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frogs-in3-hills · 6 days ago

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tell someone you’re asexual and they’ve heard of the split attraction model & aces who have sex so suddenly they got a thousand questions about whether or not you want a romantic partner or what scenarios you’d be okay with having sex in or whether you experience platonic attraction or what your kinks are or if you want a qpr or if you’d marry for convenience or who you find hot or if you’d tolerate kissing without tongue. absolutely determined to identify the lowest possible threshold of freakishness. girl i don’t want to larp normalcy i want to abolish the family

#the key to resolving aphobic disenfranchisement is not to compromise until i can be mistaken for a normie and thus receive the same benefits #it’s to question why we have to perform romance/romance-adjacent roles and mimic (western) family in order to survive #particularly heterosexual romance obviously #all of this is not to diminish the experiences of aces who do want some of these things. i have complicated answers for some of these!#the human experience is vast & varied. ily.#frogs.txt #(the term normie used somewhat ironically and also to allow that sentence to fit in one tag btw. lol)

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