#.｡.:*✨☆ ❙ STARTERS

[agirlwithglam]

The secret to actually being interesting and fun:

Is to be interestED

Guys fr tho, talk about others. Ask OTHER people questions, react to what they say, get interested!! You may think that they are super interested in what you have to say, but most of the time, they dont actually care if ur someone who talks about yourself a lot.

Normally you can tell when somebody isn’t as interested as you’d like and if you start to see that. Stop talking immediately and ask THEM a question.

Also remember that if you have nothing to say but you want to keep a conversation alive, don’t insult them, don’t desperately compliment them as a way to get them to like you, ask about them. TAKE AN INTEREST IN THEM!! And if you genuinely do like something about them, then do compliment it + ask a follow up question!

(And esp if you find that they start getting excited/ passionate about that subject, encourage them to talk about it more!)

Compliment + follow up questions:

“omg i love ur (hair) curls, what’s ur secret!”

Your neckless is stunning it goes with your vibe so well! Where’d you get it from? (Might be a present, and then you can ask about that person!)

You’re so good at [school subject], how??

Questions examples:

Any plans when you get home?

What did you do over the weekend?

What’s your fav song? / do u like Sabrina carpenter/ Taylor swift? (Then proceed to bond and fangirl over the songs)

How’s your day been so far? (Sometimes asking the most simple questions can make a person feel seen)

What do you want to be when you’re older?

How would you describe your dream partner?

Etc etc etc

Also I found this on Pinterest and its all you need: Pinterest link <3

[pen-papers]

★ Chikorita + Bayleef + Meganium

[vazula]

' oh. ' exclama al sentir una gota caer sobre su mejilla y abre la palma de mano derecha para verificar que no lo está imaginando. bueno, tocará buscar a bimbo debajo de la lluvia, no procuró conseguir un paraguas antes. ' disculpa, ¿sabes donde queda el castello sforzesco? ' pregunta a la primera persona que ve pasar cerca, sin importarle el estar mojándose, sabe que si chequea su mapa también terminará empapado e inútilizable.

[vssmithy]

🍃   𝘂𝗯𝗶𝗰𝗮𝗰𝗶𝗼𝗻  :  𝗣𝗔𝗥𝗤𝗨𝗘.

' sé que es muy pronto para afirmarlo pero creo que el parque será mi sitio favorito. ' confiesa sonriente, ojos puestos en los distintos rincones. ' ¿tú ya recorriste el lugar? ¿encontraste a tu posible candidato? ' 

[dcccivcr]

Closed

A night off only means the bodyguard is less guarding and more skulking. Keeping a close eye on the imperial family only as a perfect excuse to keep an eye, also, on everyone else in the ballroom. Or so he tries. Right now, he has been intercepted by an individual who may or may have not indulged in more drinks than they could tolerate. He tries to escape with a courteous and modest smile, keeping a prudent distance. "Regrettably, I am unfamiliar with this form of dancing," or most forms of dancing, for that matter. He was a decent singer, had a neat calligraphy and could fly a kite beautifully, but dancing was far from his preferred form of artistic expression. Nor his preferred form of mourning. "I am certain you will find a more suited companion—"

[vanneliese]

( ⚲ ) espacio de arte.

desliza el pincel sobre el lienzo con delicadeza, aunque no se trata del primer trazo como quiera se encuentra nerviosa. no sabe a dónde va con su obra de arte pero, por el momento, se ve decente. eso cree, claro. ' oye— ' se dirige a tercere, separando apenas celestes del lienzo para mirarle. ' ¿crees que está quedando bien o necesito lentillas nuevas? '

[binnas]

📍 habitación de huéspedes gama media.

' el olor a putrefacción es muy fuerte. ' tose exagerada y rápidamente se tapa la nariz con la solapa de su chaqueta. ' ¿habrá algo que valga la pena aquí? ' pregunta observando horrorizada las camas repletas de tierra, polvo y suciedad. 

[direodes]

one liner starter call !

i’m in the mood to be writing with more people and to pop out some quick threads && to establish some more mains / exclusives — so like this for a one liner starter !

if a multi please specify your muse & my muse.

[lives4lovesworld]

all targ antis are acting like rejected incels; constantly running their mouth no one ask or cares for, recirculating whatever anti theory and nonsense woke buzzwords for the millionth time like anyone cares, inventing and canonizing their pathetic headcanons and then unironically turning whatever irrelevant bitchass fave they have into a Targaryen OC with AUs of them getting dragon eggs, being secret half Targaryens, dragonriders, getting all of Daenerys forces and prophecies + dozen atrocious ai edits of olivia or sophie in an elsa wig like pls 🤡

[agirlwithglam]

becoming a good conversationalist

Tips and conversation starters!

TIPS TO BE A GOOD CONVERSATIONALIST + BE FUNNY

lil tips:

a huge part of people wanting to be around you again, is how they emotionally feel when they're around you.

go into a conversation not thinking "i hope they like me" but thinking "i hope i have fun!"

remember that they are just people, just human. they aren't a whole lot different to you! you live, you die; they live, they die. dont be so scared and uptight about talking to someone.

conversation starters:

things that they've never done but they want to do

find out about their interests

find out what they like and dont.

which places do you really want to go to?

what is the best place/ country you've been to?

what are your fears?

ask about food

what foods and drinks do you like?

your favourite restaurant?

favourite chocolate?

recommended youtubers/ videos:

Joshua Otusanya (self improvement + the BEST conversation tips!)

Tam Kaur (mainly talks about self improvement but also has socialising/ becoming an extrovert content)

Xoxo, Vanilla

[hcrctic]

— @mutantmuses ❤'d for a one liner for matt | still accepting!

"So, I might need a lawyer.."

[vazula]

🥕  actividad: cosechar la huerta.

en cuclillas frente a la huerta tira fuerte de una zanahoria que no quiere salir y cuando finalmente logra sacarla su cuerpo se va hacia atrás y cae sentada en la tierra. ' dime que no viste eso, por favor. ' pide tensando la mandíbula debido a la posible humillación, aún en el suelo con tubérculo en mano. 

[therosepetalrps]

@n0rthsqueen・❥・𝐂𝐋𝐎𝐒𝐄𝐃 𝐒𝐓𝐀𝐑𝐓𝐄𝐑

𝐀𝐒𝐊𝐄𝐃: for sandor : 〔𝟘𝟛𝟙. 𝕦𝕟𝕕𝕖𝕣 𝕥𝕙𝕖 𝕡𝕣𝕠𝕥𝕖𝕔𝕥𝕚𝕠𝕟 𝕠𝕗 𝕒 𝕘𝕒𝕫𝕖𝕓𝕠 𝕒𝕤 𝕚𝕥 𝕣𝕒𝕚𝕟𝕤〕

『✣』 The rain, thin as it was, had already turned the snow to slush beneath his boots. The cold bit at any hint of exposed skin. Sandor was starting to fear that he'd never get used to it. Although he had the colouring of a Northerner, he did not have their veins — which he was sure were shards of icicles beneath their skin.

The weather was hell on his joints and even crueler to his bad leg. Chasing Her Grace around this godsforsaken castle did it no favours either.

He'd gone to her chambers intent on escorting her to the Great Hall for a long morning of conferring with her vassals. She had not been there; an occurrence which he was growing to expect. The little sneak was worse than her sister had been, he swore.

He trudged across the yard, having already checked the library tower, the kitchens, and nearly two dozen corridors. The rain was picking up, and with it, the clouds were smothering the sun's attempt to rise. He approached the small wooden structure built where the godswood met the Glass Gardens. He saw her silhouette, bolstered by the bulk of a dark, fur-lined cloak. He muttered a curse.

In his dun breeches and drab layers of wool and leather, he often looked more peasant than Queensgaurd. But that was indeed his role, in all but name…and livery. No white cloak, nor emblazoned sigils. Not even of his own house. He was no more a Clegane than he was a Targaryen princess. Not anymore. He was a sword, as he'd always been. Though, he was now a sword swung by a far more merciful hand than any that had wielded him before. If she ever let him swing at all.

Sandor stepped onto the decking, the wooden slats creaking beneath his weight, staring at her back.

❝ 𝐂𝐀𝐓𝐂𝐇 𝐘𝐎𝐔𝐑 𝐃𝐄𝐀𝐓𝐇 𝐈𝐍 𝐓𝐇𝐈𝐒, ❞ he grunted, by way of greeting. ❝ 𝐍𝐎 𝐔𝐒𝐄 𝐈𝐍 𝐇𝐀𝐕𝐈𝐍𝐆 𝐀𝐍𝐘 𝐁𝐋𝐎𝐎𝐃𝐘 𝐆𝐔𝐀𝐑𝐃𝐒 𝐈𝐅 𝐘𝐎𝐔 𝐊𝐄𝐄𝐏 𝐒𝐂𝐔𝐑𝐑𝐘𝐈𝐍𝐆 𝐎𝐅𝐅 𝐎𝐍 𝐘𝐎𝐔𝐑 𝐎𝐖𝐍. ❞

[nikitahall]

📍 CAMAROTES.

' me gustaría saber cuales objetos esconden ahí dentro. ' mordisquea su labio inferior, sangrita comenzando a hacer efecto, ¡es que ella casi nunca las bebe! y hoy se le ha dado por tener una actitud arriesgada, poco normal en ella. ' ¿que tal si ideamos un plan para entrar a escondidas y descubrirlo, hm? ' 

[oscarhopeful]

𝐖𝐇𝐎 :  gabriel + anyone // @chqstarter ⦗ CLOSED ⦘ 𝐖𝐇𝐄𝐑𝐄 :  main squeeze

       after many hours spending it between the library and at the gym, gabriel needed a quick pick me up. he made his way over to the main squeeze, and he looked at all the different drinks that were available. gabe struggled to choose what he wanted, and then he was curious what kind of smoothies they had. he looked to the person next to him, who seemed to be waiting in line, and he nodded. " what are you getting ?? like any RECOMMENDATIONS ?? anything here with boba ??"

[binnas]

📍 bentendo.

' presiento que mi capítulo aquí terminó. ' confiesa sorpresivamente mientras observa el paisaje, se imaginó satisfecha pero ahora que el sabbat alcanzó el poder solo se siente vacía. ' hay otros mundos por conquistar. ' sonríe, porque al final eso es lo que quiere en el fondo, lo único que la motiva: su ambición por siempre querer más.