#((Thank you though!))

[prisonhannibal]

happy fourth of july! do you have today off?

the US independence day is not a holiday in norway, so no. thank you though!

[violetsandshrikes]

so baffled by how people are interpreting that post. "i think we should give abused tradwives a little grace and support, especially since they were likely groomed into that position, and i don't feel comfortable relentlessly bullying them" and people are interpreting it like "so you're saying you support the transphobic homophobic institution that is tradwife life huh? you want us all to die? you don't support women if you don't condemn all tradwives ever" the critical thinking on this site is 0. im so grateful P was able to get out of there. thank you for all that you do

Tbh I can understand it’s also a painful and touchy subject for some people, especially if they came from that background. I think they also interpret what I’m saying as “you have to be nice and loving towards people who abused you”, when honestly I respect and recommend that they do put as much distance between that background as possible

I also think people associate “trad wife” with a very specific type of women - usually a specific denomination (such as Mormon), white, upper class (or at least upper middle), wealthy, politically active/aware, etc. In reality, I find that “trad wife” incorporates an incredibly broad range of women across different religious beliefs (and even non-religious groups), backgrounds, nationalities and ethnicities, class levels, education levels and more.

[rosedhall]

You're literally carrying the adon fandom on your shoulders

Hahaha thank you! I've been a bit inactive of late, but let it be known I'm waiting like a sleeper agent to be activated by any news or interaction!! I don't have much apart from a couple memes that haven't seen the light of day yet alas

[blitheringmcgonagall]

Re the Lily and Snape conversation. I think it’s very human to overlook the flaws of people we love. In fact I think Lily, giving Snape leeway is a parallel to James thinking it the height of dishonour to doubt his friends.

She loved Snape and I no doubt his difficulty at home bought him the benefit of her doubt as Lily was known for her kindness.

Ugh why can’t fandom let female characters have blind spots and the boundaries.

She was right to drop him as a friend and it’s also understandable why it took so long.

Of course! @artemisia-black that’s very true. As you say, given his background, Lily if anything was too loyal!

Misogyny refuses to let Lily be human and simultaneously exaggerates her flaws, which is why people talk about her being “disloyal, extremely selfish and self centred” 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️

Let female characters have blind spots & also set boundaries!

[probablyasocialecologist]

Anon confession: I think you’re really cool and so many of your posts are insightful and ideologically correct but I wish you didn’t like Star Wars (low key it’s beneath you)

I am not immune to zumm-zumm lightsabers and guerilla warfare.

[syb-la-tortue]

It's not exactly the same, but people were regularly snapshotting your blog using the Wayback Machine on web dot archive dot org. Some of the more recent snapshots don't work, but most of 2017 and earlier is functional and possibly some more recent ones (but there's 110 snapshots and I didn't feel like checking them all hah). At least all your work is not completely lost to the void!

oh my art itself is not completely lost at least, I still have all my art saved, and I technically already have a back up of my blog up to 2018, a kind soul helped me with that way back then just after the Purge, it's everything after that I don't have a back up for, and to be fair there wasn't as many interesting asks and headcanons and tag rambles afterward but still, would be cool to have it all haha

[beausbugbiome]

Hello you are so beautiful 😍❤️😍😍 woman I am here for you

You should be here for bugs 🐛

[pixlerelish]

💌Send this to the twelve nicest people you know or who seem to have a good heart and if you get five back you must be pretty awesome!!!💌

what the fuck? what the fuck. wtf. wtf. wtswearwords. swearwords.

[parasolladyansy]

I want to donate so bad for the Hurricane relief... but I only have PayPal!!! :'o... Is there a way to donate with paypal at all?

Hi! I think I might’ve turned PayPal off on my Kofi due to some recent weirdness? But you can always try donating directly to Greater Good Charities, & messaging me a screenshot of your donation confirmation if that’s more comfortable ^_^

To anyone else reading, this is the last day for this fundraiser, so put in your donations either to my Kofi or Greater Good Charities now if you wanna participate!

[howlsnteeth]

your art is so cool holy shit i may have just found this blog but liek. my sona is also a black wolf and is related to trauma and stuff and i dont wanna seem insensitive or anything but its so so cool whenever i see art with motifs of wolves or dogs or anything. idk im yapping. yoyr art is cool ( @sordid-dog )

thank you so much for yapping i'm yapping back in appreciation!!!

[shopwitchvamp]

Out of curiosity would you be willing to sell pdfs of your patterns for the clothes you sell? I love how you have them made and cut but have some ideas on fabrics I have at home for personal use. I’m always looking for plus sized garment projects. Thank you for your time! You have a beautiful product!

Thank you!! I don't have any plans to sell things like that. One issue is that most of my designs aren't repeating patterns and wouldn't work as something to be printed on fabric from a pdf. Outside of creepy eyes, vampire night, the plaids, heart/cat polka dots, and wizard/mage/sorcerer, everything else is designed and printed on a curve specific to each skirt (and size of skirt). So you can't just print it on a bolt of fabric (same reason I'm going to have many issues and need to design differently for natural fiber fabrics eventually.) And then to be totally honest, the real biggest issue is that I just don't want to deal with it.. I'd rather not invite all the problems that'd come along with selling patterns/designs, for likely veryyy little return. EDIT: I just realized I think I interpreted this wrong and you mean you want pdfs of the skirt pattern pieces! Not the skirt artwork patterns. That's still a no tho, I have templates from my manu rather than like printable/cut-out-able pattern pieces. But minis, skaters, and midis are all essentially just circle skirts, maxis are half-ish circles. There's already gotta be a lot of similar skirt patterns out there!

[save-the-villainous-cat]

You want critique so uh… I’ll try my hand. None of what I’m saying is bad though, and I only see it this way because that’s what I often do 😅

Sometimes you bring up little points that don’t really have complete relevancy to the plot, and so it might come across as you just trying to find something to make a sentence longer. Take the Drabble you wrote about the hero being in a hospital and the villain being by their bed as an example. In the second paragraph the villain thought about how they hadn’t eaten in a while due to worry. This is a point that honestly fleshes the story out a lot, it’s just that the moment you chose to write it made it seem a bit stilted and odd. There wasn’t a moment of “oh I’ve been worrying so much” but instead “oh thank god you’re okay”, so the point about noting having eaten would have fit much better a little bit after the hero wakes up

Hope your day is great, may your week be filled with whimsy and joy

Okay, thank you!!

I do think mentioning that the villain hadn’t eaten in a while is relevant to the story.

I mentioned it pretty early on in the snippet (the hero is awake the entire time, by the way) because a) it is another way of telling the reader for how long they’ve been in the hospital/that the villain cares about the hero (exposition) and b) so the villain themselves realizes they haven’t been taking care of themselves.

I guess I was trying to hint that the villain doesn’t really care about what happens to themselves when the hero is in a worse condition.

And since that wasn’t the point of the snippet, I only mentioned it very very briefly.

But if you can think of other points that aren't relevant to the plot or other criticism, please tell me!

[galaxysugarr]

Is this place still alive? It's been nearly a week. Hope everything is a-okay

Yes! XD, I've taken a bit of a slow break to work on personal projects and game a bit (Also work starting back up as i get used to my schedule again)

I'll try posting and doing more updates soon though :'>

[gothteddiesdotcom]

i appreciate your gender neutral posts SO MUCH, it's so hard to find non hetero posts about some of the harder kinks and it gets so fucking frustrating that even seeing one or two every so often is a breath of fresh air

awwh it’s sweet of you to say so!! honestly I always feel like I don’t do enough, a lot of my posts just feel like generic cis posts with they/them pronouns shoed in and it always feels like I could be doing more to make them more genuinely neutral and relatable for everyone

[tevanbuckley]

I’m sorry you’re getting so much grief from the Buddie Or Bust crowd. This is just a little supportive message saying you’re doing a great job! And I hope you enjoy the experience of watching the show despite the nonsense surrounding it lately!

Bonus encouraging little guy has a heart for you: 🐭💛

if people want to keep making fools of themselves in my inbox, they're welcome to. especially because i'm pretty sure this is the same person who's been doing the rounds on other people's blogs, i'll take one for the team until they get bored.

maybe i shouldn't poke the bear but I'm morbidly curious how unhinged they'll get.

tbh whatever happens i think i'm having a better time than they are, given i actually seem to enjoy the show i'm watching.

[anglerflsh]

Как же превосходно Вы рисуете!!! Я восхищаюсь, это прекрасно.🌹 Ваш стиль вызывает так много эмоций. Я не могу перестать улыбаться, когда вижу Ваши работы. Они великолепны!❤Вы очень талантливы.

Спасибо! Я очень ценю это <3