#🪽 ; talkie time

[thealternates]

Can perisex people actually shut up for 2 seconds instead of invalidating, harassing and denying intersex people the simple basic function of acknowledging intersex isn't RARE. Every time one of you calls us "DSD" or similar words an angel should come down and throw a bag of hammers at you. Acknowledging PCOS is under the intersex umbrella does not mean we're calling you broken women, it doesn't mean we're calling you men, it doesn't mean you're disordered now, it doesn't mean you aren't cis. intersex people can be whatever they want, cis, trans, both, neither, etc.

You don't have to personally identify as intersex for you to let others exist with the term and community. I'm going to combust! focus on other things that isn't chanting your intersexist views!

"Woah you're so aggressive" whenever we try to be calm, gentle and patient we get verbally stomped on or straight up told we shouldn't exist. i think its time we got mean - 🪽

[objectumbpd]

pre objectum/plushum discovery is when you're just using the plushies as a "replacement" cuddle partner for people. you don't like sleeping alone so naturally you find adorable plushies to use. they're just there to hold onto right? then you blink and you're giving them little kisses, giving them names and pronouns, the idea of dropping them makes you upset, and you start taking turns cuddling one a night because what if ones left out?

[thealternates]

@sleepyepsil It's for youa - 🐁

it’s for you!

[rodolfoparras]

RODOLFOPARRAS END OF THE

YEAR APPRECIATION POST

Hello sugar cubes!

Since the year is coming to an end I wanted to take my time and make an appreciation post for everyone who’s shown support and appreciation for me and my blog!

@its-ares thank you so much for being one of the very first people to follow me and for showing so much appreciation and support for my work when I first started out!

@lieutnt one of the writers I looked up to and admired when I first started writing on tumblr, when u first followed me I thought you’d done it by accident but I’m glad it wasn’t, forever ur #1 fan 🔈

@miguel-owhora genuinely consider you a friend you feel so familiar if that makes sense?, always so supportive and appreciative of my work always so kind and sweet to me

@bonesnmore also known as 🚹 anon will forever and always appreciate the period where we’d be absolutely unhinged about any and every kink and any and every cod character (especially graves) I’m so happy you decided to make ur own blog and it’s been absolutely amazing seeing you grow your following 🫶🏻

@alligatorstomachacid always so much fun to spitball ideas with you, i always feel like someone is listening or reading my posts bc you’re always there to talk to me about them 🫶🏻

@agoofyannoyancetolaw also known as ⚰️ anon who checked in on me daily and is always so supportive and appreciative of my work I absolutely love seeing your work on my dash 🫶🏻🫶🏻

@gazmialmagemela also known as 🐻‍❄️ anon literally such a sweet and considerate person both off anon and on anon I’m so glad you started your own blog bc as I once said you are so skilled at writing such vivid stories and I absolutely love seeing you grow

@thegnomelord I have to mention the person I co parent with who’s an absolutely amazing writer and deserves sm more appreciation and support

I started my blog in March I think but had properly started

gaining followers in June and these are the people that

basically made me fanboy when they followed bc it felt like

such an accomplishment

@yourftmfriend ✨ @pastelclovds✨ @odetodilfs ✨ @astroknottt ✨ @fatigueeed ✨

Skilled writers and artists that deserve so much appreciation and support

@gildedkrone 🪐, @tamago-art.🪐 @batfleshh 🪐, @topmalereaderblog 🪐@kingambrosious🪐

Last but not least I want to thank the beautiful council aka my anonies who have been nothing but appreciative and supportive of me and my work may all the good you have given me return to you 10x and here’s to another year of sexualizing old men (price)🎇🎇🎇

🌷 anon, 🔮 anon, 💉 anon, 🦩 anon, 🐺 anon, 🐍 anon, 💎 anon, 🐱 anon,💓 anon, 🔪 anon, 🎸 anon, 🎭 anon, 🤠 anon, 🕷️ anon, 🪐 anon, ⛈️ anon, 🐊 🌈 anon, 🦷 anon, 🐕 anon, 🍱 anon, 🗝️ anon, 🔭 anon, 👾 anon, 🐶 anon, 💤 anon, 🎵 anon, 🕸️ anon, 🌶️ anon,🖼️ anon,🌃 anon, 📢 anon, 🃏 anon, 💭 anon,🧮 anon,📚 anon, 🧬 anon,🎲 anon, 🐈 anon, 🪶 anon, 🕊️ anon, 🎥🎞️anon, 🫁 anon,🫀 anon,🚭 anon, 🧪 anon, 🐙 anon, 🐐 anon, 🗿 anon, 🐾 anon, 🐁 anon, 🛹 anon, 😈 anon, 🦝 anon, 🪔 anon, walkie talkie anon,💋 anon🐺 anon,🪽 anon,🐕 anon,🎸 an,🐛anon, 🪢 anon, along with everyone and anyone who’s been sweet and kind to me

Happy new years sugar cubes!!!

[littlebosl33p]

{Asks & Dms ♡}

how to use my walkie talkies! {asks}

I. give yourself a nickname or emoji, this will be your code name!

(pssst! its a code name, you can be creative with it, but keep it short or relatively easy to remember ^^)

i and others on the channel will use this to refer to you.

(drop your pronouns if youd like, i default to they/them otherwise)

II. these are the phrases to know! they will serve as a form of tone tag to keep things organized, and are highly encouraged for everyone in the channel to use ^^

~ affirmative/negative = yes/no

~ confirm/clarify = reiterate/elaborate

~ copy = the message was understood

~ disregard = ignore last transmission

~ over = end of message, awaiting reply

~ out = end of transmission

*note- combine {over+out} to indicate that the message can be replied to, but is not expected to be*

III. feel free to ask any agere related questions, submit content requests, just stop by to say hello, or any other fun stuff! please use a 🪽 at the top of vent related asks. these will not be posted, but if you would like to message privately about the topic you can include a 🧭 and i will reach out once i read the ask and determine if i am comfortable doing so.

Dms are currently: {CLOSED}

I. please have something to say! i do not respond well to a basic "hi", but i would love to have a conversation about agere things, special interests, etc!

II. please do not swear excessively! i swear very mildly in dms, but frequent/harsh swearing hinders my headspace. thats not something im ok with on this blog and i will tag posts that swear (see tag list, link in pinned.)

III. dont take it personally if i dont respond or if i take a long time to respond between messages. i tend to be quite busy, and even when not busy, i am a bit skiddish with new people and may be in and out of convo. please consider this before messaging.

IV. no, i am not looking for a little or caregiver. at the very most i am willing to babysit/look into a babysitter. do not dm me with the intent to become anything other than friends.

*sibbies are a maybe. we can discuss it after ive gotten to know you. dont press it or i will block you.*

V. there's a good chance that if im active on my blog, im in my headspace. please think before you speak and be mindful of saying things that may be upsetting or not child friendly. do not vent to me without asking. whether or not i am ok to listen to a vent depends on several factors, and it's impossible to know whether it is safe to vent to me at any given time without asking me at said time. i will tell you whether or not i feel apt to supporting you. thank you for being respectful of this boundary and encouraging peace in my headspace.

thats all for now honeybugs <3

[svt-rae]

「 rae masterlist 」

🎬 . . . now playing : BOOMBOOM !

RAE LINES ⇢ 14.00 sec

[ verse 1 ] ( 0.35 - 0.37 ) < originally Hoshi >

너의 주위를 turn right and turn left

Neoui juwireul turn right and turn left

Around you, I turn right and turn left

[ verse 2 ] ( 1.44 - 1.50 ) < originally Vernon >

Yeah, 안 지워지네 지금 네가 들어간 내 두뇌는 용량 초과 붐붐

Yeah an jiwojine, jigeum nega deureogan nae dunoeneun yongnyang chogwa, boomboom

Yeah it doesn't erase, right now you've entered my brain Its memory is out of capacity, boomboom

[ post-chorus ] ( 3.33 - 3.36 ) < originally Wonwoo >

You got me like boomboom, yeah, boomboom

✸ ‧ ‧ ‧ rae fav song from GOING SEVENTEEN ❜

✸ ‧ ‧ ‧ RAE lookbook ❜

🪽 ‧ ‧ ‧ she got a long black coat with high waisted gray pants that makes everything comfortable

🪽 ‧ ‧ ‧ in this mv she owns a walkie tolkie talkie too

🪽 ‧ ‧ ‧ her make up is more havier as she got smokie eyes and darker lips

🪽 ‧ ‧ ‧ in this comeback it's one of the few times that she have her natural black hair, with bangs too

✸ ‧ ‧ ‧ NOTABLE SCENES ❜

🪽 ‧ ‧ ‧ you can see Rae entering in the hellvator with a bored look

🪽 ‧ ‧ ‧ while she do her rap part, she talks to the walkie talkie

🪽 ‧ ‧ ‧ then she looks at the camera, smirk and walk away

[thealternates]

As someone who was homeless off and on for over 5 years I'd love to add my input into the fire. First of all the original op is extremely right about how suspicious and controlling some people are towards the homeless's use of the money. I've had people try to follow me into a place to make sure I wasn't using the money for a scam. I was a minor while homeless as well. Multiple people have taken one look at me, even while a teen and went "this could be a scam". I promise you it's more worth it to lose 5-10 bucks to a scam then to avoid giving cash to every homeless person you see. Being homeless is different to a lot of people. Some may have a shelter, some may have a car, some may be completely defenseless on the street exposed to elements. You don't know what the homeless person does or doesn't need and if they don't want to spend the money on food chances are they either got food from somewhere else or a different product if their top priority. I wish people stopped assuming everyone with a sign or on the street is some scammer, yes scammers exist but like op said they'd have a reason to be desperate enough to be begging for money. I can also confirm how common it is for people to have food issues or allergies. I have stomach issues and get very sick with certain food. Someone refusing to give me cash, instead buying food for me means there's a chance I can't even eat it. Which means both the food and money they spent went to waste instead of being used for food I can safely consume. The fact there's some people thinking food must be the best gift therefore how dare the homeless or others complain about being so lucky for getting it?? People who argue with op or have that logic need to remember the homeless are all real people with different needs. That's just my input as an someone with homeless experience, I wanted to add on seeing how some replies and comments were ignoring the whole point of ops few posts

People who insist on buying food for homeless people so they “know where their moneys going” instead of just giving them money and the autonomy to spend it how they need it are not making it to heaven

[thealternates]

involve intersex labels in your character headcanons. please. i've seen hundreds of headcanons over the year, edits, orientations, genders, yet i've maybe seen 3 that mentioned intersex. please normalise it being a possibility for characters.

i'm not sure if perisex people are scared of falling into stereotypes, or if they think the flag is ugly (it's not), but i promise it won't kill anyone if you add the flag in with all the others. the whole point of most headcanons is to explore what canon media often leaves out.

and don't pull the "most don't know what the flag means". if others can use super specific microlabels or xenogenders you can use the intersex flag ♡

[thealternates]

It would be so amazing if every time we looked through intersex tags there wasn't perisex people stealing our terms, or calling themselves "transintersex" / saying they "wanna be intersex", or proving the point that intersex are excluded/ignored by both cis and trans perisex people. Can we not have one thing? Can we not form a community without perisex people demanding they can join or speak over it?

The one I've seen the most recently is trans perisex people saying they're intersex / they wanna be. No, you are not. You taking hormones doesn't make you intersex, you're either born intersex or you're not. Perisex trans people developing breasts with estrogen isn't intersex, perisex trans people developing a t dick with testosterone isn't intersex. You wanting both genitals does not mean intersex. it's a spectrum of variations and looks. Calling your want to be neutral or to have both parts intersex is both fetishising us and not even knowing what we are. We are not default neutral, we are not default both parts. Intersex people having both parts working parts (like so many perisex transintersex people seem to want??) is so SO rare I'm not even sure it's been a thing yet. There are other terms for what you guys want that isn't intersex. - 🪽

cont rant in reblogs

[thealternates]

idk i saw the image and thought i could be funny - 🪽

[thealternates]

my favourite picture of the potato dog I love him so so much - 🪽

reblog with a cute picture of your dog and I'll photoshop your dog out of the picture and replace them with spongebob. real offer

[thealternates]

it would be so wonderful to see more art (or any at all because we can't find anything) where the character/person/etc has both chest hair and breasts. and i dont mean furries, like humans or a humanoid looking (ex: vamps, some angels, zombies etc) species at least - 🪽

[thealternates]

"I'm afab4afab." "I'm amab4amab." My god just say what you mean. Say you aren't attracted to a penis or aren't attracted to a vagina. Why else would you be agab4agab if you don't mean a body part? If you claim it isn't because of body parts then why use an agab to decide if you'll date someone. What about people who are marked as afab but has a penis, or marked as amab but doesn't have a penis. Are you suddenly not attracted to them despite saying you prefer the agab? Hm?

That's body part preferences if so. If you don't find a body part attractive that's literally fine. Just be open about it to others so they know. Don't hide behind saying what agab you want when you say it through the lens of a cis perisex society. Intersex people don't always "fit" the agab they're given. Hell even perisex people don't if they get the surgeries. Agab means nothing about what the person is or has. AGAB MEANS NOTHING ABOUT WHAT THE PERSON IS OR HAS. There is no reason to not say what you mean. - 🪽💙

[thealternates]

I couldn't help myself when I saw the image floating around, don't ask questions - 🪽

[thealternates]

Had a really fucking bizarre experience that led into intersexism with an irl person who's supposed to be a friend. I saw on her snapchat she did a gender reveal. Those are stupid and pointless even when it's only a balloon or cake but god would I have preferred a cheap option over seeing the words "Look out dads! Better hide your daughters because a new cowboy is coming to town ❤️🤠."

I met up with her later and asked "Hey don't you think it's creepy to imply people should hide their daughters from a literal fetus." She looked at me like I just killed someone. How dare I be weird by asking wtf she was doing with that reveal I guess. /s Her excuse was "well when he's older." So I asked "what if your child likes men when older, or what if the doctor is wrong and they're born intersex". She said things that were homophobic but nothing I haven't heard a ton. What caught me off guard was the, "I really hope they aren't born as a defect." Towards the end of it.

I wish I was making it up. She looked me, a very openly queer intersex guy, in the eyes and said "a defect". She's known me for years. I've been visibly intersex (I can't fully hide it) and openly queer since I learned what queer was. She knows it too. Now she's confused why I blocked her + refuse to go to her baby shower. As if I'm going to stay mutuals online or irl after that. - ❔️

[thealternates]

seeing people talking about the new minecraft update about the pale garden.

that's just a scrunkly weeping angel. what a guy. freezes at sudden eye contact? me too bud - 🪽