#I believe in you!!!!!!!

[bireminders]

Hello😊 soo I'm still in the closet. Sometimes I really wanna out myself but then I remember how it'll spread throught my whole school etc. And if I only out myself to my friends I think they'll change their behaviour. I've got very touchy/nudist (?) friends. We clap each others butts or boobs. The thing is I've never ever had any feelings towards them. Or if I'm saying things like "u look so hot", it's meant as a friend. I don't want to ruin this friendship as it is now..

Hey friend :) 

Thats a tough situation you are in. I think whether you should out yourself or not depends on how you think your environment would react. Do you live in a liberal area? Would your parents be okay with it? If coming out would make your life a lot harder, I would say maybe wait for it (I dont know how old you are so waiting could mean a few years, and thats hard) 

But the way you are telling it it seems like youre mostly scared about your friendship and school. Are there any other out people at your school? How are they treated by everyone? maybe you could find someone to talk about this who knows the school and the general mentality of the people who go there (or who has even experienced a coming out themselves)

About you friends: I think if they are really your friends they will understand. Maybe at first it will be a bit weird for them but soon enough they’ll eventually slip back and everything will go back to normal :) Who knows, maybe one of them isnt straight aswell :) 

If you do decide to come out, I wish you all the best luck for it!! and if not, stay strong! Someday you will be out and it will be amazing! :) 

- s

[notsolstice]

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i will defeat this beast kiran

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