#*silent screaming*

[lithuvia]

Ahhhh!! Commissioned sketches of my bg3 tiefling cleric Io! Shoutout to @queersoda , thanks for the awesome work!

[angelicherubs]

damn I wish the anti anxiety part of my meds would kick in.

[spacequokka]

and not one of them is pure

his pretty hands deserve their own fandom (part 1)

[chloesimaginationthings]

FNAF Springtrap's first night in Dead by daylight..

[kurlik42]

Guys, I feel nervous

I mean... How do u make blogs and stuff... I never had blogs before, you know

No?

Well, now you know:D

[cliopadra]

WE’RE GETTING A SEASON THREE!!!???!!!

[demaparbat-hp]

She will (and he'll let her)

[lyss-butterscotch]

Very normal about this human pebbles design

ok fine i made a human pebbles

(reblogs >>>>> likes)

[necrocto]

HE IS MELTING 😭

[radbelinda]

One of the things that strikes me about the whole Neil Gaiman thing is that people really want to portray Amanda Palmer as being a remorselessly complicit figure, when a lot of things that are very obviously fucked up and menacing when you put it next to the actual assaults going on - are perfectly normalised and accepted within poly/ENM world. All of these things are fucked up and menacing, but the bubble of pseudo-feminist poly world is incredibly effective at making you totally oblivious to the fact that you're opening the door to abuse and emotional damage.

The thing of 'oh we just slept together and I took a consensual nude of you, now can I have your consent to send it to my husband' is a feature of poly culture, not a bug. Suggestive and inappropriate comments to a woman about how hot your husband will find her are completely normalised. A statement from your husband like 'I don't get to play with my Dom side with you, so I need to be with other women who are natural subs' (which I suspect is the reason he gave when he kept having affairs when she was eight months pregnant, after agreeing to be monogamous) is something that culture will expect you to be completely Cool Girl about. Being blasé when a woman comes to you and says 'your husband made a pass at me' is also the expected Cool Girl reaction. Bringing women into your circle that you think your husband will find hot is completely par for the course in those mindsets and part of being a good and fun and sexy partner - no one doing that in poly culture thinks of themselves as 'feeding him women to rape' or grooming. Lots of people seem to find Amanda telling Neil that he couldn't hit on Scarlett, but still leaving him alone with her, to be jawdropping - but, as someone who has had people in ENM relationships exhibit poor boundaries around me and try to insinuate me into their sex lives in inappropriate ways, I know that that kind of thing is seen as due diligence and an appropriate way to navigate a situation. My experience of people immersed in that kind of culture is just this general assumption that words and agreements are magic - that all you need to do is communicate and agree terms and everything is fine, and if an agreement is violated you just need to communicate more and agree terms and everything is fine, pay no attention to the man behind the curtain.

What a lot of people want (and have wanted all along when they were making jokes about how understandable it was for Neil to 'fly across the world to escape having lockdown with her') is for Amanda Palmer to have been a truly abhorrent person, when the truth is that the whole culture around poly/ENM/open relationships - not necessarily the stated rules everyone claims to be abiding by, but the actual culture itself - encourages this stuff, especially from women.

I'm not suggesting Amanda is a victim in anywhere close to the same way as any of the women profiled in the reportage, and I do think her learned obliviousness enabled her complicity in creating a situation like Scarlett being left alone with Neil, but she has clearly been manipulated as well. Think of how insanely manipulative it was for him to wait until she was in late-stage pregnancy to start violating the terms of their marriage, how he surprised her with a lot of 'dark' elements of his personality after they were already married with a child, how we don't even necessarily know how much control she had over the marital pursestrings, how (as covered in the Tortoise podcasts) he would pressure the woman who lived on his estate into sexual activity by saying that Amanda, not him, wanted to sell the house and kick her out - and that if she kept him sweet he'd be her advocate against his evil wife. He is so clearly a profoundly manipulative person and it's just lunacy to suggest that none of that manipulation will have been targeted at Amanda.

[planetvries]

i yearn for the mines

[chandralia]

IF I SPEAK—actually I will, and laugh while I’m at it

what do you mean bkdk was ALSO given a rooftop shot that iz//chs SWORE was the epitome of romance? LMAOOOOOO with a pink gradient sky nonetheless, AND with Deku acknowledging that Bakugo’s sacrifice severely affected him???

[goryhorroor]

horror sub-genres: slasher

[soughtserenity-a]

It feels like he's always doing this? Making her sad with his confessions? But she makes him feel safe enough to do it so he can't help himself and they're never sweet or soft to him they must be so sad because this isn't the first time someone has cried in response... Kie does too.

" We will go there okay? Please don't cry. " He pulls her against his body and hugs her firmly and simply lets her be in that moment in the safety of his arms and rubs her back slowly. " We'll definitely go there... I'll make it happen... "

it was really happening! the joy of such had her beam and settle more into his lap with a nice snuggled wiggle into her spot she already started to claim. " okay! " she was happy, smiling to be away from everything for awhile.. to embrace her true territory: the woods. nothing she loathed in the city life by any means.. but she did love her visits to the outdoors. then he confessed something to her...

her presence went soft... gentle with a tilt of head, admiring his words.. " i want us to go to the cabin.. " it almost made her her eyes swell up that he'd share such a secret... sometimes her power was overwhelming.. feeling how broken he must've been at times he'd visit a place like that. scared yet somehow still feeling safer than around anyone he was around... she really understood him in regards to that... then her lips pout for a different purpose, an attempt to keep the tears from shedding but they fall immediately and she lay her hands to his face, nodding, " i want us to go there.. " she smiled again, nodding, closing her eyes... slowly breathing.

[stray-cat-with-internet-access]

[uris9158]

thinking about how kim dokja thinks he's alone in the world and there is no one in the world who understands him or can possibly understand him.

but. there yoo sangah is. yoo sangah who discusses literature with him. yoo sangah who understands kim dokja bc she is very perceptive about people and very empathetic and also bc they have the kind of friendship where words aren't needed. yoo sangah who read every book in the library about kim dokja bc she was genuinely interested in her friend's life and bc she wanted to understand him. yoo sangah who figured out it was 49 and not real kdj and figured out what he did but didn't say a word bc she understood and respected his decision even though she wanted her friend back more than anything.

yoo sangah who witnessed his mundanity and monstrosity both, and loved him either way. loves him despite every irredeemable quality he thinks he has. yoo sangah who wants to be his best friend in every lifetime and live together right next to each other. yoo sangah, his best friend who understands him without words.