#FatShaming

[ripeteeth]

[CW: Fatshaming, general human shittiness]

Actual Quotes From My Actual Stepmother:

“She used to be real cute when she was doing meth and was really skinny, but since she quit, she’s ballooned way up and looks pretty rough.”

[hussyknee]

[thenixkat]

[id: A page from the Justice League of America comic with four panels featuring Ted Kord, Blue Beetle 2, in his room in the middle of getting dressed in his superhero costume.

Panel 1- Ted Kord, partly dressed in his superhero uniform missing only his cowl and gloves stops and stares at his reflection in shock. His top is grinding up the curve of his gut. Ted: I knew this costume was getting tight--but this is ridiculous! Must've shrunk in the wash or something... yeah, shrunk in the wash. Right. Time t'face facts, Ted-- you've been avoiding this for months and it's finally caught up with you-- --you're a fatty.

Panel 2- Close up of Ted's face as he holds a hand up to his face in horror and disgust. His reflection in the mirror in the background looks at him judgmentally. Ted: All the dysfunctional eating habits of your childhood have come back to haunt you! That fat little boy who's been hiding inside me is back-- and ready to binge! You can't let him get you, Ted. Remember all the jokes in grade school? "Lardo" Kord they called me. Remember in gym, when they said you weren't physically fit... you were physically fat?

Panel 3- Close-up of Ted's hands as he goes through his dresser to look for a top that fits. Ted: Well, I'm not going through that again! Wasn't till I got out of college that I pulled myself together, lost weight. Took some pride in myself. Darn good thing I still got this old college sweatshirt around to cover up the bulge.

Panel 4- Ted pulls on the sweatshirt, his face sad. Ted: Sweatshirt? Heck, it's more like a tent! I can't believe I used to dress like this all the time... oversized clothes to cover up my embarrassing body. I was the only kid on my block who shopped in maternity stores! Yeah, that's it-- joke your way through it like you did then. Maybe if you can make 'em laugh, they won't reject you--

/end id]

ok! I finally found the fucking issue I've been looking 4. Issue 52 of Justice League America.

Did I go through an entire comic run to find this specific issue for horny curiosity? Yes. Could I have just looked up actual porn and had a much easier time? Also yes. But that's not how my brain works. Did it satisfy my curiosity? Yes. Did it satisfy my horny? No, the dude needs therapy, the artists need to learn how to be consistent and also match what the writers are writing. Good fucking lords that was frustrating.

RIP to Ted Kord maybe someday he'll get a writer who'll let him be ok with having some chub. B/c ooo weee the internalized fatphobia, the body dysmorphia, the depression that dude needs to be treated for. Cause like, outside of the binge eating he was doing while depressed and unemployed (and thus also not exercising) which came after this, if someone is doing that much fucking exercising which being a superhero is, and getting chubby from normal eating habits then perhaps yer supposed to be a bit thick my dude? (like we know he diets to have like visible abs, so if not starving himself means he gets a gut then like that's likely the more natural and healthier shape for yer body to be in my guy )

Also like he's fucking * ripped * everywhere but his stomach, stop saying he's out of shape!

[thee-radio-host-is-a-kookaburra]

My little sister is struggling with her body image, and got fatshamed by the doctor today. She is only in third grade and I feel horrible that she's already feeling self-conscious about her weight. She isn't even fat; she's completely average for a young kid. Does anyone know what can I say to her to help her feel better?

[airasora]

I've reached a point where this is how I respond to people like this.

I had the AUDACITY to tell a man who was working out and a woman ruined his shot by walking in front of the camera that it's public space and he can't expect people to cater to his need for internet clout.

Cue me getting 40 comments all saying the same thing: I have clearly never gone to the gym cause, get it, I'm fat so how would I know what that feels like.

It's that exact sentiment over and over again and if the 40th person saying it thinks it still stings for me to read that, they're barking up the wrong tree 😂

[vi-the-deer]

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[bluebutyellow]

TODAY, I WAS BODY SHAMED

TW: weight, food, body discussion

Today, I applied for the medical certificate required for my employment. As my vital signs were being taken and my blood pressure was being checked, a nurse (probably a senior one based on her appearance) joked about the blood pressure apparatus wrapped around my arms not fitting me. She inquired about my weight, and after I answered, she asked if I was doing this on purpose. I was taken aback. I had never been judged so blatantly in my whole life. Since childhood, my weight has been larger than most of my classmates. While I am not supposed to be considered as fat, people label me as such just because I was bigger than most of the kids.

The nurse instructed me to go on a diet and be 3 kgs lighter when I return. Given the people in the vicinity, I'm certain most heard her words. I was so shocked that I simply laughed coldly—what else could I do? She had already shamed me. I've been labeled as fat my entire life, and I should be getting used to it. However, it was asking if I'm doing this on purpose that hurt the most.

The moment she said those words to me, I wanted to punish myself. I desired to starve myself. If I could only drink water the whole day just to avoid feeling disgusted with myself, I would have done it. I don't like what I look like, especially my weight. I can't believe I'm going through this. I thought people were better. I have never been so disgusted with myself.

[tucsonhorse]

Sometimes I remember things from childhood and it makes me sad that any adult would act like that towards a child.

I've always had an issue with food, basically I get sensory overload from tastes and food textures really easily so my diet is super restricted and it always has been. At one point my mom mentioned being concerned about it to my doctor, who put in a referral for a nutritionist.

I remember two things about that visit. She was very insistent on telling me what size a serving of various foods was, focusing on telling me stuff like a peanut butter and jelly sandwich wasn't a full serving of fruit.

And she told me that your brain doesn't get the "full" signal from your brain for 20 minutes, so it's important to eat slow and give your brain time to get that signal. I remember thinking that was stupid and dismissing it as irrelevant, but the info stuck with me. I don't remember ever being an over eater, in fact I was always much more likely to eat very little because of my limited diet (one of my friend's mom was certain I would go home starving with how little I ate when I'd stay over at their house), and I know my mom was more concerned about me not getting enough nutrients than me eating too much. But the nutritionist seemed very concerned that I was overeating.

It just occurred to me now, 20-some years later, that that was probably my first encounter with fatshaming. The nutritionist just assumed, because I was a chubby child, that my problem was eating too much. She clearly knew nothing about me and hadn't read the referral or asked my mom her concerns, she just took one look at me and assumed "fat=needs to eat less".

[fragwuerdiger-episodenguide]

(035) Die drei ??? und der Höhlenmensch

Klappentext

Das Skelett eines Urzeitmenschen lockt Justus, Bob und Peter in den kleinen Ort Citrus Grove. Kaum sind sie dort, als es auch schon zu rätselhaften Zwischenfällen kommt. Erwacht der Urmensch zu geheimnisvollem Leben? Und wieso legen sich plötzlich alle Bewohner von Citrus Grove zum Schlafen in den Park … ?

Veröffentlichungshistorie

Buch (Random House): 034, 1982, M. V. Carey, The Mystery of the Wandering Caveman Buch (Kosmos): 034, 1984, Leonore Puschert (aus dem Amerikanischen übertragen) Hörspiel (Europa): 035, 1984

⁉️ Allgemein

Handlungsort

Citrus Grove

Kategorie

Spuk, Betrug

Figuren

Justus Jonas

Peter Shaw

Bob Andrews

Dr. Birkensteen, arbeitet in der Spicer-Stiftung

Eleonor Hess, pflegt Tiere im Spicer-Stiftung

Dr. Teriano/Tereano, arbeitet in der Spicer-Stiftung

Mr. Wolfe, LKW-Fahrer

Ned McGhee, Onkel von Eleonor

Dr. Brandon, arbeitet in der Spicer-Stiftung

Frank DiStefano, Gehilfe von Dr. Brandon (😈)

John

Dr. Elwood Hoffer, arbeitet in der Spicer-Stiftung (😈)

Bürgermeister

Thalia McGee, Frau von Ned McGhee

Sheriff

🏖 Rocky Beach Universum

Orte

Harbor View Lane, scheint in der Nähe vom Schrottplatz zu sein

Sunset Boulevard

Einrichtungen

Gebrauchtwarencenter T. Jonas

Spicer-Stiftung, liegt in Citrus Grove

Citrus Grove, kleine Gemeine im kalifornischem Bergland in der Nähe von San Diego

Sonstiges

Dr. Childers, Narkosearzt, wohnt in der Harbour View Lane und kannte Dr. Birkensteen

🛼 Sonstiges

Lustige Dialoge

DiStefano: "Oppladi-opplada McGee, sie hören das Geld schon im Kasten klingeln, wie?"

DiStefano: "Oppladi-opplada, die drei Freunde sind da."

DiStefano: "Na und? Dabbeldiding-dabbeldidang, der Tag ist noch lang. Wir sehen uns."

DiStefano: "Tritratrum, die Detektive gehen um."

Justus: "Straftaten sind unser Hobby!"

Phrasenschwein

Fat shaming Justus wird beleidigt

🏳️‍🌈 Queer/diversity read

Shippy moments

Peter: "Unverschämter Lümmel!" Bob: "Ein Faulpelz obendrein!" DiStefano: "Wir sehen uns noch." Peter: "Fährt während der Arbeitszeit einfach an den Strand."

Diversity, Political Correctness and Feminism

Z*geuner-John ...

[ehcb]

Hypnos and Aergia 3 - Goddy Shaming

Aergia done forgot the golden rule that Literally Everyone Is Mentally Ill About This :v

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[brettdoesdiscourse]

Just as a reminder, Jonah Hill was at best a controlling asshole and at worst a predator. And he still didn't deserve the years of bodyshaming he received.

Yall are so quick to defend fat people from being bodyshamed when they're good people and so quick to support that exact same behavior for shitty fat people. But it's still fucking wrong.

Make fun of Jonah for being controlling. Make fun of him for being an asshole. His body has 0 to do with the fact he's a bad person.

[gabetheunknown]

oh my god enough enough enough with unhealthy and ridiculous diets, enough with that BMI bullshit still being used by professionals to fatshame you, enough 'FrUiT iS uNhEaLtHy BeCaUsE iT hAs SuGaR', enough lying and bodyshaming in the clothing industry, enough '10 ways for women to lose weight fast' everywhere I fucking look, enough 'but I just want you to be healthy' when you actually mean that they're disgusting, enough with the word 'fat' being an insult, and enough with 'you've lost weight!' being a compliment, it is not a compliment, fuck you, fuck you, fuck you, fuck you, fuck you

[automaticstarlightcomputer]

this whole thing with Lizzo fatshaming her dancers and the way people are reacting to it literally proves that you can be as fatphobic as you want if you're also fat and no one will care. Lizzos cult of binge eaters are defending her 100% despite her behaving exactly the way the evil thin mints do towards fat people. It's almost like yall don't really give a shit about fatphobia unless it directly affects YOU

[malainastarling]

tw for fatphobia, eating disorders and fatshaming

ok so this is just a long post about how my family treats me.  I can’t watch cooking shows because it literally stresses me out especially the cooking competitions. Like for a long time after my bestie got gastric bypass all she wanted to watch was cooking shows and diners, driveins and dives.

which ok I don’t know why I get so in my feelings about not being able to eat the food they’re showing but I honestly cannot for the life of me just like choose to watch a cooking show.

but like in general I know its because of my hang ups with food, the bulimia and the compulsive eating.  even though I haven’t purged in like almost 5 years I still get very anxious over food.  

Like my sister proposed that I work out 3 times for a starbucks. and for context I have high blood pressure, high cholestrol and I’m prediabetic. 

originally she proposed 5 workouts for a starbucks. 

but this kind of pressure is like just making things worse.  

[kittyprincessofcats]

AND ONE MORE PERSONAL POST ABOUT MY DAD

because I’m on a roll now, so I might as well.

I just remembered how he used to not understand why his transphobia towards L. [my sister] was getting to me so badly.

He kept saying “But it’s not about you, so why does it upset you more than [her]?”

UHM... first of all because she’s someone I care about so of course you misgendering her constantly upsets me???

BUT ALSO ... because I’ve been there??? Because way before she ever came out, you were a homophobic jerk to me first? Because after how you initally took my coming out, it took us years to fix our relationship again? Because I still remember every homophobic thing you said to me??

And then, just when we were finally at a point where I felt like we’d fixed things between us again, you take her coming out the worst way, never gender her correctly, blame me for her being trans, and make it more obvious with every second that you won’t support her, and start being homophobic towards me again, too. Like... you learned nothing from your experience with me. Nothing. All those fancy words to apologize... they don’t mean shit when you don’t change your behaviour the next time one of your kids comes out.

And then you do things like:

- Talking about how you “have three problem children now” [my other sister, F., is ace, so all 3 of us are queer]

- Constantly talking about how you “now understand people who never want kids”

- Looking at old photos of all of us and proclaiming “back then I still loved you”

- Constantly bringing up other people and their cishet kids

(And that’s all not even getting into the other non-queerness stuff, like his constant fatshaming of our mom (who had an eating disorder a few years ago!) and F., or how the tried to stop F. from getting her ADHD diagnosed.)

[Oh, and speaking of my mom - why am I only talking about my dad and not her? Because frankly, my relationship with her has been broken for years now and I’ve somewhat made peace with that by now. She didn’t even hug me or properly say goodbye when I moved out, so... “I don’t want a lesbian daughter” / “I don’t need to get over my homophobia because you don’t need a mom anyway” ... congrats, you got what you wanted.]

[german-teasing]

Wie wär’s, wenn du mal deinen fetten Arsch zum Joggen bewegst, anstatt nur für den Gang zum Kühlschrank? Oder turnt es dich etwa an, aus dir eine immer größere Peinlichkeit zu machen? Alleine wie deine Ärzte reagieren werden, wenn du bei jedem neuen Termin dicker bist. Jedes Mal schnaufst du lauter, wenn du das Arztzimmer betrittst. Jedes Mal knarzt die Liege mehr, wenn du dich schwerfällig versuchst raufzusetzen. Und jedes Mal ist der Arzt geschockter, von deiner wachsenden Fettleibigkeit… Turnt es dich an? Die Vorstellung, wie dein Arzt dich am liebsten sofort zu einer Abnehm-Kur schicken würde? Wie er dir Vorträge hält, was alles die Folgen deines ungesunden Lebensstils sein können? Er wird es nicht verstehen und er wird niemals Verständnis dafür haben, wie ein Mensch seinen Körper nur so ruinieren kann… Und jetzt, Fatty…, hol dir was kalorienreiches zum Essen und stopf dich voll! Die paar Zeilen haben dich sicherlich hungrig gemacht.