#I LOVE OKC !!!!

[jrueships]

lu dort ALWAYS has to make sure he's right next to shai. ALWAYS. i Know What You Are.

[chet-ho7mgren]

Love when he smiles so big 💙💙

And look at those armsss 😮‍💨

[andoutofharm]

ls dunes in oklahoma real ??????

[moteldogs]

me in a dive bar without a cigarette is like qn angel without wings

[giantkillerjack]

What up I'm married to a tall person who is basically Milo Thatch but agender, and uhhh, basically, yeah, everyone should be jealous and I LOVE MY CUTE TWINK NERD WIFE!!!!! 😤😤🥰🥰🥰❤❤❤👌👌

[merrychained]

Ohoooo yes, what is going on, silly man?

[mercuriallworld]

MY fav guys cared about the all star game. if yours didnt dont blame my boys

[leafened]

my type is smart himbos bc they are fun and will never feel visceral misogynistic disgust w me for hating their favorite media

[whomturgled]

I have to WORK TODAY but i slept a lot yesterday bc idk chronic pain/fatigue/fibromyalgia things teehee so I havent slept yet TONIGHT and tomorrow I have a DATE that we've had to postpone twice due to Circumstances and I think that's also part of why I haven't slept im just like AAAAHHH identity crisis and How Do I Behave and interact with Others

[jrueships]

??? lol

[chet-ho7mgren]

2️⃣’s day.

Happy 26th birthday to Shai!

[lunarpunctuation]

every part of every suburb or modern (last 20 ish years) city expansion in Texas and Oklahoma that wasn't a historical community that was overtaken.

Worst designed outlying suburb of a major city, Go!

[coyging]

📸: Joshua Cleary

[giantkillerjack]

So I ended up going into more detail about Kitty in my tags, but then I thought I'd include this part in the post proper because it bears repeating:

As an autistic Trans queer nerd, it has been my experience that my unbridled enthusiasm for all things I love - including Pokémon and skipping and shipping and puppies and Steven Universe and DuckTales 2017 and the list goes on - has absolutely gotten me more good pussy and incredible wonderful romance than it has lost me in my lifetime.

I mean it i am so dead serious that tamping down on your love and enthusiasm for life in order to seem more "adult" is INCREDIBLY common and it is a TRAP! A big grey and beige, box-shaped, joy-crushing, everything-a-child-is-afraid-to-grow-into trap!!!!

Like, yes, maybe allistic cishet people are largely bemused by me - they think I'm something of a novelty with my loud laugh and my infodumps and my intense passion for the things I enjoy - but the queer autistics desire me carnally! And I them! We infodump TOGETHER! Even when I don't share their love of something, what bliss to see how happy they are! And who else would want to work with me to create an elaborate roleplay storyline involving swordfights and character development?? Autistics and queers, that's who!!!

Also, being loudly and unapologetically myself is why I have such a wonderful partner of nearly 10 years now! That is the exact thing that first attracted her to me romantically, and it is the thing that most often has her looking at me like a big ol' sap!

For example, when she was a kid, she hid her love of Pokemon because she was convinced it would ostracize her. When I tell her now about my Pokemon go PVP battle strategy, she smiles SO BIG because she says she never dreamed of having a partner who would say things like that! Also, she thinks nerds are hot, which is great news for me!

Anyway, my point here is that I hope you never have to dull the shine of your life's joy by tamping down on the things you love - because although there are people who will infantilize you for it because they are fools, there are many MANY people who will love and desire you specifically because you don't do that!

I think one of the reasons I get annoyed with Kitty being infantilised is because exactly the same thing happens to me in real life.

So, I (apparently) look a lot younger than my actual age. I constantly get told that. I’ve also kept a lot of my interests from when I was a child, or have interests that are seen as “childish” (Pokémon, Horrible Histories, etc.).

The result is, I often get treated like a kid, even by people younger than me. People will actually apologise to me if they happen to swear/make a dirty joke and notice that I’m in the room. I can never understand why, it happens even when I laugh at the jokes.

I’m an adult. I don’t know how to make people take me seriously without changing myself and trying to act like an adult “should be”. I don’t want to give up my interests, to lose the enthusiasm I have for them.

Kitty is canonically an adult (her father said that she had come of age), but because of the way she acts, people point at her and are like “that’s a child”. People say that she’s not allowed to have a romantic/sexual relationship, because she’s just a little girl.

At the same time, Kitty reads smutty romance novels, she’s clearly very interested in sex. She can show surprising maturity at times, like when she was pretending to be Thomas’ PR agent. But still, people treat her like a kid because of her optimism and naivety.

Kitty wants romance. She wants sex. Why shouldn’t she be allowed to have those things if she wants them?

I often worry that no one will ever take me seriously enough to be attracted to me, and that I won’t be able to experience romance or sex because of that. Seeing the way people in the fandom talk about Kitty just makes those insecurities even worse.

[lifemod17]

I can't stop thinking about his groove after watching the lovely @nadja-antipaxos 's video of It Will Come Back at OKC show, I just had to gif it so I can engrave it to memory