#And that has nothing to do with w*ncest or your identity

[maipareshaan]

'Dogpiling on a 20 something queer mixed race woman for doing activism cuz you wanna support your disgusting ship wahh touch grass wah'

Eternal braindead victims

[electric-sympathy]

Just read a long and impassioned post by some reader insert writer on how important feedback is, complete with how little free time she has to write because she has several sons, only to click on her and find out she’s a w*ncest fan. I wonder how her sons would feel if they found out she spends her time fantasizing and writing porn about brothers fucking each other lmao

Like imagine giving birth to people, literally creating the ties that bond them with your own body, caring for them, teaching them what it all means, and then fetishizing that bond. And then you tell yourself it’s all okay because it’s not exactly your sons that you’re thinking about, that your intimate physical, emotional, and intelligent intimacy with the bond you’re talking about suddenly doesn’t mean anything because you’re thinking about someone else’s sons. Imagine coming face to face every single day of your life with people that, if you lived in an even slightly different world, you would be happily daydreaming about being sexually abused.

(I wonder if she’s okay with other people that don’t happen to be related to her sons thinking about them that way? It’s only fair, right? We have been saying on here for a very long time that creepily sexually overprotective Dads are shit because the only reason they want no one to ever touch their daughter is because they’ve been thinking of women as horrible sex objects all along, and that the whole problem arose from him being so disgusting in the first place. Surely the same can be applied to us women, that we need to stop acting so repulsive or just deal with the consequences?)

It’s one thing when, like, an only child teenaged girl does this shit. My God it’s so fucking different when a parent does it, when a parent of siblings or a boy, when a parent of SONS PLURAL does this.... I mean my God what the fuck kind of chittering, compartmentalized fucking demon do you have to be to find that sickness within yourself and then decide to nurture it instead of going “wow, that shit thought I just had was cray, I should find something else to replace it with and not think about that anymore” and move on to something else? 

Like, nothing HAS to become a fetish if you don’t want it to be. They are not sexual orientations. There is always that initial point where your thoughts happen to spin in a certain direction and you realize that hey, if I expanded on this, I might be really into it. You can be in that moment and decide whether to leave it alone or to start weaving it into your routine. Let alone your online persona and personal identity....

And if it’s already gotten too far before your circumstances have changed to make your inclinations inconvenient, you always have the ability to stop. It’s fucking hard but it’s easily possible if you have an important enough reason. I did it-- not with any of the kinds of horrible kinks I discuss HERE, mind-- and if someone with OCD constantly ruminating and replaying their most shame-inducing thoughts and whittling their habits into iron can do that, SURELY someone with a normal brain can.

….

You can at LEAST stop putting pen to paper on the adulation of a matter that would irreversibly damage your relationship with the people you love.

[livebloggingmydescentintomadness]

if you are sincere then i apologize for lumping you in with the rest of the people that i believed i was addressing, but i’m not going to apologize for the way i feel or behave regarding that group of people.

since i don’t know who you are i can’t know whether you truly are in good faith or not, but like i said, i have received multiple bad faith asks about misha in the past several months, many of them accusing him of horrible things, while also receiving a dozen+ messages from at least one person who i know is a rabid w*ncest/j2 shipper who takes things so far over the line it’s sickening. they also send the same identical ask to many other destiel blogs, harassing us for months with both incredibly rude and insulting asks as well as bad faith messages posing as one of us and trying to spread bad rumors as if they’re part of our group and “just concerned” about the smear campaign they’re trying to instigate.

if you want to go back through my asks for the last several months you can see what i’m describing, and i know that lots of others blogs can testify to receiving the same asks, as i said. the person(s) sending these messages is very disturbed.

so again, i apologize if i mistook you for those people, presuming that you aren’t the same antagonist who is just posturing further, but if you find some of the asks in question you’ll easily be able to see how your ask resembled theirs.

i don’t put any credence in rumors being spread around twitter or reddit, especially when the rumors are of the same type that i know these people have tried to spread. and i am not the one making it about “shipping wars”, the people who have been trying to smear misha for years, literally for no other reason than because they hate him for getting in the way of them shipping w*ncest and jensen/jared, are the ones who have actually harmed a real person because of a fucking tv show.

if you know nothing about the context of this entire situation then i can understand why my last reply would confuse and disappoint you, but i’m speaking as someone who’s been here a long time and seen a lot of bullshit. there is a subsection of this fandom who has made it their job to ruin misha’s life. they have said every horrible thing about him and his family that you can imagine, they have threatened him, they even made an attempt at bodily harming him at a convention. misha was brought to tears in a post-series interview when he was asked about what affect these people have had on him.

these are vile, malicious people who make deliberate attempts to tarnish misha’s reputation, and have done so over and over for years. it doesn’t surprise me at all that they’re taking this opportunity to spread rumors on twitter and reddit, and it doesn’t surprise me that well-intentioned but inexperienced folks would want to take the allegations seriously, because “believe survivors” and everything. that’s why they’re trying to take advantage of.

i am not just blindly defending a celebrity i like, engaging in shipping wars, or parasocializing; i am speaking as someone who has experienced bad faith actors cruelly attempting to harm a person whom i have never otherwise heard a bad word about. 

once more, i apologize if i directed the anger i feel towards these people at someone who didn’t deserve it and was genuinely asking in good faith, but if you are a decent person, i think that if you were to see the sort of damage these people have done and what more they’ve tried to do, you would be similarly infuriated, and i dare say you’d probably want to kick their asses in a parking lot too.

I feel like you will give me a smart and reasonable answer. What us with all these rumors about Misha being a creep. He's been mentioned alongside Barrowman the last few days in regards to conning fans, upskirting and asking fans to send questionable images as well as transphobia.

i apologize if i’m wrong, but i feel like this is a bad faith question from someone who already hates misha, because in the last ~6 months i’ve gotten multiple bad faith asks from people who hate misha.

i’m aware that there are some allegations of john barrowman behaving inappropriately on set (stories of him exposing himself, not assaulting anyone), but i’ve been in this fandom since 2013 and i’ve literally never heard a single story about misha behaving like a creep EXCEPT for ones that came from maliciously spread rumors. never.

misha is a flawed human being like us all, but as far as male celebrities go, he appears to be a fucking saint. he is kind and considerate and he apologizes when he messes up. he is absolutely not transphobic, as i’ve personally witnessed him openly supporting trans people. i do not believe he would ever behave like a creep, especially to fans. 

i’ve briefly met him a few times, and i have a good friend who has met him many times and spoken to him at length; from those secondhand stories i can tell you that the man is an actual damn angel. he is unbelievably kind and encouraging and sincere.

i, however, am a little bit less kind, because i would love to meet you and you ilk in a parking lot and kick your fucking ass for trying to ruin a man’s career for, what? getting in the way of your ship? annoying you for being on your tv show? 

grow the FUCK UP. this is a REAL PERSON you are trying to spread baseless rumors about. haven’t you already done enough to make his life a living hell? you’re pathetic.