#Camcel

[philtatosbuck]

you said you only really like marbekah/rebel as a consolation prize for marcel basically so who do you like marcel and rebekah with instead?

I don't think I worded it like that but, yeah, sorta.

So the thing about the thing with Marcel is I am batshit and I liked him with Sofya and Aya, to be real. Him and Cami could've been good in theory. I was also open to him and Sophie getting back together (I don't wanna talk about it).

The thing about the thing with Rebekah is that all of her ships, within a canon lens, suck ass. They have potential outside of canon but as far as Jpec and the crew handled it, meh. But, out of the people she canonically showed interest in, my ranking would be: Damon, Stefan, Tyler, Nadia and Matt.

No hate to Matt (genuinely this time) or anything but with where they took his character, she would've gotten tired of him. Very quickly. Tyler is just my agenda for hot bitches being together. I think he'd be sick of her shit eventually, especially with her codependent ass relationship with her family.

I think it'd be funny if Katherine had to deal with Rebekah and Nadia fucking. Sorry.

Damon and Stefan are the more serious options, here. I enjoyed Stefan and Rebekah's hooking up and whatnot as well as their 20s fling and I think that they have a fondness for each other in present day. That being said, I don't think Stefan would have dated Rebekah in current day with his humanity fully intact. And also, I think he was more attracted to Klaus. I am not immune to unhealthy dynamics presented to me with bloodshed, sorry.

Damon and Rebekah is my final answer, I guess. I think they love in a similar way and have traits that complement each other. If Damon hadn't been in love with Elena by the time Rebekah had been introduced, I do think something could've came of that. Of course, they'd have to work through the whole Stefan issue, but I'm starting to think that's some kind of kink for the Salvatores, so it's whatever.

Final (serious) answers:

Marcel: Aya, Sofya, Sophie.

Rebekah: Damon, Stefan, Nadia.

Crack answers that have no basis in canon (to you. I know them personally): Rebekah and Enzo, Marcel and Jenna (I don't wanna talk about it!).

[viavolterra]

Wouldn’t have been mad about these two

Him and bex own me but that’s his aunt

Well, I mean, to be clear, I only compelled you to give him a chance. Anything you felt for him was quite real.

[alexxuun]

Don’t even look at me rn. I’m about to throw hand with Netflix.

[sleepy-stitches]

crosswordtracker dot com is down what is even the fucking point .

[llycaons]

this bus service is so bullshit oh my goddd

[draftsandchains]

cpvp rant incoming

[witching-by-the-willow]

How I'll sleep knowing Heartstopper's season 3 is already confirmed:

[minmo-cat-foods]

do we think Germany's bulge is padded?

[violentdevotion]

sometimes i like to imagine i was famous and my tumblr got leaked and think about which posts would get me cancelled

[imagefragrance]

hate how obsessed i am w this song,,,,, my new anthem….

[mochapanda]

category 10 autism moment i need to be put in a sensory deprivation tank

[viavolterra]

the fact there’s over 30 mins worth of deleted scenes with this duo

Julie I’m outside ur house with a machete

[walking-loather]

This is probably an unpopular opinion: so, i'll just preface with: Im saying this as a person with disability and chronic illness:

At a certain point its a bit shitty when people keep cancelling plans. I know sometimes health can get in the way of things but when you're ALWAYS reaching out to your friend and they are ALWAYS cancelling on you, it really, really sucks.

I don't cancel plans often. Usually I go through with them, even if I feel like pure death. I will save up all my energy for a day to see my friends. I put in that effort, even if sometimes it causes me to flare. And yeah, I could stand to tone it down a little, but I really dont like cancelling.

Because I've had friends cancel plans on me. a lot. And its usually people im trying to get back into contact with. It sucks to be cancelled on, and even though you know the person isn't doing it maliciously, after a certain amount of times it just starts to feel like they dont actually want to see you.

Of course you need to look after your health and comfort, but I sometimes feel like people can focus too much on prioritising their comfort over their relationships. Relationships are hard work and unfortunately, that sometimes means pushing through exhaustion and pain for someone because you care about them.

Disability and illness can be really isolating. In order to get rid of that loneliness, it means meeting up with people. And adjusting to living with disability and chronic illness means learning to balance those two forces. If you find yourself always cancelling and notice that your friendships are fading, you're not acting in your best interest. You are going to have to be uncomfortable and push yourself. You are going to have to put effort in, or be content with people pulling away because the relationship is becoming one-sided.

It should also just be basic etiquette that if you cancel on someone, it should be your responsibility to reschedule. And you should try not to let the person down again.

Like, I get it. Im sometimes exhausted and in pain and dont feel up to hanging out. I do it anyway. Because its good for the relationship, its good for my mental health, and its good to push your boundaries sometime. Its like exercise a muscle, if you dont push it, you dont get stronger. You dont grow.

It sucks to put in all that work, and get nothing back. It also especially sucks when it feels like your friend gives up on plans at the slightest hint of resistance. If you cancel, maybe try communicating why.

But in general i think that people have become too blasé about this kind of thing. Yes, life gets in the way, but at a certain point you have to stop victimising yourself and realise that youre treating people badly. You're not the only person whos struggling, and you owe it to yourself to try and do something that will make you feel better long-term -- like fulfilling relationships with others -- rather than prioritising short term gains (like getting to rest)

TLDR: cancelling plans sucks, and getting cancelled on sucks too. Remember, its never just one person losing a friend, its always at least two, and thats awful. Dont let yourself fall into the trap of neglecting your relationships. Part of taking care of your wellbeing means taking care of your social health too.

[beanyowl]

I know that it's not really a big deal and I'm 25 years old so it's only gonna be more and more common

but since my mom has covid this is gonna be the first Christmas in my life I won't be spending with her and fuck I hate that so much

[digiweed]

I get these intense luicide daydreams with fevers nowadays. Like if I imagine myself going up some stairs, the room I enter is already created for me.

Last time I walked into a beautiful kitchen with windows all around, pots and pans hanging from the ceiling. It was even raining . I looked out; realized I was on a boat, not a house like I thought.

Everything was in complete detail that I didn't create. You wish you were sicko mode like me.

[autobahnmp3]

lol i have a phone interview in the morning and right after that a career advisor session