#BadDad

[fat-fuck-hairy-belly]

Had a feverish nap today due to being sick and had a dream about a Kojima game where I'm fighting to dismantle a PMC made up exclusively of child soldiers and their leader is called Baddad. I literally woke up because when he introduced himself I thought "thats such a Kojima name" and realized I was dreaming.

[return-of-the-unicorns]

Yup. This is why I've avoided most vampire culture.

[eatacidandsee]

Fuck my dad

My father thinks he is the best,

The greatest man among the rest.

He talks about himself all day,

Good or bad;

His ego never goes away.

He looks at others with disdain,

Belittles them to feel his gain.

He loves himself more than us all,

His self-importance standing tall.

We try to be his pride and joy,

But he only cares about his employ.

He thinks he's wise and always right,

No matter what, he'll win the fight.

It's hard to love a narcissistic dad,

When all he wants is to be glad.

But we still try and hope he'll see,

That love and care is what we need to be.

[colddefendorkryptonite]

I think i did something bad... message me to offer guidance

[antonino1955-pastel]

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[emotional-piece-of-meat]

Batman is the first fandom where I give up on canon so much.

It's perfect for angst, I actually enjoy some sad takes which make me wanna cry and scream, but, boy, oh boy, do I care? Nah. I like my silly batdad fantasy too much, I like to imagine them as a happy family, they make me serotonin and you can pry them out of my cold, dead hands.

I don't even feel ashamed about it, because yeah, canon is cool but look at good parent Bruce Wayne tag. Look.

[angstandhappiness]

DUDE

Literally everything about Batman is so much better when you think about all the little behind the scenes things that must have happened to make Bruce such a goddamn dad

Like yeah he’s really bad with change and his communication abilities are really lacking due to being extremely heavily isolated and traumatized for the majority of his formative years, but like

I am at least 99% convinced that all the bat-named things like the batmobile, batcomputer, batfridge, etc., were originally normal phrases like ‘the car,’ ‘the computer,’ etc., but then Robin showed up he started calling them bat-things because he was nine, and Batman went along with it.

It’s too late to turn back now. Too late to make excuses to anyone. He’s committed. Nightwing doesn’t say anything. The other Robins have no idea. No one has any idea.

Everyone thinks Batman is legitimately obsessed with bats.

No, he just wanted his cave to be child-friendly, and when it turned out Robin #1 really liked the bat idea and thought it was cool enough that it should be incorporated into everything, Batman fucking incorporated it into everything. He just wanted to make the kid happy, damnit

His son is terrible at naming things.

[radioactive-earthshine]

Like I mean, it's fine if you just don't like comics at the end of the day of course. This is all for fun. You SHOULD do what makes you happy. BUT there are other people in the sandbox and by constantly putting down non-bat characters or spreading hurtful lies about other characters to the point where people who are new, or are even new writers for DC, believe them - it gets to be a problem and you are no longer playing nice you are flinging sand in our eyes and then blaming us for doing it. We cannot avoid that sand either because it is impossible to filter out unless someone is the kindest of hearts and tags things outright as 'fanon' or whatever tag we want to avoid like BadDad!Clark or Infantilized!Bart or SexyLamp!Kon but this just doesn't happen.

"Don't like don't engage with" only works when a warning is given.

I guess what I would like eventually is for an embraced tagging system like Fanon DC, that alone would make a lot of people much happier within the fandom space I think and just being open to conversation.

[bigfan-fanfic]

The batkids know that baddad is a formidable and highly capable waterbender, but they never see him in action. Their reaction and thought when they see baddad in combat or does an amazing feat with waterbending

They've only seen him act in healer capacity or minor household waterbending. But when he defends the manor in a great tsunami of water, tendrils shooting out and turning to ice without having to even leave the room, they're in such awe of his power.

[kingcunny]

Hello! I just wanted to say I LOVE your character analysis and essays, specialy the ones about Viserys Targaryen, I can't belive I found someone who also loves his character and is obsessed in talking about him! It's so hard to find people in ASOIAF/HOTD fandom who likes his character (and HOTD coming out made it worse) and analyse him deeply without resorting to just slandering or even mocking his disability (likely the only thing he has no blame for). It's really refreshing! So thank you thank you thank you so much! Taking the oportunity to do my first ask (many will come): do you have any headcanons about how Viserys got to bond with Balerion?

omg thank YOU sm for saying that!! thats so sweet <3 🤧 i really love vis a lot i think hes so fun and such an interesting character to analyze! i think its a real shame most of the fandom just wants to handwave him as a one note baddad villain because there really is so much to him :) and the ABLEISM he gets from the fandom is. really gross lol...

and i do! i wrote a big long post about balerions (known) riders, ill rb after i post this. theres also this great fic Black Dread Speaks by @ravenwoods108 that ive more or less accepted into my belief system.

but the tl;dr of it is- balerion and viserys bond is based around mutual respect and understanding. all of balerions past riders wanted something from him, wanted to use him for one purpose or another. viserys was the first one who just wanted *him*, all he wanted from balerion was his acceptance. and if he got that, thats enough. vis wouldnt force anything onto balerion and balerion wouldnt force him. they would be equals. i dont think thats an offer any of his past riders wouldve made him

[vegaseatsass]

#he and shin's dad from 3wbf -> ''just because you're gay and i'm not homophobic doesn't mean i can't find other ways to traumatize you'' @rythyme

korn really set the bar for bad parents in BL b/c he’s not a bad parent b/c he’s homophobic, oh no, in fact he’s the opposite he supports all his gay sons and even his gay nephews he’s a bad parent b/c he made his semi-foster nephew believe for a whole 60 secs that him and his bio son were cousins fucking nasty while hiding his foster sister in the attic for like 20 years, killing his nephews father, all after faking his own death and then sent his gay sons on a boat party to celebrate their engagement 

[kamikotized]

y'all i'm space rn but i have ALL THE NEED to write gabe kicking monarch's ass and i'm pretty sure the mlb fandom would think that was neat.

i should just give fanfic writing a go again. it's been fuckin decades since i wrote some but i could do a fuckin drabble.

[kopawz]

idk how u code on neocites- just trying to follow a basic overview video makes me feel really confused. How did you learn how to do stuff??

well, i first get an idea.

then, like you- i am bad at videos, so i go read up on tutorials, and look at examples of how the code to do what i want is written,

next, i get confused. necessary step.

and then, i try applying what i'm reading to my site anyway, even if it's confusing, and even if i can't follow it 100% correctly.

and then i go read some more tutorials for the same thing. i repeat the process until it works... or looks how i want it to look

i try not to follow it exactly, because i want my code to be readable and editable to myself later. this is the most important part i think. you should start very small and do what's understandable to you.

it also doesn't have to be very big or impactful to anyone but yourself, either. it can be small, even, and i encourage that.

here, if you want, in this keep reading i'll show you some examples of stuff i can do with properties i learned:

this small green box, for example.

it's name, or div class identifier name is "update". it's job is to hold the massive list of updates to the site, so viewers can scroll through to see what i've done, and what has changed.

right now, i've shown you where "update" is in the HTML sheet, and we can see that it's been given in-line properties. think of "in-line properties" as adjectives, describing how tall, wide, or how rotated your element is.

(keep in mind that you can't literally see the html as you're editing it like i'm showing you here unless you get a dedicated application for editing and testing html and css. i don't have any apps for that, and usually just edit and refresh to see if it looks right hundreds of times.)

okay, now let's see what exactly i'm telling this "update" box to do inside the CSS,

the CSS style sheet is another way of telling what something on your site to do. you would use the CSS to organize what everything on your page does more neatly, if you don't want to brute-force style it through the HTML directly, like i do.

in the CSS sheet, anything given the name of "update" is basically given the property of "overflow:auto;" which tells it to scroll whenever what's inside of it gets too big for the box. i have given the box a minimum width, so that the words inside will very easily start scrolling.

it is also given the color of #baddad, or a nice minty green- it's about 200px (pixels) wide- it has a border that's 2px wide and is solid (fully closed border) that's black- and it has a box-shadow that is 11 px 11 long in the bottom and the right, with a rgba value given to it to make it colorful, too.

why did i put width on both the html in-line style properties, AND the css style sheet? i don't know honestly! you don't need to do this, i think. just one of them will probably work, really.

i forgot what margin-bottom does, but i think that just adds filler space between elements. or is that padding, which adds filler space -inside- elements? maybe you can figure that out. i still can't remember the difference.

is there an easier way i could explain this to you?... i dunno, maybe ask for something more specific other than "how do you learn stuff" such as "what ways could i do *thing i want to do* specifically"

[anon-e-has-a-tmblr]

what's with the omer adam slander. what happened to ביחד ננצח!!

Omer adam, as a man, is decent. A nice man who tries to better the world with simple actions of kindness. I got nothing against the man.

His music though...

He manages to turn every single song into "kill me I am soooooo sad whuaaaaaaaaa". He somehow managed to turn zoar argov's depressing song "baddad" into an even more depressing song. How do you even do that?!

[baddadbadchoice]

Better fuckin believe this shit right now! Mr. Cash was PUNK AF! One of my music heroes for sure!- Baddad.

The kids on TikTok think that just because he was a classic country singer, Johnny Cash was conservative??? My babies he covered a Nine Inch Nails song in his seventies.

Classic country singers (the majority of which came from poor roots) were always talking about how much The Man sucked because they were taking money from poor rural folk. You’re gonna tell me that’s conservative?? Get outta here.

[ao3feed-brucewayne]

If You Hold Fast

read it on AO3 at https://ift.tt/Vt9qFfO by AhsokaJackson Left for dead by a brutal assailant, Jason Todd-Wayne gathers the last of his strength to make a desperate plea for help as he lies bleeding out into the desert sands. It's Roy Harper who reaches him first. Uninjured but far from unscathed, it's now up to Roy to hold them both together until further help can arrive. Mostly hurt/angst with a touch of comfort via the caretaking and verbal reassurance. Words: 3445, Chapters: 1/1, Language: English Series: Part 1 of Tale Spin AU Fandoms: Batman (Comics), Red Hood and the Outlaws (Comics), Red Hood/Arsenal (Comics), Red Hood: Lost Days Rating: Mature Warnings: Graphic Depictions Of Violence Categories: Gen Characters: Roy Harper, Jason Todd, Koriand'r (DCU) (cameo), Bruce Wayne (Mentioned), Original Female Character(s) (Mentioned) Relationships: Jason Todd & Roy Harper, minor/background Jason Todd & Koriand'r & Roy Harper Additional Tags: BAMF Jason Todd, Ethnically Ambiguous Jason Todd, Jason Todd Angst, Jason Todd Deserves Better, Jason Todd Needs A Hug, BadDad!Bruce Wayne, Bruce Wayne's A+ Parenting, BAMF Roy Harper, Good Friend Roy Harper, Navajo Roy Harper, POV Roy Harper, Protective Roy Harper, Roy Harper & Jason Todd are Best Friends, Roy Harper & Jason Todd Bromance, Roy Harper Needs a Hug, Roy Harper Needs A Raise, BAMF Princess Koriand'r, Abusive Relationships, Anxiety, Alternate Universe - Canon Divergence, Angst and Hurt/Comfort, batarang incident, Batbros for Life, Brotherly Love, C-PTSD, Canon-Typical themes, Canon-Typical Violence, Canon Divergence, Caretaking, Child Abuse, Domestic Violence, Dissociation, Epic Bromance, Epic Friendship, Healthy Relationships, Hurt/Comfort, Implied/Referenced Child Abuse, Indigenous characters, keep it gen, Lazarus Pit (DCU), Major Character Injury, Male Friendship, Medical Inaccuracies, native american characters, One-Shot, Outlaws as Family, Panic Attacks, Platonic Cuddling, Platonic Relationships, Platonic Soulmates, Post-Comic: Red Hood and the Outlaws v2 #25, Protectiveness, PTSD, Sickfic, Team as Family, temporary disability, The Batkids are Erudite and Don't You Forget It, Too Many Tags We Die Like Graffiti Artists, Toxic Relationships, We cuddle like men, We Need Gen Fics read it on AO3 at https://ift.tt/Vt9qFfO