#- it feels like they’re verging on ‘if this person doesn have all of them then it’s a no-go’

[mishervellous]

What are your significant other’s green flags? If you don’t have a s/o, what would you consider green flags in a potential partner?

kinda ot but can someone explain to me what a beige flag is? i’ve seen that term going around recently and i’m confused anyways:

-listens and believes you (or at least doesn’t straight up invalidate you right away)

-doesn’t belittle your feelings (and by feelings i also mean whatever stems from heavier things like paranoia/delusion and the likes) (and by that i don’t mean they just enable them, i mostly mean they don’t shut you off on the basis of those feelings being exaggerated/unrealistic)

-understands and respects your boundaries; establishes boundaries of their own

-is honest

-is communicative as best as they can (about their own struggles but also about potential struggles in the relationship itself)

-values your input/opinions (mostly if it’s something that has to do with the relationship itself)

-is a silly goose and kinda weird (positive)