > rules#i can see him being like 'you know what. you havent betrayed me YET'#dhfkjhgjk scream oh my god imagine him accidentally rewritng the entire timeless child arc bc he just likes hanging out wiht missy#vault nostalgia. just chilling. they go out dancing. its a great time#and bc the master will become like 90% less evil if the doctor just pays them attention he actually just rehabilitates missy#without all the drama and testing and neuroticness of the vault#she just fucking chills out. never becomes dhawan!master. they never find out about the timeless child#15 just wakes up one day in bed with her after a night out and is like........................feel like theres smth im missing#'wasnt i a woman before. why do i not remember like 80% of that regeneration'#and missys like 'happens to me All The Time dont worry abt it kitten'#and hes like okay <3 yay :)
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2024 reads / storygraph
At The Feet Of The Sun
book 2 in a slow paced high fantasy duology*
the right hand of the emperor (who is off searching for an heir) struggles with what to do after passing on his responsibilities and also discovering various pieces of information that are mindblowing to him, personally,
after adventure is thrust upon him, he travels to find His Radiancy and they go on some otherworldly adventures while growing closer and figuring out the nature of their friendship
(*there’s extra novellas & i think another book coming? duology adjacent, currently,)
#At The Feet Of The Sun#lays of the heart-fire#aroaessidhe 2024 reads#giggling and kicking my feet. and also crying#bro the yearning….the yearning#I can definitely see why this loses people - it’s so long and very self indulgent#(listen. i enjoy it a lot . but does it need to be THAT long (i just checked. 375k? lord))#but it is easy to read and also very funny. it felt less repetitive than the first book to me#I did find it hard to keep track of some of the side characters though#The first world-travelling stuff caught me off guard initially - I feel like all the weird magic was more background in book 1?#or maybe I just didn't pay attention.#taking a step back it is a bit like - kip sure does achieve everything and then some and just continues to achieve everything huh#and it gets to a point where it's like.....okay yes I get he's so talented at this etc etc.#but I guess it’s a nice change of pace from the kingly swordfighting fantasy protagonist who’s perfect and wins everything -#someone whose skill is people and negotiation in a humble way is a bit more interesting. still. it maybe felt less grounded after a while?#the deep exploration of platonic yearning and desire for strong friendship and fear over that person just wanting romance/sex#when that’s Not what you want out of the relationship………#not to mention his complex feelings over meeting two people who were like his platonic soulmate rolemodels#and then finding out they just used that term because gay relationships weren’t accepted and trying to not be disappointed#(because gay is also good!) but also like. so lonely in feeling like nobody understands his desire for a platonic soulmate#to be treated equally as romantic relationships are. oof#I am a little baffled to see people interpret it as a romantic asexual relationship?#I feel like that does such a disservice to the . everything that has been set up in what 600k words of books#like the implication of that is that you think other romantic rships w/o sex are unheard of in this world. I find that hard to believe idk#(I mean - a bit romantic on fitzroy’s end; and in the nebulous queerplatonic area between friendship and romance; sure#but like a straight up romantic relationship just without sex - I don’t understand how it could be interpreted that way lol?)#(anyway other people’s interpretations don’t matter)#I do have questions about the telepathic dinosaur soulmates. you can’t just mention that and now show me them#also. kip being like 'wait there were sirens? i wonder if i can hire them' kshfkjsgkf#asexual books
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You know what I don't see people talking about enough? Catherine and Warrick. Yeah, they're good colleagues and friends but at the same time they have this insane chemistry that drives me up a fucking wall every time they share a moment. And they do feel an attraction to each other, as has been shown many times (Catherine being jealous when Warrick got married and wondering what could have been, that scene when she nearly falls and he catches her...). I know they had to follow the rules but god they had such a good relationship and worked so well together. I loved their scenes, including the platonic ones.
#csi#i've been postponing this post so much and now im on s8 finale.... yeah....#still haven't finished the episode. i'm trying to work up the courage#i mean before that first scene where warrick caught cat as she was falling i didnt pay much attention to their relationship#but they worked really well together#and then when i watched that episode it's like my entire worldview changed#SOMETHING SHIFTED#no you don't understand. they're like. really hot on their own#but they're CRAZY hot together#yeah this post was just me trying to express my bisexual feelings for them#but not just that i really did love their friendship and their overall relationship#they were a great match#i knooow it wasn't meant to be#but#i really wish they were#I CANNOT BE THE ONLY ONE WHO SEES HOW GOOD THEY WERE TOGETHER#anyways i'm not sure i can watch catherine learning about warrick's death#i havent watched csi in what over a MONTH because i can't watch warrick die#the scene on the screencap........ god i need them so bad#btw i said i dont see people talking about them because. i really dont#at least not on the tumblr tag nor on ao3#i'm not really in the fandom and i dont go anywhere else for fandom content so#i could be wrong
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Ohhh my god I've rewatched Amphibia (not entirely; I was just rewatching True Colours 'cause I felt kind of bad and Amphibia was the fandom I chose to watch while I process those feelings which devolved into Reunion which devolved into The Beginning of the End and All In and The Hardest Thing)
AND. MY GOD.
I forgot why I called this my favourite show but I REMEMBER NOW.
I managed to forget the whole moral of Amphibia, my most beloved show
I need to stop closing myself off !!! I can do it I can stop overtly committing !!!
I was worried about my connections with my friend that I would've forwent everything to pursue them but that is how things go!!! I must not forget myself and I must not forget everyone else in the process !!!
I'm so motivated right now and this may not last til the next day but I'm gonna write this message to myself and everyone else!
I am okay !!! I am feeling okay !!! I will adapt and change with the world and the world will adapt and change with me and it'll all be okay!!!
#AND I AM DRAWING SASHA WAYBRIGHT! BECAUSE I ADORE HER!#GODDD AMPHIBIA IS SO AMAZING THOUGH goddd#There are STARS in my eyes I am so.#I love Marcy and Sasha and Anne and the things they would do for each other#Dependence on each other so strong that when they were split apart it shattered worlds#And the solution wasn't for them to reunite#It was for them to grow apart#GOD delicious. Delicious. I will try my best to never forget this again#It hurts in the moment that someone I like may not be talking to me as often as I want but it's not the big deal my head is saying it is#And we're still friends !!!#I'm so so. Not happy but like happy ish right now#I guess hopeful for the future? Ready to face it head on#Slipping friendships and center snare and my homework assignments#Hell of my own hubris face me dead on !!! I made you with that ego and I'll beat you with it too!!#I'm actually gonna write a letter to myself right now one that I can go read any time#Because I love my annual letters but I'm sooo impatient to get in touch with myself from other times#I want to say hi to myself in January and say hey. It feels all consuming and you love when it feels all consuming#But know that when it subsides you persist#That when it drops you persist#Despite everything you persist#I'm getting off topic if someone read through all these tags thank you for reading the ramblings of this re-energized creature#And may your work and change pay off!!!
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#dissociating really bad while i was going home only to come back home to my mother's insane evil bullshit#needless to say i feel deeply unwell. the world is driving my half insane. i feel like I'll never be free#like should i blow up my life? should i break up with my partner? should i ruin my friendships? should i completely disappear#all of these are things that are within the realm of possibility and feel like even a certainty bc there's nothing to stop me from that#there's no resistance or deterrence like there is to getting better. to moving out and trusting i can always pay rent.#to knowing myself fully and knowing what i want. to not feeling hunted and disembodied all the time#to not worrying for my brothers. knowing what im leaving them to.#ughhhhhhhhhhhhhhh im going to do some chores to calm down#oh it pisses me off so much how much my psych keeps minimizing the impact of the genocide. white woman you will never understand my grief#and im on the max dose of my medication so she cant even raise it like she wants to. lmao! lmao.#i see the rationale in wanting to adjust my medication given how im fairing but it just is so funny. what medication is meant to help me#survive this exactly. how is a person supposed to get through this without going insane.
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Your description of how you used to behave on the internet sounds like a lot of the people I am scared of on here. It gives me hope that everybody can change. As nasty as what they said is, I hope that person who messaged you can change and move on too.
ah, yeah. sadly this attitudes a lot of people on this website have are not at all conducive to a healthy environment for personal growth. people here will see someone make one poor choice or phrase a post badly and gleefully hold that mistake against the person who made it forever, and no apology however sincere will satisfy them.
i love Tumblr, i truly do, but having grown up here has done a *lot* of long-term damage to my mental health. the extreme moral OCD that i struggle with every day is a direct result of the impact this website's culture has had on me. admittedly a fair amount of that impact has also been caused by leftist facebook groups (collectively called Leftbook derogatorily by anybody who survived that meat grinder of a community.)
but that aside, you are absolutely right. the truth the internet refuses to believe is that EVERYBODY CAN CHANGE. nobody is "too far gone;" if they really want to change, then they can, and they should be supported!
#i also hope the person who sent me that anon can heal and find peace.#i feel so awful about my contributions to the explosive end of that friendship.#i did so much damage to people who genuinely just wanted to see me improve as s person#riley and jai and lilly and everyone else who gave up on me... i'm sorry for what i did. you were right about me and you deserved better#i should have been a better friend. and i'm sorry i didn't pay you for your emotional labor as you tried to fix me#rabbit.asks
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obsessed that the one time dandelion ever actually felt guilt in his entire life maybe was not for the cheating, not for the cucking, not for the drinking, not for the whoring, not for the cheating (reprise), not for the avoiding paying his tab, not for the petty and minor theft, but he felt bad because he felt like he was not that good of a friend to geralt
#sorry ill go back to writing to meet my deadline now 🏃🏻♂️#c: dandelion#the witcher books#it does kind of frustrate me though that other fans tend to see dandelion’s presence in baptism of fire as like random#he is also going through his baptism of fire. it’s their collective substitute for therapy#like if you’re wondering why dandelion is there just read the first and fifth chapter of BOE and the second and fifth chapter of TOC#he has to help geralt. he has to do it now. because he couldnt before. but now he can#dandelion’s arc in boe and toc is so subtle but its so satisfying like he becomes just a little less worse but still sucks#also to be clear i dont expect people to feel guilt for drinking or being a patron of sex work#i only included those things because they define dandelion#sometimes people feel guilt for that but it’s not inherent#the other things though (cheating and evading paying your bill) you should feel guilt for lol#im just saying. you dont have a guilt vision when you cheat on like over ten girlfriends at once but#you have guilt hallucinations (though they were probably real) because geralt got hurt?#dandelion is literally the phenomenon in shounen anime where#the guys seem gay but only because they prioritize their male friendship so much and disrespect women so much in comparison#dandelion can be mlm and a misogynist like i dont think those things cant ever overlap#txt
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i miss trini, jason and zack </3
#especially trini because she's my bae#i dont mind their replacements#but you cannot tell me that these three didn't add something ✨️special✨️ to the show#and oh my gosh i hate rocky#and his stupid vest#sorry not sorry#that one episode in season two (where i think the rangers get invited on tv??) and there's a scene where they're all in class#and the teacher is reading a letter that trini jason and zack sent#and there's a part where rocky says something quirky and it zooms into his face his voice goes a bit deep AND HE SEEMS LIKE SUCH A NONCE#that part put me off him permanently#let me see if i can find it#also i love aisha and i won't tolerate her slander#but i hate that the show kept trying to gloss over trini and kimberly's friendship and make it seem like aisha and kimberly were besties#like stop#i like adam the best because he just seems like such a fun sweet guy and tbh i'm biased because he reminds me of my baby cousin#but even then i miss the og trio#screw saban for paying them so little#if they cared so much abt profit then they should've clocked that the og actors being there would make them more money#trini kwan#zack taylor#jason lee scott#mighty morphin power rangers#mmpr#rocky desantos#aisha campbell#adam park#my post#thoughts#fandom things
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no, dragon age 2 is not the best dragon age game. but it’s also not the worst. and most importantly, it is my favorite.
#sorry for continuing to obsess over the cast of da2 13 years later. i just adore them#they’re messy and terrible but god do they compel me. the thing about da2 is that a surprising about of the bad writing CAN enhance it#if you really lean into it and make it work. it makes the characters worse people yes. it makes them very contradictory people#but the longer i sit on it the more i can make it work. the ending choice is still bad and lacking and doesn’t allow for genuine roleplay#and i lament that the world states don’t let me properly convey that my hawke THOUGHT they ‘did the wrong thing for the right reasons’#and that you can’t really play as the kind of selfish coward my hawke is to me you know. someone who pays lip service but doesn’t follow up#whose allegiances come with conditions and at the end of the day always looks out for individuals rather than entire demographics#i think that’s why i love varric so much too bc that’s how he is! he loves merrill and anders (tho he won’t admit it) BUT#he doesn’t really ‘get’ mage stuff. he wants them to give it up. anders even more so. varric doesn’t believe#there’s a gap of lived understanding between them he NEVER really tries to breech and that’s why his love is conditional#for as much as varric went to bat for anders year after year and would never have sold him out during their time in kirkwall…#he still resents anders in inquisition. bc anders had goals and ambition and wouldn’t settle for varric’s friendship#such a conditional allegiance would never satisfy anders. he wasn’t the type to forsake all mages just to live comfortably hidden by others#oh my god i need to play dragon age 2 again
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Istfg are they for real right now
#.mimiming ❜#seriously? two entire fucking years for this?#man i give up#i just keep trying and trying to fix my friendships and trying to get over my issues#can someone just please fucking meet me halfway????#'youre too good for us' can you please stop being so fucking entitled and stop deciding for me???#if i wanted to stop talking to you i would#im not so fucking noble that ill spend my energy if i dont want to unless i get something out of it#i enjoy talking to you guys i like you all it's unfair that you just decide to stop talking to me because of shit like this#it's frustrating and annoying#'youre too kind' shut the actual fuck up shut the fuck up#if im too kind and nice and good then pay me back#all the effort i put into this for you. pay me back for that#im sick and tired of being the one who's expected to just. bear it all and stick with you regardless#im tired of it#stop trying to paint me as some sort of ultimate great and nice and sweet person and pretending all the bad parts of me dont exist#stop acting like im not asking you to put in some effort yourself#i get you have baggage but it's frustrating being the one fixing everything always#im supposed to be your friend not your mother not your therapist not your teacher#your fucking friend#'im not good enough' stop thinking im some sort of saint who should only hang out with sweet and nice people#i seriously just want you to shut the fuck up and listen to me for oncw#im doing this of my own free will so can YOU PLEASE JUST FOR ONCE SEE THAT I WANT YOU TO PUT SOME EFFORT AND WORRY FOR ME AS WELL#AND BE THERE FOR ME AND NOT FUCKING CUT OFF CONTACT AND EXPECT ME TO FIX EVERYTHING AGAIN#im tired im done if they think theyre not good enough i dont care anymore if they think im not someone they should be friends with then sure#im not putting up with this any more im done
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cw anti st*ggy and st*cky joke:
its funny how much i hate st*ggy considering i also dont like st*cky romantically
#but funnily enough i AM a steve/sam and b*cky/sam girl#but thats the one poly i wont approve of#for me u do u friends#how many tags do i have to do before it no longer shows up in tags brw#bc the fandoms for both of those ships are vile#esp when u admit to preferring sam w both of them they just get plain r*cist sometimes#i know its 20 to stay out of the tags but#will 20 also stop the flaggings from picking it up bc i dont wanna do that either#i wanna make sure your tag blocks work yknow#wtf even is sam and b/uckys pairing name#like im a b/uckyn/at aka w/interwi/dow girlie as well and they have both#is it like… w/interfa/lcon????#why is b/uckys name first it should be sams#honestly that fandom is wild if you talk abt ships nnur ships arent the popular ones like#i woll dully admit i ship wild stuff too#not rly wild if m*rv*l cared enough to actually build the rels peoperly but like#as a comic reader im a st*ron fan and im forever mad at how they#royally fucked up sh/arons story just bc they wanted to fuck w h/ayley a/twell a known woman hater posing as a f/eminist#i do like st*ny but only when done right bc lbr… they couldnt even do theirn#friendship right enough to make cw actually impactful#and i dont understand why ‘literally was earning almost a billion per movie at the time even before they all were’ m*rv*l#chose to fuck w what cap 3 was to ‘compete w b/atman v s/uperman’ like#they had zero to worry abt ppl wont even pay attention to zacks films and pick apart anything to hate they can#ppl hate subtle storytelling which is how he storytells he hates shoving the plot in your face he wants you to overthink it#and they were launching the universe then like it was NEVER going to be a competition they just freaked tf out for no reason#losers#ima tag them now hopefully i dont end up int he tags if u have those antis blacklisted lmk if it works#anti steggy#anti stucky
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I’ve discovered something new and potentially helpful (and kind of amusing, if nothing else) about the early-mid game of Rune Factory 4 - if your human companions are knocked out when it hits 19:00 (which is when they will leave unless you have LV 7 affinity or higher), then even after they’re healed or you move to a new location, they still won’t leave. It seems the game only checks to see if they should leave exactly once, at 19:00, and instead of automatically waking up to leave or just leaving immediately once they’re back up, if they happen to be down when the check happens, then they’ll stay with you however long you want.
If you plan things right you can bypass them leaving and spend several extra hours training/exploring with whoever you want, which is really helpful!
#rune factory#rf4#rune factory 4#i discovered this while exploring the yokmir cave with margaret and xiao pai#since xiao pai is made of tissue paper she was KO'd when it happened to hit time but margaret was hanging on and promptly peaced out#but then i healed xiao pai and she just... never left. i continued exploring with her until i hit the checkpoint/shortcut#and then finally bid farewell to her at like 2 in the morning. and she only has lv 5 friendship for the record#note that if you want to exploit this i recommend using two people who CAN'T heal#you can't account for when healers will recover/revive everyone but if YOU'RE sole healer that's not an issue#so you can deliberately let your friends get killed just before time runs out and then heal them afterwards. :)
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Wasn't paying attention and my roommate threw out my seaweed snacks that I JUST BOUGHT during our pantry clean out and I hate this shit. I'm trying to only keep a couple things that I really need so I can eat in case of flare ups downstairs and I'm slowly dismembering the diy rat pantry but shit like this makes me want to return to my packrat like tendencies
#it was a three pack only one was eaten#i have so many food security issues and this shit is so hard. and i should've been paying better attention but i think i was busy carrying#garbage bags having some strongman time. it is like a buck fifty worth of food but it's hard food for me to get and i didn't get to go on#the errands run today and my horrible little rat brain is screaming about it and now i have a big cup of rice and no seaweed to put it in#idk. fragile day. also a lot of shit's been pushing my buttons today#well i have been pushing my own buttons.#asked a friend to hang out got no response and was like well it can be a no my life drama hang out if you need#and idk there's something about my life being so radioactive to people that they only want my company without my life attached is getting t#me. i am not being stupid this has worked on this friend before. to hang out. i have put so much time into this friendship#and i want it BACK and i know we can't go back in time but maybe i merit an ounce or two of consideration???#augh
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