#(I can't tell because I'm still in the same environment 😂)

[bi-bats]

5, 8, 12, 13, 30? 💕

Hello hello!!!! thanks for the ask bestie 💕💚💖

5. What is the perfect environment for you to write in?

Honestly, anywhere. I'm almost always writing. I use the dabble app to write in so I can write from both my computer and my phone and it uploads everything, and seriously it's perfect because I'm almost always writing in my head so I can always jot down an idea. I write in the passenger seat of a car, I write in my break room at work, I write in cafes, I write while I'm waiting for appointments, I write at the supermarket, I write when I'm walking to the corner store, I write in front of my stove and at my dining room table and in my office and on my couch and in the bathroom and in my bed. I've written while I was getting dinner with friends and while I was sitting through trailers at the movies and while I was waiting for a concert to start. My fics are basically like stim toys to me? I'm always writing.

My favorite place to write is probably my couch, though. Some music playing, stupid late at night, with a cup of tea.

8. Do you listen to music while you write? If so, share a song that's been inspiring you lately.

I answered this in one of the last ones, but yes, I do! I'll give you three more songs inspiring me lately though:

Gilded Lily by Cults (this is very Tim in the JTK mental health fic to me. Or actually it's very Tim always to me.)

Help, I'm Alive by Metric (And this is a very Kon song to me!)

It's All So Incredibly Loud by Metric (And this is very any ship with Tim in it to me!!)

It's pretty clear from these songs and lyrics that I only write characters who are unwell in some form or another 😂

12. Is there a trope you haven't written yet but really want to?

YeAHHH WE WERE JUST TALKING ABT THIS THE OTHER DAY BUT I WANT TO WRITE A FIC WITH T4T JAYTIM!!! I really want to do more works where one or both of them are trans actually, but I always want to actually dig into it and in so many of my current wips I feel like there isn't space to do it justice andmaybepartofitismebeinglikeamItransenoughtowritethat?maybeit'snotmyspaceI'mjustathey/them

13. Is there a trope you wouldn't write if it was the last trope on earth?

A crossover fic 😂 tbh I just don't vibe with crossovers, but power to people who enjoy them! That feels like a category more than a trope though, so I'll give you another one: high school au. I just don't want to think about high school at all, ever. It was not a pleasant time for me and I'd much rather read and write about characters having issues that I can still relate to

30. Tell us an idea for a longfic you want to write in the future.

I'm really digging rn for a longfic idea that I haven't talked about at all, but also ESPECIALLY TO YOU BC YOU'VE HEARD A BUNCH OF THEM ALREADY 😂

OH OH OH I FOUND ONE!!!

OKAY IT'S AN IDENTITY PORN LOVE SQUARE JAYTIM!! BUT NOT THE OTHER ONE I'VE TALKED ABOUT BC I HAD TWO IDEAS AT THE SAME TIME!!!

okay SO in this one, Jason (who's fully detached from the batfam and in this, his identity was never revealed) and Tim meet at college as students and start dating (mostly bc Bruce was on Tim's ass about dating since he deserves a life outside of work/school/red robin but also partially because he thought it'd be nice to hookup with Jason, he's gorgeous after all) and it goes pretty well, but like ALWAYS w Tim he can't keep up the relationship and his day and night jobs at the same time, and eventually Jason tells him after Tim tries to leave on ANOTHER date that if he has to go, he can go, but he can either tell him what's really going on, or he can't come back.

So Tim doesn't come back.

And then he starts hooking up with Red Hood!! because they have insane chemistry and UST and Tim is pent up after losing his best sexual partner ever and Red Hood starts hitting on him and he's such an asshole and OOPS! And then they start hooking up more, but never at someone's place, etc. etc.

At some point or another Jason ends up in trouble (out of the Red Hood helmet, he's just out as Jason at the college and he doesn't have a helmet or guns on him) and RR helps him out, but Jason ends up helping as Jason, and then Jason wants to go look for Tim and RR has to stop him, which is also weird because Jason has been refusing to even look at Tim so he's surprised that Jason still cares? Like, Tim is his first thought after the fight is over? What?

Anyways after that, the next time Red Robin is out he gets caught in the crossfire with Hood and he gets knocked out, and then Hood takes him back to his safehouse and doesn't take off his mask bc he's respectful, but RR wakes up and realizes that the apartment is Jason's and remembers how well he handled the situation at the school and he realizes that Jason is Red Hood and shitshitshitshitshit that's his ex-boyfriend and also his current fuckbuddy, he can't even call them fwb because they aren't friends-

anyways, that's all I have for that one so far actually 😂 but yeah I love a good identity porn/love square fic!! Hopefully I'll write it one day 😂

Thanks for the ask!!! I hope you enjoyed reading these, I love when you send me ask game asks and you ALWAYS come through, thank you Leo 💖

send me an ask from this ask game! If you go through the tag batsasks on my blog you can see which I've already been asked (except for 1, 10, and 23, I see you Tauria and I'm getting to you I promise)

[unhingedhearties]

I'm Not Even Supposed to Be Here Today

I should be getting ready for a big family event (that of course has to happen while the new season airs. Good thing there's space on the TV to record the rest of the season) but then THIS catches my eye, and I can't not share it:

I see the name Writer Janine so I know this is going to be good.

Oh! It's been a post or two since I've explained it, so here's a refresher for those who don't know who Writer Janine is. Writer Janine is the Heartie who wasted no time calling Lucabeth breaking up a massacre right after a real world massacre happened and when asked to rethink her choice of words since it was grossly inappropriate, doubled down because the slaughter of innocent people half a world over means nothing to her.

Never. Ever. Forget. That.

So this is what this brilliant mind wrote:

You'll notice a lot of the same words get reused. Hmm... I feel like I've pointed this out before 🤔

Wow, it's almost like Mei and Mike are in love or something. It's almost like Mei's only ever been in an abusive relationship and Mike's in his first real relationship and they're both nervous and happy about it. But other people (real or fictional) can't be happy. That's not allowed! Not when Team Lucas fans are still hurting 7 freaking months after their soap opera didn't end the way they wanted.

Bill Avery... lousy inspector *literally travels to the scene of the crime & figures out Pike's testimony doesn't add up with nothing more than a stopwatch and his own 2 feet.*

😂 This woman watched WCTH, believes this and actually thinks she's a writer. It's like a dog thinking it's people.

disloyal, disloyal, disloyal etc...

Janine, this show doesn't take place on Kashyyyk and the cast isn't made up of Wookiees. No one has a life debt to Lucas. Especially when they've known Elizabeth far longer. And yes, Lucas is a fraud, a crook and con. I'm sorry him being interesting triggers you this much. We like us some bad boys here, not neutered down tea sippers. It's time for him to dip into the whiskey and have a real drink like a man's man.

Little Jack easily transfers affections from his dad for half his life to mom's new guy.

Okay, I've got to say this first. White Americans have the weirdest relationship with the concept of "community". You all claim to want it, you cry about how it apparently doesn't exist anymore, you idolize some long-gone concept of community from "the good old days", but when you actually see what a loving, supportive community of people is (usually from *gasp* large immigrant families) you fall apart. Community isn't going to your mega church once a week to gossip about which families looked at you the wrong way or aren't raising their children in a way you approve of. It's family and friends you trust pitching in, going out of your way to lend your time and help when someone needs it instead of just sending "thoughts and prayers", and doing what you can to create a positive environment not just for your kids, but all the kids around you. Especially with kids that are experiencing difficult circumstances like, I don't know, one parent leaving or dying. Like Elizabeth and LJ.

I remember 30 years ago when people were quoting the phrase "It Takes A Village To Raise A Child" like they were profound scholars, but never put it into practice because the reality of what that means sent them into a tizzy. That's why I love Faith looking after Lilly and the whole Daycare Center plot. Everyone pitches in to help the kids and community grow.

A four year old boy having several positive male role models in his life isn't going to harm him. Lucas wasn't LJ's "dad" for half his life, he was his buddy. And his buddy is still a positive influence in his life. And if it surprises you that LJ has affection for the Mountie that's kind to him and shares the same job as his biological father, I don't know what to tell you (besides that you're a shit writer if you didn't see that coming).

Anyway, how about some of the responses:

Oh Lynne, you sweet summer child. I wish I had your optimism.

Oh my God, we're still doing this!?

Team Lucas Stop Deflecting And Actually Address The Horrible Behavior From Your Side Challenge: Impossible.

Stop. You do not want to be this kind of person. You need to stop ignoring when a handful of people you agree with do awful things and you need to stop bring up the awful behavior of the handful of lunatics from the side you hate as deflection. If you live your life like this, it will come back to bite you in the ass. If you really want to keep acting like this though, I have no problem pinning the reprehensible behavior of people like Janine and Liz onto all Lucas fans. If you want to be this way, I can start saying all Lucas fans think the massacres in the middle east aren't that big of a deal and that Ben Rosenbaum raising money to fight MS really pisses them off. The choice is yours.

"talks down on her ex's love language"

AAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHH! I've ranted enough on this post and don't have time to go into this, so I'll leave it up to people who have said it before and better than I could: Love Language is bullshit part 1

Love Language is bullshit part 2

Love Language is bullshit part 3

Love Language is bullshit part Just Go Here

[atherix]

Hello hi good evening, I am having some Thoughts and Feelings about the latest midnight chapter and I thought I would share.

First of all: aaaah adkjsahkjahdasjkhd

With that out of the way, some more coherent thoughts.

I love the way the cultural/class differences between Grian and Scar are highlighted in the camping conversation. Just a really good character moment for both of them. And also? Scar knowing about the greenhouse project? Scar knowing specifically because Grian just asked him about his theoretical dream greenhouse? I love them all dearly, they are all gay disasters <3

Scar being like *talks about that time he was ready to sacrifice everything so his son could get home safe* *talks about the times he took his son camping so they could bond* *talks about how he taught himself to cook for his son* and he still doesn't think he compares to his own father? My dude. Scar. I love him so much but pls.

*Taking notes on all of the new fae lore*

I love the sentence "They glimmer with Fairy and firelight, and for a moment Grian isn’t sure if the golden glow is reflection or magic." It's so evocative and such a good use of the third person pov. There's several other examples of that I could mention, this one was just my favourite. I stopped to read it out loud several times over.

Really enjoying how Grian is once again surprised Scar treats him differently now that they're together. Man is really like "wait there's boyfriend in this boyfriend???" Love that for him 😂

Oh and speaking of Grian. Really eyeing the way he always reacts so strongly to fairy lights. It is very Interesting. I mean, definitely fits his character, but I am also always a little suspicious of you and your amazing foreshadowing.

I love love love fae characters being deceptive and cunning and uncanny, and anything that shines a light on how disturbing their suggestion magic can be, so I was eating this whole thing up. Scar getting to be cool and powerful, while the story also makes it very clear that he is still holding back because some things are Too Far. And the fact that he can still be pushed to do it? Yes, amazing, stunning.

On that note, I am also encouraging your writing the Scar's adventure aside, btw. I love how you write Scar doing magic, and how you handle his character in those moments. It's always so evocative.

Lastly? I adore those moments where you can tell that Mumbo and Grian are slowly going from being Tubbo's dad's boyfriends to being his stepdads. The way he complains about them flirting the same way he complains about Scar flirting with them? Good (but also poor kid 😂).

In conclusion: I am once again asking everyone to go and read Midnight.

hgdfjkgfjk <3 I love to hear thoughts and feelings even if I take forever to get to answering them <3

beautiful, eloquent, couldn't say it better myself <3

I absolutely love contrasts, it's so fun to write about them <3 Especially since Scar and Grian were raised in similar yet extremely different environments and just hjgfdhjk The ONLY time Scar isn't oblivious to something is when Grian hopes he will be LMAO. Flirt with him for a couple months and the man won't think "oh gee I think maybe they have feelings for me" but ask him about his theoretical dream greenhouse and "Ah I see what they are doing here" hfdjh

Scar loves his father more than he has ever loved himself </3 He can't see that he is repeating the cycle just as good a father as his was </3

I am always happy to toss out Fae lore. I have a couple more Fae lore points that will come up in the next few stories 👀 Including a Fae story hehe-

I am a poetic bitch and I LOVE writing lines like that <3 I have been known in other fandoms to write lines that wham people so I'm glad to see I can continue that here hehe-

"Wait there's boyfriend in this boyfriend??" WHEEZE jkfgdsjkfgjhsd I cackled at this omg but it's so true. Grian really over here forgetting for a whole minute that Scar will actually respond to him flirting/his advances now because he's allowed to lmaoooj hjkfd

:) Well I mean it DID lead him to getting kidnapped before so uh :)

Hehehe when you really think about it, the suggestion magic all Fae have.... is really quite disturbing. It was used to kidnap people in the past, used to lead people deeper into the woods to never be seen again.... and I am excited that I get to explore the more disturbing and less sorcery-feeling side of Scar's magic now <3 I mean certainly it doesn't mean something that NOW he's started letting his more Fae-ish side take precedence... hmhm I love him <3 something something humanity and human isn't the same something something it's not the how it's the why something something-

hehe how could I not write this :) So he doesn't cast his magic like he usually would in this little fic, he is 100% using Fae tactic here instead of his typical Fae-Sorcery mix, buuuut... hehe-

Stitch and I made a joke about the moment Tubbo realizes he has three dads, not one, but I can't share it because it is MAJOR spoilers. But :) Just know that Tubbo is the last person to realize LMAO but I am having so much fun writing the evolution of their relationship hjkfdg

hhh <3<3<3

[a-spell-a-rebel-yell]

March

hello friends from faraway! i'm on time because guess what... i'm done with my assignments (for now)! finally 😭😭😭

quite literally underestimated second semester to be much easier and less busy than first semester... oh how horribly wrong i was. the mount of assignments is no joke. more classes and more professors mean more presentations i have to do. but do not worry your girl is always on top of everything and is proud to say i've always finished my assignments long before the deadline. this proven can be a double edged sword kind of thing - my profs have very high expectations on me and many times i'm picked to be the first to present or to teach the class 🧍‍♀️ the most hilarious thing about this was that some profs keep asking me whether i come from prestigious universities (Ul, UGM, Unpad etc) whenever i was able to answer their questions accordingly, and the shock on their faces when i told them i came from a private uni 😭😂 this happened three times and to me it's a very interesting experience to observe...

the double edged sword being that i remember my mum saying i could be a 'target' and that naturally people will 'latch' onto me - and she wasn't wrong. there were occasions where i bear the burden having to explain everything to everyone because the prof deemed me capable to replace her to teach, or having a classmate that keeps asking me gazillion things about our assignments when it was already explained clearly beforehand, and the worst of all is having someone copy my work (i can't say no because i'm the youngest, remember...) i did not literally spent hours every day reading textbooks and journals for this individual to copy paste what i've written in just a few secs!? well thankfully i can be more assertive these days and tell them i do not accept to be treated this way, and it was resolved quickly... but you see, my mum is right. i'm the target 🤪

but other than that school is fun. i love learning new things. i feel like i've found the thing i'm interested the most because instead of getting scared about new things now i kinda become more intrigued and excited! still have my anxious, overthinking self popping in here and there, but i've adjusted to it. here i feel like your surrounding really does shape you, in a way now i'm in an environment where curiosity and the thirst to chase answers are highly appreciated, so i become one who questions almost everything. everyone is always prepared, with knowledge on one hand and experience on the other, so i act just as such. at my prev uni all those didn't matter much so i did feel like my mind was dulled and dimmed back then...

in the same note, this month i finally get to experience a class with a 'unique' prof, a different kind... i don't mean it in a negative undertone but he is thought provoking, if i may say. his way of teaching is like tiptoeing on thin ice and free diving at the same time, every meeting leaves an impression, an indent in my mind for sure 😂 but i must add he is very smart, has unfaltering integrity, and i respect him for that. definitely a very interesting persona and a cool lecturer! will study about preadjusted Edgewise system under his supervision, excited to start because this is the most commonly used bracket system these days.

also March this year is special because of Ramadan is here! when Ramadan started thankfully i've done 1/3 of my assignments so they didn't interfere with my prayers. what it did is mess up my sleep schedule 😂 some of my classes start at 7 AM and lasts through until 12 PM, and the lot of us could barely stopped ourselves from falling asleep at class 😭 but anyways i pulled through and made a Ramadan special schedule where i have to stop working by 6 PM, the rest of the night is for prayers and Quran reading. and no matter how exhausted i am, i will always try to go to the mosque and do 23 rakaah of taraweeh prayers. at the mosque near my house it lasted from 7-10 PM... sometimes i feel like my feet is about to fall off or that my body is too tired, but then i remember i could literally spend almost 12 hours to queue and see coldplay back at Singapore so now how could i even dare not to spend 3 hours to see Allah? that's an instant energy boost for sure 🥺

midway Ramadan, we had our first ever orthodontics dept gathering for break fasting! the tricky part of this was that my year had to prepare a performance, and can you imagine all of us swamped by assignments and fasting, yet we still have to rehearse a performance!? 😂 as per usual i became the class' ghost coordinator - if it weren't for me pushing my classmates around to do things they won't do it lol and so finally we came up with a simple choreo and kak Omi's husband provided us a song to dance to. the performance wasn't really a success as expected hahaha but our profs and seniors said they appreciated the effort 🤪 syncing our moves was so hard but oh well we tried!

at the end of March, i got to meet the barudaks - Dimas/Aria/Kanti/Syifa and it's our new group name lol it was 4/4 before 😂 the weirdest mismatched bunch from senior high school that somehow became my closest friends... well that tends to happen when reality lumped you in lol. this time we celebrated Kanti's bday and her return from her internship at Maluku. had a potluck and everyone had to bring food with their initials as the first letter of its name, i brought (s)iomay! spent 5 hours playing at Aria's house and just talk about anything from job to love life, playing Nintendo Switch, it was so much fun i love laughing a lot with them!

oh boy March has been quite eventful! halfway done with second semester, can you believe it!? i feel like as i get older time somehow moves faster, i'm now about to prepare to enter my clinical years starting in third semester... more exciting things to come! will visit Bali twice (Menjangan at May 20-22 for huge ortho dept gathering and social charities, then Denpasar at September 19-21 for Indonesian Association of Orthodontist annual meeting) and other seminars 🤩🤩

right now we're entering the last 10 days of Ramadan and i'm feeling emotional as usual because how can it end so fast!? i feel like i haven't done much this time. so much rain these days and i can only keep reciting my prayers... may Allah grants us the chance to see Ramadan again next month 🙏🏻

well, that is all for now. see you on April post. until then, keep yourself healthy and happy, my dear friends 💙

[dreamwritesimagines]

OMG OMG DARLIIING!

Aaaaaa I'm so so SO excited for this I AM SMILING ALREADY😍

Yeeees her uncle and aunt love her so much! 😍 And when she and Benedict have their daughter, she will totally call them grandma and grandpa and they will spoil her so much! 😍

I actually think her uncle wasn't aware of what Josie, Clover and Teddy's home life was like at all, and it was Josie who informed him with a letter ❤️ That was when they decided they would do anything to get them out of that environment❤️

Ooooh I absolutely love this idea! 😍 I agree, them buying the house for Benedict and Clover was a way of ensuring Clover they would be there for her even if Benedict's name is on everything, and the fact that their house is similar to that one is a great way to remind her that! 😍

Benedict was planning on buying the house but uncle Howard insisted ❤️ I think they get along well because he can tell that Benedict is in love with Clover❤️ But he doesn't know about the situation with Clover's parents yet😈

Clover offering to divide the house definitely surprised Benedict because just like you said, he wants to create a home with Clover meanwhile Clover is trying to make sure her emotional walls stand strong ❤️Especially considering Benedict grew up in a loving home with parents who were in love with each other and adored their children, he can't understand why Clover is like that yet 😏 He will be such an important figure in Teddy's life! ❤️

With the greenhouse in view, Benedict will never struggle for inspiration –  all he will have to do is glance outside and be transported back to the night when he fell in love, the night when he realised that Clover would be the great love of his life. I AM MELTING AT THIS IDEA, THIS IS GENIUS MY LOVE! 😍 He would totally tell Clover that 🥰

Lolll oh yeah, their wedding night and honeymoon will be very very different than Anthony and Cherie's 😂 Those two did refuse to leave the bed😂😈 Meanwhile things will be awkward for Clover and Benedict because there is so much yearning and denial at the same time 😂

Benedict was going to try to reassure her because he saw her expression when they were by the bedroom❤️

We know that Clover continues to baffle and excite Benedict (which I don’t think will ever change), but I think Clover is baffled and amazed in Benedict in equal measure.  She knows that he is an artist – an incredibly talented one – and that he is less conventional than his peers, but he still doesn’t behave the way men tend to behave.  She finds delight in being with him.

This is so true! Like, she actually misses him and looks for him in every outing even if she doesn't even notice it yet ❤️ She is falling in love with him more and more every day ❤️ It will take her a bit to lower her guard but when she does, it will be so sweet😍

Yesssss there will be these small and subtle gestures that even Clover doesn't realize that shows she feels so comfortable around Benedict 😍

And Clover admires and respects Benedict's art and talent so much! ❤️ Like, she will be incredibly supportive and proud of him ❤️ And Josie would totally notice that😂

I love the image of Clover criticizing everyone's art except Benedict's 🥰

Yessss I totally agree, and Clover was actually walking away when Kitty dragged Benedict into it and brought up her parents 😈 She wasn't trying to get into that argument with her😏

For Kitty to have the audacity to claim she knows Benedict’s character and that he would have married her – well Clover is offended on Benedict’s behalf, because to her no-one but Lottie is worthy of Benedict’s heart. CLOVER LOVES HER BFF SO MUCH OMG SHE THINKS SO HIGHLY OF HER AND BENEDICT 😍

That was the first time she laid claim to Benedict! ❤️ And she didn't even plan it, she was actually totally sincere and proud of the fact that he's in love with her 😍

They will both be incredibly protective of each other especially as they get closer 🥰

Darling omg it means so much to me to hear this! 😍❤️ You've made me very happy with this, you're so kind and sweet and amazing! 😍❤️🥰

Thank you so so much for this! ❤️❤️❤️

Garden of Secrets [12] - Hydrangeas

A.N: Thank you so much for your wonderful feedback and support my loves, it made my whole week, you��re amazing!❤ I hope you’ll like this chapter as well, and please don’t forget to tell me what you think, thank you! ❤

Thanks so much to @theskytraveler​ for helping me with the chapter!

Summary: Planning a wedding can cause tension.

Warnings: Regency era society and social rules, some gender specific language and terms, mentions of sex.

Word Count: 5400

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You didn’t even know preparing a wedding could be this troublesome, but for the last couple of days, you’d barely had any time to sit down. There were so many things to do, and for the most part you felt as if you were doing nothing but saying “Yes” to things you weren’t even paying attention to.

But this?

This you paid quite the attention to.

Keep reading

[herewegobacktomoon]

mi dispiace, i have lots of question 🤧

3, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 11, 12, 16, 18, 19, 21, 22, 25, and 30 pleasseeee

Don't worry about it, I'm happy you asked ;)

3. I'm Italian

5. It's a little bit complicated, actually. Let's say I opened this account when I was 15 and it was one of the first time I went through some difficult things on my own, couldn't really talk about them with anyone since it was a lot and didn't want to burden them, so I opened this blog, with the idea of finally writing about it.

The name just came to me as I was thinking about something that gave me comfort, and I thought that if I could go to the moon and be away from everything, even for just one day, everything would be okay.

Basically, the moon is my clouds, I know it'll make sense to you.

6. Does overthinking count?😂

7. Yeah, I can play the piano and the guitar, and also started learning how to play the ukulele and the drums on my own, but very basic stuff on those ones😂

8. if by hobbies you mean stuff I really like doing, even when I'm clearly not good at it, a lot😂🙌🏼

Going to the gym is probably one of the most important rn, as well as soccer, but also going on walks is something I really enjoy.

Then there's art, music, cinema, and whatever makes me feel like I can express or understand myself a little bit better.

Also writing is pretty important to me, but it's more of a need than a hobby I guess.

9. I speak Italian, English, French and Spanish rn, but just because I attended a linguistic highschool😂🙌🏼

However, I'm currently working on Portuguese, cause I absolutely love it!

I'm also curious about every other language there is, even though I don't think I'll ever be able to learn all the ones I like😂

11. ahhh, hard question this one...

I have some but I'll try to stick to three.

Portrait of a lady on fire

La pazza gioia

Lazzaro Felice

(I'm suing you for this question, there's a whole list of movies currently angry at me :/ )

12. I'll be as cliche as possible with this one so...

The seven husbands of Evelyn Hugo

16. Iceland and Canada.

18. you're really giving me a hard time here, hope you appreciate the effort though :)

I've been questioning myself about it for the last year and still I don't have an answer, but what I know for sure, after this year, is that doing something that only revolves "around me" is something I can't bring myself to bear.

I want to do a job where I can give effective help to people, not only with words or thoughts, I don't know if that makes sense.

What I'd really like to be able to do is work with disabled adults who are often left alone in communities or with children, who mainly are in the same situation.

Doesn't matter what I do for them or with them, I just want to give them a chance to tell their stories to someone.

19. One of my dream is to be able to go on a roadtrip, like a coast to coast or something like that, just driving across endlessly changing landscapes.

I know it's not very environment friendly, so I'll have to work on that aspect, but I've always loved the concept.

21. I don't really have any specific preference, not about physical aspects at least.

The traits in someone's personality that attract me the most are probably kindness and self confidence (don't ask me why, but to me, they're one of the sexiest thing to exist🙌🏼).

But it's not only that, as what I think is the most important thing is feeling some sort of connection.

22. Disloyal people and meanness

25. I don't really know if by games you meant physical ones or like board games (?), Btw almost everything that can make me have a nice fun time.

30. Apart from the comments people make and that I overthink about? 😂

No, I'm kidding, I don't really have specific quotes I think about, they're usually from lyrics or films and they depend on the time, but my mantra these last years has usually been "it is what it is".

I told you, I'm not original :(

Btw, I'm sorry for these answers, I might have overdone it and I'm really sorry about it, I swear :)

Anyway, if there's something else you want to ask me, you know you're always welcomed ;)

[palaugranetes]

"🍔M🇦🇷S🇺🇾N🇧🇷C🇧🇷🍔K🇦🇷E🇺🇾"

10 July 2018

Kun: So guys.. it has been an interesting month. But I think it's better if I leave since there is no point in staying

Kun: It's been... weird, to say the least but definitely fun. Nice getting to know all of you more. And @Ney chill a bit would you

Kun: Okay. Ciao guys. @Leo I'll see you soon. Te amo pa💙

Leo: 💙

Ney: Bye Sergio. It's been Real✌

Phil: Madrid?

Ney: What?

Phil: Real Madrid

Ney: gtfo of my life 🤦🏽‍♂️

Kun: Right.. Goodbye

Phil: 😂

Phil: ciao @Kun ✌ foi um prazer

Luis: 'ta luego Sergio

Kun left

13 July 2018

Edi: I guess my time here's up.. Happy to have gotten to know you all more. @Ney I will see you soon. New challenges ahead for next season hermano.. be ready

Ney: Bye Edison.. It's been fun

Luis: Never seen a more awkward goodbye in my life... and that is just via text... I can't even imagine how it would be in person

Ney: Gordo I am not in the mood for your antics!

Luis: I said nothing

Luis: Ciao hermano.. See you soon @Edi ✌💙 Enjoy your vacation

Phil: It was a pleasure getting to know you @Edi. Good luck with the coming season 🤙🏼

Edi: Thank you guys. This really has been something else. Adios

Edi left

24 July 2018

Ney: This thing has been so dead. Never thought I would see a more Quite place than the actual movie. It IS safe to speak in here once in a while you know..

Ney: WHERE ARE YOU GUYS!?!?

Ney: Also WHERE IS LEO.. I HAVEN'T SEEN OR HEARD OF HIM FOR WHAT FEELS LIKE AN ETERNITY!

Ney: Great.. more ignoring .. amazing.. You know sometimes I hate you guys so much

Phil: Mano.. We are on holiday.. Go enjoy yours!!

Ney: But I miss you guys.. I miss us.. We were disrupted from being us for an entire month!

Phil: Nothing disrupted anything.. it was all normal and it was fun

Ney: IT WAS NOT THE SAME... I wouldn't expect you to understand.. you're new here

Phil: Hurtful!

Ney: We've had this thing for almost 4 years.. You've been here for about 6 months..

Ney: Which reminds me

Neymar changed the subject from "🍔M🇦🇷S🇺🇾N🇧🇷C🇧🇷🍔K🇦🇷E🇺🇾" to "🍔M🇦🇷S🇺🇾N🇧🇷🍔"

Ney: There.. all better..back to basics

Phil: umm.. bro.. you forgot something

Ney: What??

Phil: Oh.. Just my name.. you know.. I am still part of this

Ney: Dammit.. Again!!

Neymar changed the subject from "🍔M🇦🇷S🇺🇾N🇧🇷🍔" to "🍔M🇦🇷S🇺🇾N🇧🇷C🇧🇷🍔"

Phil: There you go

Ney: Sorry man.. force of habit

Phil: Don't worry about it.. now if you'll excuse me.. I'm going back to my sunbath

Ney: Great.. Enjoy🤙🏼

Ney: @Leo @Luis if you are reading this, I'm going to dye my hair silver with a blue line in the middle

Luis is typing...

Ney: Oh so now you answer

Luis: Just send a picture when you do it so I can show it to my son and tell him about bad life choices people make.

Ney: 😒😒😒😒

Luis: It would save a lot of time and effort. You would be doing me a solid

Luis: ALSO what are all those messages kid?!? Do you know what vacation means?!?

Ney: yes, it's a break from work and stress to rejuvenate and rechage the batteries.

Luis: Great. Now let me go back to my stress free environment

Ney: But Gordo..

Luis: S T R E S S F R E E includes you as well..

Leo: Man, you don't have to be so hard on him..

Leo: and btw @Luis and @Phil congrats on the babies! I'm happy for you familia💙

Luis: Thanks bro

Luis: and I am only this hard on him because I want him to be good.. It's tough love mano

Leo: I know, but take it down a notch..

Ney: @Leo 💙💙💙💙💙

Luis: Great, now I'm the bad cop

Leo: No, no there aren't bad cops here

Ney: yes you are @Luis

Phil: Perfectly balanced

Ney: Shut up Thanos

Phil: Seriously dude..

Leo: We've all made mistakes we've learned from gordo. You know that first hand. He's an adult, let him figure it out

Luis: Boy do I.. But I guess you're right Leo. It's just, if he keeps doing these stupid things while I am on him 24/7 imagine what he would have done if I weren't!

Leo: He will figure it out. We've all done it.

Leo: Well maybe not Phil

Ney: Boy if you knew @Leo

Phil: Shut up Neymar!

Luis: Phil has not done anything bad in his life.

Ney: Booooyy if you knew @Luis

Phil: DUDE! SHUT UP!

Leo: okay.. Now I really want to know

Luis: Me too

Phil: There is nothing to know guys

Ney: Yes there is

Phil: No there isn't

Ney: Yes there is

Phil: NO there isn't. Neymar, let it go

Ney: If there isn't, then why are you being so defensive?😏

Phil: I am not being defensive. Drop it.

Ney: Yes, sure you aren't.. but fine..

Phil: Why don't I trust you..

Ney: Because I sent it to them on pm 3 minutes ago..

Leo: OH MY GOD

Luis: I CANNOT BELIVE IT

Phil: But.. I haven't done anything to you

Ney: For future refrences

Phil: So your plan is to take me down with you in case you do something stupid in the future. Which might not even happen!!!

Ney: It's like you don't even know me

Phil: Why do I even try to understand how your mind works.

[yeonjuins]

my family members drank a lot of coffee around me so i was so used to the smell of it. i wanted to taste it one day and i was baffled by the fact that it smelled so good but tasted awful, it tastes like metal..

my previous work really didn't care about mental health but some of the managers did. while working there, i had 9 different managers and only three really cared about mental health. i had a manager that believed anxiety was something you can just turn off if you really want to. she was sacked after telling someone in our team that had just lost a family member that death is a natural part of life and they can't be upset about it >>>> the manager that replaced her was so compassionate and caring and really took us under her wing. she was amazing <3 but jesus..... what a horrible woman that prev manager was >:(

the owner sounds amazing <3 it seems like you'll be working with good people <3

i'm on the fence about wanting to spend a few days in the office and then a few days at home because it would be nice to do that when things die down but i wouldn't work in the office on my late shift, unfortunately, there's been a few stalking incidents in the area i live in. i could get an uber but it's quite expensive :( honestly hugging the cats helps a lot <3 their purrs are peaceful <3

the discrimination that asians faced and still face is disgusting. it really does sicken me. our work has a lot of people from different countries. we did have one guy in our office who was sacked because he openly believed they were the reason for covid. he didn't even get a warning, he was immediately fired. this was before our lockdown happened and he made a massive scene when he left, swearing and shouting at everyone. he'd only been working with us for like three weeks so he was only just out of training. but i was so glad they sacked him. disgusting 🤬

delivery drivers stealing !!! oh my god, that happened here as well. happened to me a few months ago. i'd ordered food, they marked as delivered but i didn't get it. and when i called up the restaurant, it turned out my delivery driver ATE my food...it was sushi i ordered as well so it was an expensive order as it was a treat for my mum & step dad. though they did resend my order free of charge as a priority and they did offer to give me money off my next order (bc i do order a lot with them). which was really nice of them. it wasn't one of their own drivers though, it was an uber eats driver—they're an online food delivery company so they deliver your food for you.

see my previous job, i have many maaaany stories. they eventually lost the contract with the company they were working with (which is who i work directly for now) and within the last six months of working there, people stopped caring and started messing around and just being general assholes really....

i'm the same !! i love to talk but my mum always says "you could talk for scotland" 😂😂😂😂😂

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CRACKS KNUCKLES okay i finally got around to answering these hehe before i acc jump into responding to what you said- i got honey lemon tea today because i was craving it sm after i mentioned it to you (": SOOO glad honestly helped my throat because it was feeling hoarse (the snow storms here have been making me feel slightly sick ;;)

both my brothers are absolute coffee fanatics... one was a starbucks manager and the other has the whole 'pour-over-coffee' set so i'm often surrounded by it yet ironically i could never drink it for the life of me PAHHAHA

ohh my god i'm SOOO glad you're in a better work environment now... i similarly had a teacher once that told me that i should just 'stop being sad' LOOOOL thank you <3 good words of advice <3 idk people that brush aside mental health simply infuriate me ! (<- i infuriate myself ironically) but i'm so glad you're in a work place that acc supports mental health so much more... ): <3

oh no ): pls stay safe overall no matter what your decision ends up being pls make sure to prioritize your safety in the end... i 100% get the feeling of wanting to go outside of your house once in a while though and work in the office... i think i was super happy in the summer time because that was then covid restrictions were slowly being lifted and i spent the entire year inside my house (": definitely some outside time is nice but if you're doing it at the risk of stalking incidents- i'd rather advise for you to just do daily walks or smth like that instead of commuting all the way to work, etc ):

one of the biggest surprises to me when i got hired in retail was that my manager was asian LMFAO for so long i grew up in communities where the asian population was so little (and still is) so when i first joined the team and discovered that not only my manager was asian, but the whole team was filled with pocs and lgbtq+ made me feel SOOOO safe and at home (": it made it easier to get along with my team for sure <3

i'm glad your work placed threw him out........ deserved imo <3 anyone being discriminatory deserves their punishment <3 truly- you're in a good work environment and i'm glad (":

WHAAA i'm glad the restaurant was so kind to give you free drinks + discounts on your next purchase as well ;; at the old boba place i worked at, we generally did the same for any customers we messed up their order on, etc and do anything possible to make it up to them (as long as they're being kind ofc ): i met some REALLY lovely people that would call to inform us of our mistake but were so worried we'd get in trouble or something and i was like NOOO it's okay u are fine <3 i am sorry u are an angel <3)

i hope ur day went fine though my love ! sorry for the late response i was hyper focused on completing my blog + i had work today (": but i did read your msg earlier so i was just thinking about our convo about teas the whole entire time i drank my lemon tea at work hehe <3