#'evan this is discourse' idc

[t4transsexual]

first time talking about smth not trans/t4t related on here but yall are really fuckin awful to aro/ace ppl. like i see like "u cant identify as asexual until ur 18 its an inappropriate sexuality for a child to have" and its like ok thats just like homophobia/transphobia again. u just made queerphobia again. do you know how many times i heard that its weird for me to identify as trans "so young" (i was 16)? and like "u cant identify as aro/ace if ur traumatized cause what if its just the trauma" ok and what if trauma with men made a girl a lesbian? you just made homophobia again. and dont even get me started on "WELL WHAT IF THERES AN AROMANTIC HETEROSEXUAL CIS MAN WHO WANTS TO BE QUEER" and oh yeah im sure youre so scared of "predator men" invading your spaces sike u just made transphobia again. like at what point will we as queer people stop attacking our queer siblings and collaborate as a community to create meaningful change? at what point?

[wolvesofinnistrad]

Apparently some people think the cone comment was some kind of pup play allusion and i think thats just disgusting.

Tommy would never put Pup!Buck in a cone. A collar and leash, puphood and harness? Yes obviously. Walking him around the apartment and making him bark for treats? Surely. But never a cone.

[shaunashipman]

It drives me UP THE WALL when people say the reason Eddie was crying in 6x11 was because Buck was in a coma when in reality the reason why Eddie was crying is because he can’t stand seeing his kid in emotional distress, he was perfectly fine before Chris started begging Buck to wake up

do I need to put a disclaimer every time I talk on buddie? just cause I don't think they're romantic doesn't mean they don't have a deep profound relationship. eddie was 100% crying about buck, it's just that he's the Strong Man™ and has to keep it together, which he was, until chris asking buck to wake up broke the little hold he had left on his grief. it was entirely about buck possibly dying, idk how you watch it and see anything else, are you and the BoBs getting your horse blinders from the same shop?

[pigeonxp]

if u say "baby bi buck 🥹🥹🥹" i actually think you should be sent to super hell immediately

[imtheiliad]

you know what? it makes total sense that buck is clinging to hen. she and bobby are the people that have been the most constant over the past year- year and a half, and she was gonna leave their immediate family structure, the thing that brought them together, in a much more permanent way than eddie, maddie and chimney. cause he held on so tight to the belief that they were coming back, and they did- but med school and becoming a surgeon is a pretty steadfast commitment that hen was attached to, to the point they had a goodbye party. where buck expressed his worry.

[kindofash]

Pride Sparkle Hearts

(1/2)

rainbow • philly pride • lesbian

bi • transgender • nonbinary

pan • aromantic • asexual

[picturesque-score]

☕️🤔

[ktinastrikesback]

I saw @imcatchingteardropsinmyhands get several asks recently about sex on 911, and I was like “haven’t I written something about this?” and whaddaya know, my first ever post is all about that.

As I say in the above meta, the beauty of 911 is that, while yes sex is a thing, the show is more interested in the intimacy and connection that people share through their vulnerability and through truly knowing one another, good and bad. So if we don’t get a lot of sex scenes between Buck and Eddie when they are canon, does it really matter? They certainly have physical chemistry, but their connection is much more than that. I’d personally rather see the emotional intimacy, and I think the writers are right there with me. Anyways…I just wanted to bring this back up bc I thought the discourse was interesting, and this is what got me started on analyzing this silly, beautiful little show 🤷🏻‍♀️

I want to talk about the portrayal of intimacy on 911. Season 1 and some of season 2 featured our main characters in sexual situations, but since season 3, there has been a move away from sexual intimacy and a heavy lean into emotional intimacy. For example, Chimney and Maddie. We know that Chim and Maddie have a fantastic relationship built off of genuine love and respect. In season 3, Albert makes a comment to Chimney about his sex life with Maddie being lacking. This freaks Chimney out, but by the end of the episode, he’s decided that he loves Maddie and wants to tell her that, not worrying so much about their sex life, but worrying instead about her knowing how much she means to him (which ends up benefitting them sexually). With this small arc, the show concretely implied that the shared emotions between Maddie and Chimney, + Chim’s acceptance of Maddie’s inability to say “I love you” just yet, is the real intimacy in their relationship, with sex as an added bonus. We see this reoccur with Bobby/Athena and Hen/Karen throughout the show.

So why am I bringing this up? Let’s look at Buck and Eddie. This season they both got love interests. We know Eddie and Ana are likely on the way out, but we do have Buck and Taylor starting up next season, and we’ll have to see where that goes, BUT I already have a feeling it won’t be long lasting. Why? Look at where the emotional intimacy happens: between Buck and Eddie.

In the finale episode, Taylor kisses Buck not once but twice, but the real intimate moment of the episode is Eddie’s conversation with Buck about his decision to add Buck to his will as Christopher’s legal guardian. Eddie shares this information with Buck because he heard the sentence “maybe it would have been better if I had been the one who got shot” and immediately knows the root of that comment and how to combat those self-destructive thoughts in Buck’s head. Eddie knows why Buck thinks the way he does AND he knows exactly what to say to make Buck feel important and wanted. This is an incredibly intimate thing, and it completely outshines the physical intimacy that Buck shared just moments before with his love interest. 

Throughout this episode, from the beginning until the end, the emotional intimacy is shared between Buck and Eddie. Not with Ana. Not with Taylor. So? If we’re comparing couples across the show, Buck and Eddie fit right in with Bobby/Athena, Maddie/Chimney and Hen/Karen (given that they have shared many intimate moments since Eddie first joined the 118). I have suspicion that Eddie himself recognizes this, but only time will tell what happens with these two. Anyways, if you made it this far, hope this gives you something to think about!

[daenerys-targaryen]

how does one become mutuals with you

okay since I’ve gotten this ask multiple times and asks that are like “why did you unfollow me, why don’t you follow me, ect” here is my response to that and a big ole list of the reasons why I follow or don’t follow people.

I’m gonna be honest, I’m very very picky about who I follow. If you look at my following page you’ll see that I literally follow only about 700 blogs and I’ve been on this website for 6 years lmao.

obviously I follow a ton of swifties but that doesn’t mean that I follow every swift blog out there. I tend not to follow fan driven blogs, and by that I mean people who are only here for taylors attention, blogs that only post/ repost selfies when she’s online or during tour time, it annoys me. I don’t care.

I don’t like following blogs that don’t use the tag section, if you add unnecessary comments to posts I’m going to unfollow so fast not even kidding. If I have to do the extra step to go to your blog, see who you rebloged the post from and reblog it from them then why do I follow you? It’s pointless and annoying. There is a tag section for a reason hunny please use it.

I love following edit blogs, rather it be taylor, got/asoiaf or hp for example, if you reblog/ post edits that are aesthetic asf hun I will be in your notifs everyday

I love following blogs that are just soft, like fashion or aesthetic or photography

I hate following blogs that post drama, like real drama not the silly discourse we do each week. I mean like if you’re shit posting someone or vague posting and I see it, I don’t care, I don’t care what silly fight you got into with someone online I don’t. If you post alot about it I will unfollow without a second regard lmao.

I am in many different fandoms but if you post a ton of one thing that I don’t care for I will unfollow, (ex. one direction (they’re cool but I don’t care) chris evans (again nice dude but idc) or anything else that I’m not all that interested in. I know there is blacklist but I don’t want to 100% blacklist a whole tag just because you only reblog one thing 109483 times in a row. It’s a lot more enjoyale anyways to make a sideblog, speaking from experience here.

post good edits… I don’t know how to say this without being incredibly shallow and mean, some people I know on here really do try hard to make good content and it just.. doesn’t fall through.. if I have to look at your ugly ass edits I will unfollow.. and I know everyone starts somewhere but I personally don’t want to see edits that remind me of graphic design is my passion, and I’m not going to go into your dm and be like hey this is how you could make this better because I know if someone did that to me out of the blue I’d want to delete my whole blog.

If you’re mean or bully someone I will unfollow, especially if it’s a friend of mine. I was bullied all throughout highschool and not only will I unfollow but I will call you out and start ww3, no I ain’t about that life, under no circumstance should you bully someone.

remember: just because we’ve talked a few times doesn’t mean I’m obligated to follow you, just because you were nice to me that one time doesn’t mean I have to like you, just because I followed you once doesn’t mean I don’t have the right to unfollow.

moral of the story is, be nice, don’t add stupid unnecessary comments to posts, have a nice aesthetic, don’t reblog yourself 958404 times, and post good content.

I sound so bitchy tbh but like it’s my blog I do what I want aslkdfjsl

[kindofash]

Pride Sparkle Hearts

(2/2)

genderfluid • genderqueer • neutrois

demiboy • agender • demigirl

queer chevron • polyamory

notes below the cut

i know not everyone is comfortable with queer, but some people use it as their primary/only identifier and they still deserve their place in pride

polyamory isn't inherently lgbt+ but as someone lgbt and polyamorous, i wanted to include it for my own sake