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Does anyone else feel like physically disabled people aren't allowed to identify with the very common and understandable thing of "nobody wants to work"
Like. "Nobody wants to work but if you're disabled you have to want to work or you must be faking. This thing everyone else feels isn't supposed to apply to you"
#if you're disabled and want to work that's so valid and understandable#but I often feel like there's no space for disabled people who don't want to work#why should we be any different to able bodied people in regards to attitudes towards working just because we're disabled#why do we have to signal how much we wish we could work just to be validated for not working#also depending on your area and situation you might be better off on benefits than if you were forced to work#physical disabilities are seen as a more valid reason to not be able to work than being neurodivergent/mentally ill so what if you're both#being scared of getting better if its even possible to because it's either be disabled but surviving and able to rest#or get treatment and be forced to fight for your life in this capitalist hellscape#being worked to death while making not enough money to survive or enjoy yourself and unable to rest as much as you need to#if you're able bodied which pill would you choose#tired of feeling like I have to be so tragic and wishing to be a part of the rat race just to be taken seriously as a disabled person#vent ig#disability#disabled
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"ooohhh fiddauthor so sad so cute theyre so yaoi" you are all overlooking a very very important detail here. FIDDLEFORD HAD AND WORE FULL ASS COWBOY BOOTS IN COLLEGE.
#gravity falls#fiddleford mcgucket#fiddauthor#fiddleford#i need fanart of him in those cowboy boots NOW#seriously though like. so many questions ?#did he bring them because they reminded him of home?#did he wear those to class?#do you think people could hear him walking from all the way down their hall?#hes wearing a nice comfy sweater#and then also jeans and big ass cowboy boots?#what compelled him to wear this.#like obviously he grew up on a farm. but why bring this stuff to college??#are those boots comfortable though.
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Chuuiickensnek (+headcanon design for Vinny)
#wdym they've never interacted in the game do you have any idea how sad i was when i found out 😔#why did people just decide to make them a duo/ship i genuinely wanna know pls#I just know that i was convinced by the fanart keep up the good work#I like to think they have something. Idk what it is but it's SOMETHING. I just like to see them being close hgmjgjmhgu#Null be saying ominous and cultish stuff and Vinny's just like “haha okay bud do you want some of vegetable oil that i saved for you”#i feel like they'd lowkey stress each other out too#Because Vinny wouldn't understand what Null is talking about and feels a bit too uneasy about all that stuff to ask about it#And Null would get frustrated because he'd feel like Vinny is not taking him seriously#They're still friends tho Null probably tolerates Vinny the most#agahshahahahwhah I love chickensnake#roblox regretevator#regretevator fandom#regretevator fanart#regretevator null#regretevator vinny#chickensnake#you can tag this as platonic or ship i don't really mind. i like both interpretations of them
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Dear aroaces who are tired of aroallo "hostility" (aka pointing out how much aro and aroace are conflated, and how much aspec spaces treat ace as default and are full of "sex is gross" sentiment), I have a suggestion: hang out in the aspec spaces of literally any other social media instead. Because I've been on quite a few platforms now, and I promise, there are no loud obnoxious aroallos anywhere else. If you go to instagram or bluesky or reddit or whatever, they'll all be quiet and you'll once again be assumed to be the default, and all the aroallos are sad and unconfident and convinced they can never have the relationships they want
#seriously why do all these people come into the notes of an aroallo person thinking that i want to hear them bitch about my community#like#no#I'm sorry#just because i don't think aces are the devil and think they're cool actually does not mean i think aroallos should stop taking up space#aroallo#alloaro#aromantic allosexual#allosexual aromantic
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I look at all these people asking for a like/dislike button or the ability to take away kudos if a fic does something they don’t like…
We are very different people. And I really don’t get it.
Why do you want a built in anonymised function for giving negative feedback? Are we trying to make fandom like Reddit now? Because that’s a space that really promotes creativity.
Can you imagine how depressing watching your kudos count go down would be?
They are ridiculous and I lowkey resent people who think this is a good idea.
You know what I would LOVE as a new feature on ao3? A reread counter/extra kudos option. If I’ve come back to a fic after 6 months I should be able to give it another kudos or a separate thing to show that this fic has lingered with me in a way that I constantly come back to it. You’ve already left kudos here is a constant pop up for me and I would like to be able to give more positive affirmation rather than less please.
#archive of our own#ao3#like/dislike button#fanfiction#seriously who are these people#I don’t understand why people feel the need to go out of their way to tell people something negative#stop pretending negative feedback is constructive#do you even want more fanfic?#because this shit is just going to stop people from posting
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Saw one of those theorizing Reddit polls on the P4 Reddit, asking if people would want a possible Yosuke romance in the remake and it's breaking my heart that so many people in the comments are either "Eh, I'm straight so it doesn't matter" or "No because I'm romancing x other character anyway" or "No because it ruins his character by forcing us to reject him if we don't want to romance him" (That last one is like... uh.... then what about all the OTHER romanceable characters?!)
#persona 4#yosuke hanamura#Souyo#Seriously?!#I mean chances are no he isn't gonna be romanceable in the remake#If they didn't see the value in adding Kotone to the game then I doubt they're gonna see value in making Yosuke romanceable#Also considering all the other stuff they never included from P3P it make sense to me#But aside from all of that#“Eh it doesn't affect me so I don't care/don't want it” is a HELL of an argument to make#The ones that are actually breaking my heart though are all the “Noo it ruins his character!” because why? Why does it ruin his character?#Do you just not want to have an actually confirmed gay/bi guy in the game?#Do these people understand that you can be best friends with someone even if you or they reject a confession?#It just... it urks me#Not even in a “These people just don't get Yosuke as a character!”#But in a "These people actively just do not care/do not want to deal with a gay dude in a game they'd have to possibly reject#AND THEY'D ONLY HAVE TO REJECT HIM IF THEY FLIRTED!
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Shout-out to Chipp Zanuff for, after twenty some odd years, still being literally the only red-eyed person in this godforsaken series who isn't just directly related to Gears and has his own thing going on. I mean I know albinos are rare but given that Baiken somehow has naturally pink hair it's amazing it's only ever come up once
#legitimately the longer this goes on the more I feel like there has to be some kind of unspoken social issue with him#jesus fuck I really need to work on that fic#I know it's probably because of that werewolf beta concept stuff but he's been here since day one and its literally never been commented on#I mean sure if you could analyze him thoroughly obviously you could see he's just a guy#but most people wouldn't they just see a guy with Gear eyes#also every time it makes me seriously consider the phrasing of his biography in game#why would you say specifically 'abandoned shortly after birth'#like hmm wonder why you'd immediately do that after seeing what he looked like#guilty gear#chipp zanuff#op back on her bullshit
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Robin chose Steve. Robin made the conscious and deliberate decision that she could and would trust Steve. She already liked him! She had fun working and bantering with him! They were already on their way to being weird little bffs and the torture just expedited the process. Steve chose Robin just the same! He thinks she's fun and cool and likes her so much! He chose to be honest and open with her too, putting himself out there.
Even though their interests on the surface level don't match why wouldn't they share them? Steve clearly caves when Robin wants to watch a movie he doesn't think he'll like, Robin can watch a March madness game or five.
Stop trying to take away their bond oh my god people can be close to more than one person!!! Their best friend doesn't have to be dismissive or mean or whatever in order for a romance to be special to them!
#if i have to see another fic or whatever that makes it seem like robin doesnt give a shit about what steve likes and talkes about im going#to scream and maybe even rampage#its nice to sit down and have someone who knows explain who the players are and what the stakes for this particular game!!#just because yall seem to not think anyone can be nutral towards sports doesnt mean people aren't#literally why is it so hard to believe robin would like to hear steve talk as much as steve likes to hear her talk#i am so close to telling some steddie shippers to not look at steve or robin or their friendship because some of yall do Not get it.#its like you can see them go 'have to make sure eddie is the most perfect specialest boy for steve...well that means robin doesn't Get Him '#or 'robin ignores him/dismisses his interests/isnt told everything happening in his life' like okay dont ever touch them again thanks#robin is steves specialest sunshine cupcake goober girl. steve is robins bestest happy times sweet funnyman. dont u dare take that away.#omce again tsgs longer than the post but ah well.#stobin#platonic stobin#robin buckley#steve harrington#stranger things#finda's rambles#steve and robin#this is a scheduled post just to jazz things up i guess#but seriously some of yall need to STOP MESSIGN WITH STOBIN
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i have a theory that the massive amounts of hate kal skirata gets is related to the tcw-ification of the clone wars era and how it doesn't take the idea of being in a slave military all that seriously but that's an essay for another time
#verp talks#like yeah if you're viewing everything through the lense of fucking tcw everything he did is unnecessary and deranged#the stakes in repcomm are way higher#they take the idea that if you fuck up people Will Die way more seriously#in tcw no matter how bad characters fuck up through ignorance or negligence or because they were Following Their Heart it'll be ok#repcomm doesnt do that#honestly etain and kal are almost in two different genres and thats part of why they clash so bad#the other part is that theyre the same character different fonts and they both kind of hate themselves in different ways#anyways im in my phone at work so im shutting up now
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I know for a fact I've talked about the golden records, but I don't care because here is a sample of some of my favourite greetings on those discs



There is something so vulnerable, precious, and human about sending up pieces of our hearts into space. Even when we know that there may not be anybody out there to hear us, we are still whispering to whomever might listen how much we love them, how much we want to connect. No matter how small the chance is, we're taking it to say that love is real, that we are real.
How is that not something to be in awe over?
#positivity#golden record#though it's been forty-seven years since launch both voyagers have just barely left our solar system#they are between 12-15 BILLION miles away from us#that's 20-24 BILLION kilometers away#i cant go to the club i need to cry uncontrollably about this#love is real#this is why i can never seriously consider apathy to be a poignant commentary about human nature#we never HAD to include this stuff - evidence of our love to completely inconceivable peoples#in fact if we learned anything from scifi maybe it would have been better for us not to say anything at all - to lead other life RIGHT TO US#but we couldn't shut up for five minutes to not say how much we love them and our planet and how enthusiastic we were that we MIGHT be found#we couldn't stop our hand from putting in *so much* effort for the 0.000000001% chance there's Something out there...#...for the chance that that 'something' will even be ABLE to retrieve AND understand our message of love#we absolutely need more golden records <3#to love something without even knowing anything about it .... there's nothing like that in the world#because i love whatever's out there. i think about them so often. i'll unironically pray for their health and safety#do they eat enough? do they look at the stars with wonder too? what's it like to breathe their air? do they know they're loved?
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Redemption and Legacy┃┃┃A Singed x Reader ONE SHOT

Redemption isn’t a single moment. It is the sum of choices made for those we hold dear. A wholesome one shot about Singed x Reader. Contains themes of childbirth. And an amusing scene of Singed meeting your family :)
❤️ Enjoy ❤️

Singed had never imagined the possibility of turning a new page. For the past several decades, his life had been nothing but a downward spiral, consumed by the single desperate cause to undo the past, to reclaim what had been taken from him. The idea of starting anew never existed. But now, he sat outside a delivery room, waiting for you to give birth to your second daughter. His hands resting on his knees, his scarred fingers twitching slightly with every muffled sound from inside. He’d heard screams before. He’d been the reason behind screams before, more times than he could count. Agonized wails, desperate cries, pleas for mercy, each one carved into the darkest corners of his memory. But this was unlike any of that. This wasn’t the sound of fear or suffering he had inflicted; it was you, his wife and his light, crying out in pain, and he couldn’t escape the gut-wrenching helplessness of it. It clawed at him, an unbearable weight pressing against his chest, louder than any laboratory explosion or battlefield roar. He wasn’t the cause this time, not directly anyway, but he wasn’t the cure either, and that terrified him more than anything else.

He had been low. So low the thought of ever crawling back out never as much as crossed his mind. Dragging others into his descent had been a necessary evil, or so he told himself. Emotions were for others, for the weak. He didn’t feel. He calculated, hypothesized, and executed. That’s what it meant to be a scientist.
Until you.
He had met you on a particularly grim evening in Zaun, having a drink in a dimly lit, greasy bar with some friends of yours. He wasn’t there to revel in the fleeting comforts of alcohol but to dull the gnawing ache inside him, which, despite years of carefully bottling his emotions, sealing them away like dangerous chemicals in an unmarked flask, sometimes resurfaced, clawing its way out.
Yet, as he stared into the amber depths of his glass, a woman’s voice broke through the static.
“You look like you could use another.” A drink, placed before him. He looked up and saw you. A woman who didn’t belong in this world. Young, vibrant, glowing with a light that felt blasphemous in the grimy, muted tones of the filthy Undercity. At first, he thought it a jest, some cruel joke among the youth you were with. But you stayed. And for reasons beyond his comprehension, he let you.
He had told himself to keep his distance, that you didn’t know what you were inviting into your life. Yet, with each passing encounter, you, a Piltover woman who saw beyond his sins and scars, pulled him closer.
You had made him want to change.
It hadn’t been easy. Decades of habits couldn’t be erased overnight. But the moment you told him you were carrying his child, everything shifted. He had looked at his hands, stained with the past, and had no other choice but to. For you. For your child.
He remembered the day you introduced him to your family. He, Singed, Zaun’s pariah, Piltover’s exile, had tailored a suit, his scars hidden beneath layers of fabric and freshly-washed bandages. Meeting your father, a man his own age, was a peculiar sort of torment. For him and your father, it was an unspoken battle of wills, and the stakes couldn’t have felt higher. And you loved them both dearly, but watching them silently stress themselves.
He remembers you just floating through the evening with an amused grin, pouring drinks, cracking jokes, and watching them both squirm, “Dad, I think you’ll like him. He knows a loooot about chemistry,” you added fuel to the fire with a grin, earning a sharp side-eye from him and an even sharper fork stab into your father’s potatoes.
He had spent the entire evening waiting for rejection, for the inevitable moment when your parents would denounce him.
And when your mother and grandmother saw him at the potluck they’d hosted to “meet the one who’d finally captured their daughter’s heart”, they nearly passed out. Their polite smiles faltered, their eyes darting over his scarred face and weathered demeanor, desperately trying to reconcile the man before them with the man they’d imagined.
But what choice did they have? He’d already given them a grandchild. Such bright and beautiful baby. And now, with another one on the way, nobody’s reservations had any room to grow. They also couldn’t deny the way you looked at him with devotion that spoke louder than any words ever could, or the way he stood by your side, as though ready to destroy anyone who so much as thought of causing you harm.
That day every glance, every word seemed laden with judgment to a tangible extend, and though he hid it well, you could see the effort it took for him to stay composed. You found it almost endearing, and surely beyond amusing, though he’d probably never forgive you for not taking it seriously.
Returning to Piltover had been surprisingly uneventful.
And yet, through it all, he found solace in fatherhood. He hadn’t expected to be good at it, but you had shown him otherwise. Your first daughter had quieted in his arms before she had even calmed in yours, her tiny fingers wrapping around his scarred ones.
That day, for the first time in decades, Singed willingly indulged himself in emotion.

The sound of a door creaking pulled him from his thoughts. A nurse stepped out, her face paling slightly as she took him in.
He stood immediately, his heart pounding so loudly the nurse could likely hear it. This stress couldn’t possibly be good for his age, he had mentally noted, though the thought was fleeting. You didn’t want to be apart from him, not now, not in your most vulnerable moment, and he would never tell you no. Not to this. Not to you.
Sweat clung to your forehead, your face strained with exhaustion, but you smiled when you saw him. “I want you here,” you whispered, your voice trembling.
He would do anything for you.
Moving to your side, Singed repositioned you gently, his knowledge of anatomy guiding his hands.
Hours passed, but he didnt waver. The tension in the room ebbed and flowed with each contraction, but he remained steady amidst the storm of pain and anticipation. When the moment finally came, he moved with precision and calm, his hands as sure as they had ever been in the laboratory, though this time they were bringing life into the world instead of unraveling it.
You’d insisted he deliver your second daughter himself, so he did, catching her tiny, wriggling form. The first sound she made was a piercing wail, her lungs announcing her arrival with ferocity. Her tiny fists flailed, her face scrunched in indignation at the cold air of the world outside the warmth of the womb. For a moment, everything else, the chaos, the exhaustion, the years of doubt, all faded away, and the room was silent save for her cries. It was a sound that filled the space with hope.
He handed her to you carefully, his breath catching as he watched you cradle her to your chest. You were exhausted, your eyes heavy with sleep, but you looked up at him and smiled.
Singed knew, with absolute certainty, that he would tear the world apart piece by piece, leave it smoldering and broken at his feet, if it meant keeping you happy. Nothing, no force would ever stand between you and the life you deserved.
Not while he drew breath.

#Singed x you#arcane fanfiction#arcane fic#arcane season 2 spoilers#league of legends#singed#arcane singed#i need more singed content#arcane s2#arcane x reader#arcane x you#Singed x reader#corin reveck#I seriously wish more people would write about him because it feels like I’m the only one out here.#I seriously don’t get why there isn’t more love for Singed.#Sure#he’s canonically around 70#but he looks great for his age#and he would literally do anything for the people he cares about#I crave to be loved to the extent someone would destroy the world for me
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I'm reading character rankings and Downton Abbey and apparently we are supposed to be annoyed at Branson when he shows up for....being right about class issues? Being a socialist? Annoying the Crawleys by making them think about the ethics of their money? Like seriously what am I missing here?
Multiple articles talk about him like he only became a good guy once he shut up and became one with the Crawley Aristocrat Horde but honestly I found him kind of boring when he didn't have a love interest. And speaking of, when he did have a love interest---the way poor Sarah was talked about jfc. When she showed up I was like "okay great I love her and her finally calling him on losing his socialist principles once the palace doors were opened to him, she's going to bring him back to his morals" but instead she was thrown out and treated like the absolute devil incarnate and all the protagonists joked about how obviously evil she was because as Mrs. Hughes said "heaven forbid we contradict the holy Family."
#i thought the whole point was that he was pretty much right#like his first cause is literally “women deserve the vote”#and he gets Sybil into politics which is a good thing and treated as such in the narrative#and he's against the filthy amount of wealth these people have but doesn't want to see their homes burnt in front of their kids#like he's a reasonable guy who just understands the scale of the inequality#one of my favorite moments of him is when he goes downstairs after announcing he and Sybil are engaged#and Mr. Carson asks “HAVE YOU NO SHAME???” because this is literally the worst thing a servant could do in his mind#seduce a daughter of The Family#and Branson looks at him and is like “No I have no shame” because seriously why not they are two consenting adults#and everyone is like O.O “....are we allowed to do that...no one told us we were allowed to do that....”#I guess that might be why people get annoyed at him#because the articles talk about how he acts “superior”#but he doesn't act any more superior than The Family#So in a show that does frame The Family as inherently worthy of their money through divine right I guess#having This Guy act just as entitled to Thoughts might be jarring#anyway I am an early season Branson fan#and a Sarah stan#she is probably the most underrated character#the sheer amount of confidence it takes as a working class woman to argue with an earl in his own house while he has higher ranked guests#anyway I don't get the early dislike for him#like it's one thing from english tv writers who i get being weirdly nostalgic for ye olden times#but like the articles surprise me#tom branson#downton abbey#sarah bunting
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...I seriously cannot stress how much I hate tags like "Give us BAMF Aziraphale" because it seems to imply that he's not badass.
He IS. Tell me how well most people could endure 6000 years of consistent, persistent demoralization, harassment and shitty treatment without snapping?
Do you know how HARD it is to be kind when you've been put through a system that actively discourages kindness and softness, a system that tries to beat it out of you - not physically, but still. The fact that Aziraphale got through all of that and is not just still kind, but still has the capacity to be kind to the very people who hurt him, is fucking remarkable.
Aziraphale is badass. Period. Full Stop.
It's well past time that we stopped equating physical and fighting prowess as a measure of badassery. Just about anyone can exercise and get strong enough to fight someone. Just about anyone could possibly get weapons training. Neither of these things is half as brave as putting yourself in front of a crowd of people and holding off 70 demons with just conviction and a candleholder because it's the RIGHT THING TO DO.
EDIT: I had to add this while I was thinking of it.
I feel like people are buying into Heaven's version of badassery. Angels were made to FIGHT. To fight the last big battle against demons and Hell.
Aziraphale is a deviation because he DOES NOT WANT THAT. He doesn't want to fight a war that will hurt billions and destroy the world. His defining moment in Season 1 is when he stands in the face of the quartermaster and refuses to fight the way they want him to. Instead of a weapon, he chooses to find another way.
If anything, I would think it's leading to the idea that Aziraphale feels he must fight, that he has no choice, and then, when it comes right down to it, finding another way. A kinder way. A BETTER way.
By the standards of Heaven, Aziraphale picking up his sword and fighting would be Normal. Him refusing and finding another way is what makes him Unique. THAT'S what makes him badass.
#Aziraphale is already a BAMF#miss me with these takes about how Aziraphale needs to toughen up#aziraphale#good omens#good omens meta#bamf aziraphale#I hate that tag#I hate it because it's only ever used for “Aziraphale beats people up with a sword” and never used for Aziraphale as he is#...also on a personal note#I hate bearded “manly” Aziraphale with a passion#why do people just want to make him more masculine?#Seriously wtf#Masculinity and badassery do not go hand in hand that's a very toxic masculinity rooted idea right there.#the one exception I would see is if they channeled Mrs Robinson a bit and kept the femme quality that makes him so delightful.#i mean obviously do what you want in fandom but people have literally been asking Neil to give Aziraphale a beard#Neil's response was that he wasn't going to do something because fandom asked for it but it's so rude to try and force it
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ALSO LIKE A THING I NOTICED NOW BECAUSE I NEVER LOOK AT THESE I ONLY LOOK AT THE COMMENTS/TAGS BECAUSE I LIKE SEEING WHAT YOU GUYS SAY.
Why are there so many of you. I don't fit you all in my house. I don't even know how to thank you kMDLWQKNE
UHM?? You guys are cool thanks for giving me a place to ramble? And post my little sketches. That you seem to like
It means a lot to me
UHM UHM HERE !! HAVE- HAVE MORE OF MY SIFLOOP SKETCHES BECAUSE I TEND TO DO THEM ON MY FREE TIME
There's also a sifzaloop hidden in there
Haha.
#isat#in stars and time#pipposketchdump#isat fanart#isat siffrin#isat loop#isat isabeau#isat sifzaloop#isat sifloop#seriously#it means a lot to me.#a lot of you said you like my art and like how I did and it IS kinda the reason why I keep drawing sometimes#Maybe ignore this? Because it gets a bit EMO#but I have a hard time at art even when I do it just for myself#so knowing someone other than me appreciates it as much (sometimes more) as I do#puts a smile on my face#and makes me want to create more#everyone on the fandom has been a huge inspo#anyway yeah#I like isat and it makes me emo that more people like the silly things I most of the time do for myself about said game I like#its still new to me#ANYWAY#THATS ENOUGH TAGS#SORRY GUYS.#love you all#platonically.
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I've sometimes seen people who are in the conversion process wondering, "wouldn't it better if I was just an ally?" and it's something I've felt before, too, until I realized that what I was doing was conflating a sense of belonging with allyship in a way that can be almost disingenuous.
I know for myself personally, I don't feel a sense of belonging when I ally myself with a group of people. As a man, I don't feel I belong with women simply because I ally myself with them. I have always considered myself someone who allied themself with jews, but there was something deeper about this allyship. I felt belonging in ways I never did with other groups I allied with. It was always an inexplicable, unshakable feeling of belonging that told me my allyship was rooted in something deeper than just conviction.
I can only speak for myself, but I found that I continuously questioned my motives for conversion to the point where I was preventing myself from doing anything. I've realized that were I to remain an ally, I would not feel fulfilled in life because my connection to judaism runs too deeply, and it always has.
#jumblr#jew by choice#jewish conversion#personal thoughts tag#see and this is also why i don't necessarily think that there's this super super alarming number of allies becoming jewish#though i would say a majority of converts started as allies or at least started with fondness for jews#i think for people starting a journey out as an ally they will be able to discern if judaism isn't right for them#so i tend to take people seriously when they express a desire to convert. if it's not for them they will find that out eventually#like for myself i started *incredibly* sympathetic to jews. and the more i learned the more i felt a deeper pull#i just *personally* don't like this question because it can sometimes sound like people don't trust that i can differentiate my own motives#i don't like calling myself an ally of a different group but i *do* ally myself with a LOT of people and causes#in none of these groups that i ally with am i confused as to my feelings and motivations for allying with them#i'm by no means saying that i have The Correct feelings about this - i'm honestly just talking
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genuinely hilarious btw how people on twt want soo bad to make matteo a villain in jannik's story or some shit like it's a disney movie. less than a month ago he said they'd talked recently and he's never had anything but good things to say about jannik but to some people it'll never be enough because he made a decision for his career that i understand is hard to digest but it has nothing to do with his relationship with jannik, jannik himself said it doesn't bother him, they both have never indicated they weren't on good terms. like yeah we can't ever really know the truth behind what they say in public, but i think we should stick with what we can see and read, yeah? because making wild assumptions based on nothing doesn't lead to anything good, it's just speculation and i don't see what anyone gains from it?? i think maybe some people need to grow up and accept that they don't know these people. they don't know jannik and what he thinks or feels or who he talks to or who avoids him or whatever. we know what he shows and tells us and that has to be enough because otherwise we go down dangerous paths
#these people don't even write fanfiction they don't even speculate for the fun purpose of writing gay sex#they don't have fun at all they just enjoy making their own blood boil#(jokes aside obviously we shouldn't go too far even if it's done for fun or fanfiction or whatever#there are always lines not to be crossed)#anyway if i can be perfectly honest i think some people just have something against matteo and have for some time#and they JUMPED at the chance of having a “good reason” to say shit about him#now i'm not saying everyone has to like him. and the same thing i said about jannik goes for matteo. i don't KNOW him#but again. i see what he shows of himself and he's quite an open person#and nothing i've seen of him has ever made me think he doesn't give a shit about his teammates and his friends#is jannik his friend? idk man only they can put a label on their relationship if they even want to#but clearly they're on good terms and like each other - from what they've always said as both players and people#and if people want to believe all his words about jannik are empty and meaningless then fine. i personally don't see it that way#because i have no reason to from - again - what matteo has showed of himself over all these years#anyway i rambled but this bothers me a bit#i'm not even looking at this from a ship perspective idc that's just for fun#i'm just bothered by the way people try to skew reality to prove their own theories because they don't like someone#and act like they're some kind of protectors of jannik or something (as if jannik needs it. he's a grown man with people around him who#actually care about and know him)#and then these same people don't even give a crap about people on the tour who are actually bad people. in the most objective sense#petty speculation about who's a friend and who isn't and not even a minute spent talking about the domestic abusers who are THE problem#in this sport. i'm not comparing the two things to be clear i'm just saying it frustrates me that this is how people want to do justice or#whatever the fuck when they could shine light on things that matter. i know i know they're different things#and we all talk about things that don't truly matter all the time#i just think. if you're taking things seriously#take things that ACTUALLY matter seriously. not fucking. matteo's one who didn't send jannik a text because he hates him#like WHY are you wasting time with these baseless speculations and you're being FOR REAL#i understand a bit of like. fun speculation ooooohh who was he talking about 🤭#but there's people in italian tennis spaces online who are actually like serious about this matteo and jannik have fought shit#and they're under every fucking tweet going ON about it. PUT THAT ENERGY SOMEWHERE THAT FUCKING MATTERS !!!!#whatever. whatever
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