#HimaAsk

[ateez-himari]

Hi bb(you already know who it is) thanks for answering my asks and I'm glad you appreciate it cause I aprreciate you🫵more mwahh💓💓

I get what you mean and I'm glad that you didn't make hima be flawless like what is shown in the kpop industry, the industry tends to show it's idols being delicate, lovely, happy, healthy, but honestly none of us know what's going on inside their heads they might have mental problems, physical problems, and might also compare themselves to other idols whether they are their seniors or juniors, and I'm glad that mimi is more confident and happy in her body and mindset, as well as our mingi, I'll always love him dearly and cherish him for his braveness❤️‍🩹

And indeed society is stupid and if you are confident in yourself they call you arrogant and if you're not they say you're weak and sensitive there's literally no right option except to be who you want to be and act how you want to act❤️‍🩹

And nowww I have another question to askk🧐 have the other members ever faced problems because of hima and mingi's relationship? (like company problems, schedules and other related stuff)

Love you bb mwahh😼💓💓

Hey again sweets 🥰I do appreciate it, I get excited to look at my inbox every time I see a notification! It also makes me feel happy that someone appreciates my content so much that they have questions about it 🥹💕

Honestly Mingi's been my bias since I got into ATEEZ because even if he's not the most confident he has such a beautiful personality, and it's amazing that we can see him gaining more confidence in himself! He's also so genuine, he screams when he's scared, he doesn't force his laugh, he does things that make him embarrassed but he owns it, he's just a big boba eyed chick 🥺All the members are just so amazing over all, I went to their Toronto concert - first time seeing any concert ever - and just seeing them running around during songs like 'Dancing like butterfly wings' or 'Dreamy day' made me smile so much it hurt.

Allegedly there's no rule against dating at KQ so there have never been many problems with their specific relationship, their CEO - who they call their 'dad' - was actually very happy for them since he suspected it for a while, but unfortunately didn't get confirmation from his own babies until Coachella. Her relationship with Mingyu was the one that saw more pushback company wise since no one was truly fond of their youngest - who already had a lot of eyes on her every move - being involved with someone from a group that had an even larger audience.

Matz were the members most anxious about their relationship since them breaking up could mean a drastic change in the entire group's dynamic, and talked to both about how they felt in depth about one another to make sure that this was a good decision. They were also aware of the toxic nature of her previous situation-ship with Mingyu and were afraid that their maknae's heart was still very vulnerable to the point of entering a relationship without much thought towards her mental health, although they quickly saw that it was true love.

The members did face some problems when Mingi broke the news to Atiny, with false 'fans' getting angry at the fact that no one had told them or that they were even allowing this in the first place. Much like some people tend to focus on WooSan as a potential ship instead of the two's absolutely incredible vocals, body control, personality, etc, there were times where they used MinAri to overshadow the rest of the group, thinking about the speculations more than every member themselves.

Since no one knew they were together until a few months ago there were no changes in schedules or opportunities, although lately they have started appearing as a couple at events, such as; The Porsche The Art of Dreams 'Capsule Dreamscapes #01 Seoul' event and pushBUTTON 2025 Collection Show. Their own industry has recognized them as the 'IT' couple of fourth generation and brands have begun using this for their own publicity, so there have been somewhat of a rise in opportunities.

As usual, thank you so much for your question sweets, love you! 😘Mwahhh!💕💕

[ateez-himari]

Hii!!! How are you doing?? i recently found your blog and I'm obsessed with your writing and also with hima💗

And I was wondering did hima and mingi ever had an intense argument when they began dating, cause couples tend to fight all the time yk?? And if so how did they solve it? Thank youuu💕💕

Hii I'm doing good and thank you so much!! 💕 At first because of the huge fight pre-hiatus it was mostly lovey dovey, making up for what happened back then but the middle of their relationship definitely saw some fights.

Most of it dealt with the closeness Himari has to other male artists in the industry (one of them being Mingyu - if you want to look at the relationship post wink wink) because as we know he tends to get quite jealous. Lots of them would start off with him being closed off after an event until she asked him about it, and after some relatively heated back and forth about it, Himari would assure him that at the end of the day despite the differences they had had, despite the risks to their career, despite everything, she had chosen him. Living apart from each other - in the 3 person dorms - definitely helped with that as well since they were more used to being apart from each other (especially after 5 years constantly together).

We can probably guess that there are some issues with fanservice in any couple in the industry and with Mingi gaining much more confident off-stage he's gotten a lot more flirtatious with Atiny (bbyongming is sleeping outside atm, paying for his dad's crimes). It's not that Hima has gotten less confident (on the contrary) but since she's online more now that the hate has died down a lot, she's seen what people are saying about him and it makes her uncomfortable/jealous. She managed to hold it in for the most part until the fansmeet in Japan - and it's not necessarily that he did anything wrong, it was actually cute how he gave Atiny that rose - but it was kind of the breaking point.

When they went back to the hotel that night, she wouldn't talk to him in fear of blowing up in his face but the second he speculated that she was uncomfortable with some of the fanservice, the dam broke. There were definitely a lot of things said that night that both regret, and tensions that day were relatively high still so she spent the day hanging around the older members, not interacting with him unless she absolutely HAD to. It was after singing one of their back to back verses that they realized they needed to sort this out so they went on a walk and talked things over, setting new boundaries, explaining exactly why they were uncomfortable, and both eventually ended up laughing at how absolutely ridiculous this is. At the end of the day they chose one another (and if one cheated, the other members would probably jump them)...but know that even despite this knowledge they'll probably keep passing that jealousy around like a ping pong ball

Also thank you for this question, I actually had so much fun coming up with an answer!! 💕💕