#(someone requested an “identify the real housewife” category and I want to yeet myself off of something)
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how do I go back in time and integrate myself into the queer women-heavy gay sports league in my city instead of the cis gay men-heavy gay sports league??
#last night I was at a whole ass queer happy hour event mostly populated by women & non-binary people and I saw ONE person I knew#and tbh I doubt she remembers who I am so I didn't even go say hi#meanwhile the outer reaches of my social circle are swimming with obnoxious gay men who's names I've learned but can't remember#tell me whyyyy#all I want is a local (queer) friend group and/or someone to date me. is that so much to ask!#(very fortunate to have many individually close friendships in my city but not a GROUP y'know)#(there's not a gc where I could be like "hey I made too much pasta who wants to come over)#I also made the mistake of getting on the board of the gay men centered sports league#and I know that means I could/should try to Enact Positive Change but it's so exhausting#like great I'm glad as a board we've realized this is a problem#but nothing we are doing is making actual major change#so I feel like I'm writing trivia questions for a community I'm not even part of#(someone requested an “identify the real housewife” category and I want to yeet myself off of something)
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