#- 'oh good loarde that is a straight girl' after the fact.........

[hotsugarbyglassanimals]

going on dates to meet people with the intention of starting a relationship kind of is like. bizarre to me cause it just seems like it'd feel forced ?? with friends its like. "im saying the most out of pocket things so you'd laugh and i can feel like i can do that without judgment" and "i lean on you for support like you would for me", which i feel like is very foundational to a good relationship as opposed to a baseline "i think this person looks good". over time your friends will just become hot to you based on bonds alone. its that simple