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warning this is an "i've lost my temper" post
people leaving comments on my vaccine post about how they """""can't""""" get vaccines because of needle phobias like what kind of ridiculous backwards-ass mental-gymnastics dumb fucking able-bodied nonsense are you on. you shortsighted twat. you circlejerking fucking asshole. you know what'll make you have to contend with needles???? getting an IV in the hospital because you came down with COVID. and now every single time you move you feel the straw wiggle uncomfortably inside your veins and you can't get it out ever you're trapped helpless on your back forever getting stuck by needles CONSTANTLY.
so. unless you're ready to lay at home and die while refusing all medical care, which would be good because at least you'd be putting your money where your fucking mouth is, i think you Do In Fact want to take the shot. you Fucking Moron??
#i too have a needle phobia and my autoimmune disease doesn't actually fucking care that i do#i still need to get stuck for blood draws and IVs and vaccines like errybody else#so i can promise you. YOU'LL LIKE THE VACCINE A WHOLE LOT FUCKING MORE THAN HAVING A CHRONIC ILLNESS THAT PUTS U IN THE HOSPITAL ALL THE#TIME!!! JAZZ HANDS LOVE AND LIGHT YAAAAY#had an even more vitriolic version of this post but this one's fine.#i'm through with sympathy for able-bodied people using autism as an excuse for why they can't do anything.#like yeah i'm being a judgmental cunt. but also you're the one who chose to say some dumb fucking shit on my damn post#YOU CAN GET THE VACCINE. you just dont want to. dont EVER fucking say you 'cant' get a vaccine unless you're actually too sick to do so#NUMBER ONE WAY TO PISS OFF SOMEONE WITH AN IMMUNOCOMPROMISING DANGEROUS DISEASE. JESUS CHRIIIIST#autoimmune tag#negative#coronavirus
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AITA for letting out our* indoor cat?
i (24 they/them) live with my mother (51 she/her) and my sister (29 she/her), altho both of us have moved out and lived on our own, but moved back into our childhood home due to economic/health stuff, mostly caused by the pandemic
during the time living on her own, my sister has gotten a dog and two cats. while we all love them and take care of them, i would be lying if my mother and i didn't expect her to, and be annoyed when she isn't, be their primary caretaker
both my sister and myself are against outdoor cats. i dont think its safe for the cat or the local ecosystem, and she agrees. one cat however does not care for our opinons, and tries to escape by any means, having learned to open doors, both with normal handles, and the garden ones, and we had to start locking everything up even when people are at home. due to his tenacity, he is always wearing a collar now, has been microchipped, and is up to date on all outdoor cat vaccinations just in case he does slip away
before you say we should take him on walks ā we tried but he starts thrashing so violently in his harness he breaks out of it and runs off. trying to tire him out at home hasn't really been working, cuz he just doesn't want to play with us in the limited space ā he likes getting chased
the issue is. i have migraines that have gotten much worse over the past year. i finally started medication about two weeks ago, but apparently it will only start showing any results after 2-3 months
one of the ways the cat tries to get us to let him out is by screaming bloody murder. i think you can guess where this is going
i asked my sister to take him to her room, and she has, but 1) we share a wall so it was still painful, and 2) she works from home, and after about 20 minutes she threw him out and said that sorry, but she just cant have him there. her door locks. mine doesnt. so even if i close the door he will open them and stand by my bed meowing as loud as he can
i was having a bad one. i-have-broken-a-bone-and-this-is-worse bad one. extreme photosensitivity and double vision, sounds hurting, nausea. honestly looking back at it, i probably shouldve called emergency services it was that bad. but i obviously havent been thinking clearly, and all i wanted was for the sound to STOP. so i let him out and went back to being miserable in a dark room
usually when he slips out, we tell my sister immediately, but i didn't. i guess she assumed he gave up. she found out when he showed up at her window couple of hours later
my sister is obviously majorly pissed at me. mam grew up with barncats, so she thinks cats should be allowed to come and go, but since its my sisters cat, she respects him being indoors ā but shes annoyed by the racket, and thinks that its on my sister to find a solution, and being mad at me for this is her own problem. i feel really bad bc i really do think that letting hinm out like this is dangerous for him, but i genuinely felt like my head was going to explode
What are these acronyms?
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Happy Friday!!! - Fall/Winter Dos and Don'ts!
The month of October has began!! Spooky season creeps upon us ever closer, and that means a couple of yearly trends will be rearing their heads. The DCPC is here with some 'do's and 'dont's for this holiday season!
Do...
Keep in mind the sun will set earlier and earlier this month! Be safe out there, and if you plan on traveling at night be aware of your surroundings. Sleeping Pokemon do NOT like to be woken up!
- Daycare Trainer Copper
Don't...
Catch/Adopt/Buy a ghost type just for the holiday. Ghost types are just like every other Pokemon. They have feelings and wants and needs. Ghost types are full of so much love and get attatched very easily. If you abandon a ghost type, it will haunt you. No doubt about it.
- Daycare Trainer Willow
Do...
Experiment with new foods for your Pokemon!!! Just like we love pumpkin spice and peppermint, your pokemon love a variety in their diets. I love to include "seasonal" herbs and flavors into my homemade Pokekibble batches, and every Pokemon loves it!! Be sure to check that anything you're giving them is safe for them first!
- Daycare Trainer Aster
Don't...
Explore abandoned or dangerous places alone. Urban exploring and cave diving are fun and all, but if you go alone, you might just not come back at all. Also, don't just go with any stranger you find in the street. Find someone you trust to go with you, otherwise... well, you might not come back.
- Daycare Trainer Dune
Do...
Make sure your Pokemon are all up-to-date on things like vaccines, monthly/yearly washes and polishes, and pokecenter visits! It can be easy to forget as the weather gets cozier that we have some responsibilities as trainers that can not get ignored. Keep your pokemon healthy and happy!
- Daycare Trainer Fox
Don't...
Keep your Pokemon cooped up in their Pokeballs or indoors just because the season is getting colder. They still want to stretch their legs and walk with you or sit outside and camp with you. Remember, almost every Pokemon registered to a trainer has been caught in the wild. They're used to the seasons changing! Even pokemon who were hatched should be acclimated to the weather as it changes.
- Daycare Trainer Park
Do...
Keep your houses and camps secured! While Pokemon are used to the cold, some of them can't help but try and wiggle their way inside a warm house or tent. There's also an uptick of ghost type Pokemon this month, so unless you want a gengar in your living room, secure your house with the proper rights and rituals! (Keep in mind, some people offer wards that will HURT ghost type pokemon, including your own. Do your own research to find wards that simply BLOCK ghost types.)
- Daycare Trainer Nitara
Don't...
Stop battling! If you stop battling entirely for the season, your Pokemon might have too much leftover energy. There's always a seasonal slew of people saying their pokemon "turn wild" all over again when it gets cold. This is because you're not exercising them enough! If they don't battle, you should still be giving your Pokemon some kind of outside time if they're used to it.
- Director Moor
Do...
Wear the proper gear. For any and all situations above, you should be sure that you and your pokemon are wearing what's right for the situations. Camping, urban exploring, or simply going outside on a chilly day; wear the right clothes or risk getting sick or hurt. Some of your Pokemon, such as reptilian friends, may also need to wear something throughout the winter.
- Mr. Montague
Don't...
Forget the law. Even though fall and winter mean fewer people outside, more empty open spaces, you cannot allow this to make you forget about the law. If your reigon has ordinances about where you can battle, what times you can battle, or anything of the like, please keep that in mind as the months get colder. No one wants to get arrested when jail cells are even colder than usual.
- Manager Seren
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Evil People Love Law and Order
There's a lot of gray areas in morality or things people just don't understand. But what's obvious is that torturing and enslaving people is wrong. non-consensual domination is wrong. Homophobia, transphobia, islamophobia, antisemitism, attempting to limit what women can do with their bodies. Lots of fucked up shit going on with the right.
If tehy were just talking about and pushing for more freedom for people to decide for themselves it would be one thign, but the right wasnts to take away everyone's freedom and create a police state loyal to one man. Something that a huge part of the population does not want. he's an obvious con man and they are destroying the government.
Donald Trump clearly has broken a lot of laws, but it's important to remember that it's not just about 'the law' because the law is a fickle thing. There's so many laws. it's about his policies to separate kids at the border and deport as many people as he can. It's about his willingness to dismantle the bureaucracy and replace it with a force that is loyal to him and him alone. it's about his willingness to therow the very poor in jail just for urban camping. It's about his classism and hatred of poor people. His disdain for women's rights and desire to outlaw abortion and force women to carry rape babies. It's about his desire to criminalize drug use and prostitution and pornography. Throwing sick people out of the military. His unwillingness to address the real issues in the economy such as too high rents.
The iron law of fascism states that power slowly and inexorably creeps up to one and one person alone and in this case it's Donald. However if you study history closely you see that we always live in an open system and once power is consolidated by the woiuld be god emperor it almost immediately starts to crumble form the very beginning.
Tyrants don't want their and their supporters to go off in the woulds and have a community of their own where they can waive their flags and be straight and white or whatever. They want to impose it on the rest of us and are upset that there's positive culutral changes happening. It's some really beta boi shit here, but they seem to really hate that women are now throwing off restrictive sex roles and acting more slutty based on their puritanical attitudes. They want to pretend, but they have a lot in common with the man-hating wing of the feminist movemetn which is why you can find that video "feminist to far right pipeline". You can tell that their hatred of prostitution is based on their desire to stop women from being feminine (with someone besides them I suppose since they hate race mixing).
To them, the militarism, machismo, violence and authoritarianism is not a problem. It's the solution . The solution to the problem of diversity which they dont' want to see. They want it to be all white, all the time with no room for anyone else. They want the us military to continue to slaughter people around the world in the shameful way it has. You can't support that.
War is evil and warmongers are evil people, and the united States since it's inception has endeavored to slaughter hundreds of millions of people around the Globe. The Covid operation with the vaccines, that is probably a US military operation. they just handed it to the companies to perform and Trumpers are fine with that probably with the caveat that American white children are not harmed. Such ingroup-outgroup, us vs. them mentality is dangerous to everyone all over the world. But it is especially dangerous to us who have to live here.
Governments are most deadly to their citizens and the reason for this is that they claim they own the land. An absurd claim that cannot be backed up by reason or evidence. They slaughtered people to get the land and they consider everyone on it to be their serfs. Tehy are upset when "their" people don't do what they want them to do and do something else.
Napoleon killed everyone who followed him and Donald trump will as well, but that doesn't mean he isn't dangerous. He's dangerous to a lot of people and the decision to allow hiim to do waht he is doing is going to be serious. Teh problem is that we on the left are too timid. too weak and not armed and dangerous as we should be.. We aren't working together and that makes us vulnerabile to fascists.
That has to change because we are all in mortal danger.
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just because somethings legal doesnt mean its safe. i dont give a shit about what laws you have. there were 36.9k new cases on august 20 in the uk. not a single person at that party could be seen with a mask. there were people there who either had covid recently or were in close contact with someone who had covid. doesnt matter if everyone was vaccinated because vaxxed people can still spread the virus.
these ccs are also incredibly privileged. they have the privilege of working from home, being able to afford to live comfortably during a pandemic, getting vaxxed, staying inside. thats the most disappointing thing about this. ccs are so fucking privileged, they dont need to leave their homes and risk their families health just to fucking live, yet theyre out here putting peoples health at stake.
not just talking about ccs, the uk has been incredibly irresponsible with covid. why the fuck are yall opening when youre getting such high numbers.
i understand wanting to go outside, i do. its frustrating always being inside and not being able to do the things we want to. i know a lot of people have to work and that means leaving the house. but there is no reason anyone should being going outside to party or see a football game during a global pandemic. this shit is fucking dangerous. so many people have lost their lives or lost loved ones because of covid but yall don't give a damn, apparently.
i dont care what your laws tell you. listen to doctors. i promise you, doctors know more about viruses than government officials.
so stay inside, get vaxxed, wash your hands, social distance, and wear a fucking mask.
#cross tagging for traction even tho this should be common sense#dreamwastaken#georgenotfound#sapnap#tommyinnit#tubbo#ranboo#wilbur soot#philza#wispexe#badboyhalo#quackity#karl jacobs#fundy#captain puffy#dream smp#mcyt
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should i send this to my unvaxxed sisters
I am begging you guys to consider the vaccine and im going to be selfish and ask you to do it FOR ME. for the rest of my life I am going to be severely immunocompromised and for the first 100 days after stem cell im at massive risk of infection and i am considered unjabbed- I cant help myself, I can't do anything for myself until I can get jabbed again and I dont know when that will be. so I am begging you to consider it because I dont want to end up in ICU or worse, which is a real possibility if I get sick,Ā and I dont want to live with the constant anxiety of not wanting to see anyone or hug anyone or use mugs and stuff in the house because of that. I have been feeling this way for a while and have been feeling really upset over it because I do know its your choice but its a choice I need you to make considering me, I havent asked up until now but now I am asking you. im asking because I love you and you love me and because i am in danger and i am so beyond scared
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self indulgent crossover but generator rex x totally spies. i dont remember the lore i havent actually watched the show since i was a kid but i remember loving it and esp the martin mystery crossover lol
Rex and Alex bonding over video games and action movies and having rhyming names. They call themselves The Exes, since they both have ex in their name. Sam strongly advises against it. Bobo encourages it.
Jerry and White Knight hating eachothers guts but being SUPER polite about it. Theyāre totally professional but their vibes sayĀ āim gonna put spiders in your coffee for fun. please suffer. bitch.ā
WOOHP handles spy stuff, Providence handles evo stuff, and due to a fun stroke of luck Van Kleiss is teamed up with whatever TS villain is most fitting. i dont know who dont ask me but maybe some evil scientist isnt every villain in the show technically a scientist
Clover shamelessly flirting with CĆ©sar, who either doesnt notice or doesnt care. probably both.
Alex instantly adopting Rex as her little brother.
Sam and Holiday being excited about science and discussing sciency stuff and how difficult it is to find lab clothes that are safe AND cute and ugh long hair is such a hassle and omg your boots are gorgeous where did you get them and lets hang out sometime
Sam and CĆ©sar being excited about science but with a lot more of Sam being VERY worred about CĆ©sars wellbeing after he almost dies while trying to get a sample from soemthing dangerous for the 4th time.
Rex initially going from āwhy is your gear so GIRLY???ā to āyour gear is super girly and really cool at the same time. some of it i want some of it i dont, but im over the whole being a little embarassed over how girly it is thing i was going through. anyways can i try your grappling hook?ā
Six hiding from the spies because hes on WOOHPs radar for being the sixth deadliest man in the world and also an assassin in the past
evos in beverly hills. can u imagine.
MANDY going evo. can u imagine.
Mandy and Clover fighting and Rex delivering a sick burn to Mandy on purpose
Mandy and Clover fighting and CĆ©sar delivering a sick burn to both of them by accident
Six going ninja to save Rex and the spies despite WOOHP and the girls pretending they didnt see him because yeah hes done some Bad Shit but hes doing Good Shit now. Jerry totally knows theyre just lying through their teeth when they say theyve he wasnt there but trusts their judgement so he leaves it.
Van Kleiss turns the villain hes working with into an EVO
Alex and Clover let Rex play with their grappling hook. Hubris ensues. heās not allowed to touch the laser lipsticks.
Alex thinking Bobo is adorable, Sam thinking hes interesting because science, Clover thinking hes stinky and shes RIGHT
Clover dissing Van Kleiss outfit and lair. She mocks his hair and he sternly tells her its poliosis. Alex asks if āisnt there a vaccine for that?ā
He also turns one of the girls EVO. Probably Clover.
#bean talk#totally spies#generator rex#genrex#vk probably cries himself to sleep every time someone mocks his hair
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iāve been absent, and i canāt be sorry (itās been necessary), but i do miss this community and having the energy/time to participate.
in truth, itās been a challenging past few months for me...
donāt want to bore anyone, so details below (tw: depression, anxiety, parental troubles, covid)
i was really fortunate to be really close to my family growing up. i had a great relationship with my parents. which is why it has been that much more painful for me this past year to have them slowly driven from me by the absurdity of current politics. i didnāt see it coming, i didnāt think my parents could become science deniers. and yet here i am...
i tried with everything i had to teach/reach them, but ultimately the stress of it all was causing my anxiety to reach extremely unhealthy levels. for my own health and sanity, i wrote them a long, heartfelt letter explaining why i would not be talking to them for the time being (as they refused to get vaccinated and began to behave dangerously, no masks, frequent outings, seeing lots of people). that was july.Ā
august my parents visited my hometown. i did not see them or speak to them. my birthday passed, i did not see them or speak to them...Ā
i spoke with my mother once, in september...and itās all still just as bad. there was shouting, cursing, crying (mostly me tbh). sheās stubbornly clinging to her beliefs drilled into her by right-wing media. i wont get into them, but itās conspiracy level bad... she got covid, she kept it from me and my brother until afterwards. miraculously she was okay despite taking āmedicineā that has been proven to be ineffective against covid and potentially dangerous while sick to boot... itās made her even more determined to cling to her insane theories about the vaccine, covid treatments, the government all of it...Ā
i told her my life would continue without her and dad: i might get engaged (probably would have on my anniversary except my partner felt bad i wasnt talking to them at the time), married, who knows... covid isnāt going away anytime soon, and i cant agree to disagree with her on this. it matters too much to me that they be safe. if i let it go and something were to happen to her and my dad...iād never forgive myself for it.Ā
iām not saying mine is the correct approach. i have been plagued with doubt and guilt off and on. my mom has used language that makes me feel like this is all my fault, for being anxious, for being depressed, for not just letting her have her dangerous opinions... but at the end of the day despite the pain and grief i feel for not having my parents right now, i am still better off than i was before. fewer panic attacks, able to focus at work, able to at least sleep some now.Ā
i started anti-depressants when my mental health hit an all-time low during all of this, and theyāve been helping too. i really didnāt want to get back on them, but i believe theyāve saved my life.Ā
sadly, between all this (and busy times at work) iāve had very little time, focus, or motivation to write. iāve barely been on here. to be completely honest, naps after work are common. the extra rest has become important. iāve developed a sudden interest in true crime documentaries and sad movies?? i was very confused by this at first, since iāve never ever had an interest before, but my therapist says its how im processing my trauma and grief lolĀ
but why write all this out on tumblr, B? well... i like to scream into the abyss here, and i also want to be completely open about my struggles and mental health, because i was at my worst when i felt utterly alone, and if this post helps even one person who might be experiencing similar feel less alone than itās worth it.
and i also wanted to let this community know why iāve suddenly dropped off because it is a place that has brought my joy even during the chaos of the past year or so. i am going to be participating in the upcoming zkmbb and still have my other projects ready and waiting for me to return, but for now, the queue is going to be up and running and iāll be a bit quieter as i fight my way through this and have to dedicate extra time to self-care.
i hope no one relates to this post, i really do, because it all hurts a lot and i dont want anyone to feel this pain, but if you do? you are a warrior, i admire your strength and courage --and i am sending you so much love.
best wishes all,
B
#long post#an explanation#some stream of consciousness#who knows#i just felt the urge to throw this all out there#personal
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Hey, Something has been wrong with my heart.
Maybe POTS? IDk, I was in the ER a week ago wrapped up like a sand person double N5 masked with cloth over it and a face sheild and swim goggles and more goggles on top with hair covered because
Partial vaccinated because my friend got if and was dead in hours of an anuerism and I have an anxiety/mental health dissorder. šš
Im so ashamed! Please God forgive mešš»
I deeply regret not getting it sooner. I understood the science and saw the math playing out. Iād been entirely isolated, never going out/having everything delivered and wiping down everything with med grade sterilizing wipes while taking care of my 2 year old alone even fully isolated from my wonderful husband who works at a busy dallas airport,
passing him food through a cracked window while masked. This has been going on over a year!
Finaly my reasoning overwhelms my sense of fear and I make an apt for vaccine.
Then, Two night befor vaccine apt something happens I cant explain. Waking up with uncontralable shivers all over. Idk what is happining? I dont have blood sugar problems but think maybe low? Drink juice feet in hot water. No fever. It goes away.
Next day it happens again. Wtf is going on. Gettjng worried.
Take a covid home test to be certain- negative. I havnt had exposure. But Iām paranoid.
It happens again- I wrap up with masks and everything I can and call an ambulance when my resting pulse is over 140 and Iām dizzy with pains
Mckinney Ambulance driver: you know Covid isnt real right? Me š². They say: your stable going is optional and youāll wait!
I stay home.
Wednesday comes I get my shot šš» and the asshole pharmacist at the walgreens at 1651 w university drive mckinney tx wouldnt put on a mask even after I asked. Its store policy! He never wears a mask and keeps his job and nobody says anything while heās handling medications.
Whatever is happening to me is coming and going all the time now. Idk what it is. Its happening while I sleep. Pulse is crazy during during the day 160 pounding just walking between rooms
Now I cant take care of my toddler. Husband has to help me go to bathroom. He cant work.
Having chest pains! I put on all the masks and crap and grab my sanitizer and go to the ER they send me home with chest pains and said see a catdiologist asap. Ekg clear. While Iām there the Nurses and doctors Refuse to keep appropriate distance. Leave my room door open while pwople are outside sick I hooe 2 N95 and cloth on top will be enough
šš wtf. They say if chest pains come back weāll see you again.
Next day ER is at full capacity. feel like Iām dying racing heart chest pain. Another Self covid test is negative. I wrap up again and go to a care now people everywhere no masks looking at me like Iām crazy all wrapped up trying to keep safe. Ekg clear. Idk what to do. They give me antibiotics for maybe a uti?
Its friday Cardiologist cant se me till monday afternoon - every day and night i think iām going to die. Pulse is insane. I sit and try to keep pulse down for the weekend. Its bad Iām vonstantly inches from ER
Monday finaly comes, I wrap up again like a person who wants to, you know not get covid! Cardiologist says clear ekg, whatever take a betablocker to help your anxiety. Me: this isnt anxiety! Doc š SUUUURE , look at how your wrapped up! Its just anxiety! HEART DOC IS NOT WEARING A MASK. People in waiting not required to mask.
At this poknt in tx All ICUās and ERās and childrens hospitals for 90 miles in any direction are overwhelmed. Clearly Iām in a twighlight zone episode.
I go home feeling hopeless. Still feel like Iām dying. I want to consult another doc befor taking this medicine they wont explain or talk to me about. Another horrible night. I talk to another doc- via telemed. Thank god no suiting up.
She says meds sounds appropriate even if no mask jerk doc wouldnt explain it to me.
I take it.
It gives some almost immediate releif to chest pain racing heart while Iām resting But its short lived. My condition is deteriorating. No appetite, nausea, diarrhea, still no positive covid.
I want answers. What the hell is happening to my heart?
Iām calling the cardiologist every day. They throw me a 24hour holter moniter to get me off their backs. But they Dont explain how Iām supposed to use it. I do it wrong! Oops our bad. 24 hours wasted. Lets do an echocardiagram that we should have done first -but we only do them on friday.š
But lets up the frequency of the drugs. Me: ok Iām pretty sure its the only thing keeping me alive!
1 every 8 hours.
I can still barely function. Iām still afraid Iām going to die. I call my sister, I call my childhood best friend. We cry! Childhood friend says I love you Iāll leave tomorow be there in a day but Iām not vaccinated. š sister says iām vaccinated and I love you but I cant! Because its to dangerous there for my babies!
I understand.
Husband says I have to go back to work. I dont have a choice! We cant lose our car.
I need somone to sign fmla. I have no pcp.
We can get 2nd vaccines next week. 2 1/2 weeks to late.
They want me to stop taking the meds that are keeping me out of the ER to do a test to look at my heart valves.
Im so affraid.
IF YOU ARE NOT VACCINATED PLEASE GO GET VACCINATED NOW!!!
You are not safe no mater how isolated you are! Protect yourself and the community!
BEFORE ITS TOO LATE!
I love my family and my life. Iām scared.
All day I hear the ambulances up and down the street.
This morning they took a family member.
Humans out there
Iām so scared for our lives. Get vaccinated! And vaccinated or not, be a good human being and please Wear masks! Wash your hands! Use Sterile method! Its not to much! Do everything you can to fight this
Do everything you can to preserve life
DO IT BEFORE ITS TO LATE šš»ššāš»
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29 Things I Think Allistic People Need To Hear
From an autistic person
Not my usual content but I felt it needed to be said.
Saying āeveryone is a little autisticā is really hurtful. Yes, everyone has their struggles but these struggles are far different for autistic people. Saying everyone experiences it is invalidating & harmful.
Being graded on eye contact & standing still is wrong. Iām pretty sure at one point or another weāve had a project we were graded on & one of the grades was eye contact & not fidgeting. These things are extremely hard for autistic people & they are practically second nature. Itās like holding in a sneeze.
Stim & figget toys in schools. Of course fidget spinnerās & stim cubes can be bought & should be bought by anyone. If you want one, get one. But the way schools are banning them is crazy. They are very necessary for autistic people & itās so much harder for them when schools ban their use.
QUITTTTT BABYING US!! We arenāt āuwu babiesā. We are humans. We are perfectly capable of functioning without allistic peopleās pity & looking down on us. We are our own people that donāt need a hand to hold in every damn situation. We arenāt cute because of it. ļæ¼
Listen to autistic people. Everyone is all for advocating for people until that group of people want to advocate for themselves. So shut up & listen once & maybe you can learn something you didnāt know.
Creative writing in class is difficult. You donāt know how many bad grades Iāve gotten on because I canāt think of a good story out of my ass. Itās extremely hard for autistic people. Please give us a prompt itās more helpful than you know.
Role playing in class. I think weāve all had to do something where we research a famous person & have to assume their identity. This is again, so hard for autistic people. Itās hard enough for us to be ourselves. Most of us canāt understand these actives enough.
Slurs. Quit saying retard. Itās not an insult. Itās not funny. Itās offensive & every time you use it youāre hurting a disabled person & spreading harmful stereotypes. Itās not just a word. Itās not just a bad word. Itās a slur. Same as the f word or any other slur. Donāt use it.
People talking over us. No I dont mean just in conversations. Although that is another issue. I mean organizations like autism speaks that put words into autistic peoples mouths instead of letting them speak for themselves.
Stop making fun of our special interests. Whether you find anime cringey or think an adult loving Aladdin is childish just stop it. These things being extreme joy to us. They make us happy in a word that we donāt understand. So just leave us alone & let us be happy.
Donāt stare at us if weāre stimming. Especially in public. If you see me flapping my hands. Donāt stare. If you hear me humming quietly, donāt judge. These activities arenāt for your viewing pleasure. Theyāre for autistic people to regulate & express how theyāre feeling.
Normalizing ableism. Itās so normalized. Whether itās phrased like āsuffers from autismā or how regularly āretardā is used in classe; ableism is so often over looked especially by adults. There are no many micro aggressions they are just passed off as us not having a thick enough skin. When in reality itās really damaging.
People first language. If you ever correct someone by saying āno, theyāre a PERSON with autism. Not an autistic personā. Literally shut up. Weāre autistic. Weāre people. Being autistic doesnāt make us any less human so you donāt need to make it seem like it does. Weāre still human no matter our disably. People donāt have to be reminded of this.
Using words like psychopath & sociopath. Calling autistic people these things just because you donāt understand us is disgusting. If you donāt understand these terms donāt use them. Just because we arenāt good at showing empathy in some cases doesnāt make us āpsychopathsā.
Tone indicators. This is both the over use & not using them thatās an issue. Saying things like ā/j /hj /sarcasm /srs /lhā all in one post defeats the whole damn purpose of them. & not using any at all especially when joking around or using sarcasm can lead to a lot of misunderstanding. Itās not that hard to use one or two at the end of a post. /srs
Picky eating. Literally stop making fun of autistic people for not liking a lot of foods or ordering the same thing at every restaurant. A lot of textures & flavors are very bothersome to autistic people. They can cause overstimulation or even panic. Just let us be. So I eat mac & cheese 4 times a week. I didnāt know it effected you so much.
āUgh youāre so annoying you canāt ever get a jokeā. No hearing that is whatās annoying. Tones are hard for us to understand so while most people pick up on it autistic people are more likely to read too much into it or take it seriously. Itās simple to use tone indicators in text or even to say āIām jokingā. It wonāt make your joke less funny. Itāll just help us understand more.
Be specific if you want things from us. Donāt just say āhey I need a pencilā. Or āthe dishwasher needs put awayā. Most likely weāll just be like, yeah, ok, and? Be specific please. Say things like ācan I borrow a pencil?ā or ācan you undo the dishwasher?ā.
Faces seeming to look weird. A lot of us having facial stims that can alter our faces. Whether itās excessive blinking, eyebrow raising, or face scrunches. Donāt ask us whatās wrong with our face or what we are doing. For me, because of my facial stims & tics my eyes/eyebrows are permanently uneven. Donāt bring it up.
Classroom behavior charts are horrible. Autistic people donāt behave the same as allistic people. Simple as that. What they see as ok behavior, others donāt. & some times they donāt realize these behaviors will get them in trouble.
Police brutality. Especially in black or brown autistic people. Itās so common that people call the police on autistic people stimming in public because they are seen as dangerous. & when these autistic people canāt understand whatās going on or canāt make eye contact they are labeled as more suspicious. Especially black autistic people. Just look at Elijah McLean.
Feeling dumb. Especially in schools or other scholarly conversations. Some autistic people arenāt able to keep up or fully understand everything thatās being said or presented. Which leads to us feeling dumb. Give us time to process or aso questions please.
Feeling robotic. Youāve most likely heard autistic people being compared to robots at one point or another. Whether thatās for the impaired ability to establish empathy or something else itās an extremely negative & hurtful stereotype. Especially in media.
Saying āI forgotā is a valid excuse. There is so much going on in our heads. So much to process & remember. We forget things. Everyone forgets things. Especially autistic people. Please donāt yell at us for always forgetting to do the dishes. Itās not like we chose to forget.
The harmful effects of the vaccines cause autism jokes. Aside from the whole anti vaxers debate, perpetually the idea that we shouldnāt be vaccinated because it causes autism is disgusting. Itās treating autism like a disease. Like the person who has it isnāt worthy. Or that autism is so chronic it will ruin everything. Itās like people avoiding cheese burgers because itās rumored they make you ginger. Itās preposterousļæ¼. ļæ¼
Yelling at autistic people for struggling to want to learn new concepts/concepts at all. This not only goes for in school but in just normal conversation. Itās hard for autistic people to grasp things they donāt have an interest in learning. So please donāt yell at us for not understanding everything about a band that we donāt care about, we would if we could. It might not seem like a big issue but it happens more than youād think.
Intrusive thoughts. (Tw: rape mention & violence) Most of the time autistic people experience extreme spells of intrusive thoughts āomg heās going to rape you image him raping youā or āstab yourself in the side right nowā or much worse. & when autistic (and other) people try to talk about it they are labeled crazy or insane. Itās a normal occurrence to have these kinds of thoughts. We donāt want to. But they happen. Thatās why theyāre called intrusive.
Executive disfunction. This is basically when autistic people are views as lazy but we physically & mentally just canāt. Where tasks as seemingly simple as going to get a glass of water feels like a mountain to autistic people. Itās not that we are lazy. We physically & mentally canāt work up to it.
Class rank & graduation requirements are unfair. Autistic people socialize differently. Itās just a fact. Our brains work differently in classes & outside of it. We could be working our asses off to understand our English class book, but we get an F. Not to mention how most schools require community service hours to graduate. Yes community service is good but it can be very hard for autistic people.
Please feel free to add on but a lot of these are drawn from personal frustrations. Please listen to autistic & other disabled people more. All these also applies to those with ADHD/ADD or any other mental illness where the situations apply. Youāre all valid & amazing.
I love you all. š
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You'll probably hate me for saying this and I feel like I should go anon so you don't feel betrayed or anything, but...while I know how contagious covid is, I think we're making a bigger deal out of it than we need to. You said it yourself, the flu kills more every year and yet, we don't shutdown or wear masks. And we don't do it either HIV/AIDS or zika or malaria, so...why should people freak out over this? Does that make me ignorant?
no i definitely dont hate you!!! i don't think weāre making a big deal out of it, i think weāre actually not doing enough! and a lot of that is due to the message our leadership and the media are sending, which is very much motivated by political factors.Ā
a few reasons why COVID is dangerous:
- just as a little preface: let's consider the governments reaction to 9/11. 3000 deaths, very tragic, and the impact of the changes made are still seen today. 3000 people died, and the entire country changed.Ā
- everything we know about the virus is constantly changing. when it first popped up, it was affecting the elderly and people with existing conditions the most. however, weāre now seeing more younger people dying from it, and in the US particularly, we are seeing far more younger deaths. in addition to that, the causes of deaths regarding the virus are different. itās affecting children in the heart, rather than their respiratory system.Ā
- yes, the flu does kill from around 25-50k+ people in an entire year. on a bad year, that number pushes up toward 75k-80k. but to put that into perspective, that is over twelve months. we are not even halfway through the year, with an expected - and already seen - rise in cases (the second wave) if it does stay consistent, or continues going up (as it is doing) that death rate will continue to increase. the expected death number, if we continue following social distancing, is projected at over 179k. That is 179 thousand people. to compare, this expected death number is double that of the Vietnam war and the Korean war combined.
- the contagion aspect and the incubation period. during the 1918 influenza, those infected presented symptoms within a few days. for covid, itās usually two weeks. think about all the places you go, things you touch, things you do, in two weeks. two weeks that you're a carrier, that you're contagious, and completely unaware. and the mortality rate differs. in the US, ours is at 4.9%, vs the flu with a mortality rate of .1% (according to data from the CDC)
- none of us are immune, and we do not have a vaccine. we can get the flu shot each year, and that prevents a hell of a lot of the deaths.Ā
- with ebola, it is only transmitted through blood/fluids. same with HIV/AIDS. zika is mosquito bites, and malaria is usually contracted the same way. COVID, in comparison, is airborne. we are breathing out, coughing, sneezing, touching. it is so, so contagious.Ā
- and in the end, even if it doesn't have the highest mortality rate, and you yourself are not at risk, you have to take into consideration those who are. for me in particular, my mother has a history of respiratory illnesses. my aunt, who was recently in a horrible car accident and has been in and out of the hospital for months, who also has Lupus, is at risk. if my mother or my aunt gets the virus, i am not sure their bodies will be able to fight it. thatās a horrible, horrible truth that i face day to day. for those at risk or with families at risk, we are living in fear of our loved ones being taken from us because someone doesn't want to wear a mask.Ā
- this virus is smart. it isnāt incredibly (and i don't say that to minimize the loss, because i assure you, i feel the deaths weāve had) deadly, but itās contagious as fuck, and that makes it easy to transmit, and very political. it turns us all into enemies of each other, because weāre all potentially carrying. in a lot of ways, it's more of a mind-fuck than anything. and itās working. itās tearing us apart, and weāre letting it.Ā
- as for masks...i get it. itās hot under there. it is. it can be annoying. but if us wearing a mask can stop hundreds of thousands of people from dying, i am going to wear it. even if i cant say for sure that the mask helps. because it might. because maybe, if i wear a mask, and other people wear their masks, my mother and my aunt will survive the year. maybe all those at risk will survive the year. and if there is a chance that we can prevent more death, why not take it? cuz you know what sucks more than wearing a mask? wearing black to a funeral that could have been prevented.Ā
wow that was a whole essay, but i hope that provides a little bit of reasoning as to why im still so concerned about this virus, particularly regarding the USā treatment of it!Ā
some sources to check this info out: x x xĀ xĀ
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Hey Fruit Cup šš„š, I just wanted to know how your doing today āŗļø.
Today reality really struck because this morning my brother woke up with symptoms related to covid. And I started panicking because my brother has a respiratory issue already and covid could possibly push him over the edge if he does catch it. He's only 8 years old and he's the only sibling I have, so losing him would've been too much for me to handle especially at such a young age. My parents took him to go get a covid test and luckily it came back negative. They already knew I was worried about him and they had to comfort me through out the entire process. But the bad part is over now and we realized we just needed to change the air filter in the house. Which is fine but we didn't know his body was gonna react that way.
School starts soon for us and with schools having a choice about wether or not they would mandate masks. A lot of parents have been saying no to mask. (Especially in Florida). And that gives me anxiety for when my bother goes back to school. But there are more who are willing to take legal action against our governor who agrees that masks should be a choice in school. The new variant of this virus is scary because its more powerful and is effecting more students as the return of large numbers of students in schools are going back up, so more infections. And all together as the days get closer my anxiety continues to grow.
I just hope that we stay healthy this school year. So we could continue to grow and live together for a long time.
oh god that sounds awful >:(( im so happy that he is fine and that he's in safe hands now.
its a big issue of course especially when thinking about the ones that are in risk groups and how us remotely healthy people can contribute to that people in risk groups get sick and putting their lifes in danger when not taking proper measures. how is it with vaccinations in florida? its so different with laws and general advice when it comes to covid in different countries or states,,,, which is fucking weird because we are all fighting the same virus but i guess theres different factors like the amount of inhabitants and the kinda,,, social interactions of the people living in said country.
make sure to cherish your brother and show him lots of love >:(( you already sound like an amazing older sister so i doubt that you dont already do that heh <33
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issue #23 made me really heccinā emo over eggman and sonic. i was prepared for it, but also ?? not prepared??? holy frick im just gonna ramble under the cut.
first of all, iām just gonnaā idly ramble about some things i noticed.
Eggman, literally 11 issues ago:
he makes these off remarks and then changes his mind whenever itās convenient for him smh. that or hes a freaking liar and. WELL THATāS PRETTY TRUE HONESTLY.
iāma be honest fam starline is a freaking mood rn. itās ?? so dumb?? LIKE EGGMAN WHERE IS YOUR FUCKING FAILSAFE UR SOLUTION WAS ānot touching the robots hurr durrā PL EASE.
In retrospect, though, this is an interesting parallel to Forces because heād apparently learned from his mistakes. TBF, and it has been brought up elsewhere on tumblr, this is a man recovering from amnesia. He mustāve just not gotten to that part. OR HEāS JUST. DUMB AND ARROGANT. Like, yeah, sure, thereās no vaccine - lol the heroes canāt fix anything & it also means youāre valuable because youāre the one person who can. BUT COME ON EGGMAN.
my friend actually predicted this holy shit. i was rambling abt a discussion we had in the egg cult, where we were talking about the possibility of sonic infecting eggman to blackmail him into getting the cure because heās reached the point?? hes so done with eggmanās shit??? all his friends are in danger and hes backed into a wall what else is he to do than do the one thing he doesnāt want to: use eggmanās tactics against him?
and my friend was like:
LIKE. IT IS A HUGE RISK, and Sonic went FOR IT. IāM SCREAMING TBH.
THIS CONFRONTATION WAS SO FUCKING RAW YOU DONāT UNDERSTAND. I thought I was ready for it but I really, REALLY wasnāt. I love the little details of Starline beinā like: āoh fuckā - usually heās pretty cocky around Sonic but uh. HEāS INFECTED NOW. And the zero remark - idk if thatās intentional on the writerās part but ZERO TO HERO anyone?
anyway toxi broke down crying at this point. you have no idea how much i was sobbing over my blue son just. pouring out his heart to his nemesis. thatās top tier tearjerking material.Ā also starline passive aggressively readjusting his outfit lmfao. BITCH IM FABULOUS. but man the usage of ā BEā and āLIKEā - Sonic knows who Eggman is; heād never ask him to be something heās not. but itās also a reiteration of sonicās want to see good in him; being LIKE tinker is a statement in that he wanted eggman to be who he was, but NOT to go back. to do good for the world. have it be his own decision, because deep deep down:
isnāt that what he really wants?
Also, although there are those sickly sweet descriptions, the usage of ellipses in this narrative really fucks me up because you can practially hear the gradual realization in eggmanās voice. his mockery starts out so !!! but it just eventually gets straight to the point, as a list. as a routine. because he was used to it. and because, some part of him misses it. notice the usage of āneedā and āuseā. they needed him, and yet he used the people that appreciated him sm like puppets.
some nice guilt there, huh, doc?
ALSO I SPENT LIKE, HOURS TRYING TO FIND THIS EXACT DIALOGUE, but Eggman has a conversation in Dark Brotherhood with Sonic and makes this remark:
LIKE??? this isnāt new to his character, actually? Ignoring the ken penders thing bc smh. Going by this game heās actually kind of okay with that set up. And he just works so well with the others too??? this isnāt even taking into account the other games heās teamed up with them. Iām sorry but my head just goes back to this line so many times; itās one of the ones that stick with me, along with ācomplicated guyā from lost world. HE COULD!! legitimately do good. and he actually doesnāt find it too bad??? IM EMO MAN...
and IMAGINE making super cool things that people genuinely like... eggman has a HUGE ego, that much is very apparent; heās super big on appreciation as comes with. and with tinker? he had that - he felt appreciated and loved. people LIKED what he made, and he didnāt have to bend over backwards to have that. his work felt included and he didnāt have to take that appreciation by force like he did with his lackeys (which half the time was fake anyway) .
first and foremost - WE SEE THAT OPEN YOUR HEART REFERENCE, IDW. also sonicās frustration here, in comparison to the lil smile the panel before - heās just!! āWHY CANT YOU WAKE THE FRICK UP OLD MANā. the justification here seems a tad bit like DENIAL to me. and the justification seems... kind of odd from him? since when does EGGMAN justify anything he does? He does what he wants and when he wants, because heās the E.G.G.M.A.N. he doesnāt care what anyone thinks... right?
itās because - especially with the usage of better - he didnāt like where that train of thought was going. for once, heās justifying himself - because the alternative is admitting sonic is right. that he did like that life. that heād want to go back. throw it in a hierachy and itās all so simple, right?
also the inclusion of open your heart lyrics here. the incident with chaos was just as catastrophic. and these lyrics in context of the previous panel, highlights how sonic and eggman both seek unity and peace but in their own ways; eggmanās is just evil. it seems a little bit of a diversion to me - to antagonise sonic and make him forget about it. what better way to do that than to relate to him? āown styles that we wonāt changeā highlights a stubbornness in ways, too, especially with the current context of eggman denying his old life. ALSO IT IS LITERALLY TELLING EGGMAN TO OPEN HIS HEART.
and ngl this seems like idle banter to hide the fact he genuinely felt remorse for his actions for a second. because lbr he has a habit of being all talk when a plan goes wrong or suffering inside,
which starline does quite pointedly explain.
As I was saying above, Sonic has no choice in what to do now - heās reaching his limit. OR ELSE. hes pondering doing the thing he doesnt want to do. and honestly, āyou canāt stop me. no one can,ā is so hardhitting not just because of its looming threat, but because of how much it solidifies for sonic that he canāt take the chance anymore. if anyone is going to change eggman, it has to be himself.
also can i just cry over how much sonic trusts tails. im getting sa2 flashbacks.
also man iād like to point out the specific use of ālock you away foreverā. it coooould be a reference to sonicās time imprisoned during the events of sonic forces. bitterness?
NOT SAYING I CALLED IT, BUT I CALLED IT. it still hurts though. and wow, it really is horrifying when eggman fears his own heccinā creation, huh?
i live for sonic being passive aggressive with eggman. give me more please.
im immensely concerned the direction starline is going, honestly. but it does say a lot about eggman; how heāll keep trying the same things expecting different results, but failing and never seeing that. because heās EGGMAN; every plan is brilliant by default!
i love how sonic just !!! SHOT... THE MOMENT HE WAS REMINDED WHAT WAS AT STAKE. son i love you so much youāre doing great sweetie
also, man, can we talk about eggman avoiding his blatant faults, and shoving his failures onto someone else? because this little scene here - eggman ur literally the one who crashed the thing. it had absolutely nothing to do with sonic. i feel as though this is symbolism of his self-destructive nature, honestly. hes always gotta make things harder for himself. (also starlineās face is killing me)
Eggman does what he has to, but technology wonāt work every time you kick it. he thinks he can get everything through force but we have several instances in idw where force did NOT work out; youāre not gonna get far, egghead.
MHM, and just who does that sound like, Eggman? honestly the mirrors between these two are seriously destroying me. although sonic is in a horrible position, so is eggman; he likes to think heās won the war, but hes surpassed his own expectations, and thatās going to backfire on him eventually. hes stubborn to admit he has NO REIGN over this and theyāre all doomed, so heās pinning his failures / loss on Sonic.
is that the amnesia kicking ya in the shin, eggman? or sonicās reality check? either way, the doc hates emotions. dammit man why you gotta make him emo
future eggman is going to kick past eggman in the kneecaps. itās times like this ur reminded how much of a kid he is. eugh but thatās work i want my victory and senseless destruction now. honestly if the doc is after success, he is certainly not getting it this way and I AM FEARING FOR EVERYONEāS LIVES. heāll probably have to work with whatās left of the resistance like the back end of most games at some point.
Iām getting a little burnt out but i canāt forget my son and how much he hurts me.
first of all that third panel terrifies me. the fact it GOT that far does me great concern. the RED EYES? thatās pushing it fam i dont like that. the expressions are also just freaking destroying me; theyāve been PERFECT this issue. and the fact sonic is at his weakest when he feels like heās failed everyone hurts me deeply. he has SO much on his shoulders and its getting too overwhelming for him.
also man... the whole thing with eggman... just stuff me man. but it hurts all the more because itās so glaringly clear that there is?? some good in eggman??? he just. doesnāt want to admit it. and unfortunately these arenāt good circumstances to debate on that.
ANYWAY, THAT ISSUE WAS AGONY AND IM STILL REELING AND HAVENT EVEN. TALKED ALL THAT MUCH ABOUT SONIC HERE (on account of this being eggmanās blog) but idk if iāll write anything on that.
gonna go cry about an egg now brb
#ā· šš ; šššš šš! ( .ooc )#sonic idw spoilers#idw spoilers#long post#tw: swearing
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hey, vaccinate your kids you jerks!!!
thanks for coming to my essay! now that i have your attention, i think we should stop talking about anti-vaxxers like theyre all backwards hyper-religious dumbasses. like, im frustrated too, and i agree that "personal/religious reasons" should not allow someone to keep their kids unvaccinated. furthermore, as an autistic person, i despise the myth that vaccines cause autism. i especially hate that it scares people into avoiding vaccines, because theres nothing wrong with me.
but ridiculing these people will only make the problem worse, and here's why: i think that a lot of anti-vaxxers and their communities are used to feeling like the most important aspects of their cultural identities are universally mocked or demonised (im not qualified to say whether these feelings reflect reality in every case, but either way im just talking about feelings, ie, what people think we believe about their culture). for instance, my only knowledge of amish people comes from jokes ive seen others make about them. yes, none of these jokes were very serious, and its easy for me to laugh at them because im not amish, but despite my low empathy i can understand that it just feels bad to hear a whole bunch of jokes about something important to you. i'll get back to this point in a moment.
anyway, i bring up the amish because in 2014, there were measles outbreaks in some amish communities in Ohio. and i think that a lot of the people who dont vaccinate their kids are used to being ridiculed for their "weird" or "new age" or "hyper-religious" or "unchristian" lifestyles, so they just see our concern as more of that mockery. we all sound the same to them, and cant you see why?
"ughh all these people ignoring science and being stubborn about vaccines because their church said--" you sound like one of those atheists. if you cant say anything productive, please stay out of the discussion. why do you act like ridiculing people will change their minds? we should be reaching out, instead.
we need to make the effort to approach anti-vaxxers in a way that distinguishes us from those who only converse with them to mock them.
i want more people to understand that the best way to change someone's mind when they're defensive is by listening. you need to be willing to accept whatever they might rant about, and respect that, even if their fears seem ridiculous, even if their fears are rooted in ableism, their fears still terrify them. thats why theyre called fears. you can validate someone's feelings of anxiety and confusion without validating their bigotry, and you must be willing to accept that this is work. this is difficult. it's much, much harder than yelling your opinions. it's exhausting, and sometimes it doesn't even pay off. sometimes you just can't convince somebody, and you have to be able to accept that.
if this seems too hard for you, i have good news: you do not have to do it. this kind of thing is not for everyone, and it's okay if you just don't want to. this doesn't have to be your responsibility.
i only ask that you stop making things worse by (performatively, in the case of yall who arent in danger of dying/losing a loved one to a preventable disease) mocking anti-vaxxers, because we are the ones who need something from them. we are asking them to face their fears (which were sometimes instilled in them very early in their childhood) for the good of humanity. i don't know about all of you, but i'd be hesitant at best to face even my third worst fear (spiders) for the sake of strangers who regularly mock my culture and heritage, and i know for a fact that most spiders cannot harm me!
this is natural. this is human. it is easy to dismiss things you dont understand, and it's even easier to dismiss them when all the scientific evidence agrees with you. however, your evidence does not make these people's experiences and fears less real for them. it does not lessen the effect their fear has on their choices. knowing that a tarantula won't hurt me if i follow certain guidelines will not stop me from shaking and having a breakdown if i think too hard about touching one. knowing that nothing bad would happen doesn't motivate me to go over to the science building at my college and ask to hold their fucking tarantula.
there are no shortcuts here. if we want anti-vaxxers to accept vaccines and stop putting so much effort towards keeping their children unvaccinated, we have to convince them that they don't need to be afraid of vaccines. we need to actually address their concerns. telling them their fears are ridiculous is just not convincing no matter how much scientific evidence you have. this discussion has become too performative. people just tell anti-vaxxers to vaccinate their kids, and they dont bother to address the fear that motivates their opponents. they don't care that they're asking people to trust a yelling internet stranger with their child's health.
it is inconsiderate to demand things from people without stopping to think about what you're asking for. please think about it from their point of view. if vaccines were dangerous, and they vaccinated their kids, then anything bad that happened to their kids due to the vaccines would be their responsibility. and remember, these people have not been given a convincing reason to believe vaccines are harmless. okay? they do not want to be at fault for their children getting hurt. yes, they are wrong. yes, they are frustrating. yes, they are endangering immunocompromised people like my dad, but there is a huge difference between being malicious and being misguided. please do not treat them like they set out to hurt you.
also? stop telling them to care about other people when you don't care enough about them to respect that they're doing their best with the resources they have. stop saying "i dont know how to explain to you that you should care about other people" when you really just want them to magically stop being scared. maybe you say it out of genuine frustration and bewilderment, but when everyone is saying it, it comes across like a smug 'gotcha!' phrase that excuses you from spending more energy on the debate. you can just say youre tired and stop.
i am trying to explain to you that you should care that these people have felt scammed/hurt by the medical industry enough times that they feel justified in risking the health of their whole family (assuming they even think vaccines work). you should care that theyve never been given a convincing reason to trust remedies promoted by rich strangers who make claims that sound too good to be true. the government has promoted harmful things to underprivileged people before, like milk (it took me a half hour to sift through unrelated stuff about soy milk to confirm this, so i'll go ahead and link my source). it is logical to mistrust an industry that operates for the profit of people youve never met. not everyone trusts the FDA to keep the pharmaceutical industry in check, and it's actually pretty smart to rely on direct accounts from people you know personally when you aren't sure how well something actually works, and you dont trust the ones selling it to you.
with that in mind, talking to people is probably the best way to tackle this issue, but many of you haven't bothered to compile introductory information about vaccines. you havent bothered to present these resources in a way that doesn't ridicule people who are scared. i am trying to explain to you that you shouldn't debate with people if you won't treat them like humans. i am trying to explain to you that "you dont actually care about others" is a hurtful and manipulative sentiment, and when you say it to people who are trying their best, you become part of the problem. you reinforce their mistrust. i am trying to explain to you that trusting doctors doesnt make you morally superior.
put yourself in their shoes for a moment. imagine that someone comes up to you and makes it clear that they think the choices you've made as a parent are ridiculous. they make claims about your child without offering proof, or the only proof they offer also mocks you and people like you (or they just tell you to "google it"). furthermore, they tell you that unless you give in, something bad will happen to their own children, and it will be your fault.
this is manipulative. even if you are correct, it is manipulative. demanding that someone treat their child in a way that they consider harmful is just ridiculous and i don't know why you expect people to listen to you. do you expect this to be easy? do you honestly believe that if someone isn't converted within minutes, they're just being stubborn? do you think these people know the truth, and only persist out of spite?
these questions are necessary, because many of you talk about anti-vaxxers as though the answer is 'yes.' there is a difference between being correct and treating people right. please be more aware of that line in the future, and do your best not to cross it.
oh, and by the way, if i see any of you using this year's measles outbreaks as an excuse to be hateful towards jewish people, i will block and report you. antivaxxers usually arent malicious, and if you perceive orthodox jewish antivaxxers as being worse than other antivaxxers, you need to rethink your beliefs. they arent rejecting vaccines just to hurt you. maybe theyre tired of being demonised and blamed for everything from climate change to unemployment to dead kids*, and theyre unwilling to trust random people with something as important as the health of their children when a lot of us have never bothered to listen to their struggles. (* ive seen a whole lot of people saying things that border on blood libel without quite involving blood during these discussions, so can we all agree to be careful not to do anything that resembles that shit now that ive provided a handy link about what it is? thanks)
lastly, all of this criticism of anti-anti-vaxxers is very easy for me to say because i have less of a personal stake in the issue. i know it must hurt in a way i can't currently understand to lose someone to a preventable disease. if i have made anyone feel dismissed or invalidated in this essay post, i'm sorry for doing so, and i want to make it clear that it is okay if you hate anti-vaxxers. i know their fear has hurt you, and i wouldn't ask you to pretend otherwise. i dont want to make any of you feel like you shouldn't talk about your experiences and fears. i'm just asking that, before you hit the post button, you read through your post and edit out anything manipulative or guilt-trippy. your contributions to this conversation are valuable, and i want the people youre trying to convince to be able to read them without feeling like they have to defend themselves instead of listening to you. the culture around this debate has become almost hostile, and while we dont all need to work directly with anti-vaxxers to make it better, we do all need to agree to stop making it worse.
#vaccinate your kids#vaccines#anti vax memes#anti vaxxers#measles#this is almost 2000 words long jfhf#im exhausted#how did it come to this
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Some sick piece of crap did this to the poor dog that wanders around our neightborhood...
So... for around two years thereĀ“s this dog (a german shepard) who wanders around the neighborhood (everyone calls him Rex btw), nobody has adopted him because most houses arenĀ“t suited for a dog but still everyone gives him food and a place to sleep, this lady even took care of his health. My mother and I started to feed him aroun the beggining of the year (somehow he never got close to our house before) and we would adopt him if our house had more places where he can dig (Rex loves digging), the same lady who took care of his health wanted to do it but she already has trhee dogs and two cats and apparently Rex hates cat (the neightborĀ“s cat was on our roof, Rex say it and started barking until the cat got our...), long story short, heĀ“s basically everyoneĀ“s dog, and sadly, today my uncle (who came to say hi) and my mother noticed that he was bleeding... trought his but... You can already imagine that some sick person thought that hurting a dog was funny... (now I want to kill whoever did that), seriously... Everyone was worried and spend hour trying to find help cause we didnĀ“t know what was going on (we find out after that what happened to him) andĀ let me tell you, when I said everyone I mean EVERYONE, I could hear all my momĀ“s friend asking about Rex, he did get help thoug, some people came and brought him to the vet, now all I know is that they gave him some vaccines and are taking care of him, I hope he gets well, we all just love that dog, to give some context, heĀ“s deaf and that gives him problems with avoiding danger (In case thereĀ“s a car and he doesnĀ“t see it) and Rex is also an old dog, most people here dont really like old dogs, but let me tell you, REX DEFINITELY IS A GOOD BOY! I just hope he recovers, we been trying to get him a good home someday and at some point my uncle said he could take him so... I jjust wish the best for that dog... Dont know why, itĀ“s been a hard week and then this happends, just wanted to get that out off my system... Not even tagging this Im just going to let this to float in the endless void of tumblr...
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What Does The Bible Say About Republicans
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What Does The Bible Say About Republicans
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Sharing the Gospel of Jesus Christ and Saving America
Steven Andrew is leading the nation to reaffirm covenant that the USA follows Jesus Christ. The Bible teaches covenant is the most important action to save lives, restore safety, strengthen the church, and raise godly generations.
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I know of no one doing everything they can to help our nation to turn away from wickedness and sin, and turn back to God, like Steven Andrew.;
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The USA is in a national emergency. Our only hope is to surrender our lives and the nation to God and agree to obey the Lord. We have hope. It is not too late to find Gods mercy. Steven Andrew
People are very concerned. The news shows the USA is in a freedon verses tyranny national emergency. It could even be a life verses death crisis if the nation goes into captivity as happened to Israel and Judhae for their sins. If we want to honor God and have God bless our lives and nation, it is important we know: What does the Bible teach about Democrats?
I am Steven Andrew, the pastor who believes like the founding fathers. I am on a mission from God
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Is the Bible your final authority or do you go by your feelings and own ways?This is Gods opinion, not mine.
For protection and national security, the nation needs to see Democrats hearts the way God does.my This is Gods opinion not my opinion.
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Bible Verses Violated By The Republican Party
Please note this article is not another case of a Democrat insulting the Republican party and their religious members.; I dont like either political party and Ive lost hope in the current political system until major changes are made.
While Ive lost most; interest in national politics,; some things still catch my eye. But what bothers me the most, and always gets my attention, is when a politician campaigns on a the premise that their allegiance to their God makes them a better person than the other candidate. Fast forward a few months after their election and there they are obstructing ethical legislation; for their constituents only to make their donors happy.
If a politicians; adherence to the Bible is what makes them a good person and good elected official, what do they become when they no longer adhere to the Bible?
You can understand why I feel my arguments made here are sound: The voting and campaign records of Congress are widely-available public records, and since 7 out of the 10 Bible verses I used are from either Matthew, Mark, Luke or John, meaning that 70% of this is literally the Gospel truth
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James : 19 Niv: Everyone Should Be Quick To Listen Slow To Speak And Slow To Become Angry
Well THATāS a big red flag if I ever saw one. Any of the above points show that Donald Trump does not have a reasonable filter. Whatever comes to mind comes straight out of his mouth, especially when he gets angry. If our president acts out in anger, we are going to have a lot of issues on our hands. Can you imagine how he would converse with other world leaders? What would he do if they insulted our government, or heaven forbid, Trumpās hand size? How would he react to negative criticism from countries we very much need to remain on good terms with? Not only is this dangerous, it also gives more reason for people not to respect America. It would say a lot about us if our leader had the same temperament as a two-year old in a time out. A true God following leader would participate in rational discussion, in which all sides are heard and acknowledged.
Iām not trying to tell anybody that Hilary is the Christian candidate weāre looking for. In fact, I donāt even believe we need a Christian candidate at all. This is America, where anybody of any race or religion can do the job. What I am trying to say, is that if you think Donald Trump is your closest bet to having a Christian in office, youāre making the wrong choice.
Your choice matters. Choose wisely.
Abortion Is An Integral Part Of The Vaccine Industry
For you created my inmost being;;you knit me together;in my mothers womb.;Psalm 139:13
The Bible makes clear that life begins at conception. It says that every child is a gift from God . If Jesus were here today, I am not sure if He would be carrying a sign, but we can agree He would be pro-life.
Many are surprised to find that in fact, vaccines do contain;aborted fetal tissue,;including lung and kidney tissue.
This is because scientists grow live vaccines in living tissue. You can find aborted fetal tissue in 23 total vaccines, including:
MMR
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Gop Lawmaker: The Bible Says If A Man Will Not Work He Shall Not Eat
This storys headline;has been corrected. A quote from Rep. Jodey Arringtons remarks at a congressional hearing has also been added.
One lawmaker is citing a godly reference to; justify changes to the Supplemental Nutrition Assistance Program: Rep. Jodey Arrington recently quoted the New Testament to question the strength of current work requirements.
The biblical passage, 2 Thessalonians 3-10, was a rebuttal to one of the hearings expert witnesses, a representative of the Jewish anti-hunger group MAZON. It is also a familiar refrain to anyone who has watched past debates about SNAP.
House Republicans have historically cited the verse if a man will not work, he shall not eat as justification for cutting some adults SNAP benefits. Arrington referenced the verse in a discussion;about increasing the work requirements for unemployed adults on the food stamp program. But critics say that;advances;a pernicious myth about the unemployed who receive SNAP.
The verse in question applies specifically to people who can work or otherwise contribute to society but choose not to, said theologians from several denominations who spoke to The Post. There is a perception, among some voters and lawmakers, that many adult SNAP recipients are exactly this sort of freeloader.
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James : 26 Esv: If Anyone Thinks He Is Religious And Does Not Bridle His Tongue But Deceives His Heart This Personās Religion Is Worthless
Wow. That was blunt. I commonly hear people say that they like Donald Trump because, āHe speaks his mind.ā There is a monumental difference between speaking your mind, and throwing words about without caution. The things that Donald Trump has used his platform to say should not only shock you; they should offend you. His words are rash, prejudiced, and hurtful. You donāt believe me? Here are some examples:
āYou know, it really doesnāt matter what the media write as long as youāve got a young, and beautiful, piece of a**.ā
āMy fingers are long and beautiful, as, it has well been documented, are various other parts of my body.ā
Now I donāt know about you, but this doesnāt sound like the kind of man who has proper control over his tongue to me. Words are some of the greatest indicators of who we are. The president of our country should be able to possess certain qualities, such as engaging in foreign affairs without flying off the handle. Not only is this concerning to our national security, it is also a warning sign of poor character.
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Great article Jack,Sure a lot of good points you brought up. A lot to ponder as an election grows near.
It seems like the people who get elected reflect the sentiment of the nation. If we are concerned with the economy, we vote for the people we think will fix it. If we are concerned with moral issues, we vote for those we think care about what we care about.
This may also be a way in which God judges, or blesses, a nation. As the individuals of a nation move further from God, they elect representatives that are also further from God. These representatives are then naturally going to be motivated by something other than God and His love. Therefore, the nation suffers.
On the other hand, as the individuals of a nation move closer to God and elect godly representatives, these representatives seek Gods will for themselves and the country. The nation is blessed.
Thanks again for a wonderful, thought-provoking article.
Yours in Christ,
Friendship Is The Goal Of The Gospel
What does the Bible say about voting in 2020?
Christians rightly think about salvation as forgiveness of sins and eternal life. But it is more than this. Jesus gives all who trust him the privilege of being his friends . And what is eternal life, after all? According to Jesus, this is eternal life, that they know you, the only true God, and Jesus Christ whom you have sent . He rescued us to forge an intimate relationship with the triune God . God forgives us that we might share in his triune fellowship of love forever.;
In the new creation we will enjoy true friendship with all other believers. Our future is a world of friendship.
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Matthew : 28 Esv: But I Say To You That Everyone Who Looks At A Woman With Lustful Intent Has Already Committed Adultery With Her In His Heart
Now, Iām not trying to single out Donald Trump for having completely natural biological urges. All of humankind has fallen prey to the allure of lust. However, to battle with that in oneās heart and to voice it out loud to others are two completely different things.
The LORD calls men to honor and protect women. Women are handcrafted by God, and they are to be respected. Donald Trump has been quoted saying things that go directly against this God-given duty:
āGrab them by the the p*ssy.ā
If that wasnāt vulgar enough for you, hereās a list of adjectives he has publicly used to describe women: Fat. Dog. Pig. Slob. Disgusting animal.
I donāt know what itās going to take for this country to start valuing women properly, but having this guy in charge isnāt going to do it. As a woman, you should be concerned that a candidate for president is getting away with talking about your demographic like that. As a man, you should be standing up for the women in your life by saying that this is NOT okay! Young girls in this world should not grow up thinking that those words are okay because the President of the United States says them. If we elect this man, that will be the standard our girls will have for the men in their lives.
Exercising Our Civic Responsibility: What The Bible Says About Voting
Before we look at what the Bible says about voting, let us look at how our individual votes count.
Song of Solomon 2:15 says, Take us the foxes, the little foxes, that spoil the vines: for our vines have tender grapes. Foxes sometimes, in search of food, would enter into the grape orchards and devour the grapes and spoil the crop. However, the little foxes were too small to reach the grape bunches so they would chew on the vines and it would kill the whole vine. Instead of the farmer just losing his crop, he would lose his vine which was more disastrous. Spiritually some things we do or allow that we might think are little or insignificant can also be disastrous for us.
Listed below are some of the little foxes that generally keep us from our civic responsibilities, in the area of voting. The devil uses these lies and others so that he can keep godly men and women away from the polls and get the candidates of his choice elected. If we do nothing, it makes it easy for the enemy to help those who could become the wrong leadership for our nation.
My one vote doesnt count anyway.
Im disillusioned by the whole political process.
Im already too busy to take the time to cast an informed vote, so I just dont vote at all.
Politics are corrupt anyway and as a Christian I dont want to be involved.
What the Bible Says About Voting
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Achieving Racial Justice And Equity
The Bible is very clear that God does not show favoritism, and neither should his followers. So, there is no place for racism in the church or in America. The Democratic Party is absolutely just in standing strong against racism in America.;
Now, personally I think that some of the Democrats policies for eliminating racism are not biblical at all. But the fact still remains: The basic policy position is biblically just.
As the election approaches, remember: As Christians we are called to lead people to Christ, not to an elephant or a donkey. Dont allow your politics to sabotage your witness to unbelievers or your fellowship with believers.;
Our loyalty must be to Christ. So, do some research, and vote in line with the heart of Christ. Lets do our best to vote for right and just leaders, and to pray for righteousness and justice in the hearts of those who are elected.
Dane Davis is the pastor of Impact Christian Church. Join Impacts live outdoor worship service at 9 a.m. Sunday at 17746 George Boulevard in Victorville, or tune in online at 10 a.m. on the Impact Christian Church YouTube channel or Facebook page.
Christianity For Votes: How Republicans Are Using A Religious Facade To Gain Political Power
On full display: Rep. Ted Yoho, in his non-apology to Rep. Alexandria Ocasio-Cortez, remarkably argued, I cannot apologize for my passion or for loving my God, my family, and my country.
Talk of God has been brought into and out of national politics throughout American history, with various partisan and non-partisan causes, but rarely in our history has any political group weaponized faith for political goals as comprehensively as todays Republican Party. Although the name of God has been used as a rallying cry for Republicans for decades, the party that claims to support Christian values has developed a twisted ideology where the mere mention of God has become a license for injustice. Consequently, his name is being thrown out in vain by Republicans who seek to avoid being held responsible for their actions, even when those actions go directly against the Scripture.
The contradictory nature of devotional statements made by GOP;members;was put on full display in a recent scandal in Congress,;when Rep.;Ted;Yoho, R-Florida,;was forced to resign from a Christian organizations;board after publicly exhibiting a behavior profoundly opposite to the values he claimed to stand for.
Yohos non-apology
A powerful political tool
If we want to resemble a hope for uniting and healing;within our;nation, we must rebuke lies, hate and division. We must rejoice in the truth.
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Christians Cannot Serve Both God And The Gop
The Christian right is the backbone of the Republican Party. Christians of all stripes from Catholics to Protestants and evangelicals consistently vote Republican. The core tenets of the modern Republican Party, however, are at stark odds with biblical scripture.
Over the last four decades, few priorities have consumed the Republican Party more than economic policies that benefit the ultra-wealthy. The Ronald Reagan presidency, in particular, ushered in an era where corporate bottom lines took precedence over fair wages for American workers. The rise of the Reagan-Republican ethos, which preaches the elevation of over virtually all other considerations, directly influenced of American jobs to countries with vast pools of cheap labor. Ditto for union-busting and the adoption of job-killing automation in pursuit of maximum profit.
These factors, unsurprisingly, the American middle class. Moreover, Presidents Reagan, George W. Bush and Donald Trump all pursued radical tax policies that overwhelmingly; if not solely; benefitted a small group of exceptionally wealthy Americans at the expense of the working and middle classes.
Republican policies favoring the ultra-affluent, however, stand in stark contrast with biblical scripture. The Bibles condemnations of the wealthy and the accumulation of riches leave zero room for ambiguity.
In short, followers of Christ must choose between God and money.
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