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生存法則

H：天無絕人之路，人人有生存法則。電影「侏儸紀公園」（Jurassic Park）裡的一句名言：「生命會找到自己的出路（Life will find its way out.）。」仔細想想,出路一定有，只是動作太慢，會被淘汰好幾萬年。再回頭已萬骨枯！20231009W1

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什麼是適者生存法則適者生存法則：在生物進化過程中，只有那些最適合於周圍環境的生物才能生存下來，其他的都被淘汰了。點評：最適者才能生存。

生存的12條法則

無論如何抬頭挺胸(Stand up straight with your shoulders back )

對你自己好就是幫助別人(Treat yourself like someone you are responsible for helping )

結交想看到你成功的朋友(Make friends with people who want the best for you)

和昨天的你比較而非今天的其他人(Compare yourself to who you were yesterday, not to who someone else is today)

別讓你自己討厭你的小孩(Do not let your children do anything that makes you dislike them)

在你批評世界之前，先把房間整理乾淨(Set your house in perfect order before you criticize the world)

做有意義的事，而不是容易的事 Pursue what is meaningful (not what is expedient)

說實話，至少不要說謊Tell the truth – or, at least, don’t lie

聽別人說話，他們可以知道你不知道的事Assume that the person you are listening to might know something you don’t

把話說得精準Be precise in your speech

當小孩去冒險時，不要太干涉他們Do not bother children when they are skateboarding

生活有小確幸，就好好地享受當下Pet a cat when you encounter one on the street

博客來介紹：

生存的12條法則：當代最具影響力的公共知識分子，對混亂生活開出的解方

12 Rules for Life: An Antidote to Chaos

作者：喬登．彼得森

原文作者：Jordan B. Peterson

譯者：劉思潔, 何雪綾

語言：繁體中文

出版社：大家出版

出版日期：2019/05/08

人類的基因、大腦、生理和心理現狀，都是在漫長的生存奮鬥史中形塑而出。所謂生存法則，正是生物一路努力至今的成就。而作者讓我們知道，如果沒有愛的關係、智慧的傳統，或是心理學的洞見的幫助，單一個人要處理自身受苦的問題，會是多麼孤獨、偏頗又困難。但他也讓我們知道，在面對受苦的問題時，人是可以從個人的、內在的層面，生發出力量去改變困境。

心理學、生物學的嶄新發現＋哲學、神學的深刻探索，幫助我們找到穩定踏立的堅實地面，

面對自己的脆弱、惰性及自我輕賤，也面對外界的惡意和批評。

推薦序／諾曼‧多吉

自序

法則01 ──── 站直，抬頭挺胸

法則02 ──── 善待自己，就像善待任何你有責任幫助的人

法則03 ──── 結交希望你變得更好的朋友

法則04 ──── 跟昨天的自己比，而不是跟今天的別人比

法則05 ──── 別讓孩子做出令你討厭他們的事

法則06 ──── 批評世界之前，先整理好自己的房間

法則07 ──── 做有意義的事，不要便宜行事

法則08 ──── 說實話，或至少不要說謊

法則09 ──── 假設你聆聽的對象，可能知道一些你不知道的事

法則10 ──── 說話要精準

法則11 ──── 孩子玩滑板時，不要干擾他們

法則12 ──── 在路上遇到貓，就摸一摸

《生存法則》專輯裡共收錄九首歌曲，取材自生活、自然、職場、成長歷練和感情觀，學習在悲觀的預設裡做最大的努力、在自嘲的幽默開始懂得交際、在黑暗裡面對自己重生後的驕傲，貫穿「生存」的概念，在最難的困境演化成每一個更好的你。

生存法則歌詞

因為我堅持了多久

我想你還不知道

低層掙扎了多久

我想你還不知道

保持沉默了多久

我想你還不知道

但我內心的強大

一定超乎你預料

因為我堅持了多久

我想你還不知道

低層掙扎了多久

我想你還不知道

保持沉默了多久

我想你還不知道

但我內心的強大 look(看)

博客來介紹：

大威脅：未來經濟十大趨勢與生存法則

MegaThreats: Ten Dangerous Trends That Imperil Our Future, And How to Survive Them

作者：魯里埃爾‧魯比尼

原文作者：Nouriel Roubini

譯者：陳儀, 李文絜, 陳麗玉, 張靖之

語言：繁體中文

出版社：天下雜誌

出版日期：2023/01/03

大威脅

新警訊清晰可見，大難臨頭的危機不只一個，也不是兩個，而是十個。

　　1. 史上最大債務危機將至，先進國家債務率超過400%，中國等新興國家債務達天際。

　　2. 民間與公共債務違約潮來襲，投資人應慎防企業詐欺、做假帳。

　　3. 「生不如死」，人口結構定時炸彈倒數，高齡化、缺工潮、大裁員三重壓力夾擊。

　　4. 政府政策失誤，加上富人利用體制作弊，不斷將經濟推入寬鬆陷阱與泡沫榮枯循環。

　　5. 大停滯性通膨來了，這次比1930年代緊縮性大蕭條更危險的。

　　6. 貨幣崩潰性貶值，加密貨幣崩盤，金融市場陷入動盪。

　　7. 「全球化已死」，內向型政策盛行，離岸外包，變友岸外包。

　　8. 人工智慧衝擊，AI接管工作，然後可能接管人類。

　　9. 新冷戰持續，供需大中斷危機加劇，中國不管變強或變弱，對台灣都將更具攻擊性。

　　10. 氣候變遷追��究柢是經濟問題，從糧食、原物料到能源短缺，深陷生活成本攀升危機。

序言未來經濟的十大威脅

第一部債務危機、人口結構失衡與政策失誤

第一章史上最大債務危機將至

第二章失控的民間與公共債務

第三章人口結構的定時炸彈

第四章寬鬆貨幣陷阱與榮枯循環

第五章大停滯性通膨來了

第二部從金融、貿易、地緣政治、科技到環境的浩劫

第六章貨幣崩壞與金融動盪

第七章全球化結束了嗎？

第八章人工智慧的威脅

第九章新冷戰

第十章不再宜居的地球

第三部這場災難能避免嗎？

第十一章暗黑命運的到來

第十二章未來是更競爭的世界

後記我們該怎麼辦？

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未來的生存法則

1：關於安逸

永遠不會有安逸的生活。

奮鬥，恒定不變的主題。

誰要是停下來享受生活，誰就會被趕超。

2：關於淘汰

每一個時代，都成全了一部分人，也淘汰了一批人。

第一階段是膽大的淘汰膽小的；

第二階段是機靈的淘汰遲緩的；

第三階段是有文化的淘汰沒文化的；

3：關於忽悠

極簡，極真，高效的時代，最短時間內拿出真功夫，抵達事物本質。

一切都在變：更專注！

更堅定！

4：關於說話

看一個人的身價高不高，就看他的時間值不值錢！

真正成功的人，永遠只說最關鍵的話，永遠只做最高效的事。

5：關於靠譜

高度評價一個人，會說他很善良、聰明、或者能力很強，現在高度評價——“靠譜”。

6：關於忠誠

未來，沒有任何一個人有義務對另外一個人忠誠。

未來，人所有的忠誠，都在演變對價值的忠誠。

想有存在價值，必須能創造價值，價值定律。

8：關於好人

未來，不會再有專門為你而生的人，也不會有一心只為你好的人。

你有用就是好，你沒用就是不好。有用就是一切。自助者，天助之！

9：關於人品

一個人能走多快，是能力決定的；一個人能走多遠，是人品決定的。

10：關於愚蠢

遇到愚蠢的人，都是來度你的。衝撞你，是為了提升你的格局和修養，他們埋頭做傻事，是為了把機會讓給聰明的你；能跟聰明的人相處融洽，最多能證明你也是一個聰明的人，但能跟愚蠢的人相處融洽，則可以證明你是一個大智慧的人。

11：關於投機

越好的東西，越能藏住壞的東西。

社會上專門追捧各種新鮮概念，然後用來變現自己的貪婪。新概念出來，首先得被一波騙子搶著利用，然後再被一波投機的人運用，最後才能輪到老實的人，或者真正熱愛它的人去幹。

2012年時，“互聯網思維”的信徒；

2013年，“微商大咖”；

2014年，“o2o”；

2015年時，“資本運作”。

2016年，“P2P”；

2017年，開始瘋炒“虛擬貨幣”；

2018年，“區塊鏈”；

自古真情留不住，唯有套路得人心。

這些人永遠“立足”時代最前沿，大發橫財。

12：關於騙局

有時候打敗一個騙局的，是另一個更大的騙局。

不斷的通過各種方式來篩選出“壞人”和“蠢人”，“壞人”就是編織騙局的人，“蠢人”就是深信騙局的人。讓“壞人”去收集“蠢人”，再讓法律去懲罰“壞人”。騙子越來越多，而傻子卻越來越少。如果可以選擇，我們一定要做一個聰明的好人！

13：未來是三無社會

（1）未來，我們將無生意可做。

（2）未來，我們將無工可打。

（3）未來，我們將無機可投。

14：未來的六大黃金原則

(1)：與其擁有更多物質，不如擁有更多時間

(2)：與其依賴公司，不如依賴個人實力和影響力。

(3)：與其提高薪水，不如提高個人品牌；

(4)：與其賺更多的錢，不如讓自己更值錢；

(5)：與其一味推銷，不如提供幫助；

(6)：與其服務更多的人，不如服務更優秀/更少的人；

15：中國有個千年不變的規律：

短期看機遇，中期拼實力，長期靠人品。

一個人起點多高，是機遇決定的

一個人能走多快，是能力決定的

一個人能走多遠，是人品決定的

最後送給大家三句話：

1：一個人的名聲，不能大於自己的實力，

2：一個人的財富，不能大於自己的貢獻。

3：一個人的職位，不能大於自己的能力。

否則：德不配位，必有災殃。

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fuyonggu · 4 years ago

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Preface to the Biographies of the Eight Princes (Book of Jin 59)

自古帝王之臨天下也，皆欲廣樹蕃屏，崇固維城。唐、虞以前，憲章蓋闕，夏、殷以後，遺跡可知。然而玉帛會于塗山，雖云萬國，至於分疆胙土，猶或未詳。泊乎周室，粲焉可觀，封建親賢，並為列國。當其興也，周、召贊其升平；及其衰也，桓、文輔其危亂。故得卜世之祚克昌，卜年之基惟永。逮王赧即世，天祿已終，虛位無主，三十餘載。爰及暴秦，併吞天下，戒衰周之削弱，忽帝業之遠圖，謂王室之陵遲，由諸候之強大。於是罷侯置守，獨尊諸己，至乎子弟，並為匹夫，惟欲肆虐陵威，莫顧謀孫翼子。枝葉微弱，宗祐孤危，內無社稷之臣，外闕籓維之助。陳、項一呼，海內沸騰，隕身於望夷，系頸於軹道。事不師古，二世而滅。漢祖勃興，爰革斯弊。於是分��子弟，列建功臣，錫之山川，誓以帶礪。然而矯枉過直，懲羹吹齏，土地封疆，逾越往古。始則韓、彭菹醢，次乃吳、楚稱亂。然雖克滅權偪，猶足維翰王畿。洎成、哀之後，戚籓陵替，君臣乘茲間隙，竊位偷安。光武雄略緯天，慷慨下國，遂能除凶靜亂，復禹配天，休祉盛於兩京，鼎祚隆於四百，宗支繼絕之力，可得而言。魏武忘經國之宏規，行忌刻之小數，功臣無立錐之地，子弟君不使之人，徒分茅社，實傳虛爵，本根無所庇廕，遂乃三葉而亡。

Ever since ancient times, kings and emperors who presided over the realm wished to provide security and protection for their rule by appointing trusted people as feudal lords and placing them in command of strategic locations, like protecting a city by expanding and fortifying its walls.

Though we know little of what took place in the mists of time prior to the sage rulers Tang (Yao) and Yu (Shun), by the time of the Xia and Yin (Shang) dynasties, we see some evidence of this principle already emerging. But although we read that jade and silk were distributed by Yu the Great (the founder of Xia) at Tushan and the records speak of "the myriad fiefs", so that we know that in principle there was a splitting of the land and a distribution of territory, still we do not know the precise details.

Matters become brighter by the dawn of the Zhou dynasty, where all becomes clear; we find the precise details of the organization of the feudal lords and how titles were granted to this relative or that worthy person, and that the realm was divided into particular fiefs and domains. When Zhou was ascendant and peaceful, we see the admirable conduct of the Dukes of Zhou and Shao; when Zhou was in decline, still we find Duke Huan of Qi and Duke Wen of Jin supporting the royal family through times of turmoil and danger. And thus their rulers were blessed with prosperity and success through the ages and the span of their rule was long indeed.

By the time of the last ruler of Zhou, King Nan, the blessings of Heaven had already expired. King Nan perished (in 256 BC), and then the realm had an empty throne and no sovereign for more than thirty years, until in the end the state of Qin conquered and annexed all the realm (in 221) through its violent barbarity. It was the belief of the First Emperor of Qin that the downfall of Zhou had been brought about because of the weakness and isolation of its kings, who had forgotten the farsightedness needed for the imperial enterprise, and that the royal house had become the plaything of the feudal lords, who took advantage to become great and powerful. Thus he did away with the whole feudal system and organized the realm into commandaries under the central control of the court, and he reserved all honor and majesty for himself alone, so that even his brothers and sons were no greater than commoners. In doing these things, it was the First Emperor himself who sought only to indulge his cruelty and flaunt his tyranny, for he gave no consideration of what might happen to his descendants after him. The branches and leaves of the tree of state were flimsy and weak, and the crown had few friends to turn to for aid; within, there were no subjects who would preserve the altars of state, and without, there were no lords who would guard and defend the imperial family. One cry of rebellion from Chen Sheng and Xiang Yu was all it took to set the whole realm within the Seas roiling like a cauldron; the Second Emperor of Qin lost his life at Wangyi Palace, and Ying Ziying surrendered at Zhidao with his seal around his neck. Qin failed to heed the teachings of the ancients, and thus their dynasty perished within two generations.

When Gaozu of Han (Liu Bang) rose to the fore, he made changes to correct these faults. He divided the realm and restored the system of the feudal lords, making princes of his younger relatives and granting fiefs to his accomplished ministers. Rivers and mountains were they granted, to serve as their belts and grindstones. The error of the early Han sovereigns was that they went too far in the other direction, like one who blows on hot soup so much that it grows cold; in the granting of lands and fiefs, they went beyond what the ancients had done. Thus they first had to execute Han Xin and pickle Peng Yue and afterwards experienced the crisis brought on by the Princes of Wu and Chu. But though they eventually stripped the feudal lords of the power to threaten the dynasty, the princes and nobles still retained enough power to protect the royal family from harm. Yet by the time of Emperors Cheng and Ai, again the situation had pivoted to the other extreme; the imperial relatives and feudal lords were oppressed and weak, allowing the great minister (Wang Mang) to take advantage of the opportunity and usurp the throne. Luckily, once Emperor Guangwu stitched the realm back together through his boldness and cunning, he once again generously distributed fiefs across the realm. Thus was he able to purge the wicked and quell the chaos. Han once more received the blessings of Heaven; they enjoyed peace and repose, flourishing between the two capitals (at Luoyang and Chang'an), and their legacy endured for four centuries. One could certainly say that it was because the extended royal clan once again exerted on the dynasty's behalf the strength that they had lost.

We may contrast this with Emperor Wu of Wei (Cao Cao), who was ignorant of the generosity needed to sustain the state and who through his suspicion cut those who might have supported his state down to size. His accomplished subjects never received even a spade of land to call their own, and his younger relatives reigned rather than ruled their domains; they were divvied up and sent off to pitiful dwellings, and their titles were form rather than substance. Wei had no foundation to grant it shelter, and thus it lasted no more than three eras.

有晉思改覆車，復隆磐石，或出擁旄節，蒞岳牧之榮；入踐臺階，居端揆之重。然而付託失所，授任乖方，政令不恆，賞罰斯濫。或有材而不任，或無罪而見誅，朝為伊、周，夕為莽、卓。機權失於上，禍亂作於下。楚、趙諸王，相仍構釁，徒興晉陽之甲，竟匪勤王之師。始則為身擇利，利未加而害及；初乃無心憂國，國非憂而奚拯！遂使昭陽興廢，有甚弈棋；乘輿幽縶，更同羑裏。胡羯陵侮，宗廟丘墟，良可悲也。

The Jin dynasty might have learned from these earlier examples. They were like drivers of a cart in a convoy which, seeing the carts in front of it topple and fall, might have profited by steering clear of the same danger. They could have laid a foundation for themselves solid as a rock. Some of their relatives and accomplished subjects might have been empowered with banner and scepter to lead troops out to the borders and carry out the labor of governing the land and protecting the capital, while others remained behind to serve in the government ministries and provide continuity in the administration.

Instead, the opposite took place. Positions and appointments once granted were as soon withdrawn, and people were chosen for this role or that based only on the expediency of the moment; the government and its policies were inconstant, and rewards and punishments swirled together. Some with talent were never employed; some innocent of any crime were executed regardless. Those who in the morning were honored as the peers of Yi Yin or the Duke of Zhou were denounced by the same evening as the equals of Wang Mang or Dong Zhuo. Power and authority were surrendered above, while chaos and disaster spread below.

The Princes of Chu, Zhao, and all the rest sought one after another to sow dissension; they acted righteous as though they were imitating the old "call to arms at Jinyang", but they never exhibited the conduct of cautious lords. They undertook their designs to grasp at profit for themselves, yet before the gains were in hand, doom overtook them; they never showed any concern for the state, so how could the state help but suffer calamity? Power changed hands more drastically than the pieces flip in a game of weiqi; men rose to power and were cast into prison with more dizzying speed than King Wen of Zhou's stint in the jail at Yuli. And in the end, the Xiongnu and the Jie pillaged and plundered the realm and the dynasty's ancestral temples were left empty and bare. Truly, a pitiful thought.

夫為國之有籓屏，猶濟川之有舟楫，安危成敗，義實相資。舟楫且完，波濤不足稱其險；籓屏式固，禍亂何以成其階！向使八王之中，一籓繄賴，如梁王之禦大故，若硃虛之除大憝，則外寇焉敢憑陵，內難奚由竊發！縱令天子暗劣，鼎臣奢放，雖或顛沛，未至土崩。何以言之？琅邪譬彼諸王，權輕眾寡，度長絜大，不可同年。遂能匹馬濟江，奄有吳會，存重宗社，百有餘年。雖曰天時，抑亦人事。豈如趙倫、齊冏之輩，河間、東海之徒，家國俱亡，身名並滅。善惡之數，此非其效歟！西晉之政亂朝危，雖由時主，然而煽其風，速其禍者，咎在八王，故序而論之，總為其傳云耳。

For those who serve the state by acting as its shield and screen are like the rowers on a boat crossing a river. Whether the boat enjoys peace or suffers calamity is entirely up to the collective efforts of the rowers. If they dip their oars in unison, though the river might have waves, they will not be enough to threaten the ship. And if the feudal lords act in unison to protect the state, how could turmoil ever grow so dire as to bring down the dynasty?

During the Han dynasty, there were the examples of the Prince of Liang (Liu Wu), who served without to oppose the treason of the Princes of Wu and Chu in their effort to overthrow the dynasty, and the Marquis of Zhuxu (Liu Zhang), who acted within to purge the Lü clan in their attempt to usurp the throne. If only these Eight Princes of Jin had done as they did! Though there might be foreign threats, if the Princes were united, how could such threats dare to despoil the realm? Or if there were internal dangers, even so, how could they have seized power? Even if the Son of Heaven was a blind fool or the chief ministers were arrogant and unrestrained, such things could have been dealt with; there might be shocks and quakes, but it would not have caused the mountain to collapse.

What is the proof of this? Consider how the Prince of Langye (Sima Rui) compared to the Eight Princes. His authority was less than theirs, and he had fewer troops than they did; he was a more distant relative than they, nor did he have their seniority. Yet he was able to cross south of the Yangzi by himself, take control of the regions of Wu and Kuaiji, and preserve and revive the imperial family, thus prolonging the dynasty for another century and more. Though one could argue that Heaven was helping him, still it required his own efforts to make it so. He was far different from the likes of Sima Lun or Sima Jiong or the ilk of Sima Yong or Sima Yue, who brought about the destruction of their families and their state and the annihilation of their lives and their honor! Could there be any clearer examples of the differences between good and evil?

Circumstance itself may have been the primary factor that caused the turmoil in Western Jin and the instability of its court. Yet it was these Eight Princes who fanned the flames of its destruction and hastened its demise. And having prefaced the discussion with these remarks, we have gathered their biographies here to illustrate our argument.

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老舍與女作家同居後，妻子趕來，她留書與他：各據一城，永不相見

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老舍與女作家同居後，妻子趕來，她留書與他：各據一城，永不相見

“讓我們想法子逃到遙遠的地方去，找一個清靜的住處，我著書，你作畫，與清風為友，與明月為伴，任天塌地陷，我們的愛情永生。”

這是民國時期著名女作家趙清閣，借自己筆下的人物道出的心聲。

而此番真情吐露的對象，正是鼎鼎有名的文學家老舍。

一遇老舍誤終身，趙清閣的心，從遇到他的那一刻，便只為他怦然跳動。

但對的人相遇在錯的時間，剩下的便只能是無盡的遺憾。

1937年，趙清閣開始在華中圖書公司編輯與抗戰有關的雜誌，名為《彈花》。

她與老舍，便是在這時相遇的。

老舍與女作家同居後，妻子趕來，她留書與他：各據一城，永不相見

老舍對《彈花》雜誌鼎力支持，前後在其中發稿10餘篇，大力幫助宣傳這一雜誌。

對於《彈花》的編輯趙清閣，老舍十分欣賞：“流亡到武漢，我認識了許多位文藝界的朋友，清閣女士是其中的一位，那時候，她正為創刊《彈花》終日奔忙。她很瘦弱，可是非常勇敢。”

正如子彈中開出的花朵，兩人的愛情在這戰火紛飛的年代綻放了。

老舍為趙清閣這份可貴的勇敢而讚歎、心疼。一有時間，便會詢問她的情況，給予她力所能及的關心。

他為她的雜誌長期��稿，橫溢的才華讓趙清閣敬佩，細微的關心讓趙清閣感動。

愛情自然而然地在同樣熱愛著文學的兩人間蔓延，他們情不自禁地想要更久地呆在彼此身邊。

老舍與女作家同居後，妻子趕來，她留書與他：各據一城，永不相見

趙清閣

老舍當時在重慶的居住環境十分惡劣，老鼠在家中四處流竄，家裝簡陋清貧。老舍在家中時常精神萎靡、孤單空虛。

梁實秋去過老舍的家後寫道：“房間很小，一床一桌，才可容身。他獨自一人，以寫作自遣……老舍為人和藹可親，平易近人，但是內心卻很孤獨。”

但趙清閣的出現，讓老舍孤獨的內心有了溫暖的依靠，艱苦的生活也變得津津有味。

老舍曾戲稱他的房間為“頭昏齋”，呆在屋子裏便覺得頭昏眼花。

但就是在這“頭昏齋”中，兩人共同寫作、一起暢談，身處愛人身邊之時，便忘記了頭昏，絲毫不覺時間流逝，只覺得光陰短暫，不夠細細欣賞對方眼底的溫柔。

老舍與女作家同居後，妻子趕來，她留書與他：各據一城，永不相見

老舍

他們住在了一起，愛情愈演愈烈的同時，才情也在兩人交融的靈魂中迸發，他們共同創作了《虎嘯》、《桃李春風》等作品，備受文壇矚目。

一日，趙清閣患闌尾炎住院，老舍便每天前往醫院探病，坐在趙清閣的床前陪她聊天，對她噓寒問暖、關懷備至。

趙清閣看著如此體貼細緻的他，心中柔情翻湧，斯人在旁，只想與君共度餘生，攜手生命所有時光。

或許相愛之人連病痛都能相互感應，趙清閣出院後不久，老舍也因闌尾炎住進了醫院。

這次便輪到趙清閣對他日日夜夜地陪伴與守護。

她愛他文字中的才情，懂他語言中的幽默，不僅是愛人，更如同知己，讓家人遠在外地的老舍欣然快慰。

老舍與女作家同居後，妻子趕來，她留書與他：各據一城，永不相見

老舍與胡絜青結婚照

人們曾說，“在抗戰時期的重慶，趙清閣的名字常與老舍聯繫在一起。”

然而，這連在一起的姓名，卻註定不能以愛人的名義正大光明地出現。

1943年，老舍的夫人胡絜青帶著他們的三個孩子從北平去到重慶，找老舍團聚。

沉浸在甜蜜愛情中的老舍和趙清閣驚覺，老舍已是有家室、有身份的文人，不能永遠這樣無名無分地與趙清閣在一起。

慌亂的老舍安排妻子與孩子在別處居住了十餘天，等到趙清閣搬走，才將他們接到自己的住處安頓了下來。

其實兩人的同居，在當時已是公開的秘密。作為老舍妻子的胡絜青也早已知曉。

老舍與女作家同居後，妻子趕來，她留書與他：各據一城，永不相見

胡絜青

但她身為三個孩子的母親，老舍多年來的髮妻，並沒有選擇說破。

而是希望丈夫能夠自己想通，與這段突如其來的感情告別，回歸到家庭當中。

深深愛著趙清閣，卻又無法拋棄妻子的老舍，在感情上痛苦地掙扎著。

也正是這時，趙清閣創作了《落葉無限愁》。借文中已婚的教授邵環愛上了年輕女畫家燦的故事，表達了自己與老舍難舍的情感。

文中那與清風為友，與明月為伴的願望，對他們來說是難以實現的，同樣地，小說中的女畫家拒絕了教授放棄家庭與她私奔的請求，與他一別兩寬。

燦對教授說：“除非我們一起去跳江，才能逃避現實。”

老舍與女作家同居後，妻子趕來，她留書與他：各據一城，永不相見

老舍書法

故事中的兩人，正是現實中趙清閣與老舍愛情的縮影，也是趙清閣對他們這段感情結局的書寫。

她雖一心愛著眼前這個文采斐然、溫情脈脈的男子，但這樣的他，卻是早就已經屬於另一個家庭的，屬於另一位女人。

她對他的愛雖是“冬雷震震夏雨雪，乃敢與君絕”的堅定不渝，但可惜的是，這份愛已是晚到，已是來遲。

她愛著的他早已與他人許下婚姻的承諾，在老舍與妻子胡絜青結婚之初，他便與胡絜青定下了“約法三章：

第一，要能受苦，能吃窩頭，如果天天想坐汽車就別找我。

第二，要能刻苦，學一門專長；

第三，不許吵架，夫妻和和睦睦過日子。”

多年來，胡絜青都遵守著這份約定。

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老舍與女作家同居後，妻子趕來，她留書與他：各據一城，永不相見

胡絜青

而此時，心已經率先偏離了航向的老舍，實在不忍與一心為家庭付出的妻子訣別。

他告訴趙清閣，自己無法狠心拋下這個家，但他同時也捨不得與趙清閣分離。

不久後，趙清閣便在《落葉無限愁》中的結局寫道：“邵環倒在泥濘中，落葉寂寞地埋葬了他的靈魂。

寧為玉碎，不為瓦全。這便是她給老舍的最終答案。

如果不能完全地擁有他，兩人彼此全心全意地相依相伴，那麼她寧願在寒風中寂寥地倒下，連同著他們這份錯季的愛，一起被時間埋葬。

如此的深愛，怎能忍得與他人的分享。

如此的決絕，又怎能經得黑暗的無光。

老舍與女作家同居後，妻子趕來，她留書與他：各據一城，永不相見

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