#Anti irondad

[uglynavel]

I'm just gonna say it. I hate Irondad so much. The fact that the mcu erased Peter's true hero and father figure, UNCLE BEN from the movies will always piss me off thr highest levels of pisstivity!!

There's so many people Peter has hero worship for before Tonky Stank. Cap, Daredevil, Johnny Storm, Bruce Banner and Reed Richards!!

Not making Steve or Bruce his father/mentor figure was so dumb. Steve and Peter have similar backstory and the most in common when it comes to being a hero and morals. Especially mcu Peter and Steve

I'm sorry but I'll never love the irondad/ ironboy Jr dynamic and I'm glad Tony is dead and Peter can finally be Peter Parker/Spiderman and not be tied to Tony all the time

[myladyship]

"Tony Stark broke the cycle with Peter and Morgan."

He literally behaved like Howard towards Peter and dumped him on Happy. And Happy was also horrible. Don't even compare him to Jarvis.

Morgan never got to be old enough to question him, defy him, or make a 'mistake' in his eyes. I don't think Marvel even considers her a character.

[logansgaar]

I'm never going to stop thinking about how May's murderer, who killed her in front of Peter only a few hours ago, was goading Peter into killing him, actively encouraging his violence, the Green Goblin wanted to revel in corrupting Spider-Man, and all it took was a Look for Peter to come back to himself and decide to save Norman instead, no words, no begging, no pleading, no repeated attempts to reason with him or escape from him, just one blocked swing and a Look.

And there's still people who think he'd want to "give team cap a piece of his mind", or would've still been on Tony's team had he not been kidnapped, blackmailed and lied to about why he was there.

Peter could not be more Steve coded if he tried and we had five movies trying to shove "Peter is Tony's mini-me" down our throats just because Peter's a genius. One trait shared with Tony does not make him like him, he's Iron Man's antithesis by the end of NWH. I'll be so mad if Spider-Man 4 is another of the same, or even worse acts like May's loss isn't as big of a deal to Peter as that man.

[fancylala4]

YouTube keeps recommending me these videos about Tony Stark being a “father” to Peter and all the scenes of them are just Tony being awful to Peter. Like, him being dismissive of Peter and yelling at him. I’m really am convinced that these people don’t actually watch these clips and just go by their hand canons.

[introspectivememories]

actually the worst thing the mcu has done is that it gave us the absolute nothing burger that is mcu spiderman. like you watch the movies and like who is that???? who is that boy pretending to be peter parker? literally nothing about mcu spidey is recognizable as spiderman. everything about mcu spidey is watered down or otherwise taken away for some wack ass mentoer/mentee relationship with tony stark of all people. and the worst part about this is that it has proliferated into the public so thoroughly that you cannot read a single fanfic about peter parker without half a billion mentions of "irondad" and "spiderson". who is this man that you have all collectively hallucinated to be spiderman???

[cornholio4]

Your Friendly Neighbourhood Spider-Man #1. Prequel comic to the upcoming Disney Plus cartoon. This Peter is a bigger fanboy of Cap than Iron Man. No Irondad for this verse and Norman Osborn taking the Tony role and showing how Spidey doesn’t need a sneaky dishonest rich man to be his mentor.

[karmaspidr]

I really hope this is just a Doppelganger situation and he's not playing a Tony Stark as Dr Doom. I also hope that the likeness isn't brought up.

Please keep Peter's character development away from DADDOOM!!!

[butchpeterparkr]

one thing that gets me annoyed with ir*ndad content is the fact that peter’s entire arc through his three solo films is literally ABOUT coming out from under tony stark’s shadow and realizing that aspiring to be like tony is actually taking him nowhere good and leading him to betray the values may has instilled in him

[thecanuck]

ill never forget that one the the most popular irondad/spiderson fanfic writers was literally at the january 6th insurrection. im not even kidding

[insomiaepisode]

My greatest regret in life is watching the Avengers movies late in life. Now I'm about 8 years too late to defend Team Cap in civil war and I have to filter through all the anti-team cap propaganda and irondad fanfic whenever I want to read marvel fanfic.

[saricess]

getting back into reading mcu fanfics and I forgot people still like the “irondad” thing with peter 🤢

[transexualpirate]

irondad is probably the worst thing to ever happen to spider-man as a character and it's not even because of tony. the irondad part is fine i guess. tony might be a good father figure in the right au. but spiderson? like that's not even peter at this point fandom washed him out so much that's a whole new character he's got none of the qualities that peter parker usually does like at this point that's your oc that's not peter. baby that's not spiderson that's your spidersona

[logansgaar]

Civil War AU where someone actually tells the 14 year old what's going on, like real details about the situation not just "them guys wrong, we right", and Peter defects like he does in the comics

[fancylala4]

I’m so glad that I don’t have to see “tony is Peter’s dad” shit that often on social media anymore. That was one of the worst things the mcu has done to Spider-Man as a character.

[starforgedthor]

Did I unfollow a mutual who was spam posting Irondad-Spiderson content out of nowhere? Fucking absolutely. As a reminder; fuck billionaire, war-profiteer, accountability dodger, child endangerer, self-aggrandising, self-centred asshole Tony Stark. The only care he feels for Peter is out of -AT MOST- a guilty kind of moral obligation.

Tony has an actual child, and Peter already has a parental figure;

Aunt May loves Peter in the way you all project onto Tony Stark in Irondad scenarios, and unlike Irondad, that's canon. Argue with a mirror, I'm right.

Stan Aunt May, cowards.

[myladyship]

Different ways Tony Stark could've met Peter Parker without blackmailling and kidnapping him because he was salty with his work buddy.

A science convention

Giving a lecture at Peter's school

Having a hot dog and chit chatting on rooftop

Saying a casual hello while flying like they're neighbours passing each other in a hallway

Even Big Iron dad fans agree that was a nasty way to introduce Peter Parker to the MCU!

Please state more if you'd like!